So, I was wondering. If you reach out to a profile and when they send face pics, you really aren’t finding them attractive - do you just not reply, or do you honestly and respectfully say to them you aren’t attracted?
Is there etiquette on this? Not sure which is better? |
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"So, I was wondering. If you reach out to a profile and when they send face pics, you really aren’t finding them attractive - do you just not reply, or do you honestly and respectfully say to them you aren’t attracted?
Is there etiquette on this? Not sure which is better?"
"No thanks" is always nice |
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As you asked for the pics and nothing else has been discussed just be polite and say something like, ' thanks for that, it's always nice when people are happy to send their pics. When I have time for a meet with you, I will get back. Thanks again. |
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"So, I was wondering. If you reach out to a profile and when they send face pics, you really aren’t finding them attractive - do you just not reply, or do you honestly and respectfully say to them you aren’t attracted?
Is there etiquette on this? Not sure which is better?
"No thanks" is always nice"
Men very frequently say that a 'no thanks' would be nice but in reality if someone asks for a pic and then says 'no thanks' ........ it's pretty insulting.
It's just the same as saying , I have the horn and I want sex ......... oof not with you though.
There are other ways of saying it....
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"As you asked for the pics and nothing else has been discussed just be polite and say something like, ' thanks for that, it's always nice when people are happy to send their pics. When I have time for a meet with you, I will get back. Thanks again. "
We didn’t ask for the pics!…. |
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I prefer to tell people if they’re not for me, in a kind and polite manner.
To just not respond, in my opinion, is a bit rude and hurtful. It just leaves people unsure. So a polite “you’re not quite what I’m looking for but I wish you all the best.” Is fine.
If you were out or in a club you wouldn’t just ignore someone, would you? |
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"As you asked for the pics and nothing else has been discussed just be polite and say something like, ' thanks for that, it's always nice when people are happy to send their pics. When I have time for a meet with you, I will get back. Thanks again.
We didn’t ask for the pics!…."
Your first line said ' when you reach out' ....
If you didn't ask for the pics there is no need to say anything.
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