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"So how many are married and cheat on this site. Male or female.if so why are you cheating "
if not they’re married there’s some sad cunt in a council flat
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By *olo180Man 15 weeks ago
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"So how many are married and cheat on this site. Male or female.if so why are you cheating if not they’re married there’s some sad cunt in a council flat "
Bit judgemental…I own my own flat! |
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"I met married men. It said on my profile. There was no need to lie.
What I wouldn't tolerate was moaning and being disrespectful about their wife's."
But they are being disrespectful about their wives, and so are you |
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"I met married men. It said on my profile. There was no need to lie.
What I wouldn't tolerate was moaning and being disrespectful about their wife's.
But they are being disrespectful about their wives, and so are you"
There's ways of doing things. Some just quietly get on with it Yes they are still disrespecting their wives but its not as bad those who winge and whine. We all have our own moral compass |
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"I met married men. It said on my profile. There was no need to lie.
What I wouldn't tolerate was moaning and being disrespectful about their wife's.
But they are being disrespectful about their wives, and so are youThere's ways of doing things. Some just quietly get on with it Yes they are still disrespecting their wives but its not as bad those who winge and whine. We all have our own moral compass"
Not whining or moaning about it, makes it no less disrespectful |
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"I met married men. It said on my profile. There was no need to lie.
What I wouldn't tolerate was moaning and being disrespectful about their wife's.
But they are being disrespectful about their wives, and so are youThere's ways of doing things. Some just quietly get on with it Yes they are still disrespecting their wives but its not as bad those who winge and whine. We all have our own moral compass
Not whining or moaning about it, makes it no less disrespectful "
That's your opinion which differs from mine |
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"I met married men. It said on my profile. There was no need to lie.
What I wouldn't tolerate was moaning and being disrespectful about their wife's.
But they are being disrespectful about their wives, and so are youThere's ways of doing things. Some just quietly get on with it Yes they are still disrespecting their wives but its not as bad those who winge and whine. We all have our own moral compass
Not whining or moaning about it, makes it no less disrespectful That's your opinion which differs from mine"
Just facts |
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"I met married men. It said on my profile. There was no need to lie.
What I wouldn't tolerate was moaning and being disrespectful about their wife's.
But they are being disrespectful about their wives, and so are youThere's ways of doing things. Some just quietly get on with it Yes they are still disrespecting their wives but its not as bad those who winge and whine. We all have our own moral compass
Not whining or moaning about it, makes it no less disrespectful That's your opinion which differs from mine
Just facts"
Not really. You don’t want to meet married people then don’t. In my experience the married ones have been nicer and more respectful. |
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"I met married men. It said on my profile. There was no need to lie.
What I wouldn't tolerate was moaning and being disrespectful about their wife's.
But they are being disrespectful about their wives, and so are youThere's ways of doing things. Some just quietly get on with it Yes they are still disrespecting their wives but its not as bad those who winge and whine. We all have our own moral compass
Not whining or moaning about it, makes it no less disrespectful That's your opinion which differs from mine
Just facts
Not really. You don’t want to meet married people then don’t. In my experience the married ones have been nicer and more respectful. "
Not about their wives, or husbands  |
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"I think it’s so so easy to tell. Luckily never met anyone who’s lied about it. Wouldn’t bother me if they were married. Lying about it would. "
I wonder...I've heard of people being in Fab relationships for literally years before discovering the other person was married! |
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"I met married men. It said on my profile. There was no need to lie.
What I wouldn't tolerate was moaning and being disrespectful about their wife's.
But they are being disrespectful about their wives, and so are youThere's ways of doing things. Some just quietly get on with it Yes they are still disrespecting their wives but its not as bad those who winge and whine. We all have our own moral compass
Not whining or moaning about it, makes it no less disrespectful That's your opinion which differs from mine
Just facts
Not really. You don’t want to meet married people then don’t. In my experience the married ones have been nicer and more respectful.
