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Morning fabbers….
So do you have a process you follow when you get a message? If the message is good do you move onto the photos? Or straight to reading their bio?
Or do you see they’ve messaged so you check out their profile before you even read what they’ve written?
Hope this makes sense …. I’m just being nosey  |
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1. Read message
2. If message is ok, go to profile.
3. First check- height  (I know, but can’t help myself, has to be over 6’ at least)
4. Next- photos
5. Next- bio
If I am intrigued/mildly interested, I’ll reply. At some times if I am reaaallyyyyy bored I will reply anyway, to say I am happy to chat but chances to meet me in person are slim to none. I start being pressured to meet within 2-3 messages, so I block.  |
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Straight to read the profile, then read the message, if they are of any interest then look at pics and reply to message. If I'm not interested reply with a no thank you if its a decent message and profile, just a delete of message if no effort has been made |
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"1. Read message
2. If message is ok, go to profile.
3. First check- height (I know, but can’t help myself, has to be over 6’ at least)
4. Next- photos
5. Next- bio
If I am intrigued/mildly interested, I’ll reply. At some times if I am reaaallyyyyy bored I will reply anyway, to say I am happy to chat but chances to meet me in person are slim to none. I start being pressured to meet within 2-3 messages, so I block. "
I feel you’ve become accustomed to this process  |
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"Straight to read the profile, then read the message, if they are of any interest then look at pics and reply to message. If I'm not interested reply with a no thank you if its a decent message and profile, just a delete of message if no effort has been made "
Seems thorough  |
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"Profile first then photos and maybe a quick flick through veris. Then the message.
Are the veris a deal breaker? "
Not really - I mostly prefer to form my own opinion. They’re useful to see if we know people in common or enjoy similar clubs. If they’re overly graphic I’ll look at the ones they’ve left and it might influence whether we reply or not. |
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"Profile first then photos and maybe a quick flick through veris. Then the message.
Are the veris a deal breaker?
Not really - I mostly prefer to form my own opinion. They’re useful to see if we know people in common or enjoy similar clubs. If they’re overly graphic I’ll look at the ones they’ve left and it might influence whether we reply or not. "
Seems like a good way to find out more |
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"Straight to their profile, this tells me if they have actually read mine. If it's OK, pics if they have any, then read message.
Oooo message reading last ….different approach "
I like to be different |
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"Straight to their profile, this tells me if they have actually read mine. If it's OK, pics if they have any, then read message.
Oooo message reading last ….different approach
I like to be different "
Mixing it up  |
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I'm surprised there are so many people reading the messages?
I decide from the preview bit of a message whether or not to delete straightaway or open the message to read it. It's likely I delete it then too.
If it is a good message, I'll maybe click on the profile and read the bio first, then the verifications then look at the pictures. But I don't always do this straightaway. |
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"I'm surprised there are so many people reading the messages?
I decide from the preview bit of a message whether or not to delete straightaway or open the message to read it. It's likely I delete it then too.
If it is a good message, I'll maybe click on the profile and read the bio first, then the verifications then look at the pictures. But I don't always do this straightaway. "
They say you you make a decision on someone in the first 7 seconds isn’t it? Maybe that message preview is those vital seconds |
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By *vaRoseWoman 7 weeks ago
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Check profile
If I’m put off for any reason (bio, pics, both or lack thereof) I delete without opening.
If the message is polite I’ll check that they’ve read mine…. If it’s a fancy a fuck I’ll delete.
If it’s obnoxious, crude or demanding it will depend on my mood. Sometimes I like to play with my food like a cat with a mouse  |
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"Check profile
If I’m put off for any reason (bio, pics, both or lack thereof) I delete without opening.
If the message is polite I’ll check that they’ve read mine…. If it’s a fancy a fuck I’ll delete.
If it’s obnoxious, crude or demanding it will depend on my mood. Sometimes I like to play with my food like a cat with a mouse "
All of a sudden I want to be a mouse |
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By *YDB75Man 7 weeks ago
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Depends whats in the message.
If its “‘suck me now” and nothing else its a delete and block or sometimes i’ll offer words of advice about opening content.
If its polite i’ll be polite and if not for me i’ll make a polite excuse.
Its all about the opening line for me. |
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I always look at a profile first.
If it's not too far, with scent pics and a good write up, I'll read the message and respond.
If it's blank, or the sender is miles away, I delete without even reading the message. |
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"Do you have a process...
Morning fabbers….
So do you have a process you follow when you get a message? If the message is good do you move onto the photos? Or straight to reading their bio?
