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By (user no longer on site) OP 12 weeks ago
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What type of persona do you have?
Always serious whether at home or work
Serious or frivolous depending on the situation
Light hearted and couldn’t care
Or any other types?
Does it vary from situation to situation or are you always the joker or always the voice of reason
Now the tougher question…would you change it if you could, not always see the humorous side, the serious side or anything in between
I am finding the persona that some people give isn’t actually the real them when you start getting to know them |
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It very much depends on the situation.
I can be light hearted and funny one moment and deadly serious the next.
Sometimes I can be serious in a situation where everyone else is taking the piss because I don't see the funny side while at other times I can make light of things that others are taking too seriously.
I would never have called myself cynical before joining fab but I have met and chatted to quite a few who have carefully curated public personas which they struggle to maintain over time.
They are very very different to how they act in private. Dangerously so in a few cases.
I have no wish to change who I am or pretend to be someone I'm not and would never want anyone who does in my circle of friends. |
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I can be a bit uptight about the silliest of things - I blame my dad, after 2 years of self building a house with him he really ground me down. Prior to that I was very happy go lucky, and really do wish I was back there again. What does it matter if someone says they're discrete when they mean discreet - thats the kind of ridiculous stuff that annoys me these days, unfortunately. Thankfully, in the grand scheme of things I am fun when it matters  |
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By *mmaleiaWoman 12 weeks ago
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Depends who I’m with & what bounces off them will decipher the way I am.
Online can also skew views of how people are, as you can’t see their eyes or mannerisms.
Round my close friends, I just like to have a massive laugh, be relaxed, peaceful, enjoy our time, and that’s why they’re my very close friends, we are totally compatible.
If you start out talking to somebody online, of course things are going to change as you get to know the real them
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