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Do you actually like to chat?
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By (user no longer on site) OP 14 weeks ago
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I am curious, a huge part of me being here is to create a social connection and explore a multitude of topics obviously sexual topics being the priority.
But do you find that people hate don't have time to chat one on one or they chat for a night then ghost? Xx |
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I chat extensively, for weeks and months before meeting someone. I find the right people to chat to, or they find me, people who have similar interests...such as chatting (amongst other things).
Conversations ebb and flow, and some fizzle out. I wouldn't call it ghosting. |
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"I am curious, a huge part of me being here is to create a social connection and explore a multitude of topics obviously sexual topics being the priority.
But do you find that people hate don't have time to chat one on one or they chat for a night then ghost? Xx"
Detest electronic chat, there is too much BS on here which is much easier to spot face to face |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 14 weeks ago
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"Yes I do, I need a connection to meet.
But mostly I can’t be bothered with the same old conversations."
This is something I think it's a real problem... How many times do you have to tell people, "yeah I'm good thanks." Xxx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 14 weeks ago
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"I am curious, a huge part of me being here is to create a social connection and explore a multitude of topics obviously sexual topics being the priority.
But do you find that people hate don't have time to chat one on one or they chat for a night then ghost? Xx
Detest electronic chat, there is too much BS on here which is much easier to spot face to face"
I'd prefer meeting face to face but sometimes you have to do some talking to set of is worth chatting, surely? Xxx |
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By (user no longer on site) 14 weeks ago
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"I am curious, a huge part of me being here is to create a social connection and explore a multitude of topics obviously sexual topics being the priority.
But do you find that people hate don't have time to chat one on one or they chat for a night then ghost? Xx"
I can chat for fucking ages to interesting people |
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By *tr8MrEMan 14 weeks ago
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"I am curious, a huge part of me being here is to create a social connection and explore a multitude of topics obviously sexual topics being the priority.
But do you find that people hate don't have time to chat one on one or they chat for a night then ghost? Xx
I can chat for fucking ages to interesting people "
Now I know why you haven't messaged me 🤣🤣 |
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By *ddie1966Man 14 weeks ago
Paper Town Central, Essex. |
In a word, yes.
Love a bit of social interaction as much as physical interaction.
I find its nice to make that initial connection before you find out the person is some sort of demented deviant. Unless that's what you're looking for of course. |
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We love chatting to people that we feel we’ll have a connection with.
However we won’t do random chats with people we’ve got no interest in. We are here to make the right connections.
If we do get on, we generally take the chat away from here and do a three/fourway chat so we can see how invested people are.
There is nothing better than matched energy from someone you fancy.
K |
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By (user no longer on site) 14 weeks ago
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I prefer to chat as it allows me to get to know the person and know if our personalities align cause it results in genuine friendships and if any sexual stuff happens then it feels much better |
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Absolutely, yes.
Love to chat, and given the nature of our common underlying interests here, the more risqué and erotic the better.... But I can still do social, whimsy, humour (hopefully) and general interest chat just as happily.
As an 50-summat, single guy I'm not expecting Fab to suddenly result in a deluge of untapped shagging opportunities, but there is still a lot of fun to be had if you make the effort to connect with people.
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I love to chat.. yes I’m here for a sexual connection.. but I want the connection before it is a sexual thing.. so I’ll chat away to people until I find it..
More often than not.. pleasantries move onto., send me a pic.. what you wearing.. etc.. I’m bored by then.
But if someone captures my mind.. I’m sending those type of things without them even asking.. |
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"I am curious, a huge part of me being here is to create a social connection and explore a multitude of topics obviously sexual topics being the priority.
But do you find that people hate don't have time to chat one on one or they chat for a night then ghost? Xx
Detest electronic chat, there is too much BS on here which is much easier to spot face to face
I'd prefer meeting face to face but sometimes you have to do some talking to set of is worth chatting, surely? Xxx"
I only meet in clubs, so that does away with electronic chat |
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I agree, us too OP.
