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Paying for Onlyfans content? Why?
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By *ylo7 OP Man 5 weeks ago
Clayton, Manchester |
Do any men out here genuinely pay consistently every month to see content from onlyfans creators?
Knowing you can never meet these women or talk or have sex with them? I can never buy into splashing money that way when there are sex clubs, brothels, to meet and touch women in the flesh.
I know people have their preferences and backstory to back it up but i'm just curious to hear you guys. What do you gain from this? |
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"Some sad lonely men in the world with cash to blow evidently 🤷🏼♂️"
Haha maybe I should set one up! Only joking guys, OnlyFans is an abomination used only by money hungry girls who think the world owes them everything!
To everyone else, stay safe and enjoy the real world xxx |
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By *a LunaWoman 5 weeks ago
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It’s no different to here though is it?
Somebody sees someone they like the look of? They message. Start lusting after them. Friends request to see their private pics or friends only vids. If you’re a site member you have essentially paid to see that.
Just on OF it’s a specific profile. Costs more. |
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I was uploading self made videos to Twitter and I got a massive following. Lots of actual pornstars started following me etc. then I uploaded a video of my feet - think I had a pedicure with coloured toes or something and all of a sudden it went fucking wild.
I was begged hundreds of messages a day for feet pics , offered 1k to put my feet in mud - that was a great earner. I made an OF and it was unreal. However I am a working mam and I didn't have the time to consistently keep up with the content demand so I had to stop.
I think when you have a kink and you know someone can show this in many ways without being bored of the same thing that's why perhaps people pay a subscription xx |
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"OF, Tinder, Pornhub are all guilty in causing the demise of real dating and intrigue. Bad things. "
Like cars, and modern gadgets and tech ?
Dating and interaction still goes on without such things..
That they're another option works for those who use them and for some people they might be their only option.. |
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Men put here obviously do pay for it otherwise it wouldn't be an industry.
People pay for cinema tickets and gigs without ever being able to touch or perform with the actors and musicians.
Its porn with a personalised touch 🤷♂️
If people want to spend their money on it I see no issue |
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By *.hrisMan 5 weeks ago
Wilts |
Fair play to the people making a fortune from it, I do think it's pretty pathetic though to pay money to see someones photos or videos when there is free porn online 🤷🏽♂️
Can tell that a lot of us men just think with our dicks and wallets instead of our heads 🤣 |
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By *agic.MMan 5 weeks ago
Orpington |
"It’s no different to here though is it?
Somebody sees someone they like the look of? They message. Start lusting after them. Friends request to see their private pics or friends only vids. If you’re a site member you have essentially paid to see that.
Just on OF it’s a specific profile. Costs more."
I'm not sure how it's the same thing... As a site supporter you have certain advantages like being able to upload videos, or more pictures, you can change your profile settings more often...which are all directly linked to the individual and has nothing to do with other people on fab. When I pay for fab it's specifically to be able to upload videos - and I'm doing a huge service to all the women on fab with my videos 😏 |
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Firstly ☝🏽 Theirs actually quite a few Fab members who are OF Content Creators - I’d love to hear their perspective 😏
Secondly ✌🏽 The appeal of OF is not just about the porn, it also about the “parasocial relationship” between the creator & the fan. You can communicate with your favourite creator. Request content etc etc |
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"Firstly ☝🏽 Theirs actually quite a few Fab members who are OF Content Creators - I’d love to hear their perspective 😏
Secondly ✌🏽 The appeal of OF is not just about the porn, it also about the “parasocial relationship” between the creator & the fan. You can communicate with your favourite creator. Request content etc etc"
Exactly this. It doesn't interest me, but I'm pretty sure all those guys are basically just paying to chat with hot models and get to know them. Some are probably deluded enough to think it could lead to more, but I think a lot of them just lack these kinds of interactions in real life. |
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I don’t personally, but I can understand that some people do, people spend money on things like computer games and TV subscriptions so it’s not really that much different is it? It’s all a form of media/entertainment. |
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"Firstly ☝🏽 Theirs actually quite a few Fab members who are OF Content Creators - I’d love to hear their perspective 😏
Secondly ✌🏽 The appeal of OF is not just about the porn, it also about the “parasocial relationship” between the creator & the fan. You can communicate with your favourite creator. Request content etc etc
Exactly this. It doesn't interest me, but I'm pretty sure all those guys are basically just paying to chat with hot models and get to know them. Some are probably deluded enough to think it could lead to more, but I think a lot of them just lack these kinds of interactions in real life."
