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Emptying the tank.
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"Mrs hates it when they have a tactical before a meet,it's always obvious.
It's just an ego boost for the guys."
To be fair - shooting an overloaded gun early isn’t exactly an ego boost for the guy either.
To answer OPs question: usually go in loaded. |
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I wish they wouldn't.
Even the guy who came on my thigh while trying to put the condom on.
I'd rather that then chilling with some foreplay and teasing while it recuperates to go for round two than worrying they're not into it waiting for what I think is the first 💜 |
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By *bi HaiveMan 11 weeks ago
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I suspect a large proportion of no shows are down to guys having a pre meet wank and then deciding they no longer need the sex, and just flop onto the sofa to watch the football or songs of praise. 🤷♂️ |
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"I suspect a large proportion of no shows are down to guys having a pre meet wank and then deciding they no longer need the sex, and just flop onto the sofa to watch the football or songs of praise. 🤷♂️"
I watch songs of praise to wank. I like the challenge |
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"I wish they wouldn't.
Even the guy who came on my thigh while trying to put the condom on.
I'd rather that then chilling with some foreplay and teasing while it recuperates to go for round two than worrying they're not into it waiting for what I think is the first 💜"
This ^^ |
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"Quick question for all the gents.
Do you empty your tank before you meet for sex?
Or do you prefer going with a loaded gun?
Why would you? It will make no difference. "
Of course it will for some people ????? |
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"I suspect a large proportion of no shows are down to guys having a pre meet wank and then deciding they no longer need the sex, and just flop onto the sofa to watch the football or songs of praise. 🤷♂️
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I watch songs of praise to wank. I like the challenge "
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Both of you are philistines. If you're not masturbating whilst watching The Antiques Roadshow then you haven't really lived. You don't know how orgasmic a vintage bakelite telephone can be. |
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"I wish they did beforehand…
Meet I had a couple of days ago came after 2 thrusts. 2.
I am still a magnet for quick cummers… getting boring now 🙄🙄🙄"
Surely if they're not interested in doing more afterwards then if they had a wank before setting off they'd probably decide to just not bother turning up though.
But I suppose that would still be a net gain on not bothering yourself with disappointing sex 💜 |
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"I wish they did beforehand…
Meet I had a couple of days ago came after 2 thrusts. 2.
I am still a magnet for quick cummers… getting boring now 🙄🙄🙄
Surely if they're not interested in doing more afterwards then if they had a wank before setting off they'd probably decide to just not bother turning up though.
But I suppose that would still be a net gain on not bothering yourself with disappointing sex 💜"
To be honest I was the one who was not interested in staying on …I left promptly after that. The whole experience was disappointing, not just the sex. And this was a second meet following a social. Want to open my mind, give things a chance… nope. Will keep trusting my first instincts.
The cunnilingus was good at least 😝 |
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This is an interesting question. The thrill of meeting and being with a new person does mean I can cum a little quicker. Then again delivering a very big load can be what they want. For me there is no answer as depends on mood at time and what other person might have indicated they want on this part of meet. |
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"I wish they wouldn't.
Even the guy who came on my thigh while trying to put the condom on.
I'd rather that then chilling with some foreplay and teasing while it recuperates to go for round two than worrying they're not into it waiting for what I think is the first 💜"
'It' 😂. It's true, it has a life essence of its own. The adventures of Mr Penis and the sperm factory. It's never been the same at t'factory since they unionised, there's a bit of a stalemate and they're working to contract - but there's an indication that they may be willing to negotiate. |
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"Quick question for all the gents.
Do you empty your tank before you meet for sex?
Or do you prefer going with a loaded gun?"
