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Hello
I’m old forum person from about five/six years ago, and occasionally have a peek on fab. It looks like I’m single… again after a 3 year thing.
Which means I’m 3 years older as well. 
So at what age does having fab meets stop, if at all or going to clubs. Is there a time you would be self conscious??
Just curious on your thoughts this Sunday evening 
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"Hello
I’m old forum person from about five/six years ago, and occasionally have a peek on fab. It looks like I’m single… again after a 3 year thing.
Which means I’m 3 years older as well.
So at what age does having fab meets stop, if at all or going to clubs. Is there a time you would be self conscious??
Just curious on your thoughts this Sunday evening
Ps FAF "
Sorry to hear your single again. As for too old.? Fuck me you're only 49...thats just getting warmed up. You have 25 years to go minimum. Good luck with whatever happens. |
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"I'm curious as to why you think age is a barrier. "
Just my own feelings I guess.
I don’t think for actual fan meets it should be, but last time I went to a club I’m not sure if it would bother me now???
Maybe it’s like riding a bike….  |
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I'm 51 and been single for about 18 months after 33 years serial monogamy. Haven't ever actually been on a date, took me a year from getting my membership with a swingers club to build up the courage to attend.
I had a hookup kinda thru the site 6 months ago, I have a regular guy I see every week, I'm going to the club at least once a month and in a couple of weeks I have a sapphic weekend booked with a newly minted trans girl.
Age needn't be any kind of barrier. |
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"I'm curious as to why you think age is a barrier.
Just my own feelings I guess.
I don’t think for actual fan meets it should be, but last time I went to a club I’m not sure if it would bother me now???
Maybe it’s like riding a bike…. "
I'd get on your bike and enjoy the ride.
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"I'm 51 and been single for about 18 months after 33 years serial monogamy. Haven't ever actually been on a date, took me a year from getting my membership with a swingers club to build up the courage to attend.
I had a hookup kinda thru the site 6 months ago, I have a regular guy I see every week, I'm going to the club at least once a month and in a couple of weeks I have a sapphic weekend booked with a newly minted trans girl.
Age needn't be any kind of barrier."
Thank you, that’s made me feel better |
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By *0CC72Man 12 weeks ago
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"I'm curious as to why you think age is a barrier.
Just my own feelings I guess.
I don’t think for actual fan meets it should be, but last time I went to a club I’m not sure if it would bother me now???
Maybe it’s like riding a bike….
I'd get on your bike and enjoy the ride.
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"I'm curious as to why you think age is a barrier.
Just my own feelings I guess.
I don’t think for actual fan meets it should be, but last time I went to a club I’m not sure if it would bother me now???
Maybe it’s like riding a bike…. "
Dangerous if you don't take safety measures and you have to watch out for pot holes? |
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"I was 52 when I first signed up to fab with zero experience of anything like this before so as far as I'm concerned I've never been too old."
Well the saying goes I guess your never too old
Glad your having fun |
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"Hello
I’m old forum person from about five/six years ago, and occasionally have a peek on fab. It looks like I’m single… again after a 3 year thing.
Which means I’m 3 years older as well.
So at what age does having fab meets stop, if at all or going to clubs. Is there a time you would be self conscious??
Just curious on your thoughts this Sunday evening
Ps FAF
Sorry to hear your single again. As for too old.? Fuck me you're only 49...thats just getting warmed up. You have 25 years to go minimum. Good luck with whatever happens. "
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I don’t believe it’s based on age.
It ends when you no longer have the interest or the libido to carry on with this lifestyle.
Something has drawn you back to Fab OP which suggests there’s still a curiosity there.
I hope you embrace it and go on to have some amazing new adventures x |
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Firstly... Hi. JoeBeans. How's it goin'?
Secondly, I can see why some people may feel that age is a barrier but it's something you can get past once you have your first meet or club visit. Put yourself out there and you may surprise yourself  |
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"Hello
I’m old forum person from about five/six years ago, and occasionally have a peek on fab. It looks like I’m single… again after a 3 year thing.
Which means I’m 3 years older as well.
So at what age does having fab meets stop, if at all or going to clubs. Is there a time you would be self conscious??
Just curious on your thoughts this Sunday evening
Ps FAF "
Firstly looking at your profile you are nowhere near too old. You won’t have any problems finding fun within your bounderies.
Secondly, do understand your concerns. We are 59m/63f and we are finding meets very difficult lately and do question if we should stop. We haven’t been to a club for about 18 months, as the last time we went we did feel out of place around all the younger couples.
If you are ever near to Tamworth and fancy a drink let us know. Xxx |
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"I don’t believe it’s based on age.
It ends when you no longer have the interest or the libido to carry on with this lifestyle.
Something has drawn you back to Fab OP which suggests there’s still a curiosity there.
I hope you embrace it and go on to have some amazing new adventures x"
Thank you xx |
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"Firstly... Hi. JoeBeans. How's it goin'?
