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I am a more mature guy who is looking to chat
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By *ancs29 OP Man 12 weeks ago
oldham |
Greetings to everyone. I posting this message to see what kind of responses I might receive. I am a more mature gentleman who has recently come out of a marriage and is ready to embrace new opportunities and experiences. I am to explore more and rediscover aspects of life that I have missed in recent years. I would appreciate hearing from anyone willing to engage with me. I am based in Oldham, North West Lancashire, UK. Please feel free to send me a private message if that suits you, or respond directly on this forum. I look forward to receiving some thoughtful replies soon. |
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"Hi OP
I see that it's not your first thread like this and was wondering how the others have gone?
Not very well by the looks of it lol 0 comments on most of the OP’s posts "
He could of had private messages  |
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"Hi OP
I see that it's not your first thread like this and was wondering how the others have gone?
Not very well by the looks of it lol 0 comments on most of the OP’s posts
He could of had private messages "
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By *ancs29 OP Man 12 weeks ago
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Thank you for your message to my forum. you were a man of what I prefer to a more mature age rather than old, you might understand the challenge I am facing. There are very few individuals interested in people of my age. I am not complaining, merely stating a fact. I have spent a lot of time searching tirelessly through profiles, trying to find someone who is interested in someone of my age, and I find it extremely exhausting. Most even those close to my age have age restrictions on their profiles, which prevent me from messaging them. I understand that is their preference, and I respect that.
I am just responding to your question, as it seems you believe this is the best way me to proceed. I have been taking from others about how to write my posts and improve my punctuation. I have corrected that using a highlighting and checking tool that automates this process for me. I was advised to join this forum instead of the one where I had been posting of my content as it was I might have better luck here. However, it seems I am not receiving positive feedback on my posts., I often get responses asking why I haven’t done this or that.
The very first person who replied to me, I plan to to her personally— the platform allows me to do so. If not, I will have to reply in the forum as I have done here. In to another question, someone mentioned they were likely receiving many private messages. Unfortunately, I am not. I rarely get replies, and that has been incredibly frustrating. I have asked for help on the best way to approach this, but no matter how I try, it seems I am doing it the way. Additionally, I encounter numerous unpleasant individuals who send unhelpful or rude messages, which I find irritating. If someone cannot offer something positive, I believe they should refrain from engaging.
I would like to take this opportunity to thank everyone who has offered positive and sensible questions. Your input is greatly appreciated. |
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By *ancs29 OP Man 12 weeks ago
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I am attaching this to message because I am unable to respond directly, possibly due to an age restriction another filter that prevents me from direct messaging. In response to your question, I not received much engagement on my posts, as most of them remain on zero. This is why, in my previous post, I asked for people's assistance, I am struggling to get any responses. I did receive some positive feedback, including suggestions about improving punctuation and being in the correct section. a result, I have now moved to this section in the hope of achieving better outcomes. Any additional feedback would be greatly appreciated. |
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"Thank you for your message to my forum. you were a man of what I prefer to a more mature age rather than old, you might understand the challenge I am facing. There are very few individuals interested in people of my age. I am not complaining, merely stating a fact. I have spent a lot of time searching tirelessly through profiles, trying to find someone who is interested in someone of my age, and I find it extremely exhausting. Most even those close to my age have age restrictions on their profiles, which prevent me from messaging them. I understand that is their preference, and I respect that.
I am just responding to your question, as it seems you believe this is the best way me to proceed. I have been taking from others about how to write my posts and improve my punctuation. I have corrected that using a highlighting and checking tool that automates this process for me. I was advised to join this forum instead of the one where I had been posting of my content as it was I might have better luck here. However, it seems I am not receiving positive feedback on my posts., I often get responses asking why I haven’t done this or that.
The very first person who replied to me, I plan to to her personally— the platform allows me to do so. If not, I will have to reply in the forum as I have done here. In to another question, someone mentioned they were likely receiving many private messages. Unfortunately, I am not. I rarely get replies, and that has been incredibly frustrating. I have asked for help on the best way to approach this, but no matter how I try, it seems I am doing it the way. Additionally, I encounter numerous unpleasant individuals who send unhelpful or rude messages, which I find irritating. If someone cannot offer something positive, I believe they should refrain from engaging.
I would like to take this opportunity to thank everyone who has offered positive and sensible questions. Your input is greatly appreciated."
Trouble is you are coming across as desperate by starting threads with the same content, it’s extremely hard on here for single guys of any age so it’s not just you. |
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By *ancs29 OP Man 12 weeks ago
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"Hi OP
I see that it's not your first thread like this and was wondering how the others have gone? "
I am not doing very well, to be honest. I do not mean to come as desperate; simply wish to find someone willing to engage in a conversation., there should something for everyone, but I am unable to match It seems challenging, especially since women and couples often receive overwhelming attention from individuals seeking to add another conquest to their list. |
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"Hi OP
I see that it's not your first thread like this and was wondering how the others have gone?
I am not doing very well, to be honest. I do not mean to come as desperate; simply wish to find someone willing to engage in a conversation., there should something for everyone, but I am unable to match It seems challenging, especially since women and couples often receive overwhelming attention from individuals seeking to add another conquest to their list. "
You say there should be something for everyone….why should there be? It all depends on the demo-graph of people who are on the site? Most on here are looking for sex, you would be better off on a dating site |
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I’m also looking for chat! I want someone to chat with long term that’s into same stuff as me. I’m into loads and very filthy but live with gf so have to be discreet. I’m not the type to chat for a bit and delete I want to chat for weeks/months and share with each other. Also no limits |
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"Hi OP
I see that it's not your first thread like this and was wondering how the others have gone?
I am not doing very well, to be honest. I do not mean to come as desperate; simply wish to find someone willing to engage in a conversation., there should something for everyone, but I am unable to match It seems challenging, especially since women and couples often receive overwhelming attention from individuals seeking to add another conquest to their list. "
I don't think you can name other sites but are you on any others?
I think I'll be harsh sounding and don't want to be but maybe other sites that are aimed for the young age that you are could be better for engaging in chats or socials? |
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"I’m also looking for chat! I want someone to chat with long term that’s into same stuff as me. I’m into loads and very filthy but live with gf so have to be discreet. I’m not the type to chat for a bit and delete I want to chat for weeks/months and share with each other. Also no limits "
Maybe better to start your own thread |
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"I’m also looking for chat! I want someone to chat with long term that’s into same stuff as me. I’m into loads and very filthy but live with gf so have to be discreet. I’m not the type to chat for a bit and delete I want to chat for weeks/months and share with each other. Also no limits "
I’m sure there’s a penpal app on the internet somewhere try that
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By *ancs29 OP Man 12 weeks ago
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"Hi OP
I see that it's not your first thread like this and was wondering how the others have gone?
I am not doing very well, to be honest. I do not mean to come as desperate; simply wish to find someone willing to engage in a conversation., there should something for everyone, but I am unable to match It seems challenging, especially since women and couples often receive overwhelming attention from individuals seeking to add another conquest to their list.
You say there should be something for everyone….why should there be? It all depends on the demo-graph of people who are on the site? Most on here are looking for sex, you would be better off on a dating site "
i am looking for sex |
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