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By *eli OP Woman
over a year ago
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Earlier today it was pointed out to me that I'm rather vague about what I'm looking for.
That's deliberate.
So, what is it you're looking for from Fab? Can you specify exactly what it is that you're hoping to find? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Earlier today it was pointed out to me that I'm rather vague about what I'm looking for.
That's deliberate.
So, what is it you're looking for from Fab? Can you specify exactly what it is that you're hoping to find?"
I’m looking for everything and nothing. … 
I’ve been very vague for a long time too, probably for the same reason. I hint….,
But I don’t see the point in lying all my cards on the table for something or someone that might not happen.
I like the idea of meeting peoplr and exploring what we all want 
And I know my profile lets myself down, because of that I know I should put stuff on there that I’m looking for and people might look all be interested by care not to. I’m in no rush. |
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"My marbles.. I think I'm not going to find them here though 
No, marbles, dignity, self respect... they all go missing here and are rarely seen again."
Oh my dignity and self respect went years ago... my marbles are a more recent loss |
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Really don't know anymore. In theory, we know what we're looking for, but real life doesn't allow us to follow the theory. So, mainly just for chatting shit here and going to socials and possibly having 1:1 meets. But I will only do that with someone I've developed trust with, which is rare. |
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By *eli OP Woman
over a year ago
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"Earlier today it was pointed out to me that I'm rather vague about what I'm looking for.
That's deliberate.
So, what is it you're looking for from Fab? Can you specify exactly what it is that you're hoping to find?
I’m looking for everything and nothing. …
I’ve been very vague for a long time too, probably for the same reason. I hint….,
But I don’t see the point in lying all my cards on the table for something or someone that might not happen.
I like the idea of meeting peoplr and exploring what we all want
And I know my profile lets myself down, because of that I know I should put stuff on there that I’m looking for and people might look all be interested by care not to. I’m in no rush."
Yes. Hinting is great. If you outright say it... well, people will try and be that.
I think the more there's not a specific thing. I like exploring, the adventure of learning another. My relationships (as in friendship, etc) are all unique and different - on Fab I might want to explore one dynamic with one person and find myself doing something completely different with another.
Being in no rush is good for things organically progressing. |
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"Not sure ill find it on Fab.
It's because it's a secret 
Ssh maybe its a unicorn living in Hampshire.
My hair is pink and purple if that helps 
Would that be princess pink and royal purple. "
Pink pizazz and mystic purple lol |
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By *eli OP Woman
over a year ago
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"Fun, relaxed experiences with interesting women who, ideally, will let me explore their bodies and give them pleasure.
And, y'know, cunnilingus. "
 Are you really? You've been so quiet about that, had no idea. Mind truly blown on a sunny Saturday afternoon. |
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"Not sure ill find it on Fab.
It's because it's a secret
Ssh maybe its a unicorn living in Hampshire.
My hair is pink and purple if that helps
Would that be princess pink and royal purple.
Pink pizazz and mystic purple lol"
C'est Unique. Im more of a mystic badger these days. |
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"Not sure ill find it on Fab.
It's because it's a secret
Ssh maybe its a unicorn living in Hampshire.
My hair is pink and purple if that helps
Would that be princess pink and royal purple.
Pink pizazz and mystic purple lol
C'est Unique. Im more of a mystic badger these days. "
.. badgers are cool |
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"Earlier today it was pointed out to me that I'm rather vague about what I'm looking for.
That's deliberate.
So, what is it you're looking for from Fab? Can you specify exactly what it is that you're hoping to find?
I’m looking for everything and nothing. …
I’ve been very vague for a long time too, probably for the same reason. I hint….,
But I don’t see the point in lying all my cards on the table for something or someone that might not happen.
I like the idea of meeting peoplr and exploring what we all want
And I know my profile lets myself down, because of that I know I should put stuff on there that I’m looking for and people might look all be interested by care not to. I’m in no rush.
Yes. Hinting is great. If you outright say it... well, people will try and be that."
That’s not so much of a problem for guys, which I’m quite thankful for. If I put on the profile (or in a post for a meet) that I specifically want a long, slow blow
job or I’m looking for a woman to meet on Thursdays … I’m unlikely to get 50 messages promising to do or be exactly that. Whereas a woman would.