Secondly, I can see why some people may feel that age is a barrier but it's something you can get past once you have your first meet or club visit. Put yourself out there and you may surprise yourself "
Hi JoeBeans
Thank you and I will definitely think about it |
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By *0CC72Man 12 weeks ago
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"It's about how you feel yourself, not sure that age is really an issue
I think your right "
There are no rules, do what works for you. No one will judge you and don't put pressure on yourself. |
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"Hey Snowwhite, I'm hoping there isn't an age limit.
In fact - many ladies get sexier with age.
BTW. Let me introduce myself - I'm the 8th dwarf - Randy. 
I thought I was missing one "
That because I'm normally walking behind you watching your bum wiggle.  |
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"Hello
I’m old forum person from about five/six years ago, and occasionally have a peek on fab. It looks like I’m single… again after a 3 year thing.
Which means I’m 3 years older as
well.
Looking at your pics I wouldn't say you'll ever be to old to enjoy this lifestyle.
Sexy is an attitude not a number.
Tried messaging you but your peak age is 50
So at what age does having fab meets stop, if at all or going to clubs. Is there a time you would be self conscious??
Just curious on your thoughts this Sunday evening
Ps FAF "
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"Firstly... Hi. JoeBeans. How's it goin'?
Secondly, I can see why some people may feel that age is a barrier but it's something you can get past once you have your first meet or club visit. Put yourself out there and you may surprise yourself
Hi JoeBeans
Thank you and I will definitely think about it "
No worries! Welcome back, but don't feel like you have to rush yourself back into anything. Take your time and call me when you're ready |
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"Hello
I’m old forum person from about five/six years ago, and occasionally have a peek on fab. It looks like I’m single… again after a 3 year thing.
Which means I’m 3 years older as well.
So at what age does having fab meets stop, if at all or going to clubs. Is there a time you would be self conscious??
Just curious on your thoughts this Sunday evening
Ps FAF "
I've just looked at your photos. You're definitely far from being too old! |
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49 is not 'too old' but getting older definitely can be a factor in sexual relationships (of all types) whether that's becoming less physically attractive, or less physically active. Neither of these has to apply to anyone but clearly they apply to some of us oldies.🤷♂️ |
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Sorry to hear about your relationship ending, but as others have said it really doesn’t make a difference as long as you can find something you enjoy and people to share it with.
It’s more about how you feel mentally than the number of candles on your last birthday cake, let yourself enjoy your body. |
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"Hello
I’m old forum person from about five/six years ago, and occasionally have a peek on fab. It looks like I’m single… again after a 3 year thing.
Which means I’m 3 years older as well.
So at what age does having fab meets stop, if at all or going to clubs. Is there a time you would be self conscious??
Just curious on your thoughts this Sunday evening
Ps FAF "
yes please,😁🫦
G'day snowwhite,
If your asking yourself if your to old at 49 looking like the way you do, we are all in the shit,😂😂
You're bloody gorgeous and those pics with the ice cube, phwoarrrrr,🥵
I read your bio and you sound like you would be lots of fun and a great person to hangout with, |
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"Hello
I’m old forum person from about five/six years ago, and occasionally have a peek on fab. It looks like I’m single… again after a 3 year thing.
Which means I’m 3 years older as well.
So at what age does having fab meets stop, if at all or going to clubs. Is there a time you would be self conscious??
Just curious on your thoughts this Sunday evening
Ps FAF "
I keep getting lost after looking into those eyes and then dropping my gaze to those mammaries.
What was the question again? |
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I don’t think there is an upper age. I met a fabulous couple at a club a few months ago who were well past retirement but there was no way you would know - I would have pegged them as my age. If you keep yourself fit and are enjoying life then roll on until the very end. |
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It's a funny old thing getting older.
I don't think you be one self conscious but I do think you start to look at yourself differently. I was laying in bed this morning looking at the crepey skin on my arms and wondering if all the younger men that say they love older women are actually aware of what we really look like.
I think it's very easy to look at all the gorgeous younger people on here and feel that you wouldn't want to get naked next to them. |
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As long as you still desire the lifestyle you're in the game.
We've seen and met some very senior people in clubs over the years. It's really uplifting to know that as long as you're capable and willing there's really no age limit. |
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"They've all said it above. I'm determined that I'm not too old for living exactly as I want to, you're definitely not too old."
You do eventually come to realise that fewer and fewer people are up for living that life with you. |
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"They've all said it above. I'm determined that I'm not too old for living exactly as I want to, you're definitely not too old.
You do eventually come to realise that fewer and fewer people are up for living that life with you. "
Well it's just hard luck on those people that are missing out on the best then 😂😂😂 |
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"They've all said it above. I'm determined that I'm not too old for living exactly as I want to, you're definitely not too old.
You do eventually come to realise that fewer and fewer people are up for living that life with you.
