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"You’re doing far better than most by the looks of it! "
Agree - three great veris …. All from women who have found you charming, a great kisser and social.
Your profile is articulate and clear. It outlines what you like and what you can do.
Your photos are similar. The obligatory cock shot to show you’re still male but indispersed with clothes and full face photos.
Like the other women have said, maybe it is what you’re saying that has resulted in no replies ….. or that you’re now reaching the ying of no replies to the Yang of encounters you’ve had! The universe is after a balance …. After feast …. Comes famine!
Buckle up x
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Are you that bad in what way ?
Looks or conversation ?
If it's conversation you REALLY want , try other real life , face to face places.
What you mean is SEX you can't get a sexual interest from women on here.
There may be many reasons but ONE reason is this...... ( a bit of imagination needed here )
Idris: Hi Granny. Did you see the eclipse of the moon last week? Wasn't it breathtakingly stunning ?
Granny glances at his picture quickly...
Granny thinking : Hmmmm great convo but if I start to share what I think about the moon he will tell me about the time he stuck his cock in it and then ask me if I could get a moon up my clunge and I JUST DON'T FANCY HIM.
Conversation AND unwanted sex...... over.
Granny goes back to reading the forum while Idris pisses in the wind on Mums net. |
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"You’re doing far better than most by the looks of it!
Agree - three great veris …. All from women who have found you charming, a great kisser and social.
Your profile is articulate and clear. It outlines what you like and what you can do.
Your photos are similar. The obligatory cock shot to show you’re still male but indispersed with clothes and full face photos.
Like the other women have said, maybe it is what you’re saying that has resulted in no replies ….. or that you’re now reaching the ying of no replies to the Yang of encounters you’ve had! The universe is after a balance …. After feast …. Comes famine!
Buckle up x
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I think we must be looking at different profiles, or maybe OP decided to take minimalist approach...
OP, is your profile showing you in the best light possible? Explaining to people why they should choose you over thousands of other guys? If yes, don't change a thing. |
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That's fair enough.
I think the thing with most is, when you are a genuine person and your message gets read and deleted, not even a "thank you but no" majority of the time.
Yet we see many ladies saying a good message trumps looks, 
I guess majority allow ourselves to get into our own head sometimes.
I've learnt not to let it both me now, however I think we should encourage the acknowledgement of those that actually put time into messages rather than, "select dick pic, send message". Cringe that grown men are having their cock as a profile picture imo. |
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"That's fair enough.
I think the thing with most is, when you are a genuine person and your message gets read and deleted, not even a "thank you but no" majority of the time.
Yet we see many ladies saying a good message trumps looks,
without opening your profile I knew exactly what it would be like
I guess majority allow ourselves to get into our own head sometimes.
I've learnt not to let it both me now, however I think we should encourage the acknowledgement of those that actually put time into messages rather than, "select dick pic, send message". Cringe that grown men are having their cock as a profile picture imo."
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"That's fair enough.
I think the thing with most is, when you are a genuine person and your message gets read and deleted, not even a "thank you but no" majority of the time.
Yet we see many ladies saying a good message trumps looks,
I guess majority allow ourselves to get into our own head sometimes.
I've learnt not to let it both me now, however I think we should encourage the acknowledgement of those that actually put time into messages rather than, "select dick pic, send message". Cringe that grown men are having their cock as a profile picture imo."
Just treat the place like a pub and think if that woman was in a pub do I think she’d come over and speak to me or would I go and speak to her and get a good response. I’m not going to message an unbelievably good looking woman as I’m not going to get her attention off the site. Then you don’t set yourself up for failure. That’s my way anyway also as single men on here we’re not the power imagine what the girls inboxes are like must be a minefield so just don’t worry and move on with it mate. |
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"That's fair enough.
I think the thing with most is, when you are a genuine person and your message gets read and deleted, not even a "thank you but no" majority of the time.
Yet we see many ladies saying a good message trumps looks,
I guess majority allow ourselves to get into our own head sometimes.
I've learnt not to let it both me now, however I think we should encourage the acknowledgement of those that actually put time into messages rather than, "select dick pic, send message". Cringe that grown men are having their cock as a profile picture imo.
