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Do you do well on this site?
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By (user no longer on site) 22 weeks ago
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I do ok, not just to meet people and have sex. Also meeting people platonically, is awesome.
That said, I’m not really feeling it just lately, and fancy a period of UNLOS. Got a few things on my mind. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 22 weeks ago
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"You get what you put in...
I enjoy the site for its resources into swinging and kink based events.
I enjoy the community, images, forum discussions and chat rooms.
I could meet when I choose to.
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Does everyone get what they put in |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 22 weeks ago
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"I do ok, not just to meet people and have sex. Also meeting people platonically, is awesome.
That said, I’m not really feeling it just lately, and fancy a period of UNLOS. Got a few things on my mind. "
I hear you John. I really do. Hope you stay though |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 22 weeks ago
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"I used this site as a swinging site, to meet up for sex.
The problem is too many people are using it as a social site. Which is bringing the site down and causing a lot of frustration. "
Yeah I’d like to be able to actually have sex sometimes. |
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I've had moments where I seem to do ok. Get replies, have a good chat. Even the occasional meet. But by golly it gets tougher and tougher.
I've just come back after a little break from Fab (which I do every few months to keep my sanity), and I'm already regretting it |
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By *1974TV/TS 22 weeks ago
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I do ok but the problem is so many time wasters a lot of people who just want to chat so that they can just have a wank does nothing for me and I’m allways on the look out for that special thing that is so elusive on here x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 22 weeks ago
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"I've had moments where I seem to do ok. Get replies, have a good chat. Even the occasional meet. But by golly it gets tougher and tougher.
I've just come back after a little break from Fab (which I do every few months to keep my sanity), and I'm already regretting it"
It’s tough for sure. But not sure anywhere else is any different. Real life, clubs, etc. yes it’s easier to have a chat but doesn’t always mean much. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 22 weeks ago
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"I do ok but the problem is so many time wasters a lot of people who just want to chat so that they can just have a wank does nothing for me and I’m allways on the look out for that special thing that is so elusive on here x "
Looking for something special on fab? Good luck x |
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I prefer 'dates' to meets, so I meet more people actually using other more mainstream sites. Am not here just for the sex.
In relation to a comment above, people can use this site however they wish. No one is 'bringing it down'. Plenty of users using it for all different things!! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 22 weeks ago
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"I prefer 'dates' to meets, so I meet more people actually using other more mainstream sites. Am not here just for the sex.
In relation to a comment above, people can use this site however they wish. No one is 'bringing it down'. Plenty of users using it for all different things!!"
Dates are great. I’ve had a few from here. But dating is definitely harder on here |
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By (user no longer on site) 22 weeks ago
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"How easy do you find it to get meets?
Do you enjoy the site for more than just a way to meet people to have sex with? "
I guess I do more than ok, I'd probably enjoy meeting more people if I had more time. I enjoy the community aspect of it and seeing familiar faces at events, as someone who always attends solo, it's comforting. Fab isn't my only outlet for meeting people for sex though.
I enjoy what the site offers. I'm happy with my profile and pics. I enjoy the forums, the interactions and shooting the breeze there. We may not all want the same thing but when things align, it's pretty damn good. |
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By (user no longer on site) 22 weeks ago
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I have been very fortunate to have some amazing fun on this site..
I think the trick is to not get upset if you are turned down and don't get too thirsty if your lucky to get some interest.
Easier said than done...  |
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By *bi HaiveMan 22 weeks ago
Forum Mod Cheeseville, Somerset |
"I used this site as a swinging site, to meet up for sex.
The problem is too many people are using it as a social site. Which is bringing the site down and causing a lot of frustration. "
Swinging is a social activity though.
Unless you're happy to just fuck anyone who asks.
There's nothing wrong with being social with others. It leads to good sex, repeat meets and some great nights out. 🤷♂️ |
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"You get what you put in...
I enjoy the site for its resources into swinging and kink based events.
