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Not particularly. Or, I've tried to be desirable but it doesn't seem to get me anywhere, so I'm pushed towards thinking that whatever attractiveness I might have about myself, the rest of the world don't see it. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I do actually. I'm in a good place and feel pretty positive about myself. How about you OP?"
I am trying..... I've had a rough 6 months which culminated in me feeling worthless and completely undesirable... So I'm working on getting back to a positive place  .. Hence the new photos |
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"I do actually. I'm in a good place and feel pretty positive about myself. How about you OP?
I am trying..... I've had a rough 6 months which culminated in me feeling worthless and completely undesirable... So I'm working on getting back to a positive place .. Hence the new photos "
The new photos are lush , you’ll find a positive place x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I do actually. I'm in a good place and feel pretty positive about myself. How about you OP?
I am trying..... I've had a rough 6 months which culminated in me feeling worthless and completely undesirable... So I'm working on getting back to a positive place .. Hence the new photos "
We are positive, it’s instilled within us and if you don’t feel it…just dig a little deeper and you’ll unleash it 
Never feel anything but positive, amazing or absolutely god damn sensational
Because we all are in our own ways, and those are the ways that matter  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think a lot of it is to do with my age & being on the change I am on hormone replacement it is helping a bit but just no mojo in the slightest  "
Not yet you may not have, but never feel deflated by a momentary lack of mojo….it will return and I’m sure then, when that happens…
You will embrace that |
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"I think a lot of it is to do with my age & being on the change I am on hormone replacement it is helping a bit but just no mojo in the slightest
Not yet you may not have, but never feel deflated by a momentary lack of mojo….it will return and I’m sure then, when that happens…
You will embrace that "
yeah thank you  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's not something I ever really think too much about
Very much this. I feel desired by some, desire some and that's as much thought as I give it, bar now. Desirable? Maybe sometimes."
Desirable you have in abundance and why wouldn’t you?
You are absolutely sensational and that’s not just my thoughts….the masses do and if they don’t then they need to find a screwdriver
And tighten their loose screw |
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"I think a lot of it is to do with my age & being on the change I am on hormone replacement it is helping a bit but just no mojo in the slightest "
I hear you. Menopause has me looking old and haggard & fatter than ever. If I didn't have boobs , no one would desire me! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It is strange how our minds work and may undermine our self esteem - possibly not best to listen to the voices in your head, but rather get reassurance and confirmation off friends and family (assuming that family don't just take the piss).
I am not overly bothered as to whether others find me desirable or not and I don't really think about it (I am not a big one for introspection). |
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"It is strange how our minds work and may undermine our self esteem - possibly not best to listen to the voices in your head, but rather get reassurance and confirmation off friends and family (assuming that family don't just take the piss).
I am not overly bothered as to whether others find me desirable or not and I don't really think about it (I am not a big one for introspection)."
I don't often think about it, either. The thread caused me to think so I answered honestly  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't often think about it, either. The thread caused me to think so I answered honestly "
I like your sense of humour - I am ticking the box for 'Knob' |
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"..... feel desirable??"
Not at the moment.. I am struggling to lose weight at the moment. I have been working away from home, working weird hours and eating in restaurants.
I need a more frugal existence for a few months |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I don't often think about it, either. The thread caused me to think so I answered honestly
I like your sense of humour - I am ticking the box for 'Knob'
I can work with that "
Still off topic, but must admit (until I clicked on it) that I thought your profile picture was one of those biological anatomical drawings - was expecting heart, lungs, stomach, colon, etc to be annotated on it!
Simple we soul here  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't often think about it, either. The thread caused me to think so I answered honestly
I like your sense of humour - I am ticking the box for 'Knob'
I can work with that
Still off topic, but must admit (until I clicked on it) that I thought your profile picture was one of those biological anatomical drawings - was expecting heart, lungs, stomach, colon, etc to be annotated on it!
Simple we*** soul here "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I do when a certain someone is here, saying and doing things to me that make me feel desired.
But not so much the rest of the time. I think it can depend on what else is going on in your life and how your general mood is affected |
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"..... feel desirable??"
I wouldn't know how desirable I feel midnight? but I can definitely say this year has been a huge turning point for me and I'm feeling very comfortable in my own skin and more alive than I have in a good old while,
In my eyes your a very desirable woman and oh my, that voice. Sexy as hell mate! |
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I don't often think about it, either. The thread caused me to think so I answered honestly
I like your sense of humour - I am ticking the box for 'Knob'
I can work with that
Still off topic, but must admit (until I clicked on it) that I thought your profile picture was one of those biological anatomical drawings - was expecting heart, lungs, stomach, colon, etc to be annotated on it!
