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By *hief_Of_Always OP   Man 5 weeks ago

1313 Mockingbird Lane…

What has your time on Fab taught you about yourself that you didn’t know before?

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By *a LunaWoman 5 weeks ago

Wherever the wind takes me

That I’m quite vanilla

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By *eoBloomsMan 5 weeks ago

Springfield

My cock is more bendy than I'd previously thought.

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By *idnight47Man 5 weeks ago

Sheffield

Don’t ask, don’t get 🤷🏻‍♂️

Although the timing of the ask is crucial 😂😂

Not quite mastered that, yet.

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By *avid 50Man 5 weeks ago

kendal

my body is not always as reliable as I thought it was, something that doesn't really affect the ladies

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By *ude LawMan 5 weeks ago

Harrogate

How to use Caps Lock

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By (user no longer on site) 5 weeks ago

That I am fabulous darling 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

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By *cgmcgMan 5 weeks ago

kingston

[Removed by poster at 15/04/25 12:24:47]

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By *eneralKenobiMan 5 weeks ago

North Angus

I’m actually kinda funny and not just funny looking

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By *ollyPocket75Woman 5 weeks ago

Aberdeen

I'm more experimental than I thought

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By *otwife Snowy and MeCouple 5 weeks ago

Carshalton

That I really don't know Snowys type... Those I thought she'd fancy she doesn't... And vice versa. Women are certainly unique in their preferences compared to guys

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By *cgmcgMan 5 weeks ago

kingston

That I am way less desirable online than irl.

Oh, and fairly vanilla.

Also that I am heteexible more than bi

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By *he KakapoMan 5 weeks ago

A nice rock

That I'd be way better looking in real life if I could walk around in monochrome

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By *cgmcgMan 5 weeks ago

kingston


"That I am way less desirable online than irl.

Oh, and fairly vanilla.

Also that I am heteexible more than bi"

Also that R O F L in hete R O F L exible gets replaced by idiot emoji

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By (user no longer on site) 5 weeks ago

Seems like I meet women and they fall for me. It's a curse

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By *inkyycurvyyWoman 5 weeks ago

Manchester

I'm a bit of an exhibitionist, and a little bit of a sadist

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By *lowupdollTV/TS 5 weeks ago

Herts/Beds/London

I’ve learned I really don’t want a shag behind the bins behind Lidl.

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By *azler17Man 5 weeks ago

Castleford

How much guts it takes to drive to someone's home,knock on the door,hoping it's the right place and that some nutters not taking the piss,on the plus side it's always been the right place

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By *ansoffateMan 5 weeks ago

Sagittarius A

I've certainly learnt that I have some kink and aspects of my sexuality that I was previously unaware of.

That I love to learn those things and explore my partners has always been there.

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By *eliWoman 5 weeks ago

.

I really love penis.

🩷

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By *ansoffateMan 5 weeks ago

Sagittarius A


"I really love penis.

🩷"

You didn't know that before fab?

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By *r SensualMan 5 weeks ago

London

That it’s okay to love one person romantically and still have NSA sexual connections outside of a relationship

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By *each needs some creamWoman 5 weeks ago

Ilfracombe

That sadly people would rather meet up for coffee then sex.

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By *eroLondonMan 5 weeks ago

Mayfair


"What has your time on Fab taught you about yourself that you didn’t know before?"

·

That being average in every conceivable way isn't a showstopper or deal-breaker when it comes to pleasure and fulfillment.

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By *eliWoman 5 weeks ago

.


"I really love penis.

🩷

You didn't know that before fab?"

Genuinely didn't. It reads like quite a glib remark but before Fab I'd only had sex with two men. It was the second time that made me join Fab. Decide I wanted to explore my sexuality.

Before then I'd been exclusively attracted to and dated women.

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By *ansoffateMan 5 weeks ago

Sagittarius A


"I really love penis.

🩷

You didn't know that before fab?

Genuinely didn't. It reads like quite a glib remark but before Fab I'd only had sex with two men. It was the second time that made me join Fab. Decide I wanted to explore my sexuality.

Before then I'd been exclusively attracted to and dated women.

"

I like that. Exploration can be exhilarating. Maybe fab ain't so bad after all.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman 5 weeks ago

Reading

That I don't like having sex with strangers

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By *cunthorpe123Couple 5 weeks ago

scunthorpe

That even though I’m not a fan of my body, some people other than Sean can and do seem to enjoy it

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By *abtastic Mr FoxMan 5 weeks ago

A den in the Glen

I'm probably a lot more marmite on here than IRL.