I enjoy the community, images, forum discussions and chat rooms.
I could meet when I choose to.
Does everyone get what they put in"
Depends on what level of commitment you have...
If this is your Facebook/Instagram of social media and you are actively getting involved in the site and go to events and socials, network and meet active members. Then yes.
If you don't put the effort into profiles and image and just trawl the meets section hoping for a bite between 10,000 others. Probably not going to get much from it and will become disillusioned very quickly.
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Oh, terrible. Terrible terrible terrible.
The success rate of bumble bees and fields is simply a shit ton higher. Maybe it's because theres more people there, and it's less focussed on needing 10 inch to fuck the missus type mentalities - but this place is great for mindless chat and not much else.
*In London anyway. When I was in Manchester for a few weeks people were alot more responsive and seemed keen to meet. Big up the north.
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"How easy do you find it to get meets?
Do you enjoy the site for more than just a way to meet people to have sex with?
I guess I do more than ok, I'd probably enjoy meeting more people if I had more time. I enjoy the community aspect of it and seeing familiar faces at events, as someone who always attends solo, it's comforting. Fab isn't my only outlet for meeting people for sex though.
I enjoy what the site offers. I'm happy with my profile and pics. I enjoy the forums, the interactions and shooting the breeze there. We may not all want the same thing but when things align, it's pretty damn good."
I'm curious what other sites do you use? |
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By *inaTitzTV/TS 22 weeks ago
Titz Towers, North Notts |
I do extremely well on here.
I get a lot of meet requests. All of varying levels of plausibility, but amongst the 'meet me in a layby at 3AM 400 miles away' types, there are usually a lot of viable ones.
I also get invites to parties and events, which is truly lovely.
I've also found people to go out around bars with, which for a Tgirl is very useful.
Plus, it's given me a level of 'fame'. I can go to any club or out in most cities and there will be people who recognise me and come up to say hello. It's not quite Norm on Cheers, but it's great when you go somewhere and people are instantly friendly.
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By (user no longer on site) OP 22 weeks ago
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"Oh, terrible. Terrible terrible terrible.
The success rate of bumble bees and fields is simply a shit ton higher. Maybe it's because theres more people there, and it's less focussed on needing 10 inch to fuck the missus type mentalities - but this place is great for mindless chat and not much else.
*In London anyway. When I was in Manchester for a few weeks people were alot more responsive and seemed keen to meet. Big up the north.
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I don’t even do well on those apps anymore |
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I do as well as I want to, as in I've met some amazing people, I've had some invites to some fun club nights, and it's given me opportunities to try things I wouldn't have otherwise. I could meet more people, put more effort into my profile, and go to more club events, but I'm all good right now |
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By *lowupdollTV/TS 22 weeks ago
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"I do extremely well on here.
I get a lot of meet requests. All of varying levels of plausibility, but amongst the 'meet me in a layby at 3AM 400 miles away' types, there are usually a lot of viable ones.
I also get invites to parties and events, which is truly lovely.
I've also found people to go out around bars with, which for a Tgirl is very useful.
Plus, it's given me a level of 'fame'. I can go to any club or out in most cities and there will be people who recognise me and come up to say hello. It's not quite Norm on Cheers, but it's great when you go somewhere and people are instantly friendly.
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But Tina, how do they recognise you do easily? What gives it away?  |
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I was surprised on another thread where a lot of people said how many meets they'd had from this site (as opposed to clubs or socials) and my number of meets from messages was a lot higher. I don't mind meeting from messages and I guess I enjoy meeting a range of people. I wouldn't say I do 'well' though based on what it is I'm looking for. |
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I find it relatively easy to get meets but men do ghost you then reappear and just expect you to pick up where you left off.
Consistency and respect is key to me.
Also I do get messed about whilst trying to arrange a meet. If guys do that then I won't meet them.
