Yup, that's a pretty common feeling.
While I was even more in the closet than I am these days (still not out at work yet) it was a lot harder. But in 2023 I went away to Bologna with the choir I sing with for a week and it was the longest I've ever been able to just be me... it was the best week ever. But the crash when I had to boy-mode again to go into work the following week... 😢 |
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Ahhh yes...the come down....get it every time...I think all us part timers get it... it's not so bad if I've just dressed up for a meet...but when I've been out in a party atmosphere.. it's far worse... |
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I’m staying in Blackpool on Saturday in which I’ll be dressed all day. So looking forward to just dressing and socialising as it’s been awhile since I last went out.
So I can imagine the drive back on Sunday to be a bit somber.  |
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You know, if the stars align, it's not impossible.
I did it for years more often than boymoding Bertie I came out.
Leggings with your boy t-shirts, boho skirts, sarongs in the summer...
Honestly nobody gave a fuck and I only ever got compliments.
I'm not saying it's right for you, just eating is do-able because I did it lol |
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"I’m staying in Blackpool on Saturday in which I’ll be dressed all day. So looking forward to just dressing and socialising as it’s been awhile since I last went out.
So I can imagine the drive back on Sunday to be a bit somber. "
You'll have a great time there though xx |
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Worst for me is driving back home after LFF I just hate going back home to the real world, the most I’ve spent continuously as “Paula “ is 3 days by the end of the 3rd day I couldn’t wait to get back to reality there’s no way I could dress 24/7 |
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"I’m staying in Blackpool on Saturday in which I’ll be dressed all day. So looking forward to just dressing and socialising as it’s been awhile since I last went out.
So I can imagine the drive back on Sunday to be a bit somber.
You'll have a great time there though xx"
getting all my gear ready tonight x  |
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