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By *rjonesnotMan 5 weeks ago

ilfracombe

That I'm not very popular

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By (user no longer on site) 5 weeks ago

That I'm probably way more lesbian than bi!

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By *sWyldWoman 5 weeks ago

Edinburgh

That I'm probably a bit boring

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By *exyScientistsCouple 5 weeks ago

Castlebar


"What has your time on Fab taught you about yourself that you didn’t know before?"

That I'm actually a very good judge of character and if I just listen to my inner voice I can suss people out pretty quickly.

I get distracted by emotions too easily

And I overthink everything and anything

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By *emma200Woman 5 weeks ago

Warwickshire

That boundaries are important

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By *bby1110Woman 5 weeks ago

Gloucester

That I can stand up for myself and see through people more easily than I thought.

Also, there is a lot of fun to be had when you find the right person/people

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By *heVikingJarlMan 5 weeks ago

behind you

My mind is messed up

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By *elightful 2Couple 5 weeks ago

Not living in the UK

That I probably enjoy watching the wife play with others more than I do joining in.. to add I've been very lucky over the years to have played with some stunners.

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By *nkymikeyMan 5 weeks ago

Andover

I should start a gay onlyfans..

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By *aron Van WinkleMan 5 weeks ago

A Dirty Hole

I’ve learned what sauce people have on their bacon barms. That people call a barm a butty and some don’t have butter on it, and you put butter on a scone first and it’s pronounced scon.

Not much else.

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By *all me missWoman 5 weeks ago

South Wales


"That I'm probably way more lesbian than bi!"
.

Same here

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By *aizyWoman 5 weeks ago

west midlands

That I don't have a body type I'm attracted to, thought I did when I joined fab.

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By *veragecouple2000Couple 5 weeks ago

South Wales

I’ve learned I can be quite naive when it comes to trusting people……luckily my husband is a great judge of character so we balance each other out xx 😄

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By (user no longer on site) 5 weeks ago

Just because you feed the horse doesn’t mean you get to ride it.

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By *ungandMan 5 weeks ago

daveyhulme


"That I am fabulous darling 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣"

True fabulous indeed

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By (user no longer on site) 5 weeks ago

That you never forget how to do sex, however long a break you've had.

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By *egDaySkipperMan 5 weeks ago

Liverpool

That women like hairy legs.

That women don't like hairy backs

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By *ovelyDayXXXWoman 5 weeks ago

Niche

I'm a warm-hearted giver and love to please. That's my biggest pleasure. I'm only interested in living well.

I've learned to be more self-care aware, more respectful of my own needs and limits and protect my peace always.

I will exit conversations much much sooner and swerve the negatives on here.

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By *ovelyDayXXXWoman 5 weeks ago

Niche


"That women like hairy legs.

That women don't like hairy backs "

True

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By *aron Van WinkleMan 5 weeks ago

A Dirty Hole


"That women have hairy legs.

That women also have hairy backs "

Probably.

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By *eformed_CharactersCouple 5 weeks ago

round and about

That i much prefer men that shave

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By *luebell888Woman 5 weeks ago

Glasgowish


"What has your time on Fab taught you about yourself that you didn’t know before?"

Getting older is not a disadvantage.

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By *eliWoman 5 weeks ago

.


"That you never forget how to do sex, however long a break you've had. "

That's good to know Neil, thank you.

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By *swingrawMan 5 weeks ago

London

Saying “hi” and “hey” is forbidden

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By *opedomMan 5 weeks ago

Hayle

That my natural charm and wit isn't as prevelant online

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By *ai Hard 2 - Dai HarderMan 5 weeks ago

Manchester / Cardiff


"What has your time on Fab taught you about yourself that you didn’t know before?"

...that the cliche "my enjoyment comes from you getting your enjoyment", is a conduit to unlocking kinks I never knew I had, and pushed limits I never knew I could.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman 5 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

I have even less tolerance for mediocrity than I ever imagined 💜

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By *ovelyDayXXXWoman 5 weeks ago

Niche


"What has your time on Fab taught you about yourself that you didn’t know before?

...that the cliche "my enjoyment comes from you getting your enjoyment", is a conduit to unlocking kinks I never knew I had, and pushed limits I never knew I could."