There are some really lovely guys on here though. Thanks to them as I've had some really lovely times. Sadly so often they are from a distance so we can't see each other often.
There are some men who are drama and I've learned to filter them out slowly but surely.
I find organised monthly socials a really good way to meet people but because of my preference it's usually a friendship group rather than a place to meet a guy. They are very fun though!
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I do well. I usually get to meet the people I want to meet and that's as much as I could hope for. I have and have had incredible lovers and I've made real life friends that I spend time with regularly.
My profile is good and I get invited to parties and events so I feel like the scene is open to me.
In all honesty I meet more people through dating apps now. Partly because I'm more into the dating vibe at the moment and partly because I prefer staying close to home. Fab means travelling if one lives in the west of Ireland. |
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By (user no longer on site) 22 weeks ago
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No interest or meets , but I suppose I am new to this but in a old body , and with so many choices and options on here , i just think I’m probably not everyone’s cup of tea , however im stubborn I haven’t given up just yet and I am still hopeful
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It's like any site these days...driven by ' I want it now', 'You available ' and other such initial contacts ...
Some people just driven by spur of the moment impulses and if your not able to facilitate a meet you miss out ...
I have a life so if it fits in with my day fine,if not I'm not bothered ...
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"I find it VERY difficult to find what I am looking for.. and even harder to meet someone who doesn't want to meet with their fab partner
I've been right here for so long Midnight! 😘"
Brucey that's what every follow-up mail says - yet when I look at their profile and not a wiff of spanking to be found  |
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"This site has been brilliant for me. I am only interested in local fwbs and I have met some wonderful men for ongoing regular meets.
I enjoy the forums also."
Reading seems to be a good postcode! |
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When I had a couples account, we meet a few people for fun 😜
Now having a singles account I am currently using it to window shop… I’ll be in to quality not quantity, not looking for a relationship but on further reflection lately, maybe FWB… so prepared to wait until I find exactly what I’m looking for!
Currently happy chatting |
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I can be tough. Getting sex isn't the problem as I can easily go to a club, hit it off with the right person and let things go from there.
Actually meeting from Fab is a lot harder and find I need to make an effort to travel to make things work. But it's great meeting new people, even if only for a coffee or a drink and the onus is on me to then make more of it after that. |
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I’m happy with it ! I don’t find it hard to get meets if I take the effort to message people.
I’m here primarily to meet and have sex and other adventures with women. The forums help with that , it’s a way to observe, interact and see how people react to different things and so you get to know what kind of person they are |
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"You get what you put in...
I enjoy the site for its resources into swinging and kink based events.
I enjoy the community, images, forum discussions and chat rooms.
I could meet when I choose to.
Does everyone get what they put in"
. No no not really |
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"When I had a couples account, we meet a few people for fun 😜
Now having a singles account I am currently using it to window shop… I’ll be in to quality not quantity, not looking for a relationship but on further reflection lately, maybe FWB… so prepared to wait until I find exactly what I’m looking for!
Currently happy chatting"
Oh this is a bit offtrack, but I caught your cam last night and just want to say that you look tremendous 🩷🩷🩷😘 |
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"I do well. I usually get to meet the people I want to meet and that's as much as I could hope for. I have and have had incredible lovers and I've made real life friends that I spend time with regularly.
My profile is good and I get invited to parties and events so I feel like the scene is open to me.
In all honesty I meet more people through dating apps now. Partly because I'm more into the dating vibe at the moment and partly because I prefer staying close to home. Fab means travelling if one lives in the west of Ireland."
