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Do you have a buddy system?

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By *inchestersBitch OP   Woman 6 weeks ago

mid glam

Do you have a person that you tell where and when if you've agreed a social or other type of meet?

Do you have a person that you're their buddy for safety reasons?

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By *ora the explorerWoman 6 weeks ago

Paradise, Herts

I do. Although not met anyone new for years but always said where I was.

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By *eltCuteMightDeleteWoman 6 weeks ago

Reading

Yes, I definitely send details of meets to a group chat that includes four of us. Two of them are now no longer single but we're all buddies for each other.

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By *inkyycurvyyWoman 6 weeks ago

Manchester

I do have a friend I check in with when I'm going to events, and I sometimes tell my mum (she knows I swing) where I will be in general and when I am home okay.

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By *illan-KillashMan 6 weeks ago

London/Sussex/Surrey/Berks/Hants


"Do you have a person that you tell where and when if you've agreed a social or other type of meet?

Do you have a person that you're their buddy for safety reasons? "

I don't tend to bother, what's the chances of there being 2 serial killers in the same room?

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By *ortney FoxxxWoman 6 weeks ago

Honeysuckle lane

No hence why I only meet the way I do in clubs or at a party which isn’t very often these days life gets in the way

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By *vaRoseWoman 6 weeks ago

Ankh-Morpork

Yes…. My husband

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By *eyond PurityCouple 6 weeks ago

Lincolnshire

We’ve been a buddy for a few single ladies.

It’s important that they tell someone where they are. There’s never been any problems but I think it’s reassuring for everyone.

K

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS 6 weeks ago

Chichester


"Do you have a person that you tell where and when if you've agreed a social or other type of meet?

Do you have a person that you're their buddy for safety reasons? "

Yes and I also share address details / contact / pic of where I am with them .

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By *rofessionallyfilthyMan 6 weeks ago

Nottingham

My ex wife still tells me when she's meeting someone new

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By *sWyldWoman 6 weeks ago

Edinburgh

Yup my bestie always knows

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By *urves and MischiefWoman 6 weeks ago

North West mainly. Sometimes London/SouthWest

Yes! I have a real life friend who knows bits of information and then my Fab wing woman who gets all the info and the check ins to make sure we are both safe.

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By *ocketman81Man 6 weeks ago

Ennis

Yip I would, but I'm pretty confident in my ability to look after myself either way. I would look out for one or two fwb's.

Safety should at the fore at all times.

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By *elly and daveCouple 6 weeks ago

gateshead


"Do you have a person that you tell where and when if you've agreed a social or other type of meet?

Do you have a person that you're their buddy for safety reasons?

I don't tend to bother, what's the chances of there being 2 serial killers in the same room?"

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

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By *r MzchiefMan 6 weeks ago

Middle Earth

My wife and I play separately and always let the other know who, when and where. Safety is paramount.

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By *issmorganWoman 6 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

I'm lucky in that I have my partner, he'd always know where I was and with who.

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By *ornycougaWoman 6 weeks ago

SOMEWHERE IN AFRICA

No. Initially I did but I'm no longer in touch with that guy. I trust my instincts

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By (user no longer on site) 6 weeks ago

Yes, my husband or a couple of friends if we are together.

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By *cottish guy 555Man 6 weeks ago

London

A very important aspect of the lifestyle. I've recommended it to people even when meeting me. Safety is paramount.

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By (user no longer on site) 6 weeks ago

Before I joined fab, my current fwb would tell where and when her meet was. Then we agreed a time when I would text, "cinema today?". She would tell her meet that she just needed to quickly reply to a message or her friend wouldn't leave her alone. I would always be very close by right from the start, just in case I was needed. If she felt at ease she would text to say "yes but busy today, maybe tomorrow", and I would leave her to it and go and have a coffee somewhere close by without watching over her. If she said, "definitely, lets catch up soon", I knew she was uncomfortable and she'd end the meet quickky. If she also added, "not sure what you want to watch though", it meant that either the profile picture is fake and/or there are more meeting her than planned. If her meet was to start acting unreasonable then she'd tell them he was on a deadline before I got involved as I'd be watching by that point or stood outside the door waiting. They would also be told that I have a copy of their profile picture, (if it's legitimate), and that the police would be called if she wasn't back with me within 10 minutes max. Sounds a lot but really isn't and always good for someone to look out for you.

Ended well for me because I gained her trust enough and have enjoyed her time and her body ever since

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By (user no longer on site) 6 weeks ago

When single I'd tell my sister. When in a couple, my partner was the one who knew.

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By *2000ManMan 6 weeks ago

Worthing

Brother (middle one) is my best mate.

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