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By (user no longer on site) OP 16 weeks ago
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How does being exposed make you feel?
Are you an exhibitionist, or the opposite, (my case) and you are struggling every time, so the feeling of being watched makes you excited and nervous
What kind of photo do you like to make public?
Are you waiting for likes (I am) 
What is more difficult to post, a face pic or your genitalia?
Best wishes to all
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By (user no longer on site) OP 16 weeks ago
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"I like it as a medium of art and I like it as a form of exhibitionism.
I feel excited when people like my photos and I feel validated and more attractive."
Validating you right now 💞 |
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I never do, in public, but have never stopped to wonder why. Now that I do, I'm not sure what the answer is. Perhaps being a poor photographer, and having been brought up thinking it was wrong for men to peacock. That said, I hugely enjoy the photos that women and couples post - beauty, sexuality, personality, are all on display - and I don't think less of the men who do the same, although being straight I get no particular pleasure from those pictures.
Who was it that said every man, by the age of forty, has the face he deserves? Something to it, anyway. And posting a face picture, even privately, involves a feeling of revealing who one is - not just becoming recognisable, but showing one's character. And I don't think people are likely to recognise my identity or my soul from a photo of my genitals.  |
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By (user no longer on site) 16 weeks ago
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I like when they’re appreciated by the people I post them for.
Nude pics make me feel exposed. I don’t post those type of pictures very often anymore and when I do, they don’t stay public very long. |
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By (user no longer on site) 16 weeks ago
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"How does being exposed make you feel?
Are you an exhibitionist, or the opposite, (my case) and you are struggling every time, so the feeling of being watched makes you excited and nervous
What kind of photo do you like to make public?
Are you waiting for likes (I am)
What is more difficult to post, a face pic or your genitalia?
Best wishes to all. Not an exhibitionist I don’t have the body for it and I’m not that vain A face pic in private or friends only and something more creative in public which is enough to tell a story I’m very much under construction as a profile so I’m not ready to be judged as yet
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By (user no longer on site) 16 weeks ago
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I have a lot of face pics in private for friends on here. Not posted any in public yet.
It's been said on here but it's nice knowing some people on here like your pics. So I take it as a compliment. Be nice to get in double figures though 😉🤣 |
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Mine are all relatively tame and I’m happy to share.
Summoning up the effort to take them in the first place however is my main issue, due to the somewhat regretful fact that I’m a lazy sod of some not inconsiderable note 😜
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I like to look good and know other people think I look good. I enjoy being appreciated. I've no interest in showing my face as I want anonymity. I don't do genital photos as that would make me uncomfortable. |
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We create pics as we enjoy doing something different to stand out and be noticed so our interactions on here are fruitful.
We aren’t flamboyant or seek attention so it’s not because we are exhibitionists or anything.
We have a creative streak and we’ve found a place where we can display that.
K
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In all honestly I'm an attention whore/slight exhibitionist and like nice comments, but I prefer to be suggestive rather than graphic.
The only reason I don't show my face on my public pics is because I've dealt with weird men/stalkers online from dating apps and I don't want anyone from work finding me on here. |
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I like the validation of it but I like it more when people tell me they like my style or angles or whatever else.
I mostly started taking pictures of myself as a way of clawing back some self esteem after years of being torn down by others. When I started taking pictures I'd take as many as it took to find something in at least one of the pictures that I liked the look of. |
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I am an exhibitionist.
When I joined Fab I was an athlete in prime physical form but with very low self esteem. The appreciation my photos got were a huge, huge boost to the low self-image I had at the time.
Now I am in not so good physical form, but still enjoy the attention. 😝😝😝
I swap photos around according to how I feel at the time. Having had a background in photography as well, sometimes I feel like taking them.  |
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I'm not brave enough to post face pics publicly and the same goes for public pics of my cock.
I do like posting pics though and I love it if they get a fab, I love it more though when someone messages me complimenting them. It makes my day every time.
In real life and in the right company/ surrounds I'm very much an exhibitionast.
I find it so bloody hot a such a turn on being watched. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 16 weeks ago
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"We create pics as we enjoy doing something different to stand out and be noticed so our interactions on here are fruitful.
