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By *hrimper36Couple
over a year ago
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"Do you (if you reply to messages) answer honestly. With the unfiltered thoughts that enter your head?
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I answer like for like as in if it’s a hi I reply hi if there’s effort then I put in effort but honestly I really don’t need to put in a lot of effort which is a shame but very normal on here.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not many have in the last few days.Astounding ..
After all these years honesty sucks on fab.
What is being honest on here.
Telling me they cheating on their wives does not make you honest.Vice versa. Normally told this after 2 or 3 days chat about a load of trash. I believe in myself only
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I try to reply to messages the very same way as I would a face to face chat.
I'm pretty honest and straight up
I do have to think about what I write more than I would face to face though, as the words in a message can come across the wrong way/ less natural?
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"Do you (if you reply to messages) answer honestly. With the unfiltered thoughts that enter your head?
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Hmmm yes and no. Always honest and try to be polite… occasionally and if provoked… I’m … direct  |
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"Honest - yes
Unfiltered - no
I try to be genuine but kind.
Unless they’re a total fuck-nugget and then they get unfiltered "
Can you define ‘fuck-nugget’ as I couldn’t see a reference in the online Oxford Dictionary.
You can utilise any of my forum posts to cite examples of ‘fuck-nuggeting’ if it helps clarify the definition. |
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It depends on the question, the person asking and how long we have been chatting.
The vast majority of conversations I have fizzle out after one or two messages so there won't be any unfiltered honesty required there. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Do you (if you reply to messages) answer honestly. With the unfiltered thoughts that enter your head?
No. I filter out all the swear words. "
This but insults. But yes I do. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes. Had a message from a guy recently who lived miles away. Replied out of curiosity asking why he messaged as I'm not looking for males and he'd need a helicopter if I was. He replied saying he believed in the law of averages  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Honest - yes
Unfiltered - no
I try to be genuine but kind.
Unless they’re a total fuck-nugget and then they get unfiltered
Can you define ‘fuck-nugget’ as I couldn’t see a reference in the online Oxford Dictionary.
You can utilise any of my forum posts to cite examples of ‘fuck-nuggeting’ if it helps clarify the definition."
I haven’t seen any evidence from you.
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By *J_OuizziCouple
over a year ago
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"Do you (if you reply to messages) answer honestly. With the unfiltered thoughts that enter your head?
I answer like for like as in if it’s a hi I reply hi if there’s effort then I put in effort but honestly I really don’t need to put in a lot of effort which is a shame but very normal on here.
T"
As honestly as possible, and putting in the same degree of effort as the original message |
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Sometimes it’s unfiltered, but often not, and that’s for all kinds of reasons.
If I’ve had the day from hell, the sort that could make a bishop kick a hole in a stained glass window, someone who sends me a message doesn’t need to see that.
If someone is vulnerable I’ll respond appropriately, not “what am I going to have for dinner?”
I let my behaviour be tweaked by whoever is speaking (writing) to me, not just plough on with my own world. It’s the nice part about communication, I think. |
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