Your profile bio starts off quite negatively where you out yourself down for not being attractive. People will see that instant negativity and it will put them off - you need to be more upbeat and sell yourself positively.
But it's also not true - you're not a bad looking bloke at all!  |
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Sometimes I ask how they are, send a face pic, see if there intrested in meeting at all, sometimes I asking if there just upnfor meetingnm and having fun. Some are rude and call me ugly etc, and thanks for saying I'm not bad looking 👌 |
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"So 98% of messages either deleted or left on read, just wondering from women n couples if I'm worthy of meeting you etc.. if u don't wanna reply here DM please"
we’ll your verifications suggest otherwise op just keep on what your doing & just use this site to see what’s happening in around your local area |
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"Your profile bio starts off quite negatively where you out yourself down for not being attractive. People will see that instant negativity and it will put them off - you need to be more upbeat and sell yourself positively.
But it's also not true - you're not a bad looking bloke at all! "
also this don’t put yourself down!!! |
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"Sometimes I ask how they are, send a face pic, see if there intrested in meeting at all, sometimes I asking if there just upnfor meetingnm and having fun. Some are rude and call me ugly etc, and thanks for saying I'm not bad looking 👌"
Keep in mind that many women get many, many messages. "How are you" is polite, but when you're being bombarded, it's also... I want to describe it as benign spam.
Ignore anyone who's rude to you. Says much more about them than you. I've seen some people whose faces I'm not sure a mother could love (I say in the abstract, about no one in particular), and there's no need to tell anyone that. |
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"Yea had a few, just keep getting rejected hard 😅😅😅 so makes me think to not bother with the site half the time, "
You're not on your own there fella. But as someone pointed out earlier, you've got a decent number of veris and have a telly met people. You're already doing much better than half the men on here.
You seem like a really good guy, don't let the rejections affect you adversely cos it's absolutely not just you it happens to |
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"Yea had a few, just keep getting rejected hard 😅😅😅 so makes me think to not bother with the site half the time,
You're not on your own there fella. But as someone pointed out earlier, you've got a decent number of veris and have a telly met people. You're already doing much better than half the men on here.
You seem like a really good guy, don't let the rejections affect you adversely cos it's absolutely not just you it happens to "
*Actually met people. Fecking typos  |
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"Yea i know I've had a few meets would love tontry a few more and have a regular 1 or 2 I could meet ha! Duno think low self esteem lately from it all! "
Use the reply+quote button (below the post you're replying to, on the right hand side) so we know who you're talking to.
You're doing ok as it goes, here, it seems. Try not to take it personally |
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You're doing ok as it goes, here, it seems. Try not to take it personally
Will try not too ha!
Appreciate it's easier said than done. You can always take a break, and come back fresher. "
Yes, my messages are meant to be encouraging, here |
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Try not to be too negative and put yourself down and build up some self confidence. Nothing wrong with you at all.
Got to remember on this site that guys outnumber the rest last time I saw at about 100-1. My advice work on your bio and add what you're looking for and after and make it a fun read for interested people. Main one confidence is key people really are intuitive and pick up on it.
I've been here myself and just took sometime and now I'm in a swingers relationship, so things do change.
I got myself to swingers clubs and started to interact with those with similar interests. Always try make a good first Impression when you send that first message again make you stand out in it.
If it can happen for me then you have nothing to worry about try relax and let it come naturally.
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Worthy of meeting you sounds pretty pedestally.
Most people aren't attracted to most people.
You look fine. Probably above average, definitely better than the endless sea of profiles with only penis pictures.
As has been mentioned, a negative profile won't help your case. Generally women like to see some idea of what someone wants and offers, and get a general idea of compatibility from a profile. Not many want to connect with undefined negativity.
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I don’t think all face pics work and especially ones that are more book of face pics. That last pic you look angry and/or d*unk.
You need to show your body too.
You haven’t put a lot in your profile wording so basically all people have to go off is your 4 face pics which clearly aren’t taken when in a sexy mood.
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