Go to a club. Over the years we've even bumped in to a few totaly monogamous couples who aren't swingers and don't play with others. They purely go for voyeurism and/or exhibitionism and to just enjoy the sexually charged ambiance and social side of the scene. Just to point out you don't have to swing at clubs and you are still perfectly welcome. Clubs are just a really cool place to make friends, get away from it and see a few things you don't see in the vanilla world. Prefect place to dip your toe into the scene regardless of if you want to watch and be watch or slowly take things towards involving others. You make the rules and go at your speed, the club just provides the play ground to do it in. |
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