We aren’t flamboyant or seek attention so it’s not because we are exhibitionists or anything.
We have a creative streak and we’ve found a place where we can display that.
K
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Your pics are a source of constant pleasure 💘 |
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By *utualMan 16 weeks ago
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It is nice to be liked - I think it is fair to say that it makes us all feel good - even if those doing the 'liking' may not be your 'cup of tea'.
It took me a while to generate and post pics, especially as they tend not to come out very well - or is that me  ....
I hide my face for the same reason as most - discretion - especially in work.
And I will admit that I dared to webcam - it was a very strange and bold step, but it generated some chat and interest and made me feel good - it was also wuite erotic. |
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I don't post face or genital pics. Some of my pics are quite artistic, and nicely posed( I think). I hope they draw attention to my profile. I used to be an artists model and posed for life drawing classes. I loved it. So liberating. |
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I just love taking pics...and posting them 🤭 a bit of an exhibitionist I guess.
I do love when pics been appreciated by fab or cheeky message.😘 but I can't say that's the reason I post them.
It's actually great confidence boost too.🤭 |
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By *HUSH-Man 16 weeks ago
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"How does being exposed make you feel?
Are you an exhibitionist, or the opposite, (my case) and you are struggling every time, so the feeling of being watched makes you excited and nervous
What kind of photo do you like to make public?
Are you waiting for likes (I am)
What is more difficult to post, a face pic or your genitalia?
Best wishes to all
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Despite most of my pictures having my top off I don’t do that very often. I usually wear a long sleeve training hoodie at the gym with shorts and in the summer I always have a t-shirt on regardless of how hot it gets. I may stretch to a vest if it’s a heatwave but I don’t take it off completely. So I would say I’m not so much of an exhibitionist.
I won’t be uploading a face picture to my public gallery. I’ll share face pics in private (if I want to) but I like the anonymity.
As for my nude picture…. I don’t know whether to share it in my public gallery or not 🤔 Part of me thinks it’s just my comfort zone but part of me also thinks it’s best to leave some to the imagination.
I like to try and take artistic pictures and share them in my public gallery. Something a bit different to selfies. I have some ideas for new pictures, I just need to find the time to take them. They’ll hopefully be different to what I normally upload.
I have removed the option to fab my pictures. Much like winks I personally don’t see the point in them.
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People like to see pictures. So, being genuinely single with nothing to hide, I'm happy to show my face - although I'd be happier if I were handsome.
There's also a willy shot on public view, for those to whom such things matter. |
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Mainly so people who visit our profile can see what we look like and if there’s a physical attraction. Posting new ones is a useful way of getting your profile seen by potential new contacts also - via local updates/new pics.
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By (user no longer on site) 16 weeks ago
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I wouldn't do face pics in case recognised etc but like to show off what I've got.
I'm a massive exhibitionist and if women or men get pleasure from my pictures then great! |
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By *h86Man 16 weeks ago
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I like to show off a little, but Im hugely introverted in real life so the anonimity of being here enables me to let my hair down a bit so to speak.
I like to show a little of what I like, vut also allow people to see whats on offer. Find it far easier to show the ground floor than the 1st floor though, as even these days being outed as a CD carries a lot of social stigma |
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This is a really interesting thread & you asked a good question.
I post for me, if someone else enjoys anything I post then great but if not I’ve lost nothing.
Being what I am, a big guy I’m never really going to walk round every day with my alter ego/ other self shown to the public so it’s a form of release & a way of screaming this is me. I don’t think I’ll ever intentionally post a face pic though for lots of reasons, sorry may have gone a bit deep here x |
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Both of us have become a lot more confident since joining.
Neither of us are skinny, Mr doesn't have a big cock, but we would rather have pictures out there so prospective meets can see before they message/arrange something as let's be honest unless you really would fuck anyone and anything, a lot of this comes down to inital attractiveness.