Just treat the place like a pub and think if that woman was in a pub do I think she’d come over and speak to me or would I go and speak to her and get a good response. I’m not going to message an unbelievably good looking woman as I’m not going to get her attention off the site. Then you don’t set yourself up for failure. That’s my way anyway also as single men on here we’re not the power imagine what the girls inboxes are like must be a minefield so just don’t worry and move on with it mate. "
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"That's fair enough.
I think the thing with most is, when you are a genuine person and your message gets read and deleted, not even a "thank you but no" majority of the time.
Yet we see many ladies saying a good message trumps looks,
I guess majority allow ourselves to get into our own head sometimes.
I've learnt not to let it both me now, however I think we should encourage the acknowledgement of those that actually put time into messages rather than, "select dick pic, send message". Cringe that grown men are having their cock as a profile picture imo.
Just treat the place like a pub and think if that woman was in a pub do I think she’d come over and speak to me or would I go and speak to her and get a good response. I’m not going to message an unbelievably good looking woman as I’m not going to get her attention off the site. Then you don’t set yourself up for failure. That’s my way anyway also as single men on here we’re not the power imagine what the girls inboxes are like must be a minefield so just don’t worry and move on with it mate. another one whose profile is could guess. I'm becoming quite the mind reader on this thread "
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"That's fair enough.
I think the thing with most is, when you are a genuine person and your message gets read and deleted, not even a "thank you but no" majority of the time.
Yet we see many ladies saying a good message trumps looks,
I guess majority allow ourselves to get into our own head sometimes.
I've learnt not to let it both me now, however I think we should encourage the acknowledgement of those that actually put time into messages rather than, "select dick pic, send message". Cringe that grown men are having their cock as a profile picture imo.
Just treat the place like a pub and think if that woman was in a pub do I think she’d come over and speak to me or would I go and speak to her and get a good response. I’m not going to message an unbelievably good looking woman as I’m not going to get her attention off the site. Then you don’t set yourself up for failure. That’s my way anyway also as single men on here we’re not the power imagine what the girls inboxes are like must be a minefield so just don’t worry and move on with it mate. another one whose profile is could guess. I'm becoming quite the mind reader on this thread
What do you mean sorry I don’t understand? "
you've puy zero effort into your profile text |
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"That's fair enough.
I think the thing with most is, when you are a genuine person and your message gets read and deleted, not even a "thank you but no" majority of the time.
Yet we see many ladies saying a good message trumps looks,
I guess majority allow ourselves to get into our own head sometimes.
I've learnt not to let it both me now, however I think we should encourage the acknowledgement of those that actually put time into messages rather than, "select dick pic, send message". Cringe that grown men are having their cock as a profile picture imo.
Just treat the place like a pub and think if that woman was in a pub do I think she’d come over and speak to me or would I go and speak to her and get a good response. I’m not going to message an unbelievably good looking woman as I’m not going to get her attention off the site. Then you don’t set yourself up for failure. That’s my way anyway also as single men on here we’re not the power imagine what the girls inboxes are like must be a minefield so just don’t worry and move on with it mate. another one whose profile is could guess. I'm becoming quite the mind reader on this thread
What do you mean sorry I don’t understand? you've puy zero effort into your profile text"
I don’t see it matters if you send a message that’s has effort in but opinions are opinions. I just think it comes down to the female or partner deciding you’re not for them and that’s fine nothing more nothing less |
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"You’re doing far better than most by the looks of it!
Agree - three great veris …. All from women who have found you charming, a great kisser and social."
I know someone who said in her veri that the bloke was good with his hands. What she was referring to was he could play the guitar. Just saying...🤷🏾♂️ |
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"That's fair enough.
I think the thing with most is, when you are a genuine person and your message gets read and deleted, not even a "thank you but no" majority of the time.
Yet we see many ladies saying a good message trumps looks,
I guess majority allow ourselves to get into our own head sometimes.
I've learnt not to let it both me now, however I think we should encourage the acknowledgement of those that actually put time into messages rather than, "select dick pic, send message". Cringe that grown men are having their cock as a profile picture imo.
Just treat the place like a pub and think if that woman was in a pub do I think she’d come over and speak to me or would I go and speak to her and get a good response. I’m not going to message an unbelievably good looking woman as I’m not going to get her attention off the site. Then you don’t set yourself up for failure. That’s my way anyway also as single men on here we’re not the power imagine what the girls inboxes are like must be a minefield so just don’t worry and move on with it mate. another one whose profile is could guess. I'm becoming quite the mind reader on this thread
What do you mean sorry I don’t understand? you've puy zero effort into your profile text
I don’t see it matters if you send a message that’s has effort in but opinions are opinions. I just think it comes down to the female or partner deciding you’re not for them and that’s fine nothing more nothing less "
But most people read the profile before opening the message. You can send the best message but if you haven't got a good profile it won't even get read |
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"That's fair enough.