Nah, I prefer not wanking for a good few days before a meet, longer the better. 💦💦
More fun for everyone that way. |
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"I am a big fan of fully loaded balls before a meet. I want all the spoils in that first release especially if there has been a lot of teasing in the lead up to the meet 🍭"
100% this. If I had my way he wouldn't be allowed to cum for at least 5 days prior, so he's tortured and gagging to go. Then I can see how many times I can get him to "empty" til he's done. I like a few rounds  |
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"I am a big fan of fully loaded balls before a meet. I want all the spoils in that first release especially if there has been a lot of teasing in the lead up to the meet 🍭
100% this. If I had my way he wouldn't be allowed to cum for at least 5 days prior, so he's tortured and gagging to go. Then I can see how many times I can get him to "empty" til he's done. I like a few rounds "
5 days is a peppy area, 2-3+ weeks would be torturous and have you leaking out of the gate |
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By *vaRoseWoman 11 weeks ago
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"I wish they wouldn't.
Even the guy who came on my thigh while trying to put the condom on.
I'd rather that then chilling with some foreplay and teasing while it recuperates to go for round two than worrying they're not into it waiting for what I think is the first 💜
This ^^"
Absolutely this
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By *rolicUsCouple 11 weeks ago
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"I suspect a large proportion of no shows are down to guys having a pre meet wank and then deciding they no longer need the sex, and just flop onto the sofa to watch the football or songs of praise. 🤷♂️
I watch songs of praise to wank. I like the challenge "
Dare you to try with a photo of Jeanette Crankie next time or Orville |
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"I am a big fan of fully loaded balls before a meet. I want all the spoils in that first release especially if there has been a lot of teasing in the lead up to the meet 🍭
100% this. If I had my way he wouldn't be allowed to cum for at least 5 days prior, so he's tortured and gagging to go. Then I can see how many times I can get him to "empty" til he's done. I like a few rounds "
A good few rounds aswell, give you all the loads you want, fully empty them  |
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"I am a big fan of fully loaded balls before a meet. I want all the spoils in that first release especially if there has been a lot of teasing in the lead up to the meet 🍭
100% this. If I had my way he wouldn't be allowed to cum for at least 5 days prior, so he's tortured and gagging to go. Then I can see how many times I can get him to "empty" til he's done. I like a few rounds
5 days is a peppy area, 2-3+ weeks would be torturous and have you leaking out of the gate"
😈😈😈
When they can’t even touch themselves 😈 |
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By *eliWoman 11 weeks ago
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I can understand why men do. They might have had a previous negative experience, felt embarrassed, the idea that men need to fuck for longer. There's also a lot of pressure on men to "perform" in sex that women don't quite have.
I wish they wouldn't though. I really, really like when men are full of sexual energy. Almost needy with the desire to come deep inside me. It's a big part of why I don't want to be the night after someone has met another. You can tell when a man has tactically wanked and it's such a waste (in my eyes).
I like when men are caught by surprise with how quickly they're about to come. When they tell me to slow down or else they're going to come? Not happening. The 'oh fuck' of a man who comes with that level of urgency and desire is so very arousing.
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"I can understand why men do. They might have had a previous negative experience, felt embarrassed, the idea that men need to fuck for longer. There's also a lot of pressure on men to "perform" in sex that women don't quite have.
I wish they wouldn't though. I really, really like when men are full of sexual energy. Almost needy with the desire to come deep inside me. It's a big part of why I don't want to be the night after someone has met another. You can tell when a man has tactically wanked and it's such a waste (in my eyes).
I like when men are caught by surprise with how quickly they're about to come. When they tell me to slow down or else they're going to come? Not happening. The 'oh fuck' of a man who comes with that level of urgency and desire is so very arousing.
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I absolutely have to agree with all of the above Meli.
It's all part of the fun, the build up, the teasing, the energy. It's all wasted without this.
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"I can understand why men do. They might have had a previous negative experience, felt embarrassed, the idea that men need to fuck for longer. There's also a lot of pressure on men to "perform" in sex that women don't quite have.
I wish they wouldn't though. I really, really like when men are full of sexual energy. Almost needy with the desire to come deep inside me. It's a big part of why I don't want to be the night after someone has met another. You can tell when a man has tactically wanked and it's such a waste (in my eyes).
I like when men are caught by surprise with how quickly they're about to come. When they tell me to slow down or else they're going to come? Not happening. The 'oh fuck' of a man who comes with that level of urgency and desire is so very arousing.