I don’t think they’re necessarily deluded but they have the finances and enjoy it and why not? I have friends at work as dances and some guys will pay them £500-£1000 a night in the club just to sit on the lap chatting all evening there are a lot of men out there that have way more money than they need And if they want to enjoy it this way then what harm does it do? |
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I guess most of the men commenting to say it’s wrong have never been to a strip club and watched women dance and then pay for a private dance and they strip off and you can’t touch and then they put their clothes back on…
A good friend of ours is on OF and she’s loving it.
She used to be a nurse and earns a hell of a lot more now for doing something she enjoys. She’s always been an exhibitionist and enjoys the attention - shes also very intelligent and grounded.
Sex has always sold and a lot of men will always pay for it. Good luck to everyone who earns a living and more from it.
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"Firstly ☝🏽 Theirs actually quite a few Fab members who are OF Content Creators - I’d love to hear their perspective 😏
Secondly ✌🏽 The appeal of OF is not just about the porn, it also about the “parasocial relationship” between the creator & the fan. You can communicate with your favourite creator. Request content etc etc
Exactly this. It doesn't interest me, but I'm pretty sure all those guys are basically just paying to chat with hot models and get to know them. Some are probably deluded enough to think it could lead to more, but I think a lot of them just lack these kinds of interactions in real life."
I think the stereotypical image of OF Contributors being deluded shut ins is way off tbh.
It's a massive industry and that demographic is too small to keep it going.
There are plenty of well adjusted men and women who have enough disposable income to have fun with OF |
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"Do any men out here genuinely pay consistently every month to see content from onlyfans creators?
Knowing you can never meet these women or talk or have sex with them? I can never buy into splashing money that way when there are sex clubs, brothels, to meet and touch women in the flesh.
I know people have their preferences and backstory to back it up but i'm just curious to hear you guys. What do you gain from this?"
I couldn't agree with you more, I've always said that if I can't pull a woman, in the flesh so to speak with natural charm and charisma, I'd give up and become a celibate monk. |
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"I guess most of the men commenting to say it’s wrong have never been to a strip club and watched women dance and then pay for a private dance and they strip off and you can’t touch and then they put their clothes back on…"
Correct. I have plenty of attractive female friends that’ll happily let me look at them, but not let me touch them 😄😜
Now if only I could convince them to dance |
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"I guess most of the men commenting to say it’s wrong have never been to a strip club and watched women dance and then pay for a private dance and they strip off and you can’t touch and then they put their clothes back on…
Correct. I have plenty of attractive female friends that’ll happily let me look at them, but not let me touch them 😄😜
Now if only I could convince them to dance "
Randomly turning up at their house with a Bluetooth speaker and monopoly singles....... |
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It's not my thing either way, but I do find it odd that it's often portrayed as not being sex-work.
Sex workers have been doing the same stuff online for years.
It's different because of a name? I think it's time to stop stigmatising sex work. |
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It's the transactional aspect some people find hot in itself. Like those who partake actual paid activities in person. Attractive individuals who could (or do) get sex elsewhere enjoy that side of it. |
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"It's the transactional aspect some people find hot in itself. Like those who partake actual paid activities in person. Attractive individuals who could (or do) get sex elsewhere enjoy that side of it. "
Living life dangerously, safely in their bedroom looking at monitor whilst smashing the living daylights out of their cock. |
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"It's the transactional aspect some people find hot in itself. Like those who partake actual paid activities in person. Attractive individuals who could (or do) get sex elsewhere enjoy that side of it.
Living life dangerously, safely in their bedroom looking at monitor whilst smashing the living daylights out of their cock."
Much like porn or here then? |
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I read an article about much this subject yesterday.
I think that it’s an interesting topic, a wide ranging situation and definitely not something as simple as people being ‘sad and lonely’.
I think that for those that pay, the factor that brings them back is the potential for one on one interactions, unlike porn. Often they don’t have broad sexual experiences or the ability to indulge in their fantasies and this gives them that outlet.
