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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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During the course of their swinging, has anyone else come to the conclusion, that women are typically a lot more diverse and individual than males when it comes to sexual attraction, particularly physical? Often, it seems to me that if you were to show a group of guys a picture of a supposedly beautiful woman, most of them would probably agree that she was, whereas show a group of women a picture of a thought to be handsome man, the overall opinion would be a lot more divided? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think it's because the male and female work differently when it comes to sexual attraction!
For me ( Lucy ) they have to stimulate my mind to get my juices flowing.... Then their personality plays a part to!
Looks do come into it but only if the first bit applies  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"For me ( Lucy ) they have to stimulate my mind to get my juices flowing.... Then their personality plays a part to!
Looks do come into it but only if the first bit applies "
Ah but you see the first part isn't particularly difficult, I often find however its building up the intangible sexual attraction that can be a lot trickier. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"During the course of their swinging, has anyone else come to the conclusion, that women are typically a lot more diverse and individual than males when it comes to sexual attraction, particularly physical? Often, it seems to me that if you were to show a group of guys a picture of a supposedly beautiful woman, most of them would probably agree that she was, whereas show a group of women a picture of a thought to be handsome man, the overall opinion would be a lot more divided?"
As said much more for women and connection mentally is not easy! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"As said much more for women and connection mentally is not easy!"
But at what point does the 'he's a really nice guy and easy to chat to' become 'I'm really attracted to him want us to have sex'? |
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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago
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"As said much more for women and connection mentally is not easy!
But at what point does the 'he's a really nice guy and easy to chat to' become 'I'm really attracted to him want us to have sex'?"
just before it becomes 'ah he's a mate - wouldnt feel right shagging him'....  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"As said much more for women and connection mentally is not easy!
But at what point does the 'he's a really nice guy and easy to chat to' become 'I'm really attracted to him want us to have sex'?"
When I start thinking about sexual things about him |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"As said much more for women and connection mentally is not easy!
But at what point does the 'he's a really nice guy and easy to chat to' become 'I'm really attracted to him want us to have sex'?
just before it becomes 'ah he's a mate - wouldnt feel right shagging him'.... "
So the key to successful swinging as a male would be to come across 'very nice and with a subtle hint of prick'  |
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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago
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"I have a very narrow field of what I find attractive. Not sure if that's a female thing or just how I am. "
Us women do look for different things and probably have more criteria and I really dont mean that in a horirble way.  |
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By *e nicerWoman
over a year ago
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"As said much more for women and connection mentally is not easy!
But at what point does the 'he's a really nice guy and easy to chat to' become 'I'm really attracted to him want us to have sex'?
just before it becomes 'ah he's a mate - wouldnt feel right shagging him'.... "
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I have a very narrow field of what I find attractive. Not sure if that's a female thing or just how I am. Us women do look for different things and probably have more criteria and I really dont mean that in a horirble way. "
I'm sure you don't, but I'm sure you can understand the resulting frustration from a male perspective? |
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