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By *ojan OP Man
over a year ago
Bedford |
Question for everyone does anyone have persistent issues with people following them and even go to the lengths of when you block them they change their profile and continue to follow me on three different occasions the same person with different names same age same location and same needs on each profile is this common or just sad |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes happened to me three times with one especially persistent guy saying never spoke before but it’s easy to trip them up after a while…fortunately they do get bored  |
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By *ojan OP Man
over a year ago
Bedford |
"Yes happened to me three times with one especially persistent guy saying never spoke before but it’s easy to trip them up after a while…fortunately they do get bored "
im not a nasty or rude person but cmon why do they do it what satisfaction can they get from it except more rejection |
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I've had a man persistently find me on every dating app and on here for the past 5/6 years. He's currently on my fab block list but any time I rejoin a dating app he immediately appears, recognises and tries to match with me. I made the mistake initially after matching with him on an app many moons ago of giving him my number. He harrased me with texts and phone calls. I would block his number and he would use a new one to phone me at 2, 3, 4am. The calls calmed down after about a year and went down to every couple of months or so 😅 then I changed my number when I changed phone contracts and used it as a fresh break. He's fucking unhinged. I never even met him. I rejoined Hinge for a while last summer and he immediately popped up with a 'rose' like "hey you" I was like Jesus Christ block immediately  |
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I'm not sure if this is what happened the other day.
Been talking dirty to this one guy and out of nowhere he says "this is (woman's name, a friend from 7 years ago who doesn't know I've transitioned) and I'm getting railed" and blocked me.
Just a little bizarre. I wonder if he/she thought I was someone else to whom the woman's name would mean something or...I dunno.... |
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I have had a guy that I've seen a few times contact me on a new account and he pretended it was his friends account even though the profile picture was the same. He kept pressuring me to go to the park with him to have outdoor sex in the freezing cold and have anal with him so he's blocked. Hopefully he won't come back again... |
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Yeah a guy popped up today again for the 10th time with another new profile. Thankfully his photos are very similar and I recognise them straight away. You would think the previous 9 blocks would have got the message across.
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By *ojan OP Man
over a year ago
Bedford |
"I've had a man persistently find me on every dating app and on here for the past 5/6 years. He's currently on my fab block list but any time I rejoin a dating app he immediately appears, recognises and tries to match with me. I made the mistake initially after matching with him on an app many moons ago of giving him my number. He harrased me with texts and phone calls. I would block his number and he would use a new one to phone me at 2, 3, 4am. The calls calmed down after about a year and went down to every couple of months or so 😅 then I changed my number when I changed phone contracts and used it as a fresh break. He's fucking unhinged. I never even met him. I rejoined Hinge for a while last summer and he immediately popped up with a 'rose' like "hey you" I was like Jesus Christ block immediately "
see this is not right is it it’s actually quite scary |
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By *ojan OP Man
over a year ago
Bedford |
"Yeah a guy popped up today again for the 10th time with another new profile. Thankfully his photos are very similar and I recognise them straight away. You would think the previous 9 blocks would have got the message across.
I’m on three so far lol
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By *ojan OP Man
over a year ago
Bedford |
"Very disturbing and stalkerish behaviour. Got to admit to being a little disturbed by that."
i bet it is quite common if you’re good looking nice tits nice cock this is common I’m sure of it
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"Very disturbing and stalkerish behaviour. Got to admit to being a little disturbed by that.i bet it is quite common if you’re good looking nice tits nice cock this is common I’m sure of it "
You don't even have to be good looking. Not on fab but I've had my fair share of weirdos over the years
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By *ojan OP Man
over a year ago
Bedford |
"Very disturbing and stalkerish behaviour. Got to admit to being a little disturbed by that.i bet it is quite common if you’re good looking nice tits nice cock this is common I’m sure of it You don't even have to be good looking. Not on fab but I've had my fair share of weirdos over the years"
i can imagine how do you deal with them I’ve tried the sarcastic approach I’ve tried the weird approach it just encourages them lol
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"Very disturbing and stalkerish behaviour. Got to admit to being a little disturbed by that.i bet it is quite common if you’re good looking nice tits nice cock this is common I’m sure of it You don't even have to be good looking. Not on fab but I've had my fair share of weirdos over the yearsi can imagine how do you deal with them I’ve tried the sarcastic approach I’ve tried the weird approach it just encourages them lol "
some experiences where worse than others but I completely ignored them as though they didn't excist
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"Just block them.