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I've always been self conscious. A habit I'm trying to break. Do I think I look good or take good photos? No. Going to try and at least take better pictures. I don't take dick pics and I've never sent any unasked for. The very few likes I do get on my pics are from men, which is flattering. |
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I’m a huge exhibitionist - perhaps the psychologist would look in to my people pleaser tendencies but I love being the reason that someone is turned on! If my pics do that for someone, it’s a big turn on for me! |
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By *heelerMan 16 weeks ago
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"I like it as a medium of art and I like it as a form of exhibitionism.
I feel excited when people like my photos and I feel validated and more attractive.
Validating you right now 💞"
They all look great to me |
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On a whole, I don't enjoy taking pictures. They were there so people could get a rough idea of what I looked like. Any genital pics wouldn't stay up long as I always felt uncomfortable with them. The same with any pictures that show a little bit of face, I felt slightly vulnerable.
Fabbed pictures never did anything for me and I eventually removed this option. Which actually, more guys should do, as more women messaged to compliment the pictures. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 16 weeks ago
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"On a whole, I don't enjoy taking pictures. They were there so people could get a rough idea of what I looked like. Any genital pics wouldn't stay up long as I always felt uncomfortable with them. The same with any pictures that show a little bit of face, I felt slightly vulnerable.
Fabbed pictures never did anything for me and I eventually removed this option. Which actually, more guys should do, as more women messaged to compliment the pictures."
You should. post your face. I have seen it. You are stunning |
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"On a whole, I don't enjoy taking pictures. They were there so people could get a rough idea of what I looked like. Any genital pics wouldn't stay up long as I always felt uncomfortable with them. The same with any pictures that show a little bit of face, I felt slightly vulnerable.
Fabbed pictures never did anything for me and I eventually removed this option. Which actually, more guys should do, as more women messaged to compliment the pictures.
You should. post your face. I have seen it. You are stunning "
Thank you |
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If I'm in the mood to take a photo I do, but it's few and far between. I'd rather be taking them I think, not because of body confidence, but as I don't think I look that good in photo's. The normal process is take one pic (avoiding face), and post it if it looks good, which could be of anything I've been pointing the lens at the time. |
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I post pictures for people to see, but I'm a creative person so I enjoy taking photos and coming up with new ideas.
I like looking at suggestive, sexy images... something that gets the imagination working and the art of them course!
It's nice to recieve compliments too |
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I think there is a difference - liking to be admired by others on here does not in my mind make you an exhibitionist
Does going to clubs or meets and having sex make you a sex maniac, no
My two penneth
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Well I guess I found it a big turn on to take some pics usually my body & Willy hard or soft but found it didn’t stay soft for long while taking pics lol i also found it interesting to have people look at me it’s surprising how different willys are even though they say when you seen one you seen them all lol I do however find lady’s pics a massive turn on stockings & suspenders but my favourite is a large sticking out clitoris for some reason |
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I'm not to fussed about face pictures, but it's nice to see something of someone when chatting to them. It's like trying to sell a car with no pictures and one with pictures. Which one will you look at. |
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Hi OP et al
I feel like I’m a bit of an exhibitionist I like the idea of my photos being used / enjoyed however.
I feel it allows me to express myself in a surrounding that’s comfortable .
I try to leave a little to the imagination …. Sparking intrigue is a turn on . |
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There must be some sort of exhibitionist in me to keep posting them and yes I like when people fab them...but often one I don't like might be more fabbed that one I did like.
Occasionally I have one that I just feel is good because of the lighting or framing or something. There is a hidden artist in me struggling to get out and this is the outlet I use 🤣 |
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10 years ago I had never even so much as taken my shirt off in public.
When I joined here a couple of years later I posted a handful of pretty poor pics. I had no issue with the content, just the actual quality.
Since then I've put a little more effort into taking pics but I only post those that I like myself.
If others like them that's a bonus.
I am probably an online exhibitionist but at the same time I still don't take my shirt off in public. |
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"We create pics as we enjoy doing something different to stand out and be noticed so our interactions on here are fruitful.
We aren’t flamboyant or seek attention so it’s not because we are exhibitionists or anything.
We have a creative streak and we’ve found a place where we can display that.
K
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Feeling this.
Loving your pics.
