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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Why wouldn’t I? I’ve had more than one sexual partner that is classed as disabled and it has no impact on my attraction to them. And I personally don’t see why it would or should 🤔 |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Would you meet a disabled person for a meet. Or is it a big no no
I sometimes get embarrassed by my disability because of the way I look and dress. I have a unique style im told "
meet people that like you for you. As you are. Fuck shallow people ❤️ |
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By myself and blind, someone would call that a disability, I call it a setback because everything else works, I get hard, I have sexual feelings and what most people don’t realise is because I can’t see I have to lightly feel and touch which partners in the past have loved |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Would you meet a disabled person for a meet. Or is it a big no no
I sometimes get embarrassed by my disability because of the way I look and dress. I have a unique style im told meet people that like you for you. As you are. Fuck shallow people ❤️"
Nnooooo
Don’t fuck shallow people 🤣 |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Would you meet a disabled person for a meet. Or is it a big no no
I sometimes get embarrassed by my disability because of the way I look and dress. I have a unique style im told meet people that like you for you. As you are. Fuck shallow people ❤️
Nnooooo
Don’t fuck shallow people 🤣"
I wasn’t going to shag really |
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"Would you meet a disabled person for a meet. Or is it a big no no
I sometimes get embarrassed by my disability because of the way I look and dress. I have a unique style im told meet people that like you for you. As you are. Fuck shallow people ❤️"
It's the mohawk and skull trousers and tops |
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yes I would and it wouldn't matter if the disablement was mental or physical, we are all on here to enjoy ourselves, and actually it is fun discussing how to get over the problems before you embark on a new relationship |
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Simple answer is yes.
If enjoy talking to someone, I am probably going to want to meet them. If I feel there's a mutual attraction, then I am going to want to have sex with them.
I have cPTSD and I tend to get along well with people who can relate to that or are empathetic and self-aware.
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"By myself and blind, someone would call that a disability, I call it a setback because everything else works, I get hard, I have sexual feelings and what most people don’t realise is because I can’t see I have to lightly feel and touch which partners in the past have loved"
How do you manage with text? Does your computer have a text to speech facility? |
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"I don't love "disabled sex" as a category. I meet people. Some have different physical and psychological makeups. "
Totally agree as will many, but there are some for whom meeting a disabled person/couple/interabled couple is actually a big no no |
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"I don't love "disabled sex" as a category. I meet people. Some have different physical and psychological makeups.
Totally agree as will many, but there are some for whom meeting a disabled person/couple/interabled couple is actually a big no no"
Yeah. And some who do and then it's weird. (I'm autistic and have an invisible physical disability) I'd rather know and give them a wide berth |
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Depends on the disability to be honest. I Wouldn't have any issues with vast majority of disabilities, but certain severe ones such as full body paralysis i couldn't, i'd feel like im taking advantage of the person and that wouldn't sit right with me. |
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By *l1 guyMan
over a year ago
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I have a partial disability, have had major heart surgery twice which resulted in a stroke. Had a meet on here once and they were put off as soon as took my top off to see a 12 inch scar down my chest and a very slim build. Made me very self conscious  |
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"It’s not the disability it’s the person you look at exactly. "
And if a ‘person’ has a disability, then you will be looking at the disability aswell.
It doesn’t go away by pretending you can’t see it.
Be a grown up and deal with it, and if you don’t feel you can, be a grown up and say you can’t.
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"Not a fan of the word disabled.
If I find the person attractive and they find me attractive, thats all that counts."
Why aren't you a fan of the word disabled? It's a reality, a truth. I subscribe to the social model of disability - in my wheelchair, I am disabled by the structural obstacles that confront me all the time, everywhere. I am disabled. It's a fact. |
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"It’s not the disability it’s the person you look at exactly.
And if a ‘person’ has a disability, then you will be looking at the disability aswell.
It doesn’t go away by pretending you can’t see it.
Be a grown up and deal with it, and if you don’t feel you can, be a grown up and say you can’t.
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I think this is the first time, but bravo! Totally hits the nail on the head. |
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"It’s not the disability it’s the person you look at exactly.
And if a ‘person’ has a disability, then you will be looking at the disability aswell.
It doesn’t go away by pretending you can’t see it.
Be a grown up and deal with it, and if you don’t feel you can, be a grown up and say you can’t.
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Exactly this.
Im not sure really. Mental health problems, no I wouldn’t meet them. Physically, I suppose it depends what it was to be honest. |
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"It’s not the disability it’s the person you look at exactly.
And if a ‘person’ has a disability, then you will be looking at the disability aswell.
It doesn’t go away by pretending you can’t see it.
Be a grown up and deal with it, and if you don’t feel you can, be a grown up and say you can’t.
I think this is the first time, but bravo! Totally hits the nail on the head."
Damn, looks like my account must have been hacked, normal service will shortly resume.  |
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By *oe WestMan
over a year ago
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Over the time I have been on Fab, I have met several who are disabled, we have always enjoyed a chat first to get to know each other as it's not always about jumping straight into bed, once we are all relaxed we have taken it to the next level. |
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I have one arm, I do worry about my appearance especially as im getting older but I’ve been on the sight for over 18 yrs
It’s about how you portray yourself and don’t think of yourself as being disabled. That’s society talk.. I’ve learned how to do mechanics
Landscape gardening ie. Fencing , laying turf, brickwork. Interior/exterior diy. The list goes on but it’s taken me thirty years or more
And if all else fails take the piss out of yourself
I’ve heard it all and said worse about myself more than anyone else could
My fantasy is to have a woman use my stump for a dildo lol |
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When I saw this thread, I was unsure how to feel about it. I am disabled (hidden and physical) and have felt wary about sharing this, but do on our profile (I use a crutch/stick) and have limited mobility. But it's been nice to read this thread and find fellow disabled fabbers and allies. Hello everyone.
We have been on fab a while. We don't do clubs etc cause I can't. We have met friends on here and a FWB (woman).
We are looking for a couple FWB, but we know it takes time and patience for us to find connections for three or four of us, but hey ho, we aren't in a rush.
Thanks for opening up the discussion here. And we are a couple: I am a disabled person and he is non-disabled as yet - we're both getting older now, so who knows what is around the corner. |
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