For me, suck it up. Realise the person is there with me because they like my body and focus on that. Performance is less of an issue for girls though.
I've known plenty of men have performance issues in the bedroom. It only bothers me when they get in their head and stress out about it. I'm happy to do other fun things while that part isn't up for playing 💜 |
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I often find my brain gets in the way of my body cooperating properly. Sexual arousal increases awareness of that part of my body being the wrong kind, killing the arousal... Turns into a race between brain and body but too often body can't get over the finishing line ☹️ Viagra can help, but not always enough as it's primarily a mental problem not physical.
But at least I can use other means to ensure that the gorgeous person next to me gets to her finishing line, and for me that's the main thing ❤️ |
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I would agree a mental problem but it's also exacerbated by the need to please and speed, never have a problem when there's no time restriction and you can enjoy foreplay and things come to life, if you're wanting a quickie things go wrong. |
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