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By *inkyLips2.0 OP   Woman 11 weeks ago

Debauchery

Perimenopause, possible arthritis in the knee and/or hip, greying hair, boobs heading south…… is there any positives 🤦🏽‍♀️😂🤣

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By *issolvedOrdersMan 11 weeks ago

Bristol


"Perimenopause, possible arthritis in the knee and/or hip, greying hair, boobs heading south…… is there any positives 🤦🏽‍♀️😂🤣"

Don’t ask me, my knees are screwed from 25 years working on my feet and crouching into service fridges

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By *inkyLips2.0 OP   Woman 11 weeks ago

Debauchery


"Perimenopause, possible arthritis in the knee and/or hip, greying hair, boobs heading south…… is there any positives 🤦🏽‍♀️😂🤣

Don’t ask me, my knees are screwed from 25 years working on my feet and crouching into service fridges"

I expected more positivity from you 🤷🏽‍♀️

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By *issolvedOrdersMan 11 weeks ago

Bristol


"Perimenopause, possible arthritis in the knee and/or hip, greying hair, boobs heading south…… is there any positives 🤦🏽‍♀️😂🤣

Don’t ask me, my knees are screwed from 25 years working on my feet and crouching into service fridges

I expected more positivity from you 🤷🏽‍♀️"

Did I not mention that you Madame are aging like a fine wine, full bodied and mature like the exceptional vintage you are!

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By *am_511Man 11 weeks ago

Morley

That frew bus pass is creeping closer by the day! 😉

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By *onty777Man 11 weeks ago

midlands

I’ve had arthritis since I was 6. Had two hip replacements, and multiple other operations. Aging is a privilege. Embrace it all OP. You’re still an absolute stunner and will be for years to come! X

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By *inkyLips2.0 OP   Woman 11 weeks ago

Debauchery


"Perimenopause, possible arthritis in the knee and/or hip, greying hair, boobs heading south…… is there any positives 🤦🏽‍♀️😂🤣

Don’t ask me, my knees are screwed from 25 years working on my feet and crouching into service fridges

I expected more positivity from you 🤷🏽‍♀️

Did I not mention that you Madame are aging like a fine wine, full bodied and mature like the exceptional vintage you are! "

With mould 🫢🤣

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By *inkyLips2.0 OP   Woman 11 weeks ago

Debauchery


"That frew bus pass is creeping closer by the day! 😉"

I don’t use the bus I train it everywhere 😂🤣

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By *ikesEmBigMan 11 weeks ago

Herts

I'm older than I was before I started writing this

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By *issolvedOrdersMan 11 weeks ago

Bristol


"Perimenopause, possible arthritis in the knee and/or hip, greying hair, boobs heading south…… is there any positives 🤦🏽‍♀️😂🤣

Don’t ask me, my knees are screwed from 25 years working on my feet and crouching into service fridges

I expected more positivity from you 🤷🏽‍♀️

Did I not mention that you Madame are aging like a fine wine, full bodied and mature like the exceptional vintage you are!

With mould 🫢🤣"

Well, it was wine or cheese, you’re the fine wine, I’m the mouldy ripe cheese! But I’m flattered you consider us a pair 🤣

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By *inkyLips2.0 OP   Woman 11 weeks ago

Debauchery


"I’ve had arthritis since I was 6. Had two hip replacements, and multiple other operations. Aging is a privilege. Embrace it all OP. You’re still an absolute stunner and will be for years to come! X"

Oh im sorry to hear that. I was actually thinking today how awful for kids suffering with arthritis as I’ve known a couple I’m just having a k k ate night winge. Thank you

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By *onty777Man 11 weeks ago

midlands


"I’ve had arthritis since I was 6. Had two hip replacements, and multiple other operations. Aging is a privilege. Embrace it all OP. You’re still an absolute stunner and will be for years to come! X

Oh im sorry to hear that. I was actually thinking today how awful for kids suffering with arthritis as I’ve known a couple I’m just having a k k ate night winge. Thank you"

Don’t be sorry!! I’ve been close to death many times and come through. Like I said, getting older is such a privilege!!

Have a winge all you need to, you’re entitled to!! Just remember it’s not all bad!

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By (user no longer on site) 11 weeks ago

I’m starting to feel it at mid 40’s.

But Just embrace it. Time waits for nobody, so have no choice.

Keep smiling and stay sexy 😘

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By *onyjoCouple 11 weeks ago

Peterborough

I can't get up out of a chair without the sound effects

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By *onty777Man 11 weeks ago

midlands


"I can't get up out of a chair without the sound effects "

Make them more fun!

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By *issolvedOrdersMan 11 weeks ago

Bristol


"I can't get up out of a chair without the sound effects "

I’m finding I can’t get onto the chair without them either

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By *ikesEmBigMan 11 weeks ago

Herts


"I can't get up out of a chair without the sound effects "
the best things are done went you're not standing up

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By *allum69-69Man 11 weeks ago

Cardiff ish


"Perimenopause, possible arthritis in the knee and/or hip, greying hair, boobs heading south…… is there any positives 🤦🏽‍♀️😂🤣"

Taking a look at pics there are plenty of positives.

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By *ts the taking part thatMan 11 weeks ago

southampton

No periods at some point, men love southerly boobs.

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By *avexxMan 11 weeks ago

cheshire

my brain is telling me im still young,, but its defo losing

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By (user no longer on site) 11 weeks ago


"Perimenopause, possible arthritis in the knee and/or hip, greying hair, boobs heading south…… is there any positives 🤦🏽‍♀️😂🤣"

Not sure if this is a positive but you are on my hot list.

Seriously though... I'm with you, it's daunting and extremely scary.