But I know some people aren't for it and just want to jump in bed with people and move onto the next, but that's okay.. preferences and all that, but it's not for us 😂
We'll happily chew your ear off then have a rumble in the sheets with you hahahaha
Miss S x |
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"I love to chat.. yes I’m here for a sexual connection.. but I want the connection before it is a sexual thing.. so I’ll chat away to people until I find it..
More often than not.. pleasantries move onto., send me a pic.. what you wearing.. etc.. I’m bored by then.
But if someone captures my mind.. I’m sending those type of things without them even asking.. "
Exactly. If the interest is there, the chat will flow.
I was bored at the beginning of the year as I was bedbound, so was very clear to people that I would chat but wasn’t meeting etc, and it was always the same thing, what are your plans for today (er- stay in bed? Bedbound? Remember?) what are you up to, etc…
I am also very clear that I do not do sex chat with people I don’t know and they carry on  that’s when the block button gets a workout haha |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 14 weeks ago
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"I agree, us too OP.
But I know some people aren't for it and just want to jump in bed with people and move onto the next, but that's okay.. preferences and all that, but it's not for us 😂
We'll happily chew your ear off then have a rumble in the sheets with you hahahaha
Miss S x"
Wait when is the ear getting chewed? 😛
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"I agree, us too OP.
But I know some people aren't for it and just want to jump in bed with people and move onto the next, but that's okay.. preferences and all that, but it's not for us 😂
We'll happily chew your ear off then have a rumble in the sheets with you hahahaha
Miss S x
Wait when is the ear getting chewed? 😛
Xx"
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"I am curious, a huge part of me being here is to create a social connection and explore a multitude of topics obviously sexual topics being the priority.
But do you find that people hate don't have time to chat one on one or they chat for a night then ghost? Xx"
I love chatting to people, you get various views and reasons why people are on here
I love the flirting and banter
And if you click with someone that's even better - this is how I met my FWB
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"I am curious, a huge part of me being here is to create a social connection and explore a multitude of topics obviously sexual topics being the priority.
But do you find that people hate don't have time to chat one on one or they chat for a night then ghost? Xx"
If I chatted every night to people I had chatted to before then I would be chatting 24hrs a day. I keep the chat going only with people I am interested in meeting. |
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"Fair point. Not meant to be bitchy. But on second read. It does sound bitchy.
Not my intention. Just curious what people's experiences are. Xx"
It didn't sound bitchy on first, second or third reading.
If you mean chat as in using text chat then ........ no thanks.
I only chat by phone or face to face, for good reasons , which I can't be bothered typing here.  |
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"I chat extensively, for weeks and months before meeting someone. I find the right people to chat to, or they find me, people who have similar interests...such as chatting (amongst other things).
Conversations ebb and flow, and some fizzle out. I wouldn't call it ghosting."
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"I chat extensively, for weeks and months before meeting someone. I find the right people to chat to, or they find me, people who have similar interests...such as chatting (amongst other things).
Conversations ebb and flow, and some fizzle out. I wouldn't call it ghosting."
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"I find that people who want to chat a lot seldom meet. Some not all
Sometimes you just have to bite the proverbial bullet and move to the meet bit"
I agree A little less conversation, a little more action please. |
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By *tr8MrEMan 14 weeks ago
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"I find that people who want to chat a lot seldom meet. Some not all
Sometimes you just have to bite the proverbial bullet and move to the meet bit
I agree A little less conversation, a little more action please. "
Alright Elvis! |
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By *ripfillMan 14 weeks ago
Paris, New York, Hong Kong and Havant |
I do like to chat and then if all goes well move to a social meet …
I find there are certain characteristics in chatting which stand out for me and from those they become the strings of attraction to meet and hopefully consensually more … |
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I've had, and continue to have, some great chats on here. Some move to other platforms and some expand into the real world.
You just have to accept them for what they are and that people can take time to respond and some just stop.
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Sorry, but nothing lasts forever and I like chatting, watching others fucking and maybe soon I'll be looking to expand my horizons 
