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By *loss aka Miss Jones OP   Woman 25 weeks ago

south coast IOW

Over the years I’ve come to the conclusion most users have never read the rules or FAQ on FAB. So what rules/guidance etc on fab do you regularly see broken. I’ll start.

The request not to post that daft legal disclaimer that means nothing.

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By (user no longer on site) 25 weeks ago

Sorry I got distracted by then wonderful boobs 😂im not sure how to answer this

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By *loss aka Miss Jones OP   Woman 25 weeks ago

south coast IOW


"Sorry I got distracted by then wonderful boobs 😂im not sure how to answer this "

🙄

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By (user no longer on site) 25 weeks ago

The legal disclaimer is just to cover there own back i think

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By *loss aka Miss Jones OP   Woman 25 weeks ago

south coast IOW


"The legal disclaimer is just to cover there own back i think"

No fab actually ask people NOT to put it on their profiles because it means sod all and just takes up space. That’s the type of thing I mean.

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By *igboobstCouple 25 weeks ago

barrow


"Over the years I’ve come to the conclusion most users have never read the rules or FAQ on FAB. So what rules/guidance etc on fab do you regularly see broken. I’ll start.

The request not to post that daft legal disclaimer that means nothing. "

Been on here over 10years and not read either tbf so no doubt flouting rules left right and chelsea 😂😂

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By *loss aka Miss Jones OP   Woman 25 weeks ago

south coast IOW


"Over the years I’ve come to the conclusion most users have never read the rules or FAQ on FAB. So what rules/guidance etc on fab do you regularly see broken. I’ll start.

The request not to post that daft legal disclaimer that means nothing.

Been on here over 10years and not read either tbf so no doubt flouting rules left right and chelsea 😂😂"

lol. Some you get a ban for or a short ban so you would know if you broke those.

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By *igboobstCouple 25 weeks ago

barrow


"Over the years I’ve come to the conclusion most users have never read the rules or FAQ on FAB. So what rules/guidance etc on fab do you regularly see broken. I’ll start.

The request not to post that daft legal disclaimer that means nothing.

Been on here over 10years and not read either tbf so no doubt flouting rules left right and chelsea 😂😂

lol. Some you get a ban for or a short ban so you would know if you broke those. "

phew that's good to know 😅 😄

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By *loss aka Miss Jones OP   Woman 25 weeks ago

south coast IOW

‘The photos must be yours and you must be in the photos. You must be in any photo you upload. This means that photos of your bike/car/dildo collection for example, will be rejected unless you are in the photo too.’

I also see this one broken fairly often. Particularly the bit about ‘you must be in the photo’.

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By *igboobstCouple 25 weeks ago

barrow


"‘The photos must be yours and you must be in the photos. You must be in any photo you upload. This means that photos of your bike/car/dildo collection for example, will be rejected unless you are in the photo too.’

I also see this one broken fairly

often. Particularly the bit about ‘you must be in the photo’. "

we've had photos rejected because of us not being in the photo or a pic with 2 women's faces in and wonder how some slip past the net but it must be a full time job policing the sheer volume of pics that get uploaded on an hourly basis xxx

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By *loss aka Miss Jones OP   Woman 25 weeks ago

south coast IOW


"‘The photos must be yours and you must be in the photos. You must be in any photo you upload. This means that photos of your bike/car/dildo collection for example, will be rejected unless you are in the photo too.’

I also see this one broken fairly

often. Particularly the bit about ‘you must be in the photo’. we've had photos rejected because of us not being in the photo or a pic with 2 women's faces in and wonder how some slip past the net but it must be a full time job policing the sheer volume of pics that get uploaded on an hourly basis xxx"

Oh I don’t doubt it. I’ve seen shout outs on many occasions for more admin to approve pics etc. the sheer volume must be crazy. I too have had pics rejected for breaching one or other rules and had a chat ban for an hour when a kink chat used words it shouldn’t a year or so back. That’s why I went back and re read them.

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By *ealitybitesMan 25 weeks ago

Belfast

There are a surprising number of people happy to discuss private messages when it clearly states in the forum rules that this isn't allowed.

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By *allySlinkyWoman 25 weeks ago

Leeds

Naming and Shaming

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By *ude LawMan 25 weeks ago

Harrogate

"Do not get the forum wet

Do not expose your profile to direct sunlight.

Do not feed Midnight after midnight."

I must admit these all surprised me.