I think the thing with most is, when you are a genuine person and your message gets read and deleted, not even a "thank you but no" majority of the time.
Yet we see many ladies saying a good message trumps looks,
I guess majority allow ourselves to get into our own head sometimes.
I've learnt not to let it both me now, however I think we should encourage the acknowledgement of those that actually put time into messages rather than, "select dick pic, send message". Cringe that grown men are having their cock as a profile picture imo.
Just treat the place like a pub and think if that woman was in a pub do I think she’d come over and speak to me or would I go and speak to her and get a good response. I’m not going to message an unbelievably good looking woman as I’m not going to get her attention off the site. Then you don’t set yourself up for failure. That’s my way anyway also as single men on here we’re not the power imagine what the girls inboxes are like must be a minefield so just don’t worry and move on with it mate. another one whose profile is could guess. I'm becoming quite the mind reader on this thread
What do you mean sorry I don’t understand? you've puy zero effort into your profile text
I don’t see it matters if you send a message that’s has effort in but opinions are opinions. I just think it comes down to the female or partner deciding you’re not for them and that’s fine nothing more nothing less But most people read the profile before opening the message. You can send the best message but if you haven't got a good profile it won't even get read"
Yeah maybe I was just trying to be nice to the lad and help him out but I’ll take your subtle dig and continue on my merry little way. Hope you find what you’re after on here x |
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"These women who have their own choices, how dare they?!
Disgusting if you ask me
Exactly what we're chatting about!! 😂 😂 😂 "
Yeah just be chilled fellas if someone wants it speak they will. Same as anywhere in life |
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"That's fair enough.
I think the thing with most is, when you are a genuine person and your message gets read and deleted, not even a "thank you but no" majority of the time.
Yet we see many ladies saying a good message trumps looks,
I guess majority allow ourselves to get into our own head sometimes.
I've learnt not to let it both me now, however I think we should encourage the acknowledgement of those that actually put time into messages rather than, "select dick pic, send message". Cringe that grown men are having their cock as a profile picture imo.
Just treat the place like a pub and think if that woman was in a pub do I think she’d come over and speak to me or would I go and speak to her and get a good response. I’m not going to message an unbelievably good looking woman as I’m not going to get her attention off the site. Then you don’t set yourself up for failure. That’s my way anyway also as single men on here we’re not the power imagine what the girls inboxes are like must be a minefield so just don’t worry and move on with it mate. another one whose profile is could guess. I'm becoming quite the mind reader on this thread
What do you mean sorry I don’t understand? you've puy zero effort into your profile text
I don’t see it matters if you send a message that’s has effort in but opinions are opinions. I just think it comes down to the female or partner deciding you’re not for them and that’s fine nothing more nothing less But most people read the profile before opening the message. You can send the best message but if you haven't got a good profile it won't even get read
Yeah maybe I was just trying to be nice to the lad and help him out but I’ll take your subtle dig and continue on my merry little way. Hope you find what you’re after on here x"
didn't think there was anything subtle about it |
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You've got three verifications OP. You're doing better well by fab standards. As for most not wanting to chat, it is fab. Single guys are at a disadvantage due to the numbers. Either keep perserving or continue chatting to those who you've met or talked too before.
You need a thick skin on here. Rejection is part and parcel of being on here. We all get rejected. I'm not everyone's cup of tea and that is fine. |
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"That's fair enough.
I think the thing with most is, when you are a genuine person and your message gets read and deleted, not even a "thank you but no" majority of the time.
Yet we see many ladies saying a good message trumps looks,
I guess majority allow ourselves to get into our own head sometimes.
I've learnt not to let it both me now, however I think we should encourage the acknowledgement of those that actually put time into messages rather than, "select dick pic, send message". Cringe that grown men are having their cock as a profile picture imo.
