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would you say black guys on here have a better chance at meets than white guys?
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OP, no offence. I've checked your green arrows and you seem to get quite irritated by people who have racial preferences. All I can say is focus on yourself, and if you feel like you're getting nowhere. Than maybe fab isn't for you. And I'm sure Black guys have it as tough as the rest of us. |
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By *inkShyWoman 25 weeks ago
near Windsor |
"sorry just seems like so many people here want either black men or a type of white guy that is muscular and/or tattooed. just tough on here "
I think people that have information on their profile have a better chance at meeting than those that have nothing.
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"sorry just seems like so many people here want black men "
Unlike you, living in Walsall, I live in an area with very few black guys around, however, many profiles local to me state a preference for black men. I just block them, and move on to others I'm more likely to match with.
I suggest you get acquainted with your own block button OP, and remove those profiles you don't match. Fab will become a much more rewarding/enjoyable place for you I'm sure....   |
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"sorry just seems like so many people here want either black men or a type of white guy that is muscular and/or tattooed. just tough on here "
I can tell you for a fact that being a black man, muscular and/or tattooed or not makes no difference whatsoever. I have 2 out of 3 of these what you mentioned. I reach out to people cold and get the same response or lack thereof as you are getting.
My block list is full or profiles who state “Caucasian/white men/BWC only” or “No black guys/BBC” |
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OP. What's with the profile? You seem like you want to put in the minimum amount of effort but get the maximum amount of attention.
Are you really wondering why you might be finding it tough on here. You could be the best kept secret on here and no one would ever know!
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By *rLicksMan 25 weeks ago
Worcester |
OP…. Totally agree with you…. Black guys have a better chance of meeting those who have a preference for black guys.
However… if you open your eyes you will see that not everyone is seeking black men only… therefore level playing field?
Everyone has preferences - some like black, others don’t, some like white, others don’t, some like Asians, others don’t…. I’m sure I don’t need to list every racial preference there may be.
Some also like tall, some like profiles with pics, some like cheese on toast  |
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By *host63Man 25 weeks ago
Bedfont Feltham |
"Yes it's the number one female fantasy.
At parties i have seen white women literally beg black guys to F*uck them and in vanilla settings too.
Is what it is."
And like everything it's a matter of preference which I have no problem with at sll because While it'd not set in stone I am more attracted to some than others and accept that I wouldn't be attractive to a lot of women too.
That's life |
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"sorry just seems like so many people here want either black men or a type of white guy that is muscular and/or tattooed. just tough on here "
It's tough on here if anyone is going round and round in circles of negativity and blaming others for their own perceived lack of success..
Isn't an attractive look regardless of gender, age, marital status, sexuality etc..
Concentrating on those who will meet is a better use of ones time and energy.. |
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By (user no longer on site) 25 weeks ago
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"‘Anyone else jealous of Black men’
Only entitled white men.
Hate us cos they ain’t us
They just don't think they should ever not be number 1 in anything."
If I speak I’ll be in big big trouble. |
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"Yes it's the number one female fantasy.
At parties i have seen white women literally beg black guys to F*uck them and in vanilla settings too.
Is what it is.
And like everything it's a matter of preference which I have no problem with at sll because While it'd not set in stone I am more attracted to some than others and accept that I wouldn't be attractive to a lot of women too.
That's life"
You know what all women's number one fantasy is, as a man? |
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"Yes it's the number one female fantasy.
At parties i have seen white women literally beg black guys to F*uck them and in vanilla settings too.
Is what it is."
Lol quite wild odds there
I woukd comfortably say that out of the hundreds of people I have met over the years prob less than 30% expressed interest in non white persons.
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"sorry just seems like so many people here want either black men or a type of white guy that is muscular and/or tattooed. just tough on here
I can tell you for a fact that being a black man, muscular and/or tattooed or not makes no difference whatsoever. I have 2 out of 3 of these what you mentioned. I reach out to people cold and get the same response or lack thereof as you are getting.
My block list is full or profiles who state “Caucasian/white men/BWC only” or “No black guys/BBC” "
There we go OP. Black guys have it as tough as the rest of us. See you can rest easy now. Just relax and stop worrying about other people. |
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"Yes it's the number one female fantasy.
At parties i have seen white women literally beg black guys to F*uck them and in vanilla settings too.
Is what it is.
And like everything it's a matter of preference which I have no problem with at sll because While it'd not set in stone I am more attracted to some than others and accept that I wouldn't be attractive to a lot of women too.
That's life
You know what all women's number one fantasy is?...Willy Idol "
Tis true  |
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"Yes it's the number one female fantasy."
Where did you get that statistic from? It’s not the number one fantasy for me or any of my female friends. I’m sure it will be for some women but I think ‘number one female fantasy’ is a stretch... |
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By *inkShyWoman 25 weeks ago
near Windsor |
"Yes it's the number one female fantasy.
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No, it isn't.
Our number one fantasy is a person that's a sex God/Goddess, does the dishes, helps with chores, doesn't leave wet towels everywhere, can cook, understands mood swings, and tells us we are pretty. |
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"Yes it's the number one female fantasy.
No, it isn't.
Our number one fantasy is a person that's a sex God/Goddess, does the dishes, helps with chores, doesn't leave wet towels everywhere, can cook, understands mood swings, and tells us we are pretty. "
The truth. Right there ⬆️ |
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By (user no longer on site) 25 weeks ago
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When you go to the pub or a bar or a club it's likely a woman would find half those people attractive and the other half not.. just like a guy would..
Fab is just another bar or pub.. if someone enjoys the company of someone a certain race that is simply an attraction they have.
Don't take it personally OP and like others have said focus on your own positive traits and others will soon see them as well  |
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"When you go to the pub or a bar or a club it's likely a woman would find half those people attractive and the other half not.. just like a guy would..
Fab is just another bar or pub.. if someone enjoys the company of someone a certain race that is simply an attraction they have.
Don't take it personally OP and like others have said focus on your own positive traits and others will soon see them as well "
everyone has some sort of preference (which should be respected) but op hasn't even made an effort with his profile! You've got to give yourself a fighting chance if you want to get anywhere. |
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A bit like busty blondes maybe.
I don't keep a check on the situation, black guys aren't that particularly in demand, neither are muscular guys.
But looking at it logically if you went to the market to buy some fruit n veg you'd pick the ones you prefer and fancy, some you wouldn't bother with.
It's preference and personal taste, not worth taking it personally, life's too short. |
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"I don't know if black guys have better chance but a lot of time when people find out i'm south asian, they stop replying.
How do they find out ?"
While chatting,not everybody but quite a few people do ask if I'm asian. |
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