Don't be pushy
If someone says no, it means NO
Don't walk around with your cock in your hand tugging away, not sexy
Don't go in with expectations you're going to get your willy wet, unless they have a hot tub of course
In a nutshell don't be a dick 
As others have said, everyone has their first club visit nerves, just be yourself and enjoy!
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Don’t over think it. Be your normal selves and take it at your pace. It’s perfectly acceptable to just take your time and absorb the surroundings - you don’t have to play if you don’t want.
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"Going to our first ever club night tonight!!
Any advice?"
Try to be as relaxed as possible but definitely don't get d*unk, you want to enjoy your experience, talk with your partner and don't expect too much. You'll love it! |
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Just see it as going to a bar and everyone is there for a nice night.
Go at your own pace - the club owners/organiser will show you around.
Chat to people and get to know them.
Then if the mood takes you can progress into the playrooms.
Don’t do anything you don’t want to.
K
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"Going to our first ever club night tonight!!
Any advice?"
You will inevitably see a couple you like, but don’t ruin it by approaching them and showing your nerves. Instead, make eye contact and don’t break it. Stare. You need them to know you’re interested. This technique will cause them to walk away in a move which will, ostensibly, look like avoidance but they’re leading you somewhere. Wherever they go, follow them and maintain eye contact but DON’T approach. Start touching your special places so they know you find them sexually attractive.
Report back tomorrow with how well it worked. |
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By *bi HaiveMan 16 weeks ago
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"Going to our first ever club night tonight!!
Any advice?"
Aside from all of the advice already given, which is spot on, have you checked out the logistics of the night?
Mainly details of the club itself. Where best to park, dress code rules/guidance, the clubs facilities, whether there's a bar or is it BYO?
Club websites are a great source of info and the review section on here can also be useful to read. And possibly a bit late but many events run off site chat groups to give attendees the chance to 'mingle' online before an event so you'll have an idea of who's going and can introduce yourselves in advance - really useful especially for first timers as there's usually someone willing to give you a tour and help settle any nerves.
Most of all....have fun. And if for any reason you don't, don't let it put you off clubs. One bad night doesn't represent all clubs or all nights.
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By (user no longer on site) OP 16 weeks ago
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Yes, have checked out all the logistics.
Tired starting a forum chat for those attending but not nothing in response. This just added to the uncertainty 🤣.
I think the ‘no expectations’ seems a common thread. I think ‘L’ is keen for something to happen and probably better that she pursue it rather than me. There seems to be a lot on forums concerning pushy males and I absolutely don’t want that label.
Just want it to be a positive experience
For the both of us.
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