For dating this site isn’t great. When I’m in the uk Facebook dating icon reappears and that’s a breeze , but for ENM it’s brutally hard |
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"I find it VERY difficult to find what I am looking for.. and even harder to meet someone who doesn't want to meet with their fab partner"
I've heard that's a problem a lot of women face in terms of meeting people with a partner. Does that usually come from a woman wanting to introduce a guy or vice versa? 🤔 |
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We do very well on here, since joining up we have managed to find people whenever we want and met some truly amazing people and made friends too, but it does come with a caveat...it takes a lot of time dealing with a busy inbox, keeping conversations going and separating the wheat from the chaff, and we've been engaged in many conversations that result in nothing which is a massive waste of time. But all in all, we enjoy it here a lot |
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Yeah, I do quite well. I could get a shag every minute of every day if I wanted to (I don’t!  ) but it’s the same for every woman on this site, even shadow female profiles!
In nearly seven years I have met absolutely amazing people, some of with whom I have had wonderful experiences. I also fell in love and had my heart broken in a million pieces, haha. I’ve found true friendship and have had a number of earth-shattering orgasms. 😜
So yeah, thankfully I’ve done very well on here. Hope it carries on that way! ☺️ |
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"Yeah, I do quite well. I could get a shag every minute of every day if I wanted to (I don’t! ) but it’s the same for every woman on this site, even shadow female profiles!
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To be honest, it’s the same for most men if they lower their standards and choose those guys. There’s a lot of desperate men will fuck anything, any gender. There’s far less desperate women than men.
Surely success means more than getting fucked often
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By (user no longer on site) OP 22 weeks ago
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"I find it VERY difficult to find what I am looking for.. and even harder to meet someone who doesn't want to meet with their fab partner
I've been right here for so long Midnight! 😘
Brucey that's what every follow-up mail says - yet when I look at their profile and not a wiff of spanking to be found "
I really want to spank you. alas |
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I have been lucky and have met some amazing women and couples that are on fab. I have also made some wonderful friends from socials and clubs. Some times conversations dwindle and stall but if both parties want the interaction to continue, they soon pick up again
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I prefer the social aspect of this site instead of for meets- atm, I’m leaning more towards wanting to date someone than just fuck them. Which seems pretty rare on here
So yeah, I suppose I don’t “do well” on here |
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"How easy do you find it to get meets?
Do you enjoy the site for more than just a way to meet people to have sex with? "
I don’t find it TOO difficult to get meets with people I genuinely match with?
Once you’ve opened a conversation with someone in here, let them see your true personality, it very often leads to more…..?
I do enjoy using the Forums though! Mostly because you can (pretty much) say anything, without it affecting your opportunities for meets, and some people are just sooooo easy to bait, hook, and reel in……  |
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We do well on the site but because we don't really use it to find meets. Mainly keep in touch with people we have met.
We use the forums now and then and admire all the pics. We have very different tastes and it shows in the pics we fab. |
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By (user no longer on site) 22 weeks ago
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"How easy do you find it to get meets?
Do you enjoy the site for more than just a way to meet people to have sex with?
I guess I do more than ok, I'd probably enjoy meeting more people if I had more time. I enjoy the community aspect of it and seeing familiar faces at events, as someone who always attends solo, it's comforting. Fab isn't my only outlet for meeting people for sex though.
I enjoy what the site offers. I'm happy with my profile and pics. I enjoy the forums, the interactions and shooting the breeze there. We may not all want the same thing but when things align, it's pretty damn good.
I'm curious what other sites do you use? "
Other dating apps for dating. I also use a fetish site and a site that promotes a gentle approach to ENM that suits my way of being. |
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"How easy do you find it to get meets?
Do you enjoy the site for more than just a way to meet people to have sex with? "
I've never had any problems getting meets off here when I've wanted them and finding sex is pretty easy as a woman. But I find clubs and event chats etc a better way to build friendships and social connections. The forums are useful for killing time, procrastinating and connecting with interesting people who I don't live close to but also frustrating that they live so far away  |
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"I find it VERY difficult to find what I am looking for.. and even harder to meet someone who doesn't want to meet with their fab partner
I've been right here for so long Midnight! 😘
Brucey that's what every follow-up mail says - yet when I look at their profile and not a wiff of spanking to be found "
I spank! Wait I have a video...wanna see it? |
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"How easy do you find it to get meets?
