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By *ello OP Woman 20 weeks ago
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Do you ever get good messages from nice profiles but the username is so ewww you don't even give them a chance?
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Maybe you look at the username find it off putting so don't even open the message or look at their profile.
People who have picked graphic, rude, obscene etc profile names do you ever consider that it is your username which is hindering your chances on here? |
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By *ello OP Woman 20 weeks ago
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"Yup i get the same too especially when they claim to ve something and then the first message includes said thing too "
Yes, it does suggest a lack of any substance from them as a person doesn't it. A 1 trick pony |
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I don't get messages so it's kind of a moot point. But I don't observe the user name too much. I'm more interested in what's in their profile and what they are saying. Then I may take note of the name.
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By (user no longer on site) 20 weeks ago
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"For people saying they don't get messages, would a person's username put you off messaging a person even though their profile is good"
Na along as they had a great ass 😬 |
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"I’m not sure I’ve ever had a good message from a profile with a name I find really off putting. The message quality usually on a par with the really stomach churning names. "
This is the same for me. I'll always look at the profile to not judge a book by the cover but, unfortunately, the cover usually tells the full story. |
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By *ello OP Woman 20 weeks ago
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"I would say this is predominantly a male thing. Not sure I've seen too many off putting female usernames let alone being messaged by any."
There does seem to be less single female profiles with dodgy usernames but there are definitely a fair share of couples profiles with very interesting name choices |
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I tend to avoid contact with people using names like "arsebuster1000" and "SpunkHose999". They're either false advertising, or if not, I think I'd like to keep my arse intact and my bedroom unhosed... |
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By (user no longer on site) 20 weeks ago
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If they have a lewd, graphic username or a similar status or one moaning about the site, members or lack of meets etc then I will just delete the message without reading it.
Same result if I look on their profile and it is nothing but wall to wall dick pics and a single line of text (or the ridiculous 'will fill in later' and they have been here a year). |
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Yeah anything with 'Alpha' or 'King' or something lame like that is always a no.
Very rarely get messages from people like that anymore though. Just checking my inbox and it's mostly some form of a normal name |
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By *ello OP Woman 20 weeks ago
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"Surely you can do better than “Hello” though😂
Is 'Hello', rude or offensive?  I'll have to Google and see if it has an additional meaning I'm not aware of
Its not. Just a tiny bit bland, no?😭"
Don't remember asking but thank you for letting me know, I'll be sure to change it to something more to your liking because obviously I really really care about your opinion  |
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"Surely you can do better than “Hello” though😂
Is 'Hello', rude or offensive? I'll have to Google and see if it has an additional meaning I'm not aware of
Its not. Just a tiny bit bland, no?😭
Don't remember asking but thank you for letting me know, I'll be sure to change it to something more to your liking because obviously I really really care about your opinion "
Lmao, you made this thread about usernames, don’t be salty if yours gets judged. No one can tell me “Hello” is not a bland username💀 |
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Speaking of username. Op, I don’t even need to open yours to read the one word greeting in the DM you probably sent….
Anyway, user names shm’user names. I’ve read much worse than a badly thought out Pun name (like mine normally are) when I become apparent that they don’t think it through is when they put there name on a guest list in the meets forums. It’s normaly a dead giveaway what kinks they are into.  |
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By *avie65Man 20 weeks ago
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"Surely you can do better than “Hello” though😂
Is 'Hello', rude or offensive? I'll have to Google and see if it has an additional meaning I'm not aware of "
Did only like the first part of a Softcell song OP.  |
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By (user no longer on site) 20 weeks ago
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I got a message the other day out of the blue stating that my username needed changing as it could be aligned with the miscreant gregg Wallace and his behaviour, my reply was I am named after the popular sausage roll place on every corner but now I’m thinking do I need a name change |
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"I got a message the other day out of the blue stating that my username needed changing as it could be aligned with the miscreant gregg Wallace and his behaviour, my reply was I am named after the popular sausage roll place on every corner but now I’m thinking do I need a name change "
I wouldn’t say gregg Wallace but Greg’s the bakers comes to my mind up to you if you change your username though |
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By *aizyWoman 20 weeks ago
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"I got a message the other day out of the blue stating that my username needed changing as it could be aligned with the miscreant gregg Wallace and his behaviour, my reply was I am named after the popular sausage roll place on every corner but now I’m thinking do I need a name change
I wouldn’t say gregg Wallace but Greg’s the bakers comes to my mind up to you if you change your username though "
Tbh I just assumed your name was Gregg 🤷♀️ |
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By (user no longer on site) 20 weeks ago
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To be fair some of the usernames are funny. I've not seen any that make me feel icky but I've seen a few profile pictures that make me go jesustittyfuckingchrist you cannot be serious |
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"I got a message the other day out of the blue stating that my username needed changing as it could be aligned with the miscreant gregg Wallace and his behaviour, my reply was I am named after the popular sausage roll place on every corner but now I’m thinking do I need a name change I wouldn’t say gregg Wallace but Greg’s the bakers comes to my mind up to you if you change your username though "
Yours is one of my favourite user names. |
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