I enjoy showing bunny off. It's a thrill to share that much more than I ever feel someone wants to see me. |
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We post them as we like the thought that maybe some people get something out of it, maybe it'll encourage them to take the next step if they're in two minds... they look at the pics and think that looks fun, lets try x |
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Being exposed is scary and exciting. I take pics when I feel like it, but I usually delete most (sometimes all), and post what I'm comfortable with. I've posted stuff that I cringe about now! 😅 I switch around pics, depending on how I feel that day. The pic I was feeling confident in yesterday, might make me feel like shit today... 🤷♀️
I found it easier posting genitals than my face when we joined 🫣 That's changed. I love that.  |
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"10 years ago I had never even so much as taken my shirt off in public.
When I joined here a couple of years later I posted a handful of pretty poor pics. I had no issue with the content, just the actual quality.
Since then I've put a little more effort into taking pics but I only post those that I like myself.
If others like them that's a bonus.
I am probably an online exhibitionist but at the same time I still don't take my shirt off in public."
I missed the last question but I don't post face pics so genitals will always win out even if some aren't so keen on them. |
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By *batMan 16 weeks ago
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I'm definitely on the exhibitionist side. And yep, of course I get a thrill from a Fab or a nice compliment.
But it's fleeting, isn't it? Today's news, tomorrow's chip papers, sort of thing.
Anyway, I've dished some Fabs out to people on this thread, you deserved 'em!
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By (user no longer on site) 16 weeks ago
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It's always nice to be appreciated. My wife and I are private and use this as a means to live out a safe little bit of ourselves.
We rarely share face pics unless we think we might meet. Public pictures are mainly page 3 style photos although Im happy share a little more.
Private photos are more of the genetalia revealed style.
I love taking photos of my wife and love the feedback I get. |
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It's window dressing. An attempt to get you to look at me. Notice me and like me . I only put the good ones on , you know, the millionth attempt at the same photo. Hoping to reflect my natural beauty on the screen. I'm quite happy to do it . You have taken some wicked sexy shots op |
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I don’t really anymore. I really should. It’s just so much of a faff and I never seem to have time.
I’d never post my face or nude ones though.
I guess I post them if I’m looking to meet so that people can see what I look like at that particular time. I don’t think I’ve ever even looked at fabs so it’s not really for that x |
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By (user no longer on site) 16 weeks ago
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A bit of exhibitionism and a bit of wanting people to know what I look like. I'm quite shy/modest IRL, and it's nice to shake that off with the online anonymity. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 16 weeks ago
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"I am an exhibitionist.
When I joined Fab I was an athlete in prime physical form but with very low self-esteem. The appreciation my photos got was a huge, huge boost to the low self-image I had at the time.
Now I am in not-so-good physical form, but still enjoy the attention. 😝😝😝
I swap photos around according to how I feel at the time. Having had a background in photography as well, sometimes I feel like taking them. "
So true. Against all logic, I tend to post public pics when I don't feel so confident and I need to reassure myself. Oh Human beings, what a vain and fragile creature we are |
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"Posting new sexy photos! 😃
Sees it get 5 Fabs 😔
6 now "
You're too sweet 😘
Now that shameless plug is over, it does make me feel good posting new photos know that people appreciate them and I suppose the compliments help with the confidence too. I'd never post a public face pic and rarely do one showing my genitals but may do if I'm feeling a bit brave 😅 |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 16 weeks ago
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"A bit of exhibitionism and a bit of wanting people to know what I look like. I'm quite shy/modest IRL, and it's nice to shake that off with the online anonymity."
You shouldn't be modest, you are beautiful |
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By *eckard25Man 16 weeks ago
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Think I've got an exhibitionist streak in me and really like compliments.
Easier to share my genitals than my face but that's a privacy thing. None of my colleagues should recognise my cock (current ones at least). |
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I like the pics, I think I look good in them. I like people to know who they are chatting to.
I don't particularly consider myself an exhibitionist, thought I am quite open about my life.
Whilst it's always nice to know other people like them, I have no interest in knowing people use them for wank fodder and certainly don't want tributes. |
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By (user no longer on site) 16 weeks ago
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It takes me a lot of shitty photos before finding the ones I'm happy to put on here.