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By (user no longer on site) 25 weeks ago


"The legal disclaimer is just to cover there own back i think"

But has it any backbone would it stand up in court?

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By (user no longer on site) 25 weeks ago

I never break any rules. I’m a good girl 😇

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By *all me FlikWoman 25 weeks ago

Galaxy Far Far Away


"The legal disclaimer is just to cover there own back i think

But has it any backbone would it stand up in court? "

No...especially the ones that say that Facebook is now a publicly traded entity.

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By *itygamesMan 25 weeks ago

UK

Here's the rules for the chatroom. These rules are enforced by the chatroom moderators (who have a * after their names). Everything that is said in the chatroom is recorded (including private messages) so to ensure that these rules are being followed.

By using your webcam you are allowing anyone in the room to view what is displayed on it. No one who is (or appears to be) under the age of 18 can be displayed on camera (even if they appear in the background) or heard on audio.

You may not display anything illegal on your webcam.

No video or stills: If your cam is on it should be showing a live feed, not a slideshow of pics, not a video.

You may not direct people on cam to do something in particular, apart from in the Directing Room which is for people who want comments and to be told what to do. To be clear, directing can include suggesting or asking e.g. "could I see your tits?" is considered directing just as "show us your tits" is.

Unless you're in the directing room, you can't specifically ask to be directed (told what to do) because it makes things impossible for the moderators. For clarity, "playing" and appearing on cam nude in non-directing rooms are fine but specifically asking people to direct you (tell you what to do) in those rooms is not OK and the moderators will ask you to move to the directing room.

Flooding the room with characters (e.g. 11111111111111111111111111111111111's) or persistantly flooooooodddddddddddddiiiiiiingggggggggggg itttttttttttttttt withhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh extra letters is annoying for the other users and will get you a timeout so please don't do it

Don't use ALL CAPITALS BECAUSE IT LOOKS LIKE SHOUTING.

Don't post phone numbers (or kik/whatsapp or similar) in the chatroom.

Other members of the chatroom must be treated with respect at all times.

To protect our users from spam, do not post any web addresses or email / IM address / skype / kik / whatsapp or similar in chat (if you need to share your email or IM address you should do so by private message).

Please don't use the chat room to dispute current or past chat bans or moderation because it spoils the room for other users and it's unfair on the mods who are all volunteers. We understand that sometimes mistakes and mis-judgements do happen and welcome feedback directly.

Any other behaviour which a moderator believes to be disruptive, offensive or otherwise inappropriate for this site.

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By *aomilatteCouple 25 weeks ago

Midlands

Verifications are supposed to be when you've met someone, there's even a warning when sending one. However many are ficticious.

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By *lik and PaulCouple 25 weeks ago

cahoots

Posting images that are against site rules are rife this morning including stock pictures from the web, people in the background and what looks like a reel of holiday snaps from France with no one in the pictures. As someone said earlier it's almost an impossible job for the Mods so report them when you find them to help out.

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By *enrietteandSamCouple 25 weeks ago

Brum

Nude is the law.

You must respect the authority.

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By *arahfromwarringtonTV/TS 25 weeks ago

warrington

There should be a rule “No knobheads”, but there evidently isn’t.

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By (user no longer on site) 25 weeks ago


"Posting images that are against site rules are rife this morning including stock pictures from the web, people in the background and what looks like a reel of holiday snaps from France with no one in the pictures. As someone said earlier it's almost an impossible job for the Mods so report them when you find them to help out."

I saw a picture of a women sitting in a pub comando and you could see the faces of the people on the table behind. How did that ever get passed.

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By *enrietteandSamCouple 25 weeks ago

Brum

All repeat threads must ascend in perfect numeric order.

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By *illy IdolMan 25 weeks ago

Midlands

The rules are actually quite difficult to find, so I'm not surprised they're constantly broken.

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By *midnight-Woman 25 weeks ago

...


""Do not get the forum wet

Do not expose your profile to direct sunlight.

Do not feed Midnight after midnight."

I must admit these all surprised me."

😳😳😳😳😳😳😳

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By *ugby 123Couple 25 weeks ago
Forum Mod

O o O oo


"The rules are actually quite difficult to find, so I'm not surprised they're constantly broken."

Which rules can I help you find

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By *illy IdolMan 25 weeks ago

Midlands


"The rules are actually quite difficult to find, so I'm not surprised they're constantly broken.

