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"“Men do not see couples
They see a female with baggage
And will say almost anything to get at the lady”"
Nope. Swiping generalisation there. But we live I a society that accepts that so let’s see what the majority of views are 😂😂 (notice what I did there? 😏) |
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By *arierWoman 14 weeks ago
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The amount of men who talk to me pretending to be the woman of a couple is insane.
I just come on here to perv now if I’m honest.
We’ve found that club meets are the best way to meet couples. |
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By (user no longer on site) 14 weeks ago
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Yes we’ve experienced this a lot, when seeking out a prospective meet we pay a lot of attention to how the man or whoever is talking to us and do they respect us both and accept we come as a couple etc |
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"“Men do not see couples
They see a female with baggage
And will say almost anything to get at the lady”"
If these men are straight, what are your expectations of how they should interact with the male half of a couple? |
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Seriously? I can’t speak for anyone else but all the couples I meet have the same basic dynamic - their relationship is strong, she likes to meet other guys and he likes to watch and know she is really enjoying herself. They all tell me the reclaim sex is the best. This is all about them making their relationship even stronger. |
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I don’t get this because all the couples I have met, apart from one where the woman plays solo, it’s always been about them. Well, it’s often about her sexual, but the solution is definitely them not her and when you understand this that’s why couples actually want to meet you. |
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If I see a couple it's as a couple. I haven't engaged with any of them all that much. I would tend to avoid ones with bi males being straight myself. But I'm not saying it wouldn't be a conversation I'd be willing to have. |
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By (user no longer on site) 14 weeks ago
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I think if I was going to be worried about the dynamic of couple/singles matches, I’d be more concerned that couples often consider themselves the more important side of the equation and the single tends to be viewed a walking vwe/bbc/cock/vagina/arse/mouth/fetish who is only brought in for the entertainment of the couple. Generally I wouldn’t be arsed with couples myself, not unless I had a brilliant feeling from their profile, they made me laugh or we got chatting and they turn out to be lovely   |
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By (user no longer on site) 14 weeks ago
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"On here it's rare to find a couple it's usually just a guy pretending lol"
And this! 
My mate once got stalked in Morrisons by a single male pretending to be a couple. Literally calling her and telling her what cat she was driving but not saying how he knew…   |
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Thrill is in the chase for many, a couple is an extra thrill the man is husband is surplus but still part of the game for lots of guy's.
It's a dominance thing, I can never understand this personally.
I'm like MEH! You want to fuck my wife, she wants to fuck you my approval is pretty irrelevant. |
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"No it isn't always true, quite a few men understand the concept of a couple "
This.
We happily engage with callers who see two people. Those who only "speak" to Margo are easily spotted, ignored and blocked.
J |
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90 percent of the couples I have chatted to in my years here have only ever been the woman chatting.
Some have told me there is no need to refer to "them" as hubby doesn't read any messages.
Some have said he's no longer playing and a few that he never existed in the first place.
These were people I was chatting to off site as well and they sent me selfies during lockdown while they were walking the dog etc so I never had any doubt that it was the woman.
The only abuse I've ever had on fab has been from the male half of couples and in every case they had initiated the conversation and got nasty when I didn't agree to the list of demands in their opening messages.
I'm also one half of a fab couple and while we have received a few messages that completely ignore my existence, I would never speak to anyone on here in the manner that some couples do. |
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"“Men do not see couples
They see a female with baggage
And will say almost anything to get at the lady”"
Personally we think they see a husband as an inconvenience for them to get laid unfortunately for those that think this we enjoy putting them in there place |
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It's a generalisation.
I am a man I don't think female with baggage when I see a couple. I like couples, because I like connection.
Baggage means something else entirely to me. An example could be making too broad a generalisation based on anecdotal experiences. |
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By (user no longer on site) 14 weeks ago
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"On here it's rare to find a couple it's usually just a guy pretending lol
And this!
My mate once got stalked in Morrisons by a single male pretending to be a couple. Literally calling her and telling her what cat she was driving but not saying how he knew… "
He knew because he was a
cat-a-holic.