When I finally have one that's good enough, it's nice when people show their appreciation. I'm talking a nice comment from someone in my friends list.. or hotlist would be nice.  |
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By (user no longer on site) 16 weeks ago
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It’s strange I post pictures because I’m not really that body confident in real life but I’m kind of an exhibitionist but not a confident one so I do it with photos. |
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By *bi HaiveMan 16 weeks ago
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I post photos that I like, and that I hope some other may like. Although the latter is less important than the former.
I won't post any play photos on this profile. I think there's one out of the lot with someone else in it. Different on the couples profile but I much prefer it to just be me on this one. The idea is to get interest in me, not who I happen to be naked with after all. 🤷♂️ |
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"I like our pictures and I like other people appreciating them. That might make me an exhibitionist, I don't know"
This for me too, although I don't think I'm an exhibitionist in normal vanilla life I'm not anyway, I guess it's that kind of alter ego type thing, like going topless on holiday you just don't care but wouldn't do it at home, the anonymity helps I guess.
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"I have a variety of pics and videos public. One thing that's never public is face pics. They're not even friends only, all private.
I like people seeing them or they wouldn't be public. "
I like em  |
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"It’s strange I post pictures because I’m not really that body confident in real life but I’m kind of an exhibitionist but not a confident one so I do it with photos. "
I think that's actually quite common. Your pictures are tremendous! |
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I'm definitely not an exhibitionist, I post pics that I like and really not fussed if others do, I take so called "compliments" on here with a pinch of salt (in person totally different).
I would never post full nude shots or genitalia shots as I don't feel the need too x |
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By *enelope2UWoman 16 weeks ago
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I like the picture and I like the memories of the moment. I don't check who's viewed them I honestly don't care. I post the ones I felt confident sexy, cheeky, or if I simply felt like expressing a different reason. Several are outfits I had on underneath when I've been stood up ghosted etc. Or pictures from forum dares or cam sessions.
The maturity on here isn't strong enough for me to post my face pictures,
I get vile responses as it is in private messages if rejected.
I could imagine what worse things I'd get if I was more visible or recognised. |
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I wouldn't post either my face or my bits on here publicly, I keep my pics quite tame.
Sometimes I'll take a pic and like it, so I'll upload it. I don't upload them v often though and in the past I've uploaded them to private, then set them public at a later date.
I don't like some of the messages or friend invites new pics trigger, fabs are fine though.
I don't know how ladies cope with the mail they must get, if they're braver with the pics they post. |
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I never post face pics, the risk of executive colleagues and clients seeing it would make work hard.
Plus now and then someone dodgy infiltrates and wants to extort you.
Genitals all day long, mind you no one bothers to ogle mine lol |
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"How does being exposed make you feel?
Are you an exhibitionist, or the opposite, (my case) and you are struggling every time, so the feeling of being watched makes you excited and nervous
What kind of photo do you like to make public?
Are you waiting for likes (I am)
What is more difficult to post, a face pic or your genitalia?
Best wishes to all
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If I looked like you OP id probably post all day long lol |
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By (user no longer on site) 16 weeks ago
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"A bit of exhibitionism and a bit of wanting people to know what I look like. I'm quite shy/modest IRL, and it's nice to shake that off with the online anonymity.
You shouldn't be modest, you are beautiful "
Thank you 😳😊 |
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By (user no longer on site) 16 weeks ago
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I post because I like being seen.
Face pics are harder to post because it’s my face. But it’s my best feature so it’s also my best chance of getting a meet |
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When I feel good about myself I want others to see it. I like the feeling I get when the Fabs start rolling in. Boosts my confidence, and it's a little empowering.
I could never make a face picture public, or even un-pixilate my tattoos. Too risky. But I'd also never post close up genital pictures. It's just not my thing. |
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"When I feel good about myself I want others to see it. I like the feeling I get when the Fabs start rolling in. Boosts my confidence, and it's a little empowering.
I could never make a face picture public, or even un-pixilate my tattoos. Too risky. But I'd also never post close up genital pictures. It's just not my thing. "
Tatts are hot though |
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"When I feel good about myself I want others to see it. I like the feeling I get when the Fabs start rolling in. Boosts my confidence, and it's a little empowering.