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By *iss_Juicy79Woman 5 weeks ago

Edinburgh

That my grammar is bad, it could be worse right enough but still pretty bad

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By (user no longer on site) 5 weeks ago


"That you never forget how to do sex, however long a break you've had.

That's good to know Neil, thank you."

You're welcome.

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By *ynamicnatureMan 5 weeks ago

Doncaster

I've learnt a few things since joining.

The negative, just how time poor I am.

The positive, that I'm just as free spirited and adventurous behind closed doors as I am in public life.

The ridiculous, I can cook a full English breakfast for 8 people dressed only in my undies,😂

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By *rikTheVikingMan 5 weeks ago

Swansea

Not to expect the same morals and values as yourself..

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By *entfootloverMan 5 weeks ago

Sevenoaks

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By *mandoMan 5 weeks ago

Shrewsbury

I've learned that things my be looking up! 😁

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By *entfootloverMan 5 weeks ago

Sevenoaks

That all the women who enjoy footplay seem to be up North, rather than in Kent.

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By *ilithnyxWoman 5 weeks ago

Cambridge

I've learned about myself that sex really can be immensely enjoyable even when zero strings exist.

But I've also learned that I'm someone who probably wants maybe one little string. Something that links two people beyond the love of sex. And I've learned that it's ok to want this.

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By *avinaTVTV/TS 5 weeks ago

Transsexual Transylvania

That I'm capable of being an outrageous flirt, in the right circumstances.

🤣

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By *punk n gushCouple 5 weeks ago

deal

That the fuller figure does appeal to alot of people's

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By *he MinionMan 5 weeks ago

.

That one persons urgh, can be another persons oooooh

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By *abtastic Mr FoxMan 5 weeks ago

A den in the Glen


"That one persons urgh, can be another persons oooooh "

Which one is better?

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By *mandoMan 5 weeks ago

Shrewsbury


"I've learned about myself that sex really can be immensely enjoyable even when zero strings exist.

But I've also learned that I'm someone who probably wants maybe one little string. Something that links two people beyond the love of sex. And I've learned that it's ok to want this."

That certainly sounds ideal. 🙂

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By *weetiepie99Woman 5 weeks ago

cardiff

That much as I love the aesthetics of a woman, I am not remotely sexually attracted to one

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By *ccasionallyNaughtyWoman 5 weeks ago

Nearby

Not to prioritise someone when all I am to them is an option.

Heart of stone here! 🤣

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By *rHotNottsMan 5 weeks ago

Dubai & Nottingham


"How much guts it takes to drive to someone's home,knock on the door,hoping it's the right place and that some nutters not taking the piss,on the plus side it's always been the right place "

I’m glad it’s not just me that has those moments where you wonder! I sometimes expect a text 5mins before they ate due here saying haha windup !

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By *etwife8230Couple 5 weeks ago

Newport

That I like women more than I thought

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By *ongandharderMan 5 weeks ago

Rotherham

That I should have more confidence

And that I feel I look better than I otherwise would have

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By *G TMan 5 weeks ago

birmingham

That I get a lot more female attention irl and not on here. This is a tough nut to crack, to much choice for women on here. It’s good for the chats though, met some interesting people

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By *layfull pairingCouple 5 weeks ago

Bristol

That it’s the ones you least expect that can be the most perverse ... never judge a book ...

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By *obshortMan 5 weeks ago

Cork


"I'm a bit of an exhibitionist, and a little bit of a sadist "

Maybe you are, but in all fairness. You do have a fantastic body. 😍

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By *iz...Woman 5 weeks ago

Somewhere Over The Rainbow..

I joined this place around 15 years ago and just come out of a vanilla relationship. I learnt a lot about myself. My biggest lesson was meeting a Dom for the first time and realising I was very much a sub sexually

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By *orphia2003Woman 5 weeks ago

Tonypandy.

Not do much learned something new, as re-enforced my knowledge that some people are far to fond of playing the victim card when called out over unacceptable behaviour.

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By *urry BlokeMan 5 weeks ago

That being under 6ft is not a good thing for a man to be

Before I discovered Fab, I had blissfully sailed through 40+ shortarse years, never realising that being short was a sexual curse

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By *idssissyTV/TS 5 weeks ago

Nr cricket ground birm

I am very sexually naive and allow catholic guilt stop me exploring

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