Which rules can I help you find "

All of them😇

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By *rHotNottsMan 25 weeks ago

Dubai & Nottingham


"Posting images that are against site rules are rife this morning including stock pictures from the web, people in the background and what looks like a reel of holiday snaps from France with no one in the pictures. As someone said earlier it's almost an impossible job for the Mods so report them when you find them to help out."

Why is it an impossible task to click decline instead of approved on a picture of a holidays? I would’ve thought it’s very easy for moderators to know the rules themselves are not approved. That photo. Unless I’m missing something.?

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By *UGGYBEAR2015Man 25 weeks ago

BRIDPORT

I’m a rule breaker, and I’ve had the holidays to prove it

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By (user no longer on site) 25 weeks ago

Rules schmules

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By *esYesOMGYes!Man 25 weeks ago

Didsbury

I had a forum ban for revealing the age that I lost my virginity.

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By *es not the MessiahMan 25 weeks ago

3rd rock from the sun

I'm behaving

Honest

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By *allySlinkyWoman 25 weeks ago

Leeds


"I had a forum ban for revealing the age that I lost my virginity."

Because the age you posted is an illegal act

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By *ugby 123Couple 25 weeks ago
Forum Mod

O o O oo


"The rules are actually quite difficult to find, so I'm not surprised they're constantly broken.

Which rules can I help you find

All of them😇"

https://www.fabswingers.com/content/forum-rules

Can be found above the box you write in to post.

https://www.fabswingers.com/webchat/rules

Can be found on the chat link along the top of the screen ( on desktop )or from the link which goes in chat every few minutes.

https://www.fabswingers.com/articles/Terms

Can be found along the bottom of the screen.

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By *illy IdolMan 25 weeks ago

Midlands


"The rules are actually quite difficult to find, so I'm not surprised they're constantly broken.

Which rules can I help you find

All of them😇

https://www.fabswingers.com/content/forum-rules

Can be found above the box you write in to post.

https://www.fabswingers.com/webchat/rules

Can be found on the chat link along the top of the screen ( on desktop )or from the link which goes in chat every few minutes.

https://www.fabswingers.com/articles/Terms

Can be found along the bottom of the screen. "

So that's where they are. Thank you

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By *ugby 123Couple 25 weeks ago
Forum Mod

O o O oo

Report any pics that break rules please and they will be sorted. I know, people think they shouldn't be approved in the first place, but pic mods are humans

You should see how many pics a day that are correctly approved, it is a hugeeee amount

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By *ora the explorerWoman 25 weeks ago

Paradise, Herts


"Report any pics that break rules please and they will be sorted. I know, people think they shouldn't be approved in the first place, but pic mods are humans

You should see how many pics a day that are correctly approved, it is a hugeeee amount "

Do you have to literally approve every single one?! 😳. Or do they flag up as dodgy

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By *ugby 123Couple 25 weeks ago
Forum Mod

O o O oo


"Report any pics that break rules please and they will be sorted. I know, people think they shouldn't be approved in the first place, but pic mods are humans

You should see how many pics a day that are correctly approved, it is a hugeeee amount

Do you have to literally approve every single one?! 😳. Or do they flag up as dodgy "

Nope, they are approved manually by mods. The amount as I say that gets approved daily is immense so I can understand there are mistakes made.

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By *loss aka Miss Jones OP   Woman 25 weeks ago

south coast IOW


"There are a surprising number of people happy to discuss private messages when it clearly states in the forum rules that this isn't allowed."

Yes I’ve seen this too.

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By *loss aka Miss Jones OP   Woman 25 weeks ago

south coast IOW


""Do not get the forum wet

Do not expose your profile to direct sunlight.

Do not feed Midnight after midnight."

I must admit these all surprised me."

😂😂😂😂😂

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By *loss aka Miss Jones OP   Woman 25 weeks ago

south coast IOW


"The legal disclaimer is just to cover there own back i think

But has it any backbone would it stand up in court? "

Absolutely not. That’s why they ask you not to post it. You decide what you put as a public picture.

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By *ympho6969Woman 25 weeks ago

glasgow

I have been asked several times to exchange sex for money. I always report and block but not sure everyone does.

This is not the place for that and cheapens it imo.

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By *loss aka Miss Jones OP   Woman 25 weeks ago

south coast IOW


"Here's the rules for the chatroom. These rules are enforced by the chatroom moderators (who have a * after their names). Everything that is said in the chatroom is recorded (including private messages) so to ensure that these rules are being followed.

