I think you should both stop playing games with each other's heart & mind and talk about whether you want to save your marriage, and how you can both do it. Clearly you have trust issues from your OP.
Reach out to your wife rather than us.
Best wishes
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"I think you should both stop playing games with each other's heart & mind and talk about whether you want to save your marriage, and how you can both do it. Clearly you have trust issues from your OP.
Reach out to your wife rather than us.
Best wishes
Mrs"
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By (user no longer on site) 27 weeks ago
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"I think ye both need to have an honest conversation about what you both want and then go from there
Lol I thought we did tbh know i think she's on here going against what we spoke about "
Trust is everything in a relationship. You need to speak to her again and tell her your concerns. |
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"Well the wife cheated, she then said I'm allowed to do thing for a while and that she'd stop however i think she's still on here when I'm at work ?????"
So you’ve cheated and she’s cheated… now she says it’s ok for you to carry on and she’ll stop? You think she’s cheating on that? As the others say have a chat, or get an uber! |
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By *uperior D OP Man 27 weeks ago
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"Well the wife cheated, she then said I'm allowed to do thing for a while and that she'd stop however i think she's still on here when I'm at work ?????
So you’ve cheated and she’s cheated… now she says it’s ok for you to carry on and she’ll stop? You think she’s cheating on that? As the others say have a chat, or get an uber!"
Read agian my friend i never cheated |
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"I think ye both need to have an honest conversation about what you both want and then go from there
Lol I thought we did tbh know i think she's on here going against what we spoke about
Trust is everything in a relationship. You need to speak to her again and tell her your concerns."
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By *uperior D OP Man 27 weeks ago
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"I think ye both need to have an honest conversation about what you both want and then go from there
Lol I thought we did tbh know i think she's on here going against what we spoke about
Trust is everything in a relationship. You need to speak to her again and tell her your concerns."
Your right and tbh I've tried talking but she won't admit that is her on the account so we go around in circles |
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"Well the wife cheated, she then said I'm allowed to do thing for a while and that she'd stop however i think she's still on here when I'm at work ?????
So you’ve cheated and she’s cheated… now she says it’s ok for you to carry on and she’ll stop? You think she’s cheating on that? As the others say have a chat, or get a Uber
Read agian my friend i never cheated "
Frankly I think we’re all trying to help and you’re just ignoring the advice. Good luck |
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"I think ye both need to have an honest conversation about what you both want and then go from there
Lol I thought we did tbh know i think she's on here going against what we spoke about
Trust is everything in a relationship. You need to speak to her again and tell her your concerns.
Your right and tbh I've tried talking but she won't admit that is her on the account so we go around in circles "
What's the issue though....she has an account and so do you |
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By *uperior D OP Man 27 weeks ago
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"Well the wife cheated, she then said I'm allowed to do thing for a while and that she'd stop however i think she's still on here when I'm at work ?????
So you’ve cheated and she’s cheated… now she says it’s ok for you to carry on and she’ll stop? You think she’s cheating on that? As the others say have a chat, or get a Uber
Read agian my friend i never cheated
Frankly I think we’re all trying to help and you’re just ignoring the advice. Good luck"
You read it wrong...any advice is more than welcome |
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By *uperior D OP Man 27 weeks ago
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"I think ye both need to have an honest conversation about what you both want and then go from there
Lol I thought we did tbh know i think she's on here going against what we spoke about
Trust is everything in a relationship. You need to speak to her again and tell her your concerns.
Your right and tbh I've tried talking but she won't admit that is her on the account so we go around in circles
What's the issue though....she has an account and so do you"
But she using hers its active at times when I'm at work...which is strange if she's said she'd stop as she cheated |
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"I think ye both need to have an honest conversation about what you both want and then go from there
Lol I thought we did tbh know i think she's on here going against what we spoke about
Trust is everything in a relationship. You need to speak to her again and tell her your concerns.
Your right and tbh I've tried talking but she won't admit that is her on the account so we go around in circles "
You're at a bit of a stalemate then.