Maybe if society was less puritanical about sex and sex work, less judgmental about how people indulge their sexual preferences then it would be less prevalent or maybe more…
Ultimately I don’t resent these people for making money nor do I think those that enjoy it are shameful |
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I started one in lockdown and even had a couple of subscribers.
I haven't done much with it since as the adult aspect conflicted with some of my other ventures but if people enjoy it and can make money, then why not? |
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It’s quite hard to get women to sit on cakes in the “real world” (partly because a Black Forest gateaux doesn’t come cheap). So I can understand why some niche delights exist on such sites.
You can also specify cakes, so if for example you have a real vendetta against Victoria sponges (due to being dragged around church fetes as a youth), and a round bottom lovely is prepared to squash this object of torment beneath a derrière but needs costs covered (purchase of said cake, wear and tear etc.), then I can see the validity of such sites. |
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If you have a niche kink it can be hard to find porn that hits just right.
For a small fee you can get personalised content that gives you exactly what you want.
It's not something I currrntly need (I'm straightforward in my tastes when it comes to porn) but I don't have an issue with the creators or consumers.
Hell it was only about 15 years ago I paid for TVX because I fancied Jay Snakes and couldn't find his porn on any of the sites, only to be bitterly disappointed when I was wanking to softcore with a woman giving him oral over his bloody underwear! Had he had an OF back then I'd have happily paid for more explicit stuff.
Unlike OF, when I cancelled TVX I had to do it over the phone and explain exactly why I was cancelling  |
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"Some sad lonely men in the world with cash to blow evidently 🤷🏼♂️
Haha maybe I should set one up! Only joking guys, OnlyFans is an abomination used only by money hungry girls who think the world owes them everything!
To everyone else, stay safe and enjoy the real world xxx"
At the end of the day, it's a business much the same as anything else. If men didn't pay for it, there would be no business. I wouldn't say women were money hungry, the fact that the illusion of sex is some women's best way to make a living says more about society than it does the actual women. And the people who are bitter about it are usually the people who think they should be entitled to everything for free and are angry they aren't getting the attention. I wouldn't have an only fans, but fair play to women for monetising being creeped on every day, some of us have to put up with it without any financial rewards. |
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Apparently over 80 million men subscribe to onlyfans just in the U.S. alone. That's well over half the population of American males that are aged 18 and above.
An account where I wash my hair in the shower & set up different subscription tiers for the more spicy content..that's my back up plan, that is.🙃👌 |
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The way I see it is that it at least gives women the ability to control and monetise their own sexual content.
If my partner wanted to consume porn, I'd prefer that he subscribed to only fans. There is a greater chance that the woman has created and distributed her own content and is being renumerated fairly for it. Not in all cases, but in most.
A lot of the porn on free sites is dodgy. Some has been uploaded without consent, you have no idea if the woman knows it's on there (I had a friend who was subject to a revenge sexy video leak), whether she's been taken advantage of, whether she is consenting to the act itself and if she is definitely of age. You don't know if she has been paid for that video you have jerked one off to.
At least with only fans, you know the majority of the time it is a business. If you do your due diligence you can support creators that are in full control of the content they put out. And if you like someone's content, surely the decent thing to do is to support them?
You may not like that sites like Only fans exist, but it's a more ethical model than consuming porn uploaded that people have taken from beyond a paywall. I fully believe that women should have the rights to their own bodies and if their choice is to sell media content showing their bodies to make money,then fair play to them. But in a lot of porn, women are taken advantage of.
I find most men who are against paying for porn, their beliefs are deeply rooted in mysogyny. They are angry that women can have the power for something they feel they should be owed for free, simply by being male. And if you hate women so much for starting up an only fans and making money, because they are "sluts" or whatever, you shouldn't be consuming porn full stop and you certainly shouldn't be on Fab.
But if your choice is not to pay for your porn content and you instead watch videos or look at pictures on Fab, that is also fine and ethical because the women on here are freely choosing to create the content and are choosing to provide that for free. |
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"This. Its really one of the many things that's spoilt fab. You can't even get two days in before a link being sent 🙄 "
Report anyone who mentions that they are on it, or showing that they are here for financial gain I agree that it's potentially spoiling Fab and it must be a pain for men like you, who often work hard to get genuine interest from people, for the right reasons |
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