Do you enjoy the site for more than just a way to meet people to have sex with?
I've never had any problems getting meets off here when I've wanted them and finding sex is pretty easy as a woman. But I find clubs and event chats etc a better way to build friendships and social connections. The forums are useful for killing time, procrastinating and connecting with interesting people who I don't live close to but also frustrating that they live so far away "
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You too? That dreaded Fab Curse™...! 🫤 |
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"I find it VERY difficult to find what I am looking for.. and even harder to meet someone who doesn't want to meet with their fab partner
I've been right here for so long Midnight! 😘
Brucey that's what every follow-up mail says - yet when I look at their profile and not a wiff of spanking to be found
I spank! Wait I have a video...wanna see it?"
Oh god.... ok  |
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"I find it VERY difficult to find what I am looking for.. and even harder to meet someone who doesn't want to meet with their fab partner
I've been right here for so long Midnight! 😘
Brucey that's what every follow-up mail says - yet when I look at their profile and not a wiff of spanking to be found
I really want to spank you. alas"
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"When I had a couples account, we meet a few people for fun 😜
Now having a singles account I am currently using it to window shop… I’ll be in to quality not quantity, not looking for a relationship but on further reflection lately, maybe FWB… so prepared to wait until I find exactly what I’m looking for!
Currently happy chatting
Oh this is a bit offtrack, but I caught your cam last night and just want to say that you look tremendous 🩷🩷🩷😘"
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"This site has been brilliant for me. I am only interested in local fwbs and I have met some wonderful men for ongoing regular meets.
I enjoy the forums also.
Reading seems to be a good postcode! "
Yes very happy to be living here though I still get messages from people in Scotland and Ireland. |
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Been on here for ages, both as singles and as a couple.. always been more than happy with the site... if you want something, however weird, you can find it here... yes, we have had a few let downs and time wasters, but the positives far outweigh the negatives. Some people just expect too much I think. |
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By *ary69321Man 22 weeks ago
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I don't do well at all, I've tried commenting on posts in the forum, no one talks to me, I thought it would be better online, it would be easier to communicate with people, but it's just as difficult online then it is face to face, I never know what to do, some like men to be nice, some like men to be forward, some like men to be nasty, it's totally confusing to me. |
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"Yeah, I do quite well. I could get a shag every minute of every day if I wanted to (I don’t! ) but it’s the same for every woman on this site, even shadow female profiles!
To be honest, it’s the same for most men if they lower their standards and choose those guys. There’s a lot of desperate men will fuck anything, any gender. There’s far less desperate women than men.
Surely success means more than getting fucked often
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Well, that is what the “doing well”, means for different people…. For some it’ll be just having something wet and warm to stick it in, for some others there has to be a connection, etc.
There is a really varied number of people online everyday so it’s a matter of striking gold sometimes. I’ve been lucky and struck it a few times but probably not as many as I’d like to haha |
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By (user no longer on site) 22 weeks ago
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Not atall, but I don't put any effort in. I've been on and off of Fab for about 5 years, only sent a couple of women messages and got nothing back.
As someone who lacks confidence in real life and has no game with women, I realised it wasn't going to be any easier on here.
Its the forums that I like, couldn't give a toss about getting a meet now. After nearly 10 years of no sex, not having sex is very much the norm. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 22 weeks ago
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"i do alright
i thoroughly enjoy this site, not just for the pantelsless fun with strangers bit, but for the connections and conversations with wicked people too. Px "
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We do alright - feels like an uphill battle trying to find the type of people we want to connect with, at times.
When you find your types and the chat gets going and there’s no pretences then it’s great.
Getting to that stage seems to be the hardest thing to accomplish.
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By *a LunaWoman 22 weeks ago
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I enjoyed the meets I’ve had, but a guy I was seeing on a FWB basis kept banging on about a couples profile so he could see me with other men and women, in particular a female friend who he also saw. I am in no way attracted to ladies and it got on my tits to be honest. We parted ways. Not had a meet since, put me off. I later found out that he does that with all his female friends (sets up a couples profile etc).
