The first message in my oponion is the most important, what do women prefer a nice polite message or something a bit more vulgar? I think it's nice to be polite but I also don't want to come across as a prude |
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A polite message will open most doors to engaging with women, where a vulgar one will firmly shut any form of communication from the onset.
Whether your message is actually opened, regardless of quality, is anyone's guess, for nearly every woman who walks the corridors of Fab is often inundated with messages. Their ever-burgeoning inboxes remain insurmountable.
No one will think you're a prude. It's not by accident that you stumbled upon Fab when you were actually looking for the chess club at the local village hall. Good luck OP. ☮️🌈 |
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Try and tailor each message to the person you are messaging. Not that it’s worked for me. Ring here nearly 6 weeks and not even had a chat with anyone 🤷♂️ |
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By *usty kayWoman 26 weeks ago
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It's not so much the message that's important but taking notice of whether you should message at all. Read the profile and check there is something in the profile that makes you think you'd actually be compatible.
My status says I'm not answering messages and not meeting but how many messages do you think I've had in 2 days that completely ignored that and how many do you think I've answered? |
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"It's not so much the message that's important but taking notice of whether you should message at all. Read the profile and check there is something in the profile that makes you think you'd actually be compatible.
My status says I'm not answering messages and not meeting but how many messages do you think I've had in 2 days that completely ignored that and how many do you think I've answered?"
You know full well us guys don't read profiles !! 😂 |
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By *vaRoseWoman 26 weeks ago
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Definitely not vulgar
However if the bio is empty or lacking I won’t bother opening the message. I don’t need to be wasting both our times playing message ping-pong to get the very basics out of someone only to find we are completely incompatible |
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By *hillingCouple 26 weeks ago
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We get loads of very short messages and winks, despite our profile saying we will not respond to either.
As the female of a couple I look for someone who has read our profile and thought about whether they are a good fit for us. I want to know a bit about *you*, your personality, what makes you tick. I look at your profile and see whether it tells me anything I'm interested in, and I don't want to see dick pics. Believe it or not, for many (most?) women, your dick is not important  |
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By *usty kayWoman 26 weeks ago
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"It's not so much the message that's important but taking notice of whether you should message at all. Read the profile and check there is something in the profile that makes you think you'd actually be compatible.
My status says I'm not answering messages and not meeting but how many messages do you think I've had in 2 days that completely ignored that and how many do you think I've answered?
You know full well us guys don't read profiles !! 😂"
It's infuriating. I see how hard it is from a guys side as I watch how much work my husband has to put in to get a single response so I totally get why some give in and just send random women cut and paste messages but I can't imagine that gets any better results |
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"It's not so much the message that's important but taking notice of whether you should message at all. Read the profile and check there is something in the profile that makes you think you'd actually be compatible.
My status says I'm not answering messages and not meeting but how many messages do you think I've had in 2 days that completely ignored that and how many do you think I've answered?
You know full well us guys don't read profiles !! 😂
It's infuriating. I see how hard it is from a guys side as I watch how much work my husband has to put in to get a single response so I totally get why some give in and just send random women cut and paste messages but I can't imagine that gets any better results "
I bet the difference in yours and his inboxes are telling. Well I keep trying and see if I can stand out a bit better 😁 |
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"I do! But I have been told twice that I'm too polite?? Wtf. trying to find the balance and trying stand out when it's probably 15 blokes for every female on here is becoming difficult "
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I'm afraid you are being played by whoever is telling you that you are too polite. Granted, there's probably a handful of women out of hundreds who will want the crass, the vulgarity, the filth and the inglorious cock photos. For me, personally, they represent the low-grade personality that I'm •not• looking for.
If it's your penchant, OP, knock yourself out. |
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Ignore everything above, OP, it’s timidness and, as you’ve already been told, too polite. You may not be aware but FAB actually stands for Filthy Abhorrent Beasts and messages of a graphic nature are encouraged.
Think about it - if women get 50 messages a day (at least) you need to stand out. Being polite and charming won’t do that. Alliterating utter filth in your first message will have them gushing and responding. Go into detail about your most depraved fantasy and how it involves their minge.
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"Ignore everything above, OP, it’s timidness and, as you’ve already been told, too polite. You may not be aware but FAB actually stands for Filthy Abhorrent Beasts and messages of a graphic nature are encouraged.
Think about it - if women get 50 messages a day (at least) you need to stand out. Being polite and charming won’t do that. Alliterating utter filth in your first message will have them gushing and responding. Go into detail about your most depraved fantasy and how it involves their minge.
You are welcome. Update us with your success."
[Glow makes notes]
[Glow decides use of ‘minge’ might be irrelevant]
A magnum opus will be composed.
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"Talk to women on here just like you would in person. Simples really.
Begone with your common sense. There's no call for it here."
My common sense brings all the boys to the yard (where they nod agreeably and depart better, wiser people). |
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