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I think that the female does get more attention than the male, but it could be that most couple profile has more pictures of the female. I often say to hubby nice profile but where are the pictures of the blokes - I like to perv too 😅
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I must have been lucky. All the men we have met have been totally decent and respectful to me. I think that they realise that they are lucky to be with my gorgeous other half! It's very much a team thing for us. I have never felt like baggage nor treated like it... |
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By (user no longer on site) 14 weeks ago
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Most of the guys we’ve chatted to are very respectful yeah they likely couldn’t give a toss about me (mr) and there only interested in getting into Mrs nickers . That doesn’t bother me because if I’m honest I only really care about my wife’s enjoyment. It would be nice to meet some friends though and make a genuine connection |
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Far too many "couples" profiles on here where it's blatantly obvious it's just the bloke talking. And even some of the genuine couples on here will talk to a couple and pretend to be interested in both of us, but it's also blatantly obvious they only want to play with the female half. We've fallen foul of that a few times! |
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By (user no longer on site) 14 weeks ago
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"Men lie to get a fuck?
This is brand new information.
God you’re so fucking sexy!
I don’t tell lies to get a fuck.
Since when did you start using emoji’s anyway?
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I'm trying to dumb myself down so all the big strong men find me attractive Samuel  |
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"Men lie to get a fuck?
This is brand new information.
God you’re so fucking sexy!
I don’t tell lies to get a fuck.
Since when did you start using emoji’s anyway?
I'm trying to dumb myself down so all the big strong men find me attractive Samuel "
You’re gonna need more unicorns and less moody sepia…
I always liked the no nonsense stuff.
Alas, I’m not the target audience though so yeah, go new raven |
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"Far too many "couples" profiles on here where it's blatantly obvious it's just the bloke talking. And even some of the genuine couples on here will talk to a couple and pretend to be interested in both of us, but it's also blatantly obvious they only want to play with the female half. We've fallen foul of that a few times!"
Yes I was in Chams with a female friend and we both saw someone who we wanted to join us.
We asked him if he was bi, he said yes.
When we all got to the room I went to suck his cock and he said that he wasn’t really bi…..
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I can't speak on what couples receive from guys on here but as a single man I speak to both the man and the woman in a MF couple.
I like getting to know you both as humans not just the lady. Even in straight MFMs I like to know the guy is someone who I like |
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By (user no longer on site) 14 weeks ago
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"Men lie to get a fuck?
This is brand new information.
God you’re so fucking sexy!
I don’t tell lies to get a fuck.
Since when did you start using emoji’s anyway?
I'm trying to dumb myself down so all the big strong men find me attractive Samuel
You’re gonna need more unicorns and less moody sepia…
I always liked the no nonsense stuff.
Alas, I’m not the target audience though so yeah, go new raven "
I was going for knackered old mare to be honest, is that not coming through?
Ah Samuel, your penis has forever been my target. |
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"I think that's a gross generalisation akin to saying that couples don't see men, they see a cock to aid in their sexual fantasies.
That’s a great point Cockbeans."
Is that what he shoots out the end of it? Nice. |
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"I think that's a gross generalisation akin to saying that couples don't see men, they see a cock to aid in their sexual fantasies.
That’s a great point Cockbeans.
Is that what he shoots out the end of it? Nice."
I just winced at the thought 🙈 |
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"I think that's a gross generalisation akin to saying that couples don't see men, they see a cock to aid in their sexual fantasies.
That’s a great point Cockbeans.
Is that what he shoots out the end of it? Nice.
I just winced at the thought 🙈"
Honestly… it’s given me a semi. |
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"I think that's a gross generalisation akin to saying that couples don't see men, they see a cock to aid in their sexual fantasies.
That’s a great point Cockbeans.
Is that what he shoots out the end of it? Nice.
I just winced at the thought 🙈
Honestly… it’s given me a semi."
Down boy! |
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"I think that's a gross generalisation akin to saying that couples don't see men, they see a cock to aid in their sexual fantasies.
That’s a great point Cockbeans.
Is that what he shoots out the end of it? Nice.
I just winced at the thought 🙈"
Good USP there! Jellybeans perhaps |
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"I think that's a gross generalisation akin to saying that couples don't see men, they see a cock to aid in their sexual fantasies.
That’s a great point Cockbeans.
Is that what he shoots out the end of it? Nice.
I just winced at the thought 🙈
Good USP there! Jellybeans perhaps "
I don't think the people are ready for a name change Twisty NipNips! |
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