Or do you see they’ve messaged so you check out their profile before you even read what they’ve written?
Hope this makes sense …. I’m just being nosey "
The majority of the messages I receive get deleted without being read fully because the sender hasn't read my profile properly
The ones that do read my profile get read, then if I'm interested I read their profile, look at their photos, check verifications, then I decide whether to reply or not
If I'm not interested I don't reply - this is when you get multiple messages asking why you haven't answered them, are they not what I'm looking for and am I not going to reply
Then there's the messages 'you online but not replying?!!' hence the status update of
*** On forums ***
It's time consuming and I've got to be in the right mood to check messages and being a woman those moods can change like the wind 😁
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"Do you have a process...
Morning fabbers….
So do you have a process you follow when you get a message? If the message is good do you move onto the photos? Or straight to reading their bio?
Or do you see they’ve messaged so you check out their profile before you even read what they’ve written?
Hope this makes sense …. I’m just being nosey
The majority of the messages I receive get deleted without being read fully because the sender hasn't read my profile properly
The ones that do read my profile get read, then if I'm interested I read their profile, look at their photos, check verifications, then I decide whether to reply or not
If I'm not interested I don't reply - this is when you get multiple messages asking why you haven't answered them, are they not what I'm looking for and am I not going to reply
Then there's the messages 'you online but not replying?!!' hence the status update of
*** On forums ***
It's time consuming and I've got to be in the right mood to check messages and being a woman those moods can change like the wind 😁
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As with most profiles….seems fair to request they read yours….saved people time and effort …and can actually help |
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By *bi HaiveMan 7 weeks ago
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View the profile first 100% of the time both on this and the couples profile.
I'll already have seen the message without opening it anyway as I get email updates when one comes in.
Only if it's well written and clear, with decent photos would the message be opened on Fab and replied to, otherwise it would be deleted without opening, and if the profile is virtually blank or a million miles from ever being compatible it would have been blocked first - prevents any future contact and/or any 'why didn't you reply' follow up messages.
Any 'hi' or similar one word messages would be deleted even if the profile was OK. It's not hard to write at least one interesting sentence.
Has worked as a process for 17 years with no issues. 🤷♂️ |
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If I like the look of the profile pic, I'll read the bio if still interested I read their verifications. If they don't give me the ick, then I'll look through the photos. If I've still not vomited, I'll go back and open the message.
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Straight to profile, read in order, photos, veris (go to profiles where the veris came from, just in case they are all skinny Minnie's so I can tell them they won't be interested), back to original profile, read stats, read bio. Back to read the message...
Reply dependant on all of the above. |
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I always have a look at the profile first…..quick look at bio, pics and veris and make sure they’re looking for couples. A lot of messages are from people just looking for women.
If the profile is nice and seems to be what we’re looking for then have a look at the message……and then just see how it goes xx |
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If its the couples profile, we read the message, check bio, then we check her singles profile to see if the same person messaged her and compare the messages for giveaway telltale issues.
We're never surprised as to how the same person can be completely different in attitude between the two and it's a key indicator for us as to whether we want to engage with that person or not.
I have this profile which is deliberately set up the way it is because a single guys profile that blocks single guys is not really interested in a couples profile, they're interested in access to the woman. Why use a filter when you can delete and block unwanted attention anyway?
And if you block all single males, a couple will still get hundreds of messages anyway from unsuitable people, so why bother?
Between all 3 profiles and no filters we get to identify the problematic people for us.
It's important if we want them involved in our lives.
That's just our way and experiences, different for others. It works great for us.  |
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"Morning fabbers….
So do you have a process you follow when you get a message? If the message is good do you move onto the photos? Or straight to reading their bio?
Or do you see they’ve messaged so you check out their profile before you even read what they’ve written?
Hope this makes sense …. I’m just being nosey "
What, people get messages on here…?! |
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1. look at the profile pic thumbnail - if no profile pic straight ignore
2. If I find the thumbnail intriguing I will open the profile
3. Look at the pics
4. Read the bio/details
5. Check if they are verified and read any verifications
6. If I am not interested then I don't open the message
7. If I am intrigued I will open the message
8. Only reply if the message is interesting |
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"Receive message,
If I like the look of the profile pic, I'll read the bio if still interested I read their verifications. If they don't give me the ick, then I'll look through the photos. If I've still not vomited, I'll go back and open the message.
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Vomiting is never a good sign |
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"I always have a look at the profile first…..quick look at bio, pics and veris and make sure they’re looking for couples. A lot of messages are from people just looking for women.