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So much this Ms Meli ^^ |
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By (user no longer on site) 11 weeks ago
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I'm not usually a quick cummer anyway...I can usually go on as long as I want...I've got great stamina but I'm not a repeater..
So a "tactical" wank would just end up with me losing interest and hitting mcdonald instead..  |
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By *dx69Man 11 weeks ago
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Interesting to read the different views on this constant dilemma (as i find it)…
If the chat beforehand is all about them wanting a massive load then I’ll obviously save it up. Otherwise I’ll be tempted to crack one off 24 hours or so ahead  |
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"I can understand why men do. They might have had a previous negative experience, felt embarrassed, the idea that men need to fuck for longer. There's also a lot of pressure on men to "perform" in sex that women don't quite have.
I wish they wouldn't though. I really, really like when men are full of sexual energy. Almost needy with the desire to come deep inside me. It's a big part of why I don't want to be the night after someone has met another. You can tell when a man has tactically wanked and it's such a waste (in my eyes).
I like when men are caught by surprise with how quickly they're about to come. When they tell me to slow down or else they're going to come? Not happening. The 'oh fuck' of a man who comes with that level of urgency and desire is so very arousing.
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It's a bit embarrassing if you can't hold out, sure. And you can feel like you're a bit of a disappointment to her. However I've learnt that if you can laugh it of and say that it felt too good and they were too hot, woman are usually willing to give you a second chance and got for round 2. You won't hear an apology from me. It's a mood killer. |
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Wrong wrong wrong all the above, if you don’t masturbate before a meet you will make incorrect decisions, like you don’t ever go shopping when you are hungry because you will just end up buying shit you don’t need like onion rings
Meet in the evening? A swift tactical in the morning will eliminate any errors, amateurs you lot honestly |
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By *vaRoseWoman 11 weeks ago
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"I am a big fan of fully loaded balls before a meet. I want all the spoils in that first release especially if there has been a lot of teasing in the lead up to the meet 🍭
100% this. If I had my way he wouldn't be allowed to cum for at least 5 days prior, so he's tortured and gagging to go. Then I can see how many times I can get him to "empty" til he's done. I like a few rounds
5 days is a peppy area, 2-3+ weeks would be torturous and have you leaking out of the gate"
Ahh but 2 weeks is damn fun to tease 😈😈😈😈 |
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Definitely a loaded gun. Especially if it’s been a week or two setting up the meeting then it’s great. Can’t believe you’d empty the tank the day of any date!
Receiving id a nice full load too… don’t be emptying it please. |
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"Wrong wrong wrong all the above, if you don’t masturbate before a meet you will make incorrect decisions, like you don’t ever go shopping when you are hungry because you will just end up buying shit you don’t need like onion rings
Meet in the evening? A swift tactical in the morning will eliminate any errors, amateurs you lot honestly "
Typical male reaction. |
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"I am a big fan of fully loaded balls before a meet. I want all the spoils in that first release especially if there has been a lot of teasing in the lead up to the meet 🍭
100% this. If I had my way he wouldn't be allowed to cum for at least 5 days prior, so he's tortured and gagging to go. Then I can see how many times I can get him to "empty" til he's done. I like a few rounds
5 days is a peppy area, 2-3+ weeks would be torturous and have you leaking out of the gate
Ahh but 2 weeks is damn fun to tease 😈😈😈😈"
The dedication would be unbelievable, I doubt I could do it. It's great teasing but being able to distract for that long is very hard.. especially when something waving about in front of you |
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By (user no longer on site) 11 weeks ago
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Each to their own, and we haven't had a meet with others yet but I personally think it's part of the fun if J cums quickly. Even more fun all the foreplay that follows on getting ready for round two! |
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If I'm meeting my fwb, I'm meeting them fully loaded and unpredictable. I feel no pressure to perform and enjoy that ravenous feeling.
If it's someone I haven't met before I have succumbed to the pressure to perform and emptied the tank, but never just before a meet. |
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"I can understand why men do. They might have had a previous negative experience, felt embarrassed, the idea that men need to fuck for longer. There's also a lot of pressure on men to "perform" in sex that women don't quite have.
