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Do you delete friends on here?

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

What reasons?

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By *os_GoddessofdawnWoman  over a year ago

In the clouds

I just don't add any.. Easier

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By *hatsWhatCoupleCouple  over a year ago

Northampton

We don’t like then anymore

Seriously though it depends how they were added.

In general we have met all of our friends. But sometime the horn gets the best of us. If we end up with friends and have no realistic prospect of meeting then we remove them and put on hotlist.

Essentially it’s controlling our images

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

If we stop talking usually.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"If we stop talking usually. "

Do they message you about it?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Yes.

If we don’t speak for weeks. I delete.

If I have a bad few days. I delete.

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By *mmaleiaWoman  over a year ago

Trowbridge

My friends list consists of people I’ve met & people I really want to meet

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Yes. Usually because I don't want them on my friends list any more.

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By *mmaleiaWoman  over a year ago

Trowbridge

I delete if I no longer want to meet them

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By *r CheeseMan  over a year ago

742 Evergreen Terrace

Y'all have friends?

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"My friends list consists of people I’ve met & people I really want to meet "

Same.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Yes.

If we don’t speak for weeks. I delete.

If I have a bad few days. I delete.

"

Rah.

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By *elloWoman  over a year ago

alpha centauri

I only accept friend requests from people I've actually met and who I'm interested in meeting again. So unless we had a falling out and I wouldn't meet them again then they stay in the list

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By *luttyLaylaWoman  over a year ago

North West

Yeah.

I’m only friends with actual friends.

As time passes I delete if I don’t keep in touch with people.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

No I dont see the harm in them being there, I only have 4, 2 of them added me a few years back then never said a word since haha

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"If we stop talking usually.

Do they message you about it?"

No ha people move on etc it's the nature of swinging.

I tend to just stick to the club now , it's easier for me and I can keep up with friends whilst there face to face instead of trying to arrange a time and place to meet. We come across each other as and when.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

I’ve never deleted friends before I’m just curious I guess. I guess I feel like people would take offence. Would I take offence? Idk. I also feel like if they’re upset at you not contacting them they’d delete why haven’t they contacted you?

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By *tsJustKateWoman  over a year ago

London


"What reasons? "

Only if no contact for a while, or they do or say something offensive (which has happened)

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By *ittle Miss TinkerbellWoman  over a year ago

your head

Same as I would on any other social media, if I stop talking to them.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

If, big IF, anyone makes it onto my friends list they’re there until 1. They delete me or 2. I leave fab

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By *assing Fancies xCouple  over a year ago

Sherwood Forest

We have about 7 friends and haven't deleted anyone yet in the 6 years we've been on here

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By *eeliciouschaosWoman  over a year ago

London

Umm.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Umm.

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Inspired by you

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By *abtastic Mr FoxMan  over a year ago

A den in the Glen

Lack of communication without and realistic chances of meeting. A glimmer is enough.

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By *he turned me GreyCouple  over a year ago

Warwick and Coventry

When they don't pay for my site supporter mbership

Mr

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

If they drop off once they get the friend access.

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By *eeliciouschaosWoman  over a year ago

London


"Umm.

Inspired by you"

I knew straight away

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By *atnip make me purrWoman  over a year ago

Reading

Only if they get blocked. Or on a rare occasion i do a clean up and haven't spoken to a certaon person for months.

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By *r PantyMan  over a year ago

Morpeth

Yes if they piss me off ! Same with Facebook - they aren't real friends so who gives a fuck ?

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By *icecouple561Couple  over a year ago
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East Sussex

Used to but now we just leave them there.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Because I've changed my mind. I'm fickle like that.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Sometimes

If we haven’t chatted for a while and the interest is gone, there’s no need to have them on there anymore.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

i have and she's not letting me forget it

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple  over a year ago

The bottom of the River Ankh

I've been deleted

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By *itSurreyCoupleCouple  over a year ago

Reigate

If there is no chance of meeting we would probably delete. And be expected to as well

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Reasons would be not in close contact, no longer comfortable with sharing pics or the moment has passed. My friends list is pretty small

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By *r TriomanMan  over a year ago

Malmesbury

I'll delete a Fab Friend if they never communicate, ignore my messages and show no money interest in meeting me; these are normally people who sent me the friends request.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I'll delete a Fab Friend if they never communicate, ignore my messages and show no money interest in meeting me; these are normally people who sent me the friends request."

Wow. How much do you charge??

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By *eroLondonMan  over a year ago

Covent Garden

Yes, I do, without compunction.

But I'm also torn somewhat on my reasons to cull a few people. To be honest I don't really have that many - about 10 or so after four years on here.

If they're friends of 'worth' then we've already moved onto Telegram or WhatsApp.

I've never sent a friend request; they've always been incoming. And if they're adding me simply to increase their retinue but not to keep in touch then they will be dismissed after a few months.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I used to add people far too quickly, now I only have friends who are people I know I want the sex with. And I have to keep it under 10 or it freaks me out, I don't know why.

Unless we fall out or until I go unlos they'll stay a friend.

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By *eroLondonMan  over a year ago

Covent Garden

I'm still waiting for her ^ friend request. I need a chuckle.. perhaps even a chortle, if not a guffaw.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I'm still waiting for her ^ friend request. I need a chuckle.. perhaps even a chortle, if not a guffaw."