"I like exploring, the adventure of learning another. My relationships (as in friendship, etc) are all unique and different - on Fab I might want to explore one dynamic with one person and find myself doing something completely different with another."
And I’m 100% with you there, Meli. What I *actually* want from Fab is variety. So I to just say that. I put it out there.
I remember you saying something to me about being surprised I was into a particular person - but that goes right back to my point. Variety. |
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"Not sure ill find it on Fab.
It's because it's a secret
Ssh maybe its a unicorn living in Hampshire.
My hair is pink and purple if that helps
Would that be princess pink and royal purple.
Pink pizazz and mystic purple lol
C'est Unique. Im more of a mystic badger these days.
.. badgers are cool"
Mistress K is too kind. |
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"Fun, relaxed experiences with interesting women who, ideally, will let me explore their bodies and give them pleasure.
And, y'know, cunnilingus.
Are you really? You've been so quiet about that, had no idea. Mind truly blown on a sunny Saturday afternoon."
I know, I normally don't like to mention it but the directness of your question pushed me to an equally direct answer. I shall now return to the shadows of ambiguity. |
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"Not sure ill find it on Fab.
It's because it's a secret
Ssh maybe its a unicorn living in Hampshire.
My hair is pink and purple if that helps
Would that be princess pink and royal purple.
Pink pizazz and mystic purple lol
C'est Unique. Im more of a mystic badger these days.
.. badgers are cool
Mistress K is too kind. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Earlier today it was pointed out to me that I'm rather vague about what I'm looking for.
That's deliberate.
So, what is it you're looking for from Fab? Can you specify exactly what it is that you're hoping to find?
I’m looking for everything and nothing. …
I’ve been very vague for a long time too, probably for the same reason. I hint….,
But I don’t see the point in lying all my cards on the table for something or someone that might not happen.
I like the idea of meeting peoplr and exploring what we all want
And I know my profile lets myself down, because of that I know I should put stuff on there that I’m looking for and people might look all be interested by care not to. I’m in no rush.
Yes. Hinting is great. If you outright say it... well, people will try and be that.That’s not so much of a problem for guys, which I’m quite thankful for. If I put on the profile (or in a post for a meet) that I specifically want a long, slow blow
job or I’m looking for a woman to meet on Thursdays … I’m unlikely to get 50 messages promising to do or be exactly that. Whereas a woman would.
I like exploring, the adventure of learning another. My relationships (as in friendship, etc) are all unique and different - on Fab I might want to explore one dynamic with one person and find myself doing something completely different with another.And I’m 100% with you there, Meli. What I *actually* want from Fab is variety. So I to just say that. I put it out there.
I remember you saying something to me about being surprised I was into a particular person - but that goes right back to my point. Variety. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm not really looking for anything very actively, it's more about opening myself up to opportunities and seeing what everyone else is up to.
I go in phases over whether fabs is even the right place for it, if I'm honest, but I've had more luck here finding people who enjoy what I do than the places you'd think would be more effective.
I suppose that's a fairly long-winded way to justify my own vagueness |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Nothing at the moment. I’m just kinda hanging around waiting for someone exciting to come along.
Our profile is pretty vague when it comes to any specifics. I find having those on there don’t really make any difference. |
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By *viatrixWoman
over a year ago
Redhill |
Someone who is physically and emotionally available, to meet up with once a week or so for good sex and other activities, and who can be available once a month or so to go around the world with me…
Have got close, very close- but there is always at least one element missing  |
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By *eli OP Woman
over a year ago
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"I like exploring, the adventure of learning another. My relationships (as in friendship, etc) are all unique and different - on Fab I might want to explore one dynamic with one person and find myself doing something completely different with another.And I’m 100% with you there, Meli. What I *actually* want from Fab is variety. So I to just say that. I put it out there.
I remember you saying something to me about being surprised I was into a particular person - but that goes right back to my point. Variety. "
It's a good job we're friends isn't it? I'm shocking.
Variety is good. Explaining attraction, what works and what doesn't can be complicated. It's nuanced. Also, you're a Ms so I did expect this sort of answer.
If I add a kiss does that soften it? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Well there’s not just one thing.
I have a range of vacancies
Also known as orifices. Good for you, Misty."
Oh Meli.
Now even you are reducing me to being orifices |
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By *eli OP Woman
over a year ago
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"I'm looking for women that I can enthrall, beguile and charm.