I think some benefits come with aging.

Wisdom

Peace (you have to find that though)

Gratitude

Deeper emotional connections

Lack of tolerance

Experiences

But it's all about accepting that.

Xxx

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By *allipygousMan 11 weeks ago

Leicester


"That frew bus pass is creeping closer by the day! 😉

I don’t use the bus I train it everywhere 😂🤣"

30% off every journey when you're 60 so hang on for another 14 years and hopefully they're still doing it.

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By *arrenhertsmanMan 11 weeks ago

Hatfield


"Perimenopause, possible arthritis in the knee and/or hip, greying hair, boobs heading south…… is there any positives 🤦🏽‍♀️😂🤣"

I look at your profile and see a great sexy women tbh and that’s not a line .. if you have a personality to match figure I’d say you are doing ok and the odd grey hair is inconsequential… embrace your life don’t feel down on it .. ps your boobs are fine too ..

Take care

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By (user no longer on site) 11 weeks ago


"Perimenopause, possible arthritis in the knee and/or hip, greying hair, boobs heading south…… is there any positives 🤦🏽‍♀️😂🤣"
kids are more independent, not sure if that really a positive but I'm clutching at straws here lol

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By *atnip make me purrWoman 11 weeks ago

Reading

Wisdom and confidence. You stop giving a shit.

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By *exyScientistsCouple 11 weeks ago

Castlebar


"Perimenopause, possible arthritis in the knee and/or hip, greying hair, boobs heading south…… is there any positives 🤦🏽‍♀️😂🤣"

Knowing your own mind

Trusting your own instincts

Caring less about what people think of you

Maturity

Better sense of self

Hopefully a financial and emotionally secure situation

Obviously these things come and go but in general

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By *ake_or_deathMan 11 weeks ago

Manchester


"Perimenopause, possible arthritis in the knee and/or hip, greying hair, boobs heading south…… is there any positives 🤦🏽‍♀️😂🤣"

That you still look incredible despite it?

Some people genuinely get hotter as they get older. I mean, look at Gillian Anderson, she gets more beautiful every day that passes. And a lot of people understand themselves better with age as well as caring less about what other people think, allowing them to live their lives more freely.

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By (user no longer on site) 11 weeks ago


"Wisdom and confidence. You stop giving a shit. "

I'm not sure that's a guarantee, I've seen plenty of stupid older people lol

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By (user no longer on site) 11 weeks ago


"Perimenopause, possible arthritis in the knee and/or hip, greying hair, boobs heading south…… is there any positives 🤦🏽‍♀️😂🤣"

The knowledge you accumalate.

That can be used in many ways.

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By (user no longer on site) 11 weeks ago

Peri here too, I need the positives, these hot flushes are the devil!

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By (user no longer on site) 11 weeks ago

The increased ability to grow a decent beard..

-Men and women 🤠

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By *viatrixWoman 11 weeks ago

Redhill

I just learned something this week- after a couple of months of agony:

Menopause shoulder. 🤬🤬🤬🤬

It’s real. Fucking hell. THE PAIN 😭😭😭 another sleepless night for me!

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By *allum69-69Man 11 weeks ago

Cardiff ish


"I just learned something this week- after a couple of months of agony:

Menopause shoulder. 🤬🤬🤬🤬

It’s real. Fucking hell. THE PAIN 😭😭😭 another sleepless night for me! "

Does any painkilling gel work?

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By (user no longer on site) 11 weeks ago


"The increased ability to grow a decent beard..

-Men and women 🤠"

Lol still not at the gandalf stage yet though

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By *mandoMan 11 weeks ago

Cleethorpes

If you own a mirror, you'll see all the positives. 😊

On a serious note, I'm feeling better now than I ever did.

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By *at fucker in LondonMan 11 weeks ago

London

One massive positive. I really don’t give a fuck what anyone thinks about me any more. Totally freeing.

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By *viatrixWoman 11 weeks ago

Redhill


"I just learned something this week- after a couple of months of agony:

Menopause shoulder. 🤬🤬🤬🤬

It’s real. Fucking hell. THE PAIN 😭😭😭 another sleepless night for me!

Does any painkilling gel work? "

Not really.

Physiotherapy helps somewhat

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By *reggSausageMan 11 weeks ago

derby

I will continue to bang the drum of the ‘carnivore diet’ until I burn, never felt more energetic and any arthritic pain? Gone, I work outside all weathers rain or shine, no hand knee or joint pain, it’s what you eat that ages you, I’m convinced of it, I’m sure there are many other options and steak and eggs for breakfast kind of makes getting out of bed very worthwhile

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By *ardforall56Man 11 weeks ago

lisburn

None what so ever,This getting old sucks,and not in nice way.I had a friend died of a heart attack while on the nest.Many years later when his wife was able to talk about it.She said he came and he went.

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By (user no longer on site) 11 weeks ago

In my head I'm still in my 20's.

Then I have to walk upstairs, or I catch my reflection in a mirror. Sad times.

Having sex is like running a marathon these days, I need a week to recover.

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By (user no longer on site) 11 weeks ago


"In my head I'm still in my 20's.

Then I have to walk upstairs, or I catch my reflection in a mirror. Sad times.

Having sex is like running a marathon these days, I need a week to recover."

Lol recovery time is getting longer.

You look amazing though, don't believe those jealous mirrors lol

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By *ilverFoxXXXMan 11 weeks ago

Portsmouth


"In my head I'm still in my 20's.

Then I have to walk upstairs, or I catch my reflection in a mirror. Sad times.

Having sex is like running a marathon these days, I need a week to recover."

The secret is quality not quantity - maