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By (user no longer on site) OP 51 weeks ago
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Should guys start with small talk like asking how you are, what you're up to or something picking up on your status? (Like I do cos I'm a gent lol) or should you go straight into "wanna get bent over?" |
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By *TG3Man 51 weeks ago
Bournemouth |
"Should guys start with small talk like asking how you are, what you're up to or something picking up on your status? (Like I do cos I'm a gent lol) or should you go straight into "wanna get bent over?" "
Talk to them about their profile add some humour  |
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There isn't a one size fits all. I would respond badly to the bend me over message but I'm not looking for meaningless sex. If you are them to with the direct approach. Your message and your profile should be tailored to what you are looking for. |
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By (user no longer on site) 51 weeks ago
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Since we reply to alot of messages with:
"We are fine, we aren't doing anything this weekend and we wont tell you what we do for work"
We would like something a bit different. Preferably something that shows they read the profile
Ask if we want to be bent over for a block! Free of charge! |
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By *essTTWoman 51 weeks ago
Birmingham |
"Should guys start with small talk like asking how you are, what you're up to or something picking up on your status? (Like I do cos I'm a gent lol) or should you go straight into "wanna get bent over?" "
Swings and round abouts some women don't mind vulgar messages some do |
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"Should guys start with small talk like asking how you are, what you're up to or something picking up on your status? (Like I do cos I'm a gent lol) or should you go straight into "wanna get bent over?" Talk to them about their profile add some humour "
Humour or kink shame? |
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It’s a fine line. An opening message should always be polite and respectful… and my response would indicate where to pitch anything further. I hate explicit messages from people I’ve never met or spoken to before.
However… it gets pretty mundane pretty quickly if somebody just continually messages for days on end with idle chit chat, and no sign of ever arranging anything. I’m on here to meet.
A clear indication that they’ve read my profile is always a great start xx |
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""wanna get bent over?" never fails. Like, literally NEVER.
Thank me later."
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This ^ is the gospel truth.
Far too many men fritter away any miniscule hope of meeting women because of their desire to engage in pointless tittle-tattle. Be direct. Be forthright. |
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By *ACOLCouple 51 weeks ago
Limerick |
Well it really depends on the profile, somebody might specify on their profile that they aren't here to waste time or chitchating, then you know... some will say not in a hurry then you know.
I guess what I am trying to say is, READ THE PROFILE.
Good luck OP!!!
Lina. |
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See, OP - Never. Fails.