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Having a lovely discussion with some pals (aww) and we are discussing if women need to be good in bed, or just look really good, to be a great shag.
But what makes a woman good in bed?! Is there anything that makes a woman obviously BAD in bed? |
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I once nailed someone I’d been trying to meet for ages and it was the biggest disappointment. She didn’t engage in any foreplay, touch me or reciprocate at all. She just lay there and let me get on with everything. Not so much as a sound or movement.
I had kept going because I thought she was shy/nervous and I could coax her into relaxing but in the end I stopped. It was not sexy in any way. |
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There’s this one woman I went with foreplay was great until we got down to having sex, and the moaning was completely out of synch with the rhythm, which made me laugh as I tried to change to her panting moans, just as we got together she would change again, I did eventually cum but it did take quite a while. |
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"I once nailed someone I’d been trying to meet for ages and it was the biggest disappointment. She didn’t engage in any foreplay, touch me or reciprocate at all. She just lay there and let me get on with everything. Not so much as a sound or movement.
I had kept going because I thought she was shy/nervous and I could coax her into relaxing but in the end I stopped. It was not sexy in any way."
Sounds like she let you nail her just so get rid of you. |
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"I once nailed someone I’d been trying to meet for ages and it was the biggest disappointment. She didn’t engage in any foreplay, touch me or reciprocate at all. She just lay there and let me get on with everything. Not so much as a sound or movement.
I had kept going because I thought she was shy/nervous and I could coax her into relaxing but in the end I stopped. It was not sexy in any way.
Sounds like she let you nail her just so get rid of you. "
😆😆 I had exactly this thought as I was typing it out! |
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"Having a lovely discussion with some pals (aww) and we are discussing if women need to be good in bed, or just look really good, to be a great shag.
But what makes a woman good in bed?! Is there anything that makes a woman obviously BAD in bed?"
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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago
Dubai & Nottingham |
"There’s this one woman I went with foreplay was great until we got down to having sex, and the moaning was completely out of synch with the rhythm, which made me laugh as I tried to change to her panting moans, just as we got together she would change again, I did eventually cum but it did take quite a while."
I had a very strange relationship with someone like this a couple years ago. She was Islamic. & very reserved about sex. When I met her, she told me her ex-boyfriend dated her for seven months and they never had sex and I told her that will not work for me., I made it clear. I’m a very sexual person..
She was great to date really nice but the sex was pretty much how you described. Yet she’s the person I’ve gone the most rounds within a single day - again and again and again and I would come in a few minutes each time, I think nine times in total because she just felt and looked so incredibly good & it felt so taboo !
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I would argue enthusiasm doesn't guarantee someone is good in bed (goes a long way for sure), but a lack of it certainly guarantees they won't be!
Reciprocation and awareness of each other's needs and responses will make two people 'good in bed together'. It's all about alignment and compatibility right? |
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Best woman I ever shagged was not shy about letting me cum in her mouth.
Had the most intense orgasm ever with her in Brazil.
She was open minded, willing to experiment, anxious to please me. But she also wasn't shy about asking for what she wanted. Open communication and desire to please each other goes a long way |
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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago
Liverpool |
"I would argue enthusiasm doesn't guarantee someone is good in bed (goes a long way for sure), but a lack of it certainly guarantees they won't be!
Reciprocation and awareness of each other's needs and responses will make two people 'good in bed together'. It's all about alignment and compatibility right?"
Shhhhh! 🤫 Enthusiasm is the safety net word, the sit on the fence and not rock the women folk boat answer. You can't question it. |
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Definitely enthusiastic.
I was with one woman, what she did, was as I would describe as a Fanny wank her rhythm was so good. Great Shag.
I have been with others who I would describe as checking me for Testicle Cancer when I was in her. Her fingers were all over my Balls. Great Shag.
That is 2 who spring to mind. |
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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago
Liverpool |
"Definitely enthusiastic.
I was with one woman, what she did, was as I would describe as a Fanny wank her rhythm was so good. Great Shag.
I have been with others who I would describe as checking me for Testicle Cancer when I was in her. Her fingers were all over my Balls. Great Shag.
That is 2 who spring to mind. "
So which is it, because those 2 things are more technique and as you say yourself, rythem, than enthusiasm?
She could have all the enthusiasm in the world, but she certainly isn't pulling off those things on it alone. A virgin can be enthusiastic but they definitely won't be able to hit those high notes. |
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This is exactly how I like a woman to be. This is 100 percent most of the people in the northwest. Southern girls get much more involved.
"I once nailed someone I’d been trying to meet for ages and it was the biggest disappointment. She didn’t engage in any foreplay, touch me or reciprocate at all. She just lay there and let me get on with everything. Not so much as a sound or movement.
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For me it's been women who have communicated well both verbally and physically. Those who have made their desire and enjoyment clear. And there's been a mixture of passion, laughter and affection.
This also applies to men. |
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By *ickEmeryMan
over a year ago
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Responsive, equal input and increasingly feverish dialogue. But mostly that elusive subconscious thing that happens when the jigsaw fits, the chemicals blend and the scents trigger…and you only know that through trying. |
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It's not technically a bad thing, but it's a massive no from me.
Bi-curious females are just that, curious and unfortunately from my experience they have been pillow princesses 
I am attracted to ladies who have the confidence that they know what they want and are willing to show me just how much they want it  |
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"It's not technically a bad thing, but it's a massive no from me.
Bi-curious females are just that, curious and unfortunately from my experience they have been pillow princesses
I am attracted to ladies who have the confidence that they know what they want and are willing to show me just how much they want it "
Now you sound like a guy  |
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By *ornycougaWoman
over a year ago
WHEREVER I LAY MY HAT |
"Not to be shellfish and love to please
The world is your oyster.
That pun just made the ladies clam up
Yeah!!!
We’re not all prawn stars you know
Especially when you're feeling a little crabby"
I knew you would mussel in on this one |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"For me, great sex is about connection so she needs confidence and to be relaxed and enjoy lots of foreplay. I love close intense contact, kissing, stroking, amd nails lightly scratching me...."
Bliss 😍 |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Not to be shellfish and love to please
The world is your oyster.
That pun just made the ladies clam up
Yeah!!!
We’re not all prawn stars you know
Especially when you're feeling a little crabby
I knew you would mussel in on this one"
His posts warm my cockles. |
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It’s her post coital skills that make or break it for me.
Does she do a bit of washing up or quickly run the hoover around before she leaves, it’s the small details that set apart a good shag from a great shag.  |
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By *WC 101Man
over a year ago
Aberdeen |
A woman who is enthusiastic, prepared to let herself go with no inhibitions and get lost in the moment and let you know what she likes and doesn’t like to make sure she is satisfied.
If you reciprocate the same back I’d reckon everyone will have a great time ! |
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"For me someone that experiments and observes based off responses. A good communicator. Enthusiasm and of course the chemistry between us. "
Definitely agreed with this one..
but also hours of 4play and kissing needed without any men would be ideal too. |
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"Not to be shellfish and love to please
The world is your oyster.
That pun just made the ladies clam up
Yeah!!!
We’re not all prawn stars you know
Especially when you're feeling a little crabby
I knew you would mussel in on this one
His posts warm my cockles. "
Good to hear Leo. I would not like to make you anemone. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Not to be shellfish and love to please
The world is your oyster.
That pun just made the ladies clam up
Yeah!!!
We’re not all prawn stars you know
Especially when you're feeling a little crabby
I knew you would mussel in on this one
His posts warm my cockles.
Good to hear Leo. I would not like to make you anemone."
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