Simple we soul here "
Like a kind of Vitruvian Volupta? I like that idea for my next photo |
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"Oh yes! The fact that I get little to no attention on here has nothing to do with it; I know people desire me, even if they don't say so."
Oh wait, sorry my dyslexia just got the better of me, I read "delusional". |
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I am trying..... I've had a rough 6 months which culminated in me feeling worthless and completely undesirable... So I'm working on getting back to a positive place .. Hence the new photos "
Well, your are certainly extremely desirable to me. 
You have even replied to some of my messages, that makes you an absolute heroine! |
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By *aizyWoman
over a year ago
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"It's not something I ever really think too much about
Very much this. I feel desired by some, desire some and that's as much thought as I give it, bar now. Desirable? Maybe sometimes."
Once again Meli puts my thoughts into words better than I ever could! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's not something I ever really think too much about
Very much this. I feel desired by some, desire some and that's as much thought as I give it, bar now. Desirable? Maybe sometimes.
Once again Meli puts my thoughts into words better than I ever could!"
Meli definitely has a straight to the point way of putting things that everyone can resonate with don’t you think? |
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"I enjoy the feeling of mutual desire.
I tend not to think about being desirable as I think it's a bit of a fool's errand. "
I agree. Mutual desire/want/lust is amazing.
I don’t really think about it beyond that |
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"I do actually. I'm in a good place and feel pretty positive about myself. How about you OP?
I am trying..... I've had a rough 6 months which culminated in me feeling worthless and completely undesirable... So I'm working on getting back to a positive place .. Hence the new photos "
Sorry to hear that midnight, you are a desirable lady, I desire you even though you live miles away.
Next time you are feeling lonely call me  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I am probably deniable
Potentially friable
Perhaps certifiable
Occasionally despicable
Accused of being abominable
Hopefully reprehensible
But never desirable |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I actually do feel desirable at the minute. I’m married and would prefer to stay that way so I won’t be doing anything with this feeling but it’s still nice. |
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I find my attractiveness self-belief is knocked down by physical things. Like, if I have really bad hayfever then I won’t expect anyone to find me attractive that week. Know what I mean? I’m only self-confident when I’m in rude health. |
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"I find my attractiveness self-belief is knocked down by physical things. Like, if I have really bad hayfever then I won’t expect anyone to find me attractive that week. Know what I mean? I’m only self-confident when I’m in rude health."
I've had an experience of really bad hayfever and yet a woman still wanted sex persistently. Have you tried fucking someone whilst your nose is pouring?
There's no good position. |
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"I find my attractiveness self-belief is knocked down by physical things. Like, if I have really bad hayfever then I won’t expect anyone to find me attractive that week. Know what I mean? I’m only self-confident when I’m in rude health.
I've had an experience of really bad hayfever and yet a woman still wanted sex persistently. Have you tried fucking someone whilst your nose is pouring?
There's no good position. "
There's doggy style whilst you have two toilet rolls stuffed in each nostril.
I hear you on the hay fever, thank god the season is over |
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"I find my attractiveness self-belief is knocked down by physical things. Like, if I have really bad hayfever then I won’t expect anyone to find me attractive that week. Know what I mean? I’m only self-confident when I’m in rude health.
I've had an experience of really bad hayfever and yet a woman still wanted sex persistently. Have you tried fucking someone whilst your nose is pouring?
There's no good position. "
For the lady - stick a towel on the pillow, assume The Position and let your nose drip onto the towel.
For the gent - place the towel on the lady's rear shelf and let your nose drip onto the towel.
Never say I'm not solution-focused  |
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"Have you tried fucking someone whilst your nose is pouring? There's no good position. "
Those are the times I actually did wish I could breathe through my ears. Going down on a woman whilst your nose is snotty ain’t good. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Have you tried fucking someone whilst your nose is pouring? There's no good position.
Those are the times I actually did wish I could breathe through my ears. Going down on a woman whilst your nose is snotty ain’t good."
 keep your snot thank you!! |
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"I find my attractiveness self-belief is knocked down by physical things. Like, if I have really bad hayfever then I won’t expect anyone to find me attractive that week. Know what I mean? I’m only self-confident when I’m in rude health.
