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ladies of fab would you say a guy who can handle rejection well is very attractive?

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By (user no longer on site) OP 26 weeks ago

so for example if you said no thanks to a guy who messaged you and he wished you well on fab and was not rude. would you find that attractive

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By *parkle1974Woman 26 weeks ago

Leeds

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By *parkle1974Woman 26 weeks ago

Leeds

Polite but unnecessary maybe but definitely not attractive

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By *atnip make me purrWoman 26 weeks ago

Reading

That's the usual response I get but I've already said no thanks so it doesn't change my mind.

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By *naswingdressWoman 26 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)

No. It's a bit like a guy who can wipe their arse all by themselves. It's a requirement, but you're not going to win any prizes.

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By (user no longer on site) 26 weeks ago

I don’t see how someone handling rejection well would make me attracted to them, when I’ve already told them I’m not….

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By *GoodGirlGemxCouple 26 weeks ago

Glasgow

I would find it polite but it wouldn’t make him attractive to me if if already said no

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By *erdyEstLdner 82Man 26 weeks ago

Ilford

Not being a dick when being rejected should be the default. However if you're being rejected, handling it well isn't really going to change the mind of the person rejecting you. Move on to the next person.

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By *exxyyDy11Man 26 weeks ago

North West

I don't think attractive is the right word. Appreciation perhaps is a better word.

I mean better than being a dick, right? Not the end of the world if you're not someone's type. Just wish them well and move on.

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By *B..Woman 26 weeks ago

Wiltshire

No I would just delete and not give him a second thought.

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By *icecouple561Couple 26 weeks ago
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East Sussex

I find it the adult thing to do.

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By *ngrylookingpenis123Woman 26 weeks ago

Shows they have maturity, it doesn't make them any more attractive to me, but I find the politeness appreciated, and often makes me smile.

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By *effdelightMan 26 weeks ago

Grimsby

No. If they've been rejected they're gonna wonder why. Nature

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By *hoirCouple 26 weeks ago

Clacton/Bury St. Edmunds

"No. It's a bit like a guy who can wipe their arse all by themselves. It's a requirement, but you're not going to win any prizes. "

Actually I got a second place ribbon at the Arse Wiping Championships back in 2002. I got £50 prize money and was only beaten by a guy with a fancy Japanese toilet!

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By *aybeLadyWoman 26 weeks ago

West Dublin

Not attractive. Just polite & I appreciate that.

Some guys use my no thanks as an In however 🤦‍♀️ Not a cue for persisting lads.

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