By using your webcam you are allowing anyone in the room to view what is displayed on it. No one who is (or appears to be) under the age of 18 can be displayed on camera (even if they appear in the background) or heard on audio.

You may not display anything illegal on your webcam.

No video or stills: If your cam is on it should be showing a live feed, not a slideshow of pics, not a video.

You may not direct people on cam to do something in particular, apart from in the Directing Room which is for people who want comments and to be told what to do. To be clear, directing can include suggesting or asking e.g. "could I see your tits?" is considered directing just as "show us your tits" is.

Unless you're in the directing room, you can't specifically ask to be directed (told what to do) because it makes things impossible for the moderators. For clarity, "playing" and appearing on cam nude in non-directing rooms are fine but specifically asking people to direct you (tell you what to do) in those rooms is not OK and the moderators will ask you to move to the directing room.

Flooding the room with characters (e.g. 11111111111111111111111111111111111's) or persistantly flooooooodddddddddddddiiiiiiingggggggggggg itttttttttttttttt withhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh extra letters is annoying for the other users and will get you a timeout so please don't do it

Don't use ALL CAPITALS BECAUSE IT LOOKS LIKE SHOUTING.

Don't post phone numbers (or kik/whatsapp or similar) in the chatroom.

Other members of the chatroom must be treated with respect at all times.

To protect our users from spam, do not post any web addresses or email / IM address / skype / kik / whatsapp or similar in chat (if you need to share your email or IM address you should do so by private message).

Please don't use the chat room to dispute current or past chat bans or moderation because it spoils the room for other users and it's unfair on the mods who are all volunteers. We understand that sometimes mistakes and mis-judgements do happen and welcome feedback directly.

Any other behaviour which a moderator believes to be disruptive, offensive or otherwise inappropriate for this site."

Wonder if anyone will read it now. 😁

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By *loss aka Miss Jones OP   Woman 25 weeks ago

south coast IOW


"Verifications are supposed to be when you've met someone, there's even a warning when sending one. However many are ficticious."

Yes but I guess if you are a liar and willing to post fictitious verifications then you won’t care about rule breaking. Fortunately most people can see through them and don’t fall for it I think.

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By *loss aka Miss Jones OP   Woman 25 weeks ago

south coast IOW


"Posting images that are against site rules are rife this morning including stock pictures from the web, people in the background and what looks like a reel of holiday snaps from France with no one in the pictures. As someone said earlier it's almost an impossible job for the Mods so report them when you find them to help out."

👍👍

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By *loss aka Miss Jones OP   Woman 25 weeks ago

south coast IOW


"The rules are actually quite difficult to find, so I'm not surprised they're constantly broken."

I think you are right. I think I initially stumbled across them years ago when wanting to ask admin a question.

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By *loss aka Miss Jones OP   Woman 25 weeks ago

south coast IOW


"I have been asked several times to exchange sex for money. I always report and block but not sure everyone does.

This is not the place for that and cheapens it imo.

"

I totally agree. I think anything like that should be reported because it spoils the site for genuine swingers and I do report anyone who contacts me offering money

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS 25 weeks ago

Chichester

What rules

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By *enelope2UWoman 25 weeks ago

Doesn't matter cant block distances

[Removed by poster at 16/02/25 15:37:24]

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By *enelope2UWoman 25 weeks ago

Doesn't matter cant block distances

can't post exact locations.. yet there's ENTIRE threads called what three words..

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By *atty CoramWoman 25 weeks ago

Wimbledon

No reply is a reply.

Th amount of affronted people who insist upon acknowledgement *it only takes a minute to type no thanks*

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By *loss aka Miss Jones OP   Woman 25 weeks ago

south coast IOW


"can't post exact locations.. yet there's ENTIRE threads called what three words..

"

I actually didn’t know this one myself so thanks for that.

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By *loss aka Miss Jones OP   Woman 25 weeks ago

south coast IOW


"No reply is a reply.

Th amount of affronted people who insist upon acknowledgement *it only takes a minute to type no thanks*

"

Very true. I do actually try to always reply but it can get a bit ludicrous when my age limit is 45 youngest and I get 20yr olds messaging. Always followed by ‘I figured it was worth taking a chance’ when I point out literally the first sentence of my profile I am very tempted to just ignore those messages, after all if I wanted younger I’d lower my limits 😂😂.

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