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By *gent Coulson OP Man 16 weeks ago
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They one person's kink is another person's vanilla.
So pervs of FAB, what do you do that you class as kinks and what do you do that you classs as vanilla.
Example tying or cuffing your partner to the bed, kink or vanilla |
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Kinks are unconventional sexual desires. Fetishes are unconventional sexualised requirements.
Lots of people have some desires at the milder end of kink (gentle restraint, mild name-calling, soft spanking). The more “extreme” the kink, the fewer people are interested.
I hear people say “my kink is oral sex” all the time but I don’t consider that a kink.
Whereas restraining someone using clingfilm and forcing them to piss themself… or making them dress in a white nightie before having period sex… or buying a speculum when you aren’t a gynaecologist… that’s kinky! |
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I call myself spicy vanilla because I'm not into kinks. I don't want to kneel, call someone a title (and mean it), put myself in a latex balloon etc. But I do like some verbal degradation, slapping, spanking (properly, not just a little hand tap) etc |
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"I call myself spicy vanilla because I'm not into kinks. I don't want to kneel, call someone a title (and mean it), put myself in a latex balloon etc. But I do like some verbal degradation, slapping, spanking (properly, not just a little hand tap) etc"
“Spicy Vanilla” is a great phrase! |
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Good invited to a a pagan get together yeasrs ago, no sacrifices or blood drinking,
There was alot of home brew and I mean a lot, aswell as herbal remedies that got lit which wasn't my thing being a non smoker. Any way the evening got more unihibited as the brew and smoke kicked in and before long nudity was all over the place.
Then out of nowhere a goat was brought in and things went a wild direction.
Now if you are into paganism that sort of thing is quite normal, some pagans don't entertain it and if your not it's kinky at the most extreme.
Something to do with Pan the pagan rep of sex n love and such like.
Me I don't mind a bit of dressing up a bit wild but for me it wasn't turning my horns on. The goat seemed quite happy don't know if it was the smoke having an effect.
Water sports I find both kinky and vanilla depends on the situation and mood.
Food sex used to be kinky now it's almost vanilla.
Women pegging me is horny n kinky, this I like. |
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I don't care for labels, except of course that they have some use in finding like-minded souls, if what you do turns you on, is done consensually my and is broadly legal then life's too short not to go for it |
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