Some people are never satisfied and want the moon on a stick.  |
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It's great for finding events and swingers and meeting the certain odd few who are genuine. The gripe now is way too many timewasters and fantasist's just messing you around.
Mainly just use it for the forum and swinging events now. It is nice though when we do finally meet genuine people off here, just getting more few and far between now. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 22 weeks ago
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"I get what I want from the site, but only because I'm willing to travel. If I chose only to meet locally I'd very rarely find anyone."
I live in London and have only ever made connections with people hundreds of miles away. Just the game I guess |
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I use the site mainly for entertainment and sometimes I meet people from here.
If I'm logging in here then I'm finding it entertaining, so yes, I'm doing well on here. If it feels frustrating or I'm not having a laugh then I log off for a while.
In terms of meeting people my most successful FWB arrangements have come from real life rather than online, but this site is as good as most others for me. |
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"I get what I want from the site, but only because I'm willing to travel. If I chose only to meet locally I'd very rarely find anyone.
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I live in London and have only ever made connections with people hundreds of miles away. Just the game I guess "
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Same for me.
That's probably because virtually all the messages I receive are from women 100s miles away. London offers me... ...next-to-nothing. |
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When I first joined here in 2017 I already had a FWB who introduced me to the site and we exchanged veri’s. Meets with singles and couples came easily. Back then I found veri’s to be crass so told people to not bother writing them. I had a few years away in a monogamous relationship. Came back two years ago. Now I’m getting older my prospects have got smaller, also the site may be less conducive for meets, I am starting to regret not collecting more veri’s now. I spend more time on the forums and get more attention from people who message me. Sometimes from people who I wouldn’t message because of their age preferences. |
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By *izz70Woman 22 weeks ago
Sheffield |
"You get what you put in...
I enjoy the site for its resources into swinging and kink based events.
I enjoy the community, images, forum discussions and chat rooms.
I could meet when I choose to.
Does everyone get what they put in"
Yes, I think I usually get what i put in, lespecially if there's a definitely connection and attraction. It's a great feeling if you are making an effect with someone and that effect is reciprocated,that's usually how I make a good connection then things progress. |
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By *abluesbabyMan 22 weeks ago
Gibraltar/Cheshire/London |
Depends how you define "well"???
If "well" means meeting for actual physical sex then, no, Fab is almost non-existent in that aspect for me. As part of a group we try to meet on average once a month. There is NO way we could achieve that via here. And that's fine, we know this so we utilise other avenues.
However if we consider "well" as making friends and having, often jovial banter and at other times quite serious interaction, via the Forums and personal messages then Fab is excellent. |
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By *sWyldWoman 22 weeks ago
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Define doing well?
I've had some great times, met so many wonderful people and I even have sex when the mood takes me.
Could I do better? Possibly, potentially but really I lack the interest and don't feel it worth my effort most of the time . |
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"I get what I want from the site, but only because I'm willing to travel. If I chose only to meet locally I'd very rarely find anyone.
I live in London and have only ever made connections with people hundreds of miles away. Just the game I guess "
Charge it to the game |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 22 weeks ago
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"I get what I want from the site, but only because I'm willing to travel. If I chose only to meet locally I'd very rarely find anyone.
I live in London and have only ever made connections with people hundreds of miles away. Just the game I guess
Charge it to the game "
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I’d say I do, and have done pretty well on here. If it wasn’t for this site I’d of not met my girlfriend so for that, I’ll always be thankful to fab. Have also made so great friends (not directly though fab) more so from club events and parties.
Nowadays I mostly come into the forums and fab pictures I find visually appealing. I do still try and drum up cold conversations online from time to time but the return on that investment is pretty futile. |
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I think doing well on this site is different for everyone depending on what they are expecting to get from it. I'm enjoying the forums and had some nice chats with some lovely people so as far as I'm concerned I'd say I'm doing ok. |
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"How easy do you find it to get meets?