Any residual ones I'm looking to bonk from here to kingdom come. †"
That romantic soul of yours is truly poetic. 
(I do love beguile and charm though. More charming and beguiling and women would moan less about men. Maybe) |
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By *eli OP Woman
over a year ago
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"Well there’s not just one thing.
I have a range of vacancies
Also known as orifices. Good for you, Misty.
Oh Meli.
Now even you are reducing me to being orifices "
I'm sorry. You're so much more, don't let the haters like me reduce you down to your holes. xoxo |
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Well I've already found my fwb, now I'm looking mostly for separate room swapping with her and other couples and play with single females here and there.
I'm always attending fab parties and social events and that's my favourite part of being part of the scene |
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By *eli OP Woman
over a year ago
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"I’d like to be the person that someone really desires; pant-wettingly desires. And I want to feel my heart skip when they talk to me.
It’s not easy to get there though."
Ah Adam it's good to read you again.
I like that. Being desired is arousing and wonderful isn't it? Part of the joy of finding it is because it's not something you stumble across easily.
Maybe I'll use that as what I'm looking for. Desire. To be desired and to desire another. I'll probably be told to go to a dating site though.  |
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"I’d like to be the person that someone really desires; pant-wettingly desires. And I want to feel my heart skip when they talk to me.
It’s not easy to get there though."
Love this. But mutually. Anything less than this doesn’t do it for me.
And yeah it’s not easy to find but when you do it’s amazing |
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By *eli OP Woman
over a year ago
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"Someone easy going and sexy and smart. No drama or pressure just the fun and intimacy side of things … seems it’s a big ask  "
It does exist Todger, don't lose hope! You can find it! |
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By *ags73Man
over a year ago
glasgow-ish |
To answer opening post, opportunity.
I was probably thinking I’d never have sex again before joining fab.
So,every chat, event, meet is worthwhile and I’ll see where it leads me and if there’s someone that’s a regular stable thing then great. |
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By *eli OP Woman
over a year ago
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"It's a good job we're friends isn't it? I'm shocking. … Also, you're a Ms so I did expect this sort of answer.
I’m going to assume you meant MS for man slut there. And not Ms for Miss …
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Of course. You're one of my favourite Ms. I even gave you a nice little capital M. |
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"Earlier today it was pointed out to me that I'm rather vague about what I'm looking for.
That's deliberate.
So, what is it you're looking for from Fab? Can you specify exactly what it is that you're hoping to find?"
Looking for someone to teach me about compound intrest
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"Looking for someone to teach me about compound intrest "
You know that thing where the more sex you get, the more you want? Like your horn level multiplies exponentially? Compound interest is like that but with money. |
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"Looking for someone to teach me about compound intrest
You know that thing where the more sex you get, the more you want? Like your horn level multiplies exponentially? Compound interest is like that but with money."
Like the sex I still don't get it
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By *eli OP Woman
over a year ago
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"To answer opening post, opportunity.
I was probably thinking I’d never have sex again before joining fab.
So,every chat, event, meet is worthwhile and I’ll see where it leads me and if there’s someone that’s a regular stable thing then great."
Opportunity! Oh I like that. Brilliant. Yes. Okay, that's a very good description without having to go in to something that's nuanced and not easily explained. |
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By *hoirCouple
over a year ago
Clacton/Bury St. Edmunds |
"Earlier today it was pointed out to me that I'm rather vague about what I'm looking for.
That's deliberate.
So, what is it you're looking for from Fab? Can you specify exactly what it is that you're hoping to find?"
Friends and maybe some sex.
C |
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By *ags73Man
over a year ago
glasgow-ish |
"To answer opening post, opportunity.
I was probably thinking I’d never have sex again before joining fab.
So,every chat, event, meet is worthwhile and I’ll see where it leads me and if there’s someone that’s a regular stable thing then great.
Opportunity! Oh I like that. Brilliant. Yes. Okay, that's a very good description without having to go in to something that's nuanced and not easily explained. "
All know is difference between then and now and I’m grateful to more than a few people on fab. |
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Ideally... A bi switch who loves oral, marking their prey and is hungry for a threesome. With a nice bum.
Bonus points if you enjoy housework, gardening, driving or can cook. Might be pushing it a bit...
Ok I'll settle for the oral and nice bum.
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