Oh yes, I see your problem. 😬enlighten me lol "
It was just a quick reply/joke on the fact that each time you block them they start a new profile and stalk you again.
Now I’ve had to explain my view of the connection behind your post and my reply of ‘block them’ it makes me feel stupid for replying in the first place.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes I have an ex from over 10 years ago that constantly leaves and rejoins. I block him on every new account he makes. I used to go unlos whenever he'd pop up.. but who's winning then?!
Now I just temporarily hide my profiles while I block him. I've tried different usernames etc nothing ever works. He also likes to message the people that I've verified to ask what happened etc so I no longer show them. It's all fun  |
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By *ojan OP Man
over a year ago
Bedford |
"Yes I have an ex from over 10 years ago that constantly leaves and rejoins. I block him on every new account he makes. I used to go unlos whenever he'd pop up.. but who's winning then?!
Now I just temporarily hide my profiles while I block him. I've tried different usernames etc nothing ever works. He also likes to message the people that I've verified to ask what happened etc so I no longer show them. It's all fun "
oh dear that is stalking hopefully he will get the message soon |
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By *ojan OP Man
over a year ago
Bedford |
"Just block them.
Oh yes, I see your problem. 😬enlighten me lol
It was just a quick reply/joke on the fact that each time you block them they start a new profile and stalk you again.
Now I’ve had to explain my view of the connection behind your post and my reply of ‘block them’ it makes me feel stupid for replying in the first place.
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no it was not that comment it was oh yes I see your problem you’re not stupid you are entitled to your opinion as everyone else is entitled to |
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"Question for everyone does anyone have persistent issues with people following them and even go to the lengths of when you block them they change their profile and continue to follow me on three different occasions the same person with different names same age same location and same needs on each profile is this common or just sad "
It happened to me on another site, she was a mod, distoyed another woman's profile because she spoke to me. I'm glade I never met her.
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By *oughmanMan
over a year ago
Sunderland |
"Very disturbing and stalkerish behaviour. Got to admit to being a little disturbed by that.i bet it is quite common if you’re good looking nice tits nice cock this is common I’m sure of it "
Well I don't have much to worry about then. But really, I find it concerning behaviour anywhere. |
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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago
Calderdale innit |
"This site is riddled with creepers / weirdos though I find  "
Agree.
Theres a man that always gets blocked when I see he's rejoined.
He sent me messages asking where I worked and on another profile where abouts I live.
We've never spoken other than that, but I'm not sharing that info with randomers and he can't take a hint. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Question for everyone does anyone have persistent issues with people following them and even go to the lengths of when you block them they change their profile and continue to follow me on three different occasions the same person with different names same age same location and same needs on each profile is this common or just sad "
Yes!! I have a few people who do this. I wish there was a way to block a person permanently (similarly to what insta has).
It creeps me out. I have reported to admin in the past, and they do seem to remove those users. But they appear again. |
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By *ojan OP Man
over a year ago
Bedford |
"Question for everyone does anyone have persistent issues with people following them and even go to the lengths of when you block them they change their profile and continue to follow me on three different occasions the same person with different names same age same location and same needs on each profile is this common or just sad
Yes!! I have a few people who do this. I wish there was a way to block a person permanently (similarly to what insta has).
It creeps me out. I have reported to admin in the past, and they do seem to remove those users. But they appear again. "
yes I refuse to change my profile etc but every day it’s like hi ya and I don’t respond they constantly look at my profile i just find it weird and embarrassing for them |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't have that problem, I'm not that popular!! 🤣🤣
Joking aside, I don't get why people are like that, they must be unhinged to want to stalk people because that is essentially what it is |
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By *ojan OP Man
over a year ago
Bedford |
"I don't have that problem, I'm not that popular!! 🤣🤣
Joking aside, I don't get why people are like that, they must be unhinged to want to stalk people because that is essentially what it is"
i just don’t understand why they do it rejection is hard enough once isn’t it let alone to keep getting rejected i don’t know why they don’t move on |
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