Are you insinuating my friends pictures are laughable Nero?

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By *r TriomanMan  over a year ago

Malmesbury


"I'll delete a Fab Friend if they never communicate, ignore my messages and show no money interest in meeting me; these are normally people who sent me the friends request.

Wow. How much do you charge??"

Oops, I really should proofread before posting. But seeing as you s you asked Scarlett, I'm super cheap, a packet of Vegan Percy Pigs with secure you a few fun filled hours with me - I'll even share the sweets.

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By *ittlebirdWoman  over a year ago

The Big Smoke

Sometimes yep. Depends if they’ve been a cunt or not

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By *ang bang bangity bangCouple  over a year ago

Sunderland

Yeah sometimes. But then we both do the same in real life if we stop liking friends.

Great thing about friends is you get to chose them.

Mr

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman  over a year ago

little house on the praire

I've just looked, I've got 7 friends after 18 years.

I never look at my friends so wouldn't know if someone had deleted me or not

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By *urry BlokeMan  over a year ago

I don't accept friends requests, let alone delete them

Those that matter on here can get me on WhatsApp

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By *inAndTonic21Couple  over a year ago

Merseyside

Friends are only deleted if contact is non existent and no point having it anymore

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I'll delete a Fab Friend if they never communicate, ignore my messages and show no money interest in meeting me; these are normally people who sent me the friends request.

Wow. How much do you charge??

Oops, I really should proofread before posting. But seeing as you s you asked Scarlett, I'm super cheap, a packet of Vegan Percy Pigs with secure you a few fun filled hours with me - I'll even share the sweets. "

Can't say fairer than that!! Love a percy pig!!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Yes, when I see no point in having them around anymore. Not as in disposing of friends like I’d dispose of chewing gum after it’s lost its flavour. More so, I feel there’s no reason to allow access to my photos if we aren’t engaged in communication, actively meeting or making plans to meet.

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By *edeWoman  over a year ago

the abyss

Sometimes if there is no likelihood of us meeting and theres been no chat for a while - I like to keep things tidy

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By *imisugarWoman  over a year ago

Rugby

I delete from time to time.

Connection gone or human nature.

Sometimes I review who I want to see my friends only pictures.

If it's someone I'm unlikely to meet now, I'll also remove then.

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By *eroLondonMan  over a year ago

Covent Garden


"I'm still waiting for her ^ friend request. I need a chuckle.. perhaps even a chortle, if not a guffaw.

·

Are you insinuating my friends pictures are laughable Nero? "

There's only one way to find out, Råven. Nudge nudge, wink wink, 'double entendre' 'Carry On' style...

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By *ucka39Man  over a year ago

Newcastle

Have done in past

Reason because I could

Couldn't keep up with everyone

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By *ophieslutTV/TS  over a year ago

Central

No longer relevant etc

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Yes I do. Usually when I've said a polite no thanks to taking things further. Pretty fussy about who I add as a friend in the first place

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By *he Old School RockersCouple  over a year ago

Gloucester

Yes we delete. Especially if no longer chatting or unlikely to meet

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By *ansoffateMan  over a year ago

Sagittarius A

Body odour

Poor taste in Pizza toppings

Obsession with Ryan Gosling

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By *ookie46Woman  over a year ago

Deepest darkest Peru

I have done and do. Mostly if there’s been no contact for a while

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By *avexxMan  over a year ago

cheshire

yes i have done

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By *izzy.miss.lizzyCouple  over a year ago

Pembrokeshire


"What reasons? "

ghosting" no point having a long list of people on friends if they don't bother chatting at all

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By *ubFTMTV/TS  over a year ago

Swindon

Yes and non talkers mainly

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By *loss aka Miss JonesWoman  over a year ago

south coast IOW

Yes I add those ive met only these days and remove if we dont talk. Close fab friends i have on WhatsApp anyway.

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By *B..Woman  over a year ago

Wiltshire

Yes when there has been no communication after a while

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By *ohntall123Man  over a year ago

Biggleswade

I always feel bad lol so let them

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By *ornywelsh2sumCouple  over a year ago

Neath valley.

If no communication after a good while. No point being on your friends list if they don't intend to chat

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By *amierebelMan  over a year ago

My own little world

I've none left to delete normally delete as there's been no communication their for a good while

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By *eliWoman  over a year ago

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Yep. If I don't think it's going to work out for whatever reason or they're giving the bad kind of twunty vibes I'm quite quick to delete. It's very rare though, in the past four years I've only removed three profiles.

And that's with me having no more than fifteen on friends list at any given point.

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By *eah BabyCouple  over a year ago

Cheshire, Windermere ,Cumbria

We only have two or three people on friends we have not met, so everyone else we class as friends not just a fab friend which means no deleting.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Yes. New friends usually get added with a view to meeting. After a while if that doesn't look as tho it will happen away they go

Mrs

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By *eyond PurityCouple  over a year ago

Lincolnshire

Our friends list are people we have met or know from chatting and potentially meeting.

We’ve cut down our friends list right down if people aren’t chatting or if there’s no reason to be friends now.

K

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

If we don't speak or they start getting weird I delete

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