I wish they wouldn't though. I really, really like when men are full of sexual energy. Almost needy with the desire to come deep inside me. It's a big part of why I don't want to be the night after someone has met another. You can tell when a man has tactically wanked and it's such a waste (in my eyes).
I like when men are caught by surprise with how quickly they're about to come. When they tell me to slow down or else they're going to come? Not happening. The 'oh fuck' of a man who comes with that level of urgency and desire is so very arousing.
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Absolutely this.  |
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"I am a big fan of fully loaded balls before a meet. I want all the spoils in that first release especially if there has been a lot of teasing in the lead up to the meet 🍭
100% this. If I had my way he wouldn't be allowed to cum for at least 5 days prior, so he's tortured and gagging to go. Then I can see how many times I can get him to "empty" til he's done. I like a few rounds
5 days is a peppy area, 2-3+ weeks would be torturous and have you leaking out of the gate
Ahh but 2 weeks is damn fun to tease 😈😈😈😈"
"I am a big fan of fully loaded balls before a meet. I want all the spoils in that first release especially if there has been a lot of teasing in the lead up to the meet 🍭
100% this. If I had my way he wouldn't be allowed to cum for at least 5 days prior, so he's tortured and gagging to go. Then I can see how many times I can get him to "empty" til he's done. I like a few rounds
5 days is a peppy area, 2-3+ weeks would be torturous and have you leaking out of the gate
Ahh but 2 weeks is damn fun to tease 😈😈😈😈"
Imagine after a month of No nut November 😩
The last time I was on here, I met a lady who agreed to tease me every day with Pics and Vids and as long as I agreed not to wank.
That was a fun and frustrating Nov, but a good Dec 😈 |
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"I can understand why men do. They might have had a previous negative experience, felt embarrassed, the idea that men need to fuck for longer. There's also a lot of pressure on men to "perform" in sex that women don't quite have.
I wish they wouldn't though. I really, really like when men are full of sexual energy. Almost needy with the desire to come deep inside me. It's a big part of why I don't want to be the night after someone has met another. You can tell when a man has tactically wanked and it's such a waste (in my eyes).
I like when men are caught by surprise with how quickly they're about to come. When they tell me to slow down or else they're going to come? Not happening. The 'oh fuck' of a man who comes with that level of urgency and desire is so very arousing.
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"What's the female equivalent of emptying the tank ? Surely in the name of equality they should refrain from strumming the banjo for 5 days before sex."
When you can come multiple times in quick succession and have a rolling orgasm for 15 minutes plus you don't really need to empty the tank 😈
Instead I like to add fuel to the fire by edging to make me feral. 🤣 |
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"What's the female equivalent of emptying the tank ? Surely in the name of equality they should refrain from strumming the banjo for 5 days before sex."
I actually tend to not masturbate for a few days before I'm going to have sex. But I find it hard to orgasm |
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By *hechonkyduoCouple 11 weeks ago
Alphabet Mafia HQ, Dudleyish. |
The last chap we had over after some wonderful bi foreplay and oral didn't last long once he got to fuck Mrs CD. Seeing his face and hearing his heavy breathing because he couldn't take how good the Mrs felt while he came was an awesome experience that topped off the play.
That would have been ruined if he had a quick one before he arrived. |
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By *aizyWoman 11 weeks ago
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"What's the female equivalent of emptying the tank ? Surely in the name of equality they should refrain from strumming the banjo for 5 days before sex.
When you can come multiple times in quick succession and have a rolling orgasm for 15 minutes plus you don't really need to empty the tank 😈
Instead I like to add fuel to the fire by edging to make me feral. 🤣"
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"I suspect a large proportion of no shows are down to guys having a pre meet wank and then deciding they no longer need the sex, and just flop onto the sofa to watch the football or songs of praise. 🤷♂️"
I’ve only ever done this once, long time ago I had a really toxic person in my life, but I couldn’t say no to, she used to ask me to come over and I used to be tempted and so have a wank instead |
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"I suspect a large proportion of no shows are down to guys having a pre meet wank and then deciding they no longer need the sex, and just flop onto the sofa to watch the football or songs of praise. 🤷♂️
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I watch songs of praise to wank. I like the challenge
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Both of you are philistines. If you're not masturbating whilst watching The Antiques Roadshow then you haven't really lived. You don't know how orgasmic a vintage bakelite telephone can be."
