"A few reply not many, try to read profiles but not Mary's cup of tea I suppose haha
Hampshire is the equivalent of a black hole in swinging term's, it's void."
Ahhhh I just chat randomly now but as you said it is like it's void haha |
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OP has same problem as me, I'm on South Coast also, in Hastings.
For Fab, jobs, housing etc we are automatically at a disadvantage because we have 180 degrees of sea surrounding us.
So if you are prepared to travel say 30 miles for a job etc you only got a half circle in which to operate, because the rest of its sea!
Fab wise, I've never had a meet and just do the forums now. I would only be prepared to travel 15 miles for a meet. Factor that in with been surrounded by 180 degrees os sea, the fact that Bexhill on Sea is the next town with an elderly population and I've limited my prderences to 60 years old.
In Fab terms I'm f**ked but not in the way I expectd, so I just stick to the forums now. |
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Most people are not mutually compatible and so will not reply to you. It's just a reflection of reality, rather than anything more about you. Keep engaging and get out socially, to clubs and socials  |
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"OP has same problem as me, I'm on South Coast also, in Hastings.
For Fab, jobs, housing etc we are automatically at a disadvantage because we have 180 degrees of sea surrounding us.
So if you are prepared to travel say 30 miles for a job etc you only got a half circle in which to operate, because the rest of its sea!
Fab wise, I've never had a meet and just do the forums now. I would only be prepared to travel 15 miles for a meet. Factor that in with been surrounded by 180 degrees os sea, the fact that Bexhill on Sea is the next town with an elderly population and I've limited my prderences to 60 years old.
In Fab terms I'm f**ked but not in the way I expectd, so I just stick to the forums now."
Yes I agree it's so difficult tbh |
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"Most people are not mutually compatible and so will not reply to you. It's just a reflection of reality, rather than anything more about you. Keep engaging and get out socially, to clubs and socials "
So true thankyou |
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"We struggle to find other couples to meet around here as well just so many times waists "
I'm shocked as people say take the time to read n ask questions etc, you do and it still no better really haha |
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"The fab curse is never connecting with someone local to you.
You’ve also got to remember that you’ll only appeal to a small proportion of the membership, just like in real life. "
Yeah that's true also, I guess it's a big pond to pick from isn't it |
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