Not usually into moaning about anything on here and this is more of expressing surprise rather than anything else. I also assume is not uncommon and happens a lot.
Basically it seems to me that people may view profiles but don't realy read them properly or take any notice of people's prefences and compatibility with one another. Some messages, admitedly some of them just 'hi', are from people who obviously just fire messages at anyone whether compatible or not. Even worse when during conversation it becomes obvious they have ignored everything you said about preferences as if tryingt to change your mind. Just baffles me, that's all  |
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I've had a few messages over the years from people who aren't even that subtle.
These were introductory messages, usually from couples but also a few women.
They were happy to tell me that my bio was bull and they knew that I knew that too and was just taking the piss.
I was too old and too straight to ever be successful here(they obviously missed the veris) and they could fix that for me.
If I shaved the beard off and agreed to play bi they would consider adding me to their to-do lists.
The choice of flippant language was not mine. That was exactly what they said.
Idiot, time waster, loser, geriatric were other words used when I politely told them to fuck off. |
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"Damn. I thought we had to put our names down and other people see who they would be most incompatible with.
In.
In!"
I've ran it through the Fab database Nora and apparently we have a 73.2% compatibility. Which isn't good news for this thread. |
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"Damn. I thought we had to put our names down and other people see who they would be most incompatible with.
In.
In!
I've ran it through the Fab database Nora and apparently we have a 73.2% compatibility. Which isn't good news for this thread."
Ah damn 😞 |
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"Baffles me too but so many people don't read profiles or read them and ignore them anyway"
True, just strange though especially when you take time to share enough for someone to make a reasonable initial judgement but hey ho  |
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By (user no longer on site) 7 weeks ago
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"Damn. I thought we had to put our names down and other people see who they would be most incompatible with.
In.
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Shame we're not. Mind you, my mismatch has gone unlos 🤷♀️ |
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"Damn. I thought we had to put our names down and other people see who they would be most incompatible with.
In.
In!
I've ran it through the Fab database Nora and apparently we have a 73.2% compatibility. Which isn't good news for this thread.
Ah damn 😞"
But you can get your arse over to the Spring Matchmaker and hope for 74% match 😂 |
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"Damn. I thought we had to put our names down and other people see who they would be most incompatible with.
In.
I thought the same
Would be much more fun 🤣"
Mmm I think that the Mods would pull it after 5 mins |
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By *edSirenWoman 7 weeks ago
magic mountain |
"Not usually into moaning about anything on here and this is more of expressing surprise rather than anything else. I also assume is not uncommon and happens a lot.
Basically it seems to me that people may view profiles but don't realy read them properly or take any notice of people's prefences and compatibility with one another. Some messages, admitedly some of them just 'hi', are from people who obviously just fire messages at anyone whether compatible or not. Even worse when during conversation it becomes obvious they have ignored everything you said about preferences as if tryingt to change your mind. Just baffles me, that's all "
I keep my message filters up so nobody can message me first. Every now and then I’ll play roulette and take them down… but generally, it allows me more control over randoms who I know aren’t compatible |
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"I keep my message filters up so nobody can message me first. Every now and then I’ll play roulette and take them down… but generally, it allows me more control over randoms who I know aren’t compatible "
Just tried. You're not lying.
Would have been a carcrsh message anyway, I didn't even read your profile 🙄 |
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"Damn. I thought we had to put our names down and other people see who they would be most incompatible with.
In.
I thought the same
Would be much more fun 🤣
Mmm I think that the Mods would pull it after 5 mins"
Fun 🚔🚨 |
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By *bi HaiveMan 7 weeks ago
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"Baffles me too but so many people don't read profiles or read them and ignore them anyway
True, just strange though especially when you take time to share enough for someone to make a reasonable initial judgement but hey ho "
That relies on two things.
Some people putting the effort into reading.
Some people not taking the lazy scattergun approach of just messaging anyone of the right gender, or who's close by, or.....who has a pulse. 🤷♂️😂😂
Never gonna happen. |
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By *edSirenWoman 7 weeks ago
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"I keep my message filters up so nobody can message me first. Every now and then I’ll play roulette and take them down… but generally, it allows me more control over randoms who I know aren’t compatible
Just tried. You're not lying.
Would have been a carcrsh message anyway, I didn't even read your profile 🙄 "
I spent weeks carefully cultivating it to just the right lure… just to have anyone who wanted to message me not be able to 😁 |
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"Just tried. You're not lying.
Would have been a carcrsh message anyway, I didn't even read your profile 🙄
I spent weeks carefully cultivating it to just the right lure… just to have anyone who wanted to message me not be able to 😁"
Still didn't read it 🤷♂️ 🤣🤣 |
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