Not about their wives, or husbands "
You don't want to meet married men fair enough just don't meet them |
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"I think it’s so so easy to tell. Luckily never met anyone who’s lied about it. Wouldn’t bother me if they were married. Lying about it would.
I wonder...I've heard of people being in Fab relationships for literally years before discovering the other person was married! "
That would piss me right off. I know for sure as most are married. The couple that weren’t 100% weren’t. |
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"I met married men. It said on my profile. There was no need to lie.
What I wouldn't tolerate was moaning and being disrespectful about their wife's.
But they are being disrespectful about their wives, and so are youThere's ways of doing things. Some just quietly get on with it Yes they are still disrespecting their wives but its not as bad those who winge and whine. We all have our own moral compass
Not whining or moaning about it, makes it no less disrespectful That's your opinion which differs from mine
Just facts
Not really. You don’t want to meet married people then don’t. In my experience the married ones have been nicer and more respectful.
Not about their wives, or husbands You don't want to meet married men fair enough just don't meet them"
I won't and don't. I'm just talking about lack of respect. |
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"I think it’s so so easy to tell. Luckily never met anyone who’s lied about it. Wouldn’t bother me if they were married. Lying about it would.
I wonder...I've heard of people being in Fab relationships for literally years before discovering the other person was married!
That would piss me right off. I know for sure as most are married. The couple that weren’t 100% weren’t. "
Do you think that they are being respectful to their unsuspecting partners?? |
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"I think it’s so so easy to tell. Luckily never met anyone who’s lied about it. Wouldn’t bother me if they were married. Lying about it would.
I wonder...I've heard of people being in Fab relationships for literally years before discovering the other person was married!
That would piss me right off. I know for sure as most are married. The couple that weren’t 100% weren’t.
Do you think that they are being respectful to their unsuspecting partners??"
I find it's best not to judge relationships I know nothing about. |
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"I think it’s so so easy to tell. Luckily never met anyone who’s lied about it. Wouldn’t bother me if they were married. Lying about it would.
I wonder...I've heard of people being in Fab relationships for literally years before discovering the other person was married!
That would piss me right off. I know for sure as most are married. The couple that weren’t 100% weren’t.
Do you think that they are being respectful to their unsuspecting partners??
I find it's best not to judge relationships I know nothing about."
Exactly. Every situation is different. I’m not explaining myself on here either. I couldn’t give a toss what other people do. |
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We've seen people on here who will slate those on here who are cheating and refuse to have anything to do with them, but then when they go to a club,they will happily fuck people there without even chatting to them much first and finding out their marital status.
Double standards right there. Laughable really.
It seems some people suddenly can leave their morals and principles at the door of the club when whey walk in.
Personally, we try to reserve judgement as we never know what fully goes on behind people's own front doors.
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"We've seen people on here who will slate those on here who are cheating and refuse to have anything to do with them, but then when they go to a club,they will happily fuck people there without even chatting to them much first and finding out their marital status.
Double standards right there. Laughable really.
It seems some people suddenly can leave their morals and principles at the door of the club when whey walk in.
Personally, we try to reserve judgement as we never know what fully goes on behind people's own front doors.
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That last paragraph is so true Ruby. But some just see black or white. Which is fair enough but not worth having a conversation/debate over as nobody’s gonna change their mind 🤷♀️ x |
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"We've seen people on here who will slate those on here who are cheating and refuse to have anything to do with them, but then when they go to a club,they will happily fuck people there without even chatting to them much first and finding out their marital status.
Double standards right there. Laughable really.
It seems some people suddenly can leave their morals and principles at the door of the club when whey walk in.
Personally, we try to reserve judgement as we never know what fully goes on behind people's own front doors.
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It's a pretty good Forum rule of thumb that the most self righteous in public are the worst behaved in private. |
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"We've seen people on here who will slate those on here who are cheating and refuse to have anything to do with them, but then when they go to a club,they will happily fuck people there without even chatting to them much first and finding out their marital status.
Double standards right there. Laughable really.