If the profile is nice and seems to be what we’re looking for then have a look at the message……and then just see how it goes xx "
I wonder why if they’re ’just looking for women’ they’d message in the first place  |
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"1. look at the profile pic thumbnail - if no profile pic straight ignore
2. If I find the thumbnail intriguing I will open the profile
3. Look at the pics
4. Read the bio/details
5. Check if they are verified and read any verifications
6. If I am not interested then I don't open the message
7. If I am intrigued I will open the message
8. Only reply if the message is interesting "
The trick it seems …. Is to have a good profile…and make the message good |
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"1. look at the profile pic thumbnail - if no profile pic straight ignore
2. If I find the thumbnail intriguing I will open the profile
3. Look at the pics
4. Read the bio/details
5. Check if they are verified and read any verifications
6. If I am not interested then I don't open the message
7. If I am intrigued I will open the message
8. Only reply if the message is interesting
The trick it seems …. Is to have a good profile…and make the message good "
Intriguing profile pics, good bio, decent message usually gets me interested |
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"I always have a look at the profile first…..quick look at bio, pics and veris and make sure they’re looking for couples. A lot of messages are from people just looking for women.
If the profile is nice and seems to be what we’re looking for then have a look at the message……and then just see how it goes xx
I wonder why if they’re ’just looking for women’ they’d message in the first place "
No pics of my husband on the account probably xx 😄 |
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"Receive message,
If I like the look of the profile pic, I'll read the bio if still interested I read their verifications. If they don't give me the ick, then I'll look through the photos. If I've still not vomited, I'll go back and open the message.
Vomiting is never a good sign "
It's also guaranteed on here |
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The beauty now is you can read a couple of lines of the message without opening it, so if it’s shorter than that, graphic/bland or the profile pic is blank/dick pic/action shot/gaping pussy, then it usually gets deleted before we go any further.
If the message gets passed the above, we check out the profile before opening the message - we look at pics, profile wording - if these are bland/basic or too graphic, it’s usually a delete without opening.
We do state in our profile that we don’t entertain those types of profiles so if they’ve not read that or thought they were the exception, then it’s on them for messaging.
If it’s a decent message/profile we’ll reply.
I’d say about 5% of messages get our interest.
A lot pay us compliments about our pics and when we say thanks, they then ask us to meet. We’ve already checked out the profile to know whether there would be interest so they get deleted if there’s no interest.
FAB is here for fun, so we don’t waste time on people that we aren’t interested in.
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I read the message. And answer.
And if the conversation looks like it might go somewhere I then check out the profile who it is. (Photos). If there’s no face picture, I don’t bother reading the bio.
I’ll read their profile if I see their face first, I don’t know why but I just do it that way.
So yes, I’m that guy who doesn’t read profiles, big then again, your that profile that likes to be hidden.  |
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"Morning fabbers….
So do you have a process you follow when you get a message? If the message is good do you move onto the photos? Or straight to reading their bio?
Or do you see they’ve messaged so you check out their profile before you even read what they’ve written?
Hope this makes sense …. I’m just being nosey "
I go straight to their profile and then, if it peaks my interest, I will read the message. If not, it's a delete without reading.
Delete also if I don't like the message. |
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When ever I get a message, it's a bit like the scene out of the first ghost busters movie when the secretary gets a call to say a ghost has been found for the first time,😂
The red lights start flashing around my house, the sirens sound and I run around screaming "I GOT ONE"
😂😁
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"I wank over their pictures and depending on the time it takes me to cum, decides if I bother messaging or not. "
You've gotta at least send the "playing over your pics right now" message out of respect! How else will she know?? |
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Look at the preview and to see if they have attached a pic - if the preview is a generic “hi, hey, FAF, Meet now????, piss in my mouth” message and there is no profile picture it’s a straight delete
If the profile picture looks interesting I will look at the profile; pictures first, vital statistics bio and then veris. If anything in all of those don’t float my boat I delete.
If as is good from the profile perv and Im intrigued I’ll read the message - if it’s a good message I will reply and see if the conversation leads to more mischievous antics.
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"I wank over their pictures and depending on the time it takes me to cum, decides if I bother messaging or not.
You've gotta at least send the "playing over your pics right now" message out of respect! How else will she know?? "
No it’s a sniper wank, you want to know it’s happened you better hope I cum quick. |
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I go:
Read the message
- if crude, violent/aggressive, or close up pic of genitals, block then delete
- if very short and dull message, delete (eg "stunning!" Or "hey how ru?")
- if message not either of above, progress to next stage
Read their profile, including look at the interests and age range they have selected. If nothing to put me off, then look at photos. Decide at this point whether to reply or not.