Do you enjoy the site for more than just a way to meet people to have sex with? "
Are you planning a Bruce Forsyth type "Didn't he/she do well type plaudit " for those that do..?..
Only those over a certain age will get this one.. |
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I'm not actively looking, just here for VIP lists for events at the swingers club I go to really, but I get a few messages daily and try to arrange meets sensibly - hotel in a week's time, social first etc...
Most lose interest, one ghosted me when I asked for their address when they said come over... The rest are fantasists or guys that message with their dicks already in their hand.
It's a bit hard on the self esteem but club nights are more fun anyway. |
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By *TWboyMan 22 weeks ago
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I used to put in a lot of effort with limited success - geography doesn’t help in East Anglia.
Now I have a few people I meet every now and again and it’s friendly as well as sex.
It’s not fun though trying to get meets on here as a single guy though. |
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Thinking about i have noticed its getting harder to find honest no nonsense meets on here. I have enjoyed meeting people off the site over the years but post covid there has been an influx of timewasters/ fantasy people.Several times had the "lets meet" message, date and time then they didnt turn up!! now that really pisses me off!!! That being said i am meeting a wonderful FWB at the moment.So overall the site more than meets my needs as a mature man looking for sexy fun with nice people. happy fucking folks. x |
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"I find it VERY difficult to find what I am looking for.. and even harder to meet someone who doesn't want to meet with their fab partner
I've heard that's a problem a lot of women face in terms of meeting people with a partner. Does that usually come from a woman wanting to introduce a guy or vice versa? 🤔"
It just seems that nobody wants to miss out |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 22 weeks ago
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"I find it VERY difficult to find what I am looking for.. and even harder to meet someone who doesn't want to meet with their fab partner
I've heard that's a problem a lot of women face in terms of meeting people with a partner. Does that usually come from a woman wanting to introduce a guy or vice versa? 🤔
It just seems that nobody wants to miss out "
On you! It’s a compliment I guess |
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"How easy do you find it to get meets?
Do you enjoy the site for more than just a way to meet people to have sex with? "
There are lots of people I want to spend time with. Distance and diary coordination tend to be the problems. So getting the meets isn't the problem but arranging them can be. I'm patient though.
I enjoy the forums (mainly) and I like it for finding events (socials or club events). |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 22 weeks ago
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"How easy do you find it to get meets?
Do you enjoy the site for more than just a way to meet people to have sex with?
There are lots of people I want to spend time with. Distance and diary coordination tend to be the problems. So getting the meets isn't the problem but arranging them can be. I'm patient though.
I enjoy the forums (mainly) and I like it for finding events (socials or club events). "
Man said getting meets isn’t the problem. MUST BE NICE  |
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"How easy do you find it to get meets?
Do you enjoy the site for more than just a way to meet people to have sex with?
There are lots of people I want to spend time with. Distance and diary coordination tend to be the problems. So getting the meets isn't the problem but arranging them can be. I'm patient though.
I enjoy the forums (mainly) and I like it for finding events (socials or club events).
Man said getting meets isn’t the problem. MUST BE NICE "
I have a few years at best before I'm put out to pasture. Let me enjoy my moment Pickle! 😂 |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 22 weeks ago
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"How easy do you find it to get meets?
Do you enjoy the site for more than just a way to meet people to have sex with?
There are lots of people I want to spend time with. Distance and diary coordination tend to be the problems. So getting the meets isn't the problem but arranging them can be. I'm patient though.
I enjoy the forums (mainly) and I like it for finding events (socials or club events).
Man said getting meets isn’t the problem. MUST BE NICE
I have a few years at best before I'm put out to pasture. Let me enjoy my moment Pickle! 😂"
truuu 👵🏻 |
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