I could never make a face picture public, or even un-pixilate my tattoos. Too risky. But I'd also never post close up genital pictures. It's just not my thing.
Tatts are hot though "
I know. Really wish I could show them off (especially the next.one I'm planning on getting). But needs must 🤷🏻♀️ |
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"When I feel good about myself I want others to see it. I like the feeling I get when the Fabs start rolling in. Boosts my confidence, and it's a little empowering.
I could never make a face picture public, or even un-pixilate my tattoos. Too risky. But I'd also never post close up genital pictures. It's just not my thing.
Tatts are hot though
I know. Really wish I could show them off (especially the next.one I'm planning on getting). But needs must 🤷🏻♀️"
I understand. If you feel the need to message them to me...... (only joking ) |
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I enjoy taking pics to express my sexuality, that whole side of me that just isn’t recognised in real life. Everyone I know has seen me in a specific role of; wife, mother, daughter, carer. Those kinds of things.
So initially it was, and still is To remind myself of that sexual being inside. Being seen and having the power of my sexuality recognised is thrilling. It’s why I ver rarely post a face (unless it’s friends only) or genetalia. I still take them primarily for myself, or the occasional friend 😜. That’s clear by the amount I take that I don’t ever post |
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It doesn't really inspire any great feelings.
It's a nice feeling to get compliments occasionally. It doesn't mean all that much to me without any meaningful connection or _utual desire between us though. |
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By (user no longer on site) 16 weeks ago
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Think a face pic is harder to publish as genital or body no one knows you and then you are putting yourself out there once you put a face to the photos etc . |
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"How does being exposed make you feel?
Are you an exhibitionist, or the opposite, (my case) and you are struggling every time, so the feeling of being watched makes you excited and nervous
What kind of photo do you like to make public?
Are you waiting for likes (I am)
What is more difficult to post, a face pic or your genitalia?
Best wishes to all
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I don't post cock pics, I want to leave something to the imagination. My face pics are a bit not full on, far to hansom.
My pics are hoping for a message. |
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I pretty much make all my photos public I only have a couple of friends only..the majority of my photos are me out and about nothing really that sexual about them so they're not really that popular.. generally when I take a new photo I'll post it and because of fabs generous photo allowance I never delete the old ones. |
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By *edSirenWoman 16 weeks ago
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For me it’s a mixture of being a bit of an exhibitionist, completely body confident, and also having them represent the side of me I want to show. I love teasing in general, but with my pics I feel I can take that to wider audience and add to the fun of it all.
The only reason some are friends only and some are private is down to the tease in me… if I put all of my pics up they’d be hundreds! Better to save some for a thirst trap or 2 (hundred) 😁 |
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As some one else says, it's your shop window , people are more interested in looking at a photo then reading a 100 words. I guess to show I'm genuine and there's a variety of photos as I enjoy variety.
What kind of photo do you like to make public?
Creative, erotic quality photos.
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By (user no longer on site) OP 16 weeks ago
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"I enjoy taking pics to express my sexuality, that whole side of me that just isn’t recognised in real life. Everyone I know has seen me in a specific role of; wife, mother, daughter, carer. Those kinds of things.
So initially it was, and still is To remind myself of that sexual being inside. Being seen and having the power of my sexuality recognised is thrilling. It’s why I ver rarely post a face (unless it’s friends only) or genetalia. I still take them primarily for myself, or the occasional friend 😜. That’s clear by the amount I take that I don’t ever post "
Good, deep observation. Thank you. 🌷
For me is also an expression of something that has been hidden for so long time. A liberation after make peace with my body late in my life. |
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I post face pics publicly most other pics are friends only.
I allow those two on my profile purely so people can see what I look like.
I'm not into sexually graphic pics as a rule so can be quite arty though |
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"I enjoy taking pics to express my sexuality, that whole side of me that just isn’t recognised in real life. Everyone I know has seen me in a specific role of; wife, mother, daughter, carer. Those kinds of things.
