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So, who believes in the idea of soulmates?
Have you ever met (or are you with) someone who you felt was your soulmate?
Have you had an ex which you thought was your but you was wrong?
And is there potentially many soulmates for each of us out there but perhaps we only get the chance to meet one, a few, or maybe even non of them? |
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By (user no longer on site) 48 weeks ago
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"So, who believes in the idea of soulmates?
Have you ever met (or are you with) someone who you felt was your soulmate?
Have you had an ex which you thought was your but you was wrong?
And is there potentially many soulmates for each of us out there but perhaps we only get the chance to meet one, a few, or maybe even non of them?"
Yes I do believe that you can touch and be touched by a persons soul.
I thought I’d found my best friend my over and confidante, my soul mate. Together for 28 years mother of my kids who just decided it was over on Saturday night that she’d found someone else and was gone in two days.
Sadly the romance was short lived.
Loosing the love of someone with whom you have experienced life with does darken you soul.
That said anyone want an evening of unadulterated lust! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 48 weeks ago
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"My soul mate and I are in the wrong lives. It is what it is. Maybe there's another one out there for me. But I'm happy enjoying what is right for me 💜"
Aw I feel sad about this post! How do you know, what happened? I'd love details if you're happy to share - there's a reason I'm intrigued by this topic  |
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By (user no longer on site) 48 weeks ago
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I don't believe in the idea soul mates at all. Or in "one true love". Holding out for such a thing is a surefire way to neglect to recognise and appreciate the significance of the relationships we do have, including friendships and family relationships.
There are so many wonderful people that we'll connect with throughout our lives. Some relationships will be electric, some will be gentle yet deep, some will be fleeting. They are all unique and special.
If anything, we could all do with learning to be our own soulmates. |
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"My soul mate and I are in the wrong lives. It is what it is. Maybe there's another one out there for me. But I'm happy enjoying what is right for me 💜
Aw I feel sad about this post! How do you know, what happened? I'd love details if you're happy to share - there's a reason I'm intrigued by this topic "
Oh. Our lives just aren't compatible. Being together would mean at least one of us compromising some very core things, we couldn't be the people we are to each other now if we were together.
I'll always love the way his soul sings to me, and those quiet moments we can have together without compromising either of our lives. And that's all it can be.
Those moments are beautiful. But there's a lot of beauty elsewhere in my life too. I won't pretend I don't have that little emotional drop after those moments. But I'm not going to let that ruin the rest of my life 💜 |
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"I don't believe in the idea soul mates at all. Or in "one true love". Holding out for such a thing is a surefire way to neglect to recognise and appreciate the significance of the relationships we do have, including friendships and family relationships.
There are so many wonderful people that we'll connect with throughout our lives. Some relationships will be electric, some will be gentle yet deep, some will be fleeting. They are all unique and special.
If anything, we could all do with learning to be our own soulmates."
Nell I feel like you’re inside my head today! Definitely this. I didn’t always feel like this but it’s something I’ve come to realise as life has unfolded. We put so much emphasis on one special partner in our society at the expense of other connections.
Mrs TMN x |
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I do believe this, having felt it it’s hard to deny. It doesn’t mean there isn’t another out there and it doesn’t stop me enjoying great relationships with others or even mean you’re looking for a other , but when you know, you know, nothing quite like it. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 48 weeks ago
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"My soul mate and I are in the wrong lives. It is what it is. Maybe there's another one out there for me. But I'm happy enjoying what is right for me 💜
Aw I feel sad about this post! How do you know, what happened? I'd love details if you're happy to share - there's a reason I'm intrigued by this topic
Oh. Our lives just aren't compatible. Being together would mean at least one of us compromising some very core things, we couldn't be the people we are to each other now if we were together.
I'll always love the way his soul sings to me, and those quiet moments we can have together without compromising either of our lives. And that's all it can be.
Those moments are beautiful. But there's a lot of beauty elsewhere in my life too. I won't pretend I don't have that little emotional drop after those moments. But I'm not going to let that ruin the rest of my life 💜"
So beautifully written. It sounds like a blend of happiness, sadness and acceptance. Thanks for sharing |
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By (user no longer on site) 48 weeks ago
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I’ve thought only once I’d met my soulmate but it wasn’t meant to be as it turned out she didn’t love me, c'est la vie 🤷🏽♂️
But I do hope that my soulmate is still out there and when our paths meet the rest will be history 🤞🏽😁 |
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Yes I believe in soulmates. I have been married and had numerous relationships, but I never described any as my soulmate. I didn't believe in them. Then bang when I was 41 I met mine and we where ❤️ for 16 years.
I could never imagine being with another man there will never be another |
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