Well it's just hard luck on those people that are missing out on the best then 😂😂😂"
I could not agree more |
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I hope I don't turn into one of those well past their sell by date old men you see shuffling around some clubs hoping to get in on the action involving some woman who isn't particularly bothered who she takes on.
As for women, you can keep swinging for as long as you like, there'll always be at least one guy in a club that'll sort you out. |
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The theme seems to be it’s how you feel…. Well I shall get out the WD40 and oil up my joints and when ready will dive back in…
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Ok lads. Stand to attention and prepare for inspection. |
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"Fantastic messages from everyone!!! Hello to those I know xx
The theme seems to be it’s how you feel…. Well I shall get out the WD40 and oil up my joints and when ready will dive back in…
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"Hello
I’m old forum person from about five/six years ago, and occasionally have a peek on fab. It looks like I’m single… again after a 3 year thing.
Which means I’m 3 years older as well.
So at what age does having fab meets stop, if at all or going to clubs. Is there a time you would be self conscious??"
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You are our own Halley's Comet, having elliptically circled the Fab cosmos, and now finally returned after all these years - sexual maturity intact and ready for another orbit of unbridled fun.
You're never old, OP. |
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Some of us are space junk, fragmented debris which had a former useful purpose that will burn up even more when entering Earth's atmosphere ready with whatever is left to hit the ground with a bump. |
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By *im le2Man 12 weeks ago
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"Hello
I’m old forum person from about five/six years ago, and occasionally have a peek on fab. It looks like I’m single… again after a 3 year thing.
Which means I’m 3 years older as well.
So at what age does having fab meets stop, if at all or going to clubs. Is there a time you would be self conscious??
Just curious on your thoughts this Sunday evening
Ps FAF "
I'm 69yo and still meeting ppl. I have regular group meets most of the guys are over 50 the oldest was 86yo.
Your never too old. |
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By *eliWoman 12 weeks ago
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Oh Hi Snow. 🩷
If you think you're too old and it won't bring anything positive to your life? Don't do it. Leave.
I don't think at your age you are, personally; quite a few are your age. Might as well say fuck it and stick around for a bit. |
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I don't think there's an age when it all just switches off! (I hope not!!) But I've certainly found as I've got older I'm finding it harder to find what I want. And what I want has changed massively. So I think there'll come a time (maybe sooner than I thought) that I'm gonna be done with all this and look for something meaningful before I really do get too old!! |
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Welcome back Snow - I've not even made it to a club yet, so perhaps it's all relative rather than having a time limit.
I think if you are enjoying what you do, then it's ok to embrace as many experiences as possible.
When it stops being fun, then stop? |
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There's no fixed age when you have to stop, I remember a lady who used to go to VA that was in her mid 70s! She had a fantastic body and was very popular. She used to go with her husband who liked to watch her in action.
Stop when it no longer works for you. |
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I think age is a myth.
I have known people who were in there 20s but acted like an oldie
I will never be a mature person .
Too full of life and having fun.
It's all in the mind .
Getting older yeah but doing it in style xx |
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"I really hope 49 isn't too old. 😳😬🤣"
I've been thinking about this some more. I do wonder when interest will drop. I still feel young, and so far my face and body seem to have a broad appeal. I only started exploring this side of myself in the last few years and it feels cruel that it might all just evaporate over the next few years.
I try not to care what other people think but it's impossible to shrug that off completely. |
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"Oh Hi Snow. 🩷
If you think you're too old and it won't bring anything positive to your life? Don't do it. Leave.
I don't think at your age you are, personally; quite a few are your age. Might as well say fuck it and stick around for a bit."
Hey you…. Thank you. If I remain single I will maybe dabble again. I hope your well xx |
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I am not sure that my perspective/experience will relate directly to you OP, as I feel that woman have a longer “shelf life” on fab than men. But I will say that yes it becomes a little harder to meet as you get older and also I have gained a greater understanding of the kind of people I like to meet, that alters the potential for meeting, which, can lead to frustration and a “maybe I’m too old for this” psychology.
But I will say that, yes, it’s a bit more “work” but the meetings get better and better as I focus on what nourishes me mentally and what excites me physically and being able to articulate that with like-minded people is great. So for me it’s not age related, but a change of perspective related to knowing what you want and matching that with similar people. Sex is still very much something I enjoy doing, and I’ll keep on keeping on until the day it’s replaced by model trains, collecting newspaper clippings of interesting trees or learning to crochet. |
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By *eliWoman 12 weeks ago
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"When there is mould on it and it’s curling up at the sides 😃
Knew that back-alley brothel was a bad idea 😳
Better get some antibiotics quick ! 🤣🤣"
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"When there is mould on it and it’s curling up at the sides 😃
Knew that back-alley brothel was a bad idea 😳
Better get some antibiotics quick ! 🤣🤣
No, don't encourage him. Joe? That's enough internet-ing for you today. Go and play outside."
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