It seems some people suddenly can leave their morals and principles at the door of the club when whey walk in.
Personally, we try to reserve judgement as we never know what fully goes on behind people's own front doors.
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I think this is a good point well made. I've met plenty of single men and women in clubs and nobody starts asking them about their marital status before asking if they want to join them. I've probably met plenty of "single" men on here, in clubs, on dating apps who have secret partners (some of which I found out about).
At least the ones who are up front about it are being honest, and then those who take a strong moral dislike to adultery can give them a wide berth. I'm sure you'd rather that then find out *after* you've fucked them.
As for what other people chose to do and who they chose to have sex with, it's not really anyone else's business is it? Taking the moral high ground isn't going to change anyone's mind. There's a plethora of reasons as to why people may be on here without their partner's knowledge. You could be here til tomorrow discussing it.
Everyone has their own reasons. And if its not for you, then don't fuck them |
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Speaking from my someone who was cheated on, if I found out, the person I was seeing via this site is married and was having fun behind their husbands back. I'd feel uneasy. This isn't me trying to be self righteous or anything, I'd feel bad and wouldn't be able to have fun with that person. Each to their own though. |
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"I always found married men more suitable as they didn't expect to much of my time"
I've found married women to be the most genuine about meeting in here; no strings, no dramas, just share some great times and then back to 'normal'.
They rarely leave veris though.....  |
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By (user no longer on site) 15 weeks ago
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"Personally, we try to reserve judgement as we never know what fully goes on behind people's own front doors.
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I used to be firmly against meeting anyone who was cheating, it seemed black and white to me. But after being badly hurt by a couple of genuinely single men (including one I was with for eight years), my perspective shifted. They were some of the most manipulative people I’ve met. They had no reason to lie, yet did.
Now, I care less about someone’s relationship status and more about how they treat me. If they’re upfront, don’t badmouth their partner, and behave with consistency and care, I’m far less likely to end up dealing with head games. I might not understand why people stay in unfulfilling relationships, but it’s not my place to judge. |
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As with everything that gets debated in these here forums, whether that be sexual orientation, body shape, kink/vanilla, race/colour, dick-size, body-count, marital status or what fucking song you're listening to right now, my stance is always the same; we all have our views, our likes, our dislikes and preferences. If they were all the same it would be boring!...
Everyone's outlook should be, you do you, I'll do me. If those outlooks are aligned then maybe we could do each other!! but if not, have a nice day and let's leave each other alone! For a community and lifestyle that on the whole gets judged by the rest of the 'normal' population, it's a shame there's so much judgement with-in it (and I'm talking generally about all of the above, not just married folk).
The one thing that I do find amusing is the fact I have met women who openly berate the married man publicly, but didn't seem to worry about it so much as they wrapped their mouths around my cock! |
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"The one thing that I do find amusing is the fact I have met women who openly berate the married man publicly, but didn't seem to worry about it so much as they wrapped their mouths around my cock!"
😱 Surely not  |
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"As with everything that gets debated in these here forums, whether that be sexual orientation, body shape, kink/vanilla, race/colour, dick-size, body-count, marital status or what fucking song you're listening to right now, my stance is always the same; we all have our views, our likes, our dislikes and preferences. If they were all the same it would be boring!...
Everyone's outlook should be, you do you, I'll do me. If those outlooks are aligned then maybe we could do each other!! but if not, have a nice day and let's leave each other alone! For a community and lifestyle that on the whole gets judged by the rest of the 'normal' population, it's a shame there's so much judgement with-in it (and I'm talking generally about all of the above, not just married folk).
The one thing that I do find amusing is the fact I have met women who openly berate the married man publicly, but didn't seem to worry about it so much as they wrapped their mouths around my cock!"
I agree some morals seem to go out the window, if the man or woman is attractive to them.
I respect the people who do state on their profiles that they're married. I wouldn't choose to meet them, but at least they're giving people the choice to get involved or not.