*I'll also check veris, mostly just from nosiness rather than as a decision making element. |
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I'm not currently meeting and haven't been for 5 years so when I get a message the first thing I look at is their age.
Everything else is irrelevant including location and bio because I won't be meeting them anyway but if they've cheated to get around my age filters I usually don't reply at all. |
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"1. look at the profile pic thumbnail - if no profile pic straight ignore
2. If I find the thumbnail intriguing I will open the profile
3. Look at the pics
4. Read the bio/details
5. Check if they are verified and read any verifications
6. If I am not interested then I don't open the message
7. If I am intrigued I will open the message
8. Only reply if the message is interesting
The trick it seems …. Is to have a good profile…and make the message good
Intriguing profile pics, good bio, decent message usually gets me interested "
I wonder where I fell down 🤔😋 |
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"I always have a look at the profile first…..quick look at bio, pics and veris and make sure they’re looking for couples. A lot of messages are from people just looking for women.
If the profile is nice and seems to be what we’re looking for then have a look at the message……and then just see how it goes xx
I wonder why if they’re ’just looking for women’ they’d message in the first place
No pics of my husband on the account probably xx 😄"
But a couples profile |
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"I always have a look at the profile first…..quick look at bio, pics and veris and make sure they’re looking for couples. A lot of messages are from people just looking for women.
If the profile is nice and seems to be what we’re looking for then have a look at the message……and then just see how it goes xx
I wonder why if they’re ’just looking for women’ they’d message in the first place
No pics of my husband on the account probably xx 😄
But a couples profile "
Absolutely. I do sometimes message back to say that their profiles states they’re looking single ladies and this is an M/F profile xx 😄 |
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I'll be honest. If the message is thought out and pertinent I'll read it. Then profile. Quick skip through pictures. If there's any of them with them hanging out the back of someone...... deleted 🤷 |
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"I always have a look at the profile first…..quick look at bio, pics and veris and make sure they’re looking for couples. A lot of messages are from people just looking for women.
If the profile is nice and seems to be what we’re looking for then have a look at the message……and then just see how it goes xx
I wonder why if they’re ’just looking for women’ they’d message in the first place
No pics of my husband on the account probably xx 😄
But a couples profile
Absolutely. I do sometimes message back to say that their profiles states they’re looking single ladies and this is an M/F profile xx 😄"
I mean don’t get me wrong …… your profile is amazing and no wonder there’s lots of messages …. Just got to pay attention to the fun of 3 |
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"I'll be honest. If the message is thought out and pertinent I'll read it. Then profile. Quick skip through pictures. If there's any of them with them hanging out the back of someone...... deleted 🤷"
Seems like a common answer |
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Whenever I receive a message I look at their profile first. If their profile is blank or comprised of just photographs and no description to speak of then I either delete it or - if I'm feeling benevolent - give them a perfunctory "thumbs up"...and then delete.
Alternatively I may reply if there is some substance and originality in their message.
I think it's 'mood dependant'. Fab can often be 'mood interfering'. |
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"I always have a look at the profile first…..quick look at bio, pics and veris and make sure they’re looking for couples. A lot of messages are from people just looking for women.
If the profile is nice and seems to be what we’re looking for then have a look at the message……and then just see how it goes xx
I wonder why if they’re ’just looking for women’ they’d message in the first place "
Plenty of guys do hoping that the male of the couple doesn't get involved. Then if its pointed out that they aren't looking for a couple then they say that are but made a mistake with their profile. Yeah of course they did. |
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"I always have a look at the profile first…..quick look at bio, pics and veris and make sure they’re looking for couples. A lot of messages are from people just looking for women.
If the profile is nice and seems to be what we’re looking for then have a look at the message……and then just see how it goes xx
I wonder why if they’re ’just looking for women’ they’d message in the first place
Plenty of guys do hoping that the male of the couple doesn't get involved. Then if its pointed out that they aren't looking for a couple then they say that are but made a mistake with their profile. Yeah of course they did."
Ah ok…… I best go check mine to make sure it’s obvious what I want to enjoy |
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"I always have a look at the profile first…..quick look at bio, pics and veris and make sure they’re looking for couples. A lot of messages are from people just looking for women.
If the profile is nice and seems to be what we’re looking for then have a look at the message……and then just see how it goes xx
I wonder why if they’re ’just looking for women’ they’d message in the first place
Plenty of guys do hoping that the male of the couple doesn't get involved. Then if its pointed out that they aren't looking for a couple then they say that are but made a mistake with their profile. Yeah of course they did."