The trust is broken because of cheating, ye need to work on that.
Permission to have sex with other people as a score evener isn't the one either. |
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By *uperior D OP Man 27 weeks ago
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"I think ye both need to have an honest conversation about what you both want and then go from there
Lol I thought we did tbh know i think she's on here going against what we spoke about
Trust is everything in a relationship. You need to speak to her again and tell her your concerns.
Your right and tbh I've tried talking but she won't admit that is her on the account so we go around in circles
You're at a bit of a stalemate then.
The trust is broken because of cheating, ye need to work on that.
Permission to have sex with other people as a score evener isn't the one either."
I agree and I did say that at the time but tbh I just don't know what to do about this and when she suggested this I just thought kool let's try it |
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By *WANDTGCouple 27 weeks ago
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I'm lost.
Has she cheated by seeing someone not on fab ?
Because you're both on fab, with each others knowledge.
Also sometimes if you don't log out, it shows that you're active on here but you aren't actually on the site in person. |
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By *uperior D OP Man 27 weeks ago
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"I'm lost.
Has she cheated by seeing someone not on fab ?
Because you're both on fab, with each others knowledge.
Also sometimes if you don't log out, it shows that you're active on here but you aren't actually on the site in person. "
She did the deed off FAB |
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By *WANDTGCouple 27 weeks ago
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I thought that might be the case hence your free pass.
But I'm not sure that will help your situation. Tit for tat never really works.
Maybe suggest to her that you both stick to the fab play dates. |
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By *uperior D OP Man 27 weeks ago
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"I thought that might be the case hence your free pass.
But I'm not sure that will help your situation. Tit for tat never really works.
Maybe suggest to her that you both stick to the fab play dates. "
I know it's all silly just don't want her on here as I clearly can trust her..escape seems to be the only way but I guess I'm just fighting it |
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By *uperior D OP Man 27 weeks ago
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"I thought that might be the case hence your free pass.
But I'm not sure that will help your situation. Tit for tat never really works.
Maybe suggest to her that you both stick to the fab play dates.
I know it's all silly just don't want her on here as I clearly can trust her..escape seems to be the only way but I guess I'm just fighting it"
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By (user no longer on site) 27 weeks ago
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"I think ye both need to have an honest conversation about what you both want and then go from there
Lol I thought we did tbh know i think she's on here going against what we spoke about
Trust is everything in a relationship. You need to speak to her again and tell her your concerns.
Your right and tbh I've tried talking but she won't admit that is her on the account so we go around in circles
You're at a bit of a stalemate then.
The trust is broken because of cheating, ye need to work on that.
Permission to have sex with other people as a score evener isn't the one either.
I agree and I did say that at the time but tbh I just don't know what to do about this and when she suggested this I just thought kool let's try it"
Why not try a couples profile and delete the single ones. Everyone knows what's happening then as both can access everything |
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By *uperior D OP Man 27 weeks ago
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"I think ye both need to have an honest conversation about what you both want and then go from there
Lol I thought we did tbh know i think she's on here going against what we spoke about
Trust is everything in a relationship. You need to speak to her again and tell her your concerns.
Your right and tbh I've tried talking but she won't admit that is her on the account so we go around in circles
You're at a bit of a stalemate then.
The trust is broken because of cheating, ye need to work on that.
Permission to have sex with other people as a score evener isn't the one either.
I agree and I did say that at the time but tbh I just don't know what to do about this and when she suggested this I just thought kool let's try it
Why not try a couples profile and delete the single ones. Everyone knows what's happening then as both can access everything "
I like that but she'd have to admit to her new single account and delete it |
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So to cap it all......
She cheated with someone off fab, She's made a new account on here
You can't trust her
She doesn't want to make a couples profile....
Answers are either keep cheating on each other or leave |
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By (user no longer on site) 27 weeks ago
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Both of you should come off here and work on your marriage. Trying to one-up each other isn’t healthy and isn’t fair on the people you’re bringing into the situation. |
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