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Sore Subject maybe ... Anal.....
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So then...what's everyone's views on Anal? Like, dislike or not arsed. (Excuse the pun)!
My ex wife said she'd never do it when we 1st got together, but after the 1st time she went wild and would ask everytime we had sex. Honestly I asked her to keep it 'special' and just do it once a month. Lol. 
Personally speaking I like it as it does add something else, bit I don't know what. It's almost like the chocolate starfish is special and it moves the sexual relationship to another level.
Always, always take your tim3 and be prepared to abandon it if it doesn't go well or feel right. It could ruin an evening and I'd never want that to happen! |
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I don't like being fucked anally I don't find it pleaureable.
I can enjoy a small to medium sized buttplug up there during sex as it makes me feel "full" and can make the sex feel different in a good way, and maybe anal beads, but I don't like being too stretched and I don't like constant in and out just leave it in there.
I just find it painful and not pleasurable. Last time someone tried to fuck me anally they made me bleed and I was sore for days so I'd just rather not have a cock or big toy up there  |
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"I don't like being fucked anally I don't find it pleaureable.
I can enjoy a small to medium sized buttplug up there during sex as it makes me feel "full" and can make the sex feel different in a good way, and maybe anal beads, but I don't like being too stretched and I don't like constant in and out just leave it in there.
I just find it painful and not pleasurable. Last time someone tried to fuck me anally they made me bleed and I was sore for days so I'd just rather not have a cock or big toy up there "
Totally get what you mean. Why would anyone enjoy something that causes pain and discomfort? I've found that if the situation is right and relaxed then it has been better for the ladies I've been with but slow and steady and abandon if it doesn't feel right. X |
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I'm really not sure. I've done it twice. First time I hated it (could be context related) and the second time I loved it (definitely context related)
It's never come up with recent partners though and it isn't something that I'm dying to do again. But I guess I am vaguely curious. |
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"I don't like being fucked anally I don't find it pleaureable.
I can enjoy a small to medium sized buttplug up there during sex as it makes me feel "full" and can make the sex feel different in a good way, and maybe anal beads, but I don't like being too stretched and I don't like constant in and out just leave it in there.
I just find it painful and not pleasurable. Last time someone tried to fuck me anally they made me bleed and I was sore for days so I'd just rather not have a cock or big toy up there
Totally get what you mean. Why would anyone enjoy something that causes pain and discomfort? I've found that if the situation is right and relaxed then it has been better for the ladies I've been with but slow and steady and abandon if it doesn't feel right. X"
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As a man it’s Something I like to do . A women who likes it I think of being totally uninhibited. Probably doesn’t mean that but it’s how I think . Not something you do all the time and it takes a lot of prep to avoid and mess. |
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"As a man it’s Something I like to do . A women who likes it I think of being totally uninhibited. Probably doesn’t mean that but it’s how I think . Not something you do all the time and it takes a lot of prep to avoid and mess. "
I hate it, but that doesn't make my inhibited. It causes me excruciating pain. |
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By *avinaTVTV/TS 18 weeks ago
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You'll be unsurprised to hear that I receive it. I love it! The feeling of being stretched and fucked by a guy who's that into me that he wants to copulate with me is intense and incredibly intimate. I need plenty of lube, and initial patience, and then it's just amazing!
I'd really love to experience an anal orgasm, but I haven't met a guy who can give me one yet. 😜
I do fully understand that it isn't for everyone, though.  |
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"As a man it’s Something I like to do . A women who likes it I think of being totally uninhibited. Probably doesn’t mean that but it’s how I think . Not something you do all the time and it takes a lot of prep to avoid and mess.
I hate it, but that doesn't make my inhibited. It causes me excruciating pain."
*me |
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By (user no longer on site) 18 weeks ago
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"If it hurts, it's your body's way of telling you not do it. No one should be pressured into it, that's for sure."
And possibly a sign to stick up on the germoloids... |
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"If it hurts, it's your body's way of telling you not do it. No one should be pressured into it, that's for sure.
And possibly a sign to stick up on the germoloids..."
What a typo roll
Stock. I meant stock! |
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"If it hurts, it's your body's way of telling you not do it. No one should be pressured into it, that's for sure.
And possibly a sign to stick up on the germoloids...
What a typo roll
Stock. I meant stock!"
Ffs
I'm going back to bed |
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By *eliWoman 18 weeks ago
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"If it hurts, it's your body's way of telling you not do it. No one should be pressured into it, that's for sure.
And possibly a sign to stick up on the germoloids...
What a typo roll
Stock. I meant stock!
Ffs
I'm going back to bed"
Don't give up Neil, you're doing so well. I'm really proud of you. ⭐️ |
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"If it hurts, it's your body's way of telling you not do it. No one should be pressured into it, that's for sure."
Thank you! I shall stop doing the exercises at the gym that hurt me going forward  |
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By (user no longer on site) 18 weeks ago
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My partner wasnt keen on the idea, but I showed her that if you take your time, relax and dont rush things it can be very enjoyable for us both. Now, she loves it. |
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I really enjoy anal but only with a very trusted partner who knows and understands my body and reactions and will stop immediately.
Thats probably why I've not been able to fulfill my dp fantasy as finding the right partners for it is a challenge.
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By *avinaTVTV/TS 18 weeks ago
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"If it hurts, it's your body's way of telling you not do it. No one should be pressured into it, that's for sure.
And possibly a sign to stick up on the germoloids...
What a typo roll
Stock. I meant stock!"
We know you did... 😏 |
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By *avinaTVTV/TS 18 weeks ago
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"If it hurts, it's your body's way of telling you not do it. No one should be pressured into it, that's for sure.
Thank you! I shall stop doing the exercises at the gym that hurt me going forward "
I would.
No pain, no pain! |
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"As a man it’s Something I like to do . A women who likes it I think of being totally uninhibited. Probably doesn’t mean that but it’s how I think . Not something you do all the time and it takes a lot of prep to avoid and mess.
I hate it, but that doesn't make my inhibited. It causes me excruciating pain."
This ☝️☝️☝️ |
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I do quite like it for the filthy/taboo nature of it but it has to be something that she has to unequivocally be into so that I don't feel bad for all the extra effort she would need to prep and get ready. Granted, that would be needed even if she was into it, but at the I know the extra effort is worth it on her part of that makes sense? |
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By (user no longer on site) 18 weeks ago
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I'm a bit of a failure when it comes to anal. I've had it where I've hated it. I've had it where I've really enjoyed it. I've failed to have it. I've refused to have it. I've had it where it's been ok. Mostly I think I'm not that bothered but largely find it uncomfortable. If a partner wants it we'll attempt to go there. I ain't promising nuffin!! If they complain I'll offer to fuck their arse instead. |
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By *EAT..85Woman 18 weeks ago
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I like it as a treat.
No one ever talks about the consequences of anal though, certainly not the straight guys trying to put their penis in you having never received it (& the consequences) themselves. |
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By (user no longer on site) 18 weeks ago
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"I love anal. I love a plug in when I'm having some solo time, and when I'm getting fucked I'm always waiting for it to be slipped into my arse  it feels filthy and I love it  "
This….. the rest of sex is just a build up to the proper event of anal |
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Switching from pussy to ass is exiting, lol, even at my age. Not saying pussy isn’t tight, but after pounding it for some time, the switch over is even tighter and can’t finish me off in no time at all.
If done properly, nobody should find it painful, or feel sore afterwards. So don’t forget to use plenty of lube… |
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