This is pretty much how it goes xx 😄😄 |
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"I always have a look at the profile first…..quick look at bio, pics and veris and make sure they’re looking for couples. A lot of messages are from people just looking for women.
If the profile is nice and seems to be what we’re looking for then have a look at the message……and then just see how it goes xx
I wonder why if they’re ’just looking for women’ they’d message in the first place
Plenty of guys do hoping that the male of the couple doesn't get involved. Then if its pointed out that they aren't looking for a couple then they say that are but made a mistake with their profile. Yeah of course they did.
This is pretty much how it goes xx 😄😄"
What about us guys that want to meet couples too |
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"I always have a look at the profile first…..quick look at bio, pics and veris and make sure they’re looking for couples. A lot of messages are from people just looking for women.
If the profile is nice and seems to be what we’re looking for then have a look at the message……and then just see how it goes xx
I wonder why if they’re ’just looking for women’ they’d message in the first place
Plenty of guys do hoping that the male of the couple doesn't get involved. Then if its pointed out that they aren't looking for a couple then they say that are but made a mistake with their profile. Yeah of course they did.
This is pretty much how it goes xx 😄😄
What about us guys that want to meet couples too "
Your profile says it so you’d be fine xx 😄 |
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"I always have a look at the profile first…..quick look at bio, pics and veris and make sure they’re looking for couples. A lot of messages are from people just looking for women.
If the profile is nice and seems to be what we’re looking for then have a look at the message……and then just see how it goes xx
I wonder why if they’re ’just looking for women’ they’d message in the first place
Plenty of guys do hoping that the male of the couple doesn't get involved. Then if its pointed out that they aren't looking for a couple then they say that are but made a mistake with their profile. Yeah of course they did.
This is pretty much how it goes xx 😄😄
What about us guys that want to meet couples too
Your profile says it so you’d be fine xx 😄"
I also just added a little bit in my bio ..just to be sure |
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"I always have a look at the profile first…..quick look at bio, pics and veris and make sure they’re looking for couples. A lot of messages are from people just looking for women.
If the profile is nice and seems to be what we’re looking for then have a look at the message……and then just see how it goes xx
I wonder why if they’re ’just looking for women’ they’d message in the first place
Plenty of guys do hoping that the male of the couple doesn't get involved. Then if its pointed out that they aren't looking for a couple then they say that are but made a mistake with their profile. Yeah of course they did.
This is pretty much how it goes xx 😄😄
What about us guys that want to meet couples too
Your profile says it so you’d be fine xx 😄
I also just added a little bit in my bio ..just to be sure "
Always best to be totally clear xx 😄 |
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"I always have a look at the profile first…..quick look at bio, pics and veris and make sure they’re looking for couples. A lot of messages are from people just looking for women.
If the profile is nice and seems to be what we’re looking for then have a look at the message……and then just see how it goes xx
I wonder why if they’re ’just looking for women’ they’d message in the first place
Plenty of guys do hoping that the male of the couple doesn't get involved. Then if its pointed out that they aren't looking for a couple then they say that are but made a mistake with their profile. Yeah of course they did.
This is pretty much how it goes xx 😄😄
What about us guys that want to meet couples too
Your profile says it so you’d be fine xx 😄
I also just added a little bit in my bio ..just to be sure
Always best to be totally clear xx 😄"
Did I mention I’m
Visiting south wales soon too
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"I always have a look at the profile first…..quick look at bio, pics and veris and make sure they’re looking for couples. A lot of messages are from people just looking for women.
If the profile is nice and seems to be what we’re looking for then have a look at the message……and then just see how it goes xx
I wonder why if they’re ’just looking for women’ they’d message in the first place
Plenty of guys do hoping that the male of the couple doesn't get involved. Then if its pointed out that they aren't looking for a couple then they say that are but made a mistake with their profile. Yeah of course they did.
This is pretty much how it goes xx 😄😄
What about us guys that want to meet couples too
Your profile says it so you’d be fine xx 😄
I also just added a little bit in my bio ..just to be sure
Always best to be totally clear xx 😄
Did I mention I’m
Visiting south wales soon too
I joke "
It’s a very pretty part of the world xx 😄 |
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Well, like some others, I'd pick myself off the floor after the shock wore off of getting a First Message..
Read it to see if it's FAB related or something else .. have a look at the Profile then make a response based on the Message and what I'd read |
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"I'll be honest. If the message is thought out and pertinent I'll read it. Then profile. Quick skip through pictures. If there's any of them with them hanging out the back of someone...... deleted 🤷"
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