Just treat the place like a pub and think if that woman was in a pub do I think she’d come over and speak to me or would I go and speak to her and get a good response. I’m not going to message an unbelievably good looking woman as I’m not going to get her attention off the site. Then you don’t set yourself up for failure. That’s my way anyway also as single men on here we’re not the power imagine what the girls inboxes are like must be a minefield so just don’t worry and move on with it mate. another one whose profile is could guess. I'm becoming quite the mind reader on this thread
What do you mean sorry I don’t understand? you've puy zero effort into your profile text
I don’t see it matters if you send a message that’s has effort in but opinions are opinions. I just think it comes down to the female or partner deciding you’re not for them and that’s fine nothing more nothing less But most people read the profile before opening the message. You can send the best message but if you haven't got a good profile it won't even get read
Yeah maybe I was just trying to be nice to the lad and help him out but I’ll take your subtle dig and continue on my merry little way. Hope you find what you’re after on here xdidn't think there was anything subtle about it"
It is comical being abused for my profile by a hidden profile just be nice petal life’s too short 😂 |
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"That's fair enough.
I think the thing with most is, when you are a genuine person and your message gets read and deleted, not even a "thank you but no" majority of the time.
Yet we see many ladies saying a good message trumps looks,
I guess majority allow ourselves to get into our own head sometimes.
I've learnt not to let it both me now, however I think we should encourage the acknowledgement of those that actually put time into messages rather than, "select dick pic, send message". Cringe that grown men are having their cock as a profile picture imo.
Just treat the place like a pub and think if that woman was in a pub do I think she’d come over and speak to me or would I go and speak to her and get a good response. I’m not going to message an unbelievably good looking woman as I’m not going to get her attention off the site. Then you don’t set yourself up for failure. That’s my way anyway also as single men on here we’re not the power imagine what the girls inboxes are like must be a minefield so just don’t worry and move on with it mate. another one whose profile is could guess. I'm becoming quite the mind reader on this thread
What do you mean sorry I don’t understand? you've puy zero effort into your profile text
I don’t see it matters if you send a message that’s has effort in but opinions are opinions. I just think it comes down to the female or partner deciding you’re not for them and that’s fine nothing more nothing less But most people read the profile before opening the message. You can send the best message but if you haven't got a good profile it won't even get read
Yeah maybe I was just trying to be nice to the lad and help him out but I’ll take your subtle dig and continue on my merry little way. Hope you find what you’re after on here xdidn't think there was anything subtle about it
It is comical being abused for my profile by a hidden profile just be nice petal life’s too short 😂"
I'm not abusing you I just can't understand how people can complain when they put zero effort in |
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"That's fair enough.
I think the thing with most is, when you are a genuine person and your message gets read and deleted, not even a "thank you but no" majority of the time.
Yet we see many ladies saying a good message trumps looks,
I guess majority allow ourselves to get into our own head sometimes.
I've learnt not to let it both me now, however I think we should encourage the acknowledgement of those that actually put time into messages rather than, "select dick pic, send message". Cringe that grown men are having their cock as a profile picture imo.
Just treat the place like a pub and think if that woman was in a pub do I think she’d come over and speak to me or would I go and speak to her and get a good response. I’m not going to message an unbelievably good looking woman as I’m not going to get her attention off the site. Then you don’t set yourself up for failure. That’s my way anyway also as single men on here we’re not the power imagine what the girls inboxes are like must be a minefield so just don’t worry and move on with it mate. another one whose profile is could guess. I'm becoming quite the mind reader on this thread
What do you mean sorry I don’t understand? you've puy zero effort into your profile text
I don’t see it matters if you send a message that’s has effort in but opinions are opinions. I just think it comes down to the female or partner deciding you’re not for them and that’s fine nothing more nothing less But most people read the profile before opening the message. You can send the best message but if you haven't got a good profile it won't even get read
Yeah maybe I was just trying to be nice to the lad and help him out but I’ll take your subtle dig and continue on my merry little way. Hope you find what you’re after on here xdidn't think there was anything subtle about it
It is comical being abused for my profile by a hidden profile just be nice petal life’s too short 😂I'm not abusing you I just can't understand how people can complain when they put zero effort in"
I didn’t complain petal not once I was chatting to the guy who seemed he was in a bit of a shitter being nice. Anyway I’m bored enjoy your night x |
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"You started the thread before 6 in the morning 
When I’ve logged on to FAB after 12 and before 6 I can safely say that the guys that have messaged us aren’t wanting any normal conversations 😱
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