I hope you set your age filters correctly. Don’t want you getting too excited over a new Samsung. |
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"What's the female equivalent of emptying the tank ? Surely in the name of equality they should refrain from strumming the banjo for 5 days before sex.
I actually tend to not masturbate for a few days before I'm going to have sex. But I find it hard to orgasm "
Thank you for your solidarity 🤝
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"I suspect a large proportion of no shows are down to guys having a pre meet wank and then deciding they no longer need the sex, and just flop onto the sofa to watch the football or songs of praise. 🤷♂️
I watch songs of praise to wank. I like the challenge "
I’ve appeared on songs of praise several times 
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"No. I’ve no need as I’ve never had an issue cumming early.
If I’ve not had a release for a few days then my partner will get the benefit when she see me. "
Same here, I'm lucky i don't cum too quick, it helps being someone who recovers quickly too. |
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By *BCBWCCouple (MM) 11 weeks ago
Manchester |
"Quick question for all the gents.
Do you empty your tank before you meet for sex?
Or do you prefer going with a loaded gun?"
No . make sure we have a good load from both of us for the lady and stay fully hard after cumming for more |
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"I suspect a large proportion of no shows are down to guys having a pre meet wank and then deciding they no longer need the sex, and just flop onto the sofa to watch the football or songs of praise. 🤷♂️"
We've always thought this. |
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If I'm having sex with someone new prearranged, I'll usually aim for 24 hours at least without having touched myself. Sometimes longer. I last a while anyway so I might as well enjoy it as much as possible... |
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"I can understand why men do. They might have had a previous negative experience, felt embarrassed, the idea that men need to fuck for longer. There's also a lot of pressure on men to "perform" in sex that women don't quite have.
I wish they wouldn't though. I really, really like when men are full of sexual energy. Almost needy with the desire to come deep inside me. It's a big part of why I don't want to be the night after someone has met another. You can tell when a man has tactically wanked and it's such a waste (in my eyes).
I like when men are caught by surprise with how quickly they're about to come. When they tell me to slow down or else they're going to come? Not happening. The 'oh fuck' of a man who comes with that level of urgency and desire is so very arousing.
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I used to see a girl who banned me from touching it the week before meets. She seemed to enjoy the resulting quick fire ejaculation. Looking back I'm surprised she never locked me up between meets |
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"I suspect a large proportion of no shows are down to guys having a pre meet wank and then deciding they no longer need the sex, and just flop onto the sofa to watch the football or songs of praise. 🤷♂️
I watch songs of praise to wank. I like the challenge "
Have you tried 🌲🌲Carols From Kings🌲🌲?
I've got an old one on VHS, if you can get through all the instructions to come in 'Oh! Come All Ye Faithful' until the last descant chorus, it truly is joyful and triumphant.
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Absolutely love when someone is fully loaded so to speak! Someone that’s as excited to be there as I am is always a preference and I kind of love when they can’t hold on! There’s something very very hot about it xx
I’m always clear that I’m looking for some sort of hours long porn star experience, not my thing at all xx 😘 |
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By *dnxyzMan 11 weeks ago
LondonX |
I can only speak for myself. ... I prefer to go with a VERY LOADED gun. Then again I understand why guys wank before. I do not cum fast at all, so for me it is easy to hold it until the woman finished with me deep inside her and then I let myself free and let go...
Ladies first! Always! Keeps it open for a good meet and a second meet |
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By *rNightMan 11 weeks ago
Coventry |
I’ve often thought about this but never have. I’ve had a couple of meets where I’m having to hold back and delay because I knew I was close early, made for a poor meet because I couldn’t let myself go. Battling the inevitable.
I do actually think post-nut clarity would sometimes come into play also and I hate to let people down, that’s probably why I never have. |
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