So initially it was, and still is To remind myself of that sexual being inside. Being seen and having the power of my sexuality recognised is thrilling. It’s why I ver rarely post a face (unless it’s friends only) or genetalia. I still take them primarily for myself, or the occasional friend 😜. That’s clear by the amount I take that I don’t ever post
Good, deep observation. Thank you. 🌷
For me is also an expression of something that has been hidden for so long time. A liberation after make peace with my body late in my life. "
I absolutely get that liberated feeling of “this is me” some people are lucky to always have that.
I never wore a bikini until I was in my 40s. A lifetime of being self conscious and hating what I saw |
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By (user no longer on site) 16 weeks ago
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"How does being exposed make you feel?
Are you an exhibitionist, or the opposite, (my case) and you are struggling every time, so the feeling of being watched makes you excited and nervous
What kind of photo do you like to make public?
Are you waiting for likes (I am)
What is more difficult to post, a face pic or your genitalia?
Best wishes to all
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Knowing others have looked at the part of me that is usually hidden from the public gaze is a turn on for me, made all the more special if i get a fab or a comment x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 16 weeks ago
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"How does being exposed make you feel?
Are you an exhibitionist, or the opposite, (my case) and you are struggling every time, so the feeling of being watched makes you excited and nervous
What kind of photo do you like to make public?
Are you waiting for likes (I am)
What is more difficult to post, a face pic or your genitalia?
Best wishes to all
Knowing others have looked at the part of me that is usually hidden from the public gaze is a turn on for me, made all the more special if i get a fab or a comment x"
Done |
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By (user no longer on site) 16 weeks ago
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"How does being exposed make you feel?
Are you an exhibitionist, or the opposite, (my case) and you are struggling every time, so the feeling of being watched makes you excited and nervous
What kind of photo do you like to make public?
Are you waiting for likes (I am)
What is more difficult to post, a face pic or your genitalia?
Best wishes to all
Knowing others have looked at the part of me that is usually hidden from the public gaze is a turn on for me, made all the more special if i get a fab or a comment x
Done "
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"How does being exposed make you feel?
Knowing others have looked at the part of me that is usually hidden from the public gaze is a turn on for me, made all the more special if i get a fab or a comment x"
This…the exposure / vulnerability / embarrassment / shame are a real thrill…strange really! |
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I post neither my full face on public or my genitals at all. I prefer suggestive over graphic, and I value my privacy from some people on here.
I am a bit of an exhibitionist yes, that's probably the main reason I post so many pics. I like people looking at me. |
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I find I get more interaction when I post a pic. A wink or views or sometimes a message etc, so that helps! Plus probably a bit of an exhibitionist too. I’m also batting the fine gentleman above in the bum competition too |
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"I find I get more interaction when I post a pic. A wink or views or sometimes a message etc, so that helps! Plus probably a bit of an exhibitionist too. I’m also batting the fine gentleman above in the bum competition too "
It makes sense. Stay relevant? It worked for the Kardashians.
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We post them mostly because we enjoy taking them and then receiving compliments on them.
Then there’s times like now that we’re actively trying to garner attention because we’re seeking new connections and posting pictures has always worked out well for this. |
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By *eliWoman 5 weeks ago
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Because I want to. Sometimes they remind me of a particular moment, person/people.
They help me find people who find me attractive.
And like every person here, I'm seeking attention. Pictures are one way of doing it. |
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By *egnMaxCouple 5 weeks ago
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It’s fun taking them as a couple. Posing. Dressing up (or clothes off.)
We have a right laugh doing it.
Then picking the ones to put out there and where - and deleting those that aren’t flattering or (worse still) have a family photo or an interloping dog in the background. |
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By *fffunCouple 5 weeks ago
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Mrs here and a complete exhibitionist... I love that the photo is appreciated and to know someone is getting off on it somewhere... Always find it easier to make the body pose a certain way than the face.... Havnt mastered the face pics yet 😂. but face pics dnt get posted only for Mr. Plus a good photo makes me feel good about myself... One day I will look back at my younger self and think... Damn! I look back at my pics of me in my 20s and I appreciate and love my body more now than ever...(even though I cNt belive I felt it wasn't, when looking back it so was! ) So if I take a hot pic I'm damn well going to post it! 😂 |
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