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"What has your time on Fab taught you about yourself that you didn’t know before?"
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That being average in every conceivable way isn't a showstopper or deal-breaker when it comes to pleasure and fulfillment. |
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By *eliWoman 5 weeks ago
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"I really love penis.
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You didn't know that before fab?"
Genuinely didn't. It reads like quite a glib remark but before Fab I'd only had sex with two men. It was the second time that made me join Fab. Decide I wanted to explore my sexuality.
Before then I'd been exclusively attracted to and dated women.
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"I really love penis.
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You didn't know that before fab?
Genuinely didn't. It reads like quite a glib remark but before Fab I'd only had sex with two men. It was the second time that made me join Fab. Decide I wanted to explore my sexuality.
Before then I'd been exclusively attracted to and dated women.
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I like that. Exploration can be exhilarating. Maybe fab ain't so bad after all. |
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"What has your time on Fab taught you about yourself that you didn’t know before?"
That I'm actually a very good judge of character and if I just listen to my inner voice I can suss people out pretty quickly.
I get distracted by emotions too easily
And I overthink everything and anything |
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I’ve learned what sauce people have on their bacon barms. That people call a barm a butty and some don’t have butter on it, and you put butter on a scone first and it’s pronounced scon.
Not much else. |
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I'm a warm-hearted giver and love to please. That's my biggest pleasure. I'm only interested in living well.
I've learned to be more self-care aware, more respectful of my own needs and limits and protect my peace always.
I will exit conversations much much sooner and swerve the negatives on here. |
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"What has your time on Fab taught you about yourself that you didn’t know before?"
...that the cliche "my enjoyment comes from you getting your enjoyment", is a conduit to unlocking kinks I never knew I had, and pushed limits I never knew I could. |
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"What has your time on Fab taught you about yourself that you didn’t know before?
...that the cliche "my enjoyment comes from you getting your enjoyment", is a conduit to unlocking kinks I never knew I had, and pushed limits I never knew I could."
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I've learnt a few things since joining.
The negative, just how time poor I am.
The positive, that I'm just as free spirited and adventurous behind closed doors as I am in public life.
The ridiculous, I can cook a full English breakfast for 8 people dressed only in my undies,😂 |
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I've learned about myself that sex really can be immensely enjoyable even when zero strings exist.
But I've also learned that I'm someone who probably wants maybe one little string. Something that links two people beyond the love of sex. And I've learned that it's ok to want this. |
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By *mandoMan 5 weeks ago
Shrewsbury |
"I've learned about myself that sex really can be immensely enjoyable even when zero strings exist.
But I've also learned that I'm someone who probably wants maybe one little string. Something that links two people beyond the love of sex. And I've learned that it's ok to want this."
That certainly sounds ideal. 🙂 |
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"How much guts it takes to drive to someone's home,knock on the door,hoping it's the right place and that some nutters not taking the piss,on the plus side it's always been the right place "
I’m glad it’s not just me that has those moments where you wonder! I sometimes expect a text 5mins before they ate due here saying haha windup ! |
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By *G TMan 5 weeks ago
birmingham |
That I get a lot more female attention irl and not on here. This is a tough nut to crack, to much choice for women on here. It’s good for the chats though, met some interesting people |
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By *iz...Woman 5 weeks ago
Somewhere Over The Rainbow.. |
I joined this place around 15 years ago and just come out of a vanilla relationship. I learnt a lot about myself. My biggest lesson was meeting a Dom for the first time and realising I was very much a sub sexually  |
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