I do get annoyed by those who try to hide it and meet people by being deceptive or those who still message me, when it says in my profile I'm not interested in anyone cheating. |
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"As with everything that gets debated in these here forums, whether that be sexual orientation, body shape, kink/vanilla, race/colour, dick-size, body-count, marital status or what fucking song you're listening to right now, my stance is always the same; we all have our views, our likes, our dislikes and preferences. If they were all the same it would be boring!...
Everyone's outlook should be, you do you, I'll do me. If those outlooks are aligned then maybe we could do each other!! but if not, have a nice day and let's leave each other alone! For a community and lifestyle that on the whole gets judged by the rest of the 'normal' population, it's a shame there's so much judgement with-in it (and I'm talking generally about all of the above, not just married folk).
The one thing that I do find amusing is the fact I have met women who openly berate the married man publicly, but didn't seem to worry about it so much as they wrapped their mouths around my cock!"
married men bashing isn't as bad as it used to be. Was rife at one time with the same women badmouthing the men. Used to find it highly amusing when I found out they where seeing the same married men as me |
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"The one thing that I do find amusing is the fact I have met women who openly berate the married man publicly, but didn't seem to worry about it so much as they wrapped their mouths around my cock!
😱 Surely not "
Shocking if true  |
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By (user no longer on site) 15 weeks ago
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"The one thing that I do find amusing is the fact I have met women who openly berate the married man publicly, but didn't seem to worry about it so much as they wrapped their mouths around my cock!
😱 Surely not
Shocking if true "
The majority of guys on the forums are married or in relationships.
I prefer it as they don't get overly clingy! |
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"The one thing that I do find amusing is the fact I have met women who openly berate the married man publicly, but didn't seem to worry about it so much as they wrapped their mouths around my cock!
😱 Surely not
Shocking if true "
I learned a long time ago what people say and do are two different things |
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"The one thing that I do find amusing is the fact I have met women who openly berate the married man publicly, but didn't seem to worry about it so much as they wrapped their mouths around my cock!
😱 Surely not
Shocking if true "
just take no notice of what people say until you've seen proof with your own eyes.
People's true colours always shine through on here |
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"I never comment or pass judgement as nobody knows people's circumstances. "
Quite true, but I do love it when I get messaged by and hook up with married "straight" men - knowing that they are looking for something they can't get at home |
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"It’s mad how many people can change with a drink in them and then they regret it the next day when they are sober "
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Some people are sober as Judges when they change, and those very people have no regrets the following day. 🩶 |
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"The one thing that I do find amusing is the fact I have met women who openly berate the married man publicly, but didn't seem to worry about it so much as they wrapped their mouths around my cock!
😱 Surely not
Shocking if true just take no notice of what people say until you've seen proof with your own eyes.
People's true colours always shine through on here"
fact! |
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"I think it’s so so easy to tell. Luckily never met anyone who’s lied about it. Wouldn’t bother me if they were married. Lying about it would.
I wonder...I've heard of people being in Fab relationships for literally years before discovering the other person was married!
That would piss me right off. I know for sure as most are married. The couple that weren’t 100% weren’t.
Do you think that they are being respectful to their unsuspecting partners??
I find it's best not to judge relationships I know nothing about."
We are not judging anyone.
However should their not be respect and honesty between life partners?
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"I think it’s so so easy to tell. Luckily never met anyone who’s lied about it. Wouldn’t bother me if they were married. Lying about it would.
I wonder...I've heard of people being in Fab relationships for literally years before discovering the other person was married!
That would piss me right off. I know for sure as most are married. The couple that weren’t 100% weren’t.
Do you think that they are being respectful to their unsuspecting partners??
I find it's best not to judge relationships I know nothing about.
We are not judging anyone.
However should their not be respect and honesty between life partners?
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In an ideal world there would be ideal partnerships but humans are emotionally messy creatures. |
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I’m a married man and playing away discreetly. I know there are lot that don’t agree however everyone’s circumstances are different. If they don’t want to be involved I have no issue with being told and respect that as much as I hope they don’t disrespect the other way.
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