I've had an experience of really bad hayfever and yet a woman still wanted sex persistently. Have you tried fucking someone whilst your nose is pouring?
There's no good position.
For the lady - stick a towel on the pillow, assume The Position and let your nose drip onto the towel.
For the gent - place the towel on the lady's rear shelf and let your nose drip onto the towel.
Never say I'm not solution-focused "
That's a better solution than granny knickers and a maxi pad over your head with a snorkel.
I have a tendency to over-engineer. |
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"Have you tried fucking someone whilst your nose is pouring? There's no good position.
Those are the times I actually did wish I could breathe through my ears. Going down on a woman whilst your nose is snotty ain’t good."
I feel your pain RTG  |
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"I find my attractiveness self-belief is knocked down by physical things. Like, if I have really bad hayfever then I won’t expect anyone to find me attractive that week. Know what I mean? I’m only self-confident when I’m in rude health.
I've had an experience of really bad hayfever and yet a woman still wanted sex persistently. Have you tried fucking someone whilst your nose is pouring?
There's no good position.
There's doggy style whilst you have two toilet rolls stuffed in each nostril.
I hear you on the hay fever, thank god the season is over "
The season never ends for some of us.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes, because I feel comfortable in my own skin, healthy, generally content with who I am despite various external challenges that I'm having to tackle.
I probably give far more headspace to my own desires rather than if I'm desirable, if that makes sense.
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"Have you tried fucking someone whilst your nose is pouring? There's no good position.
Those are the times I actually did wish I could breathe through my ears. Going down on a woman whilst your nose is snotty ain’t good."
That should be illegal  |
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"I do actually. I'm in a good place and feel pretty positive about myself. How about you OP?
I am trying..... I've had a rough 6 months which culminated in me feeling worthless and completely undesirable... So I'm working on getting back to a positive place .. Hence the new photos "
The photos look amazing! I hope they help you to feel more positive and back to a happy place |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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At the minute, I'm not really bothered if I feel desirable as I don't have anything (or anyone) to feel desirable for at the minute. That might change in a positive way depending on the attention I get from people, or negatively if I don't feel like I'm getting that attention I need.
This is a bit long winded so I guess the short answer is that I'm simply not sure. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"..... feel desirable??
Never have. Felt other things though, ugly, undesirable, stupid, pointless."
The person with the vice like grip on your cock would suggest at some point you were desired? |
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In myself yes.
I genuinely wish people would have confidence in themselves and their desirability to others. Not everyone will like everyone else but there is no value to not seeing desirability in themselves and it becomes a self fulfilling prophecy as an outward reflection of their inner feelings.
Everyone is desirable mostly you're the only ones who cannot see it xx
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"People find my missus desireable and I have to agree. I'm very lucky "
To be fair zed a blind man on a galloping horse riding past your front door would be silly to say your missus is not desirable! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"For Heavens sake..........we are all desirable?
But that wasn’t the question."
I get to post 101 and forget what the question was. Forgive an old man with the foibles age foist upon him. |
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By *cflirtyMan
over a year ago
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"I do actually. I'm in a good place and feel pretty positive about myself. How about you OP?
I am trying..... I've had a rough 6 months which culminated in me feeling worthless and completely undesirable... So I'm working on getting back to a positive place .. Hence the new photos "
It's worked!
You are not undesirable in the slightest |
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Nope, not at all. It would go against my own personal thinking to believe I did or should. I am just happy being me. If others think so, then great for them. If they don't, then that's their choice as well. Neither modify my own behaviour nor should they. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"To whom? A hungry lion ... Probably. Humans... Not so much  "
Are there many hungry lions in the NW? You probably should avoid the Manchester social as there may be some big cats looking to devour you! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"To whom? A hungry lion ... Probably. Humans... Not so much
Are there many hungry lions in the NW? You probably should avoid the Manchester social as there may be some big cats looking to devour you!"
I would definitely be that Leo the lion… ?? I’m attending that social … yum yum…
Roar!!  |
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As a couple yes, but that’s because of M. Me on my own I don’t think I’d feel desirable at least not to most of the guys that show attention at a club.
And even women to be honest are normally commenting on her not me. |
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By *r CheeseMan
over a year ago
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Things that tell me I am not desirable:
No fabs
No winks
Empty inbox
The frequency with which I get blanked in the forum.
I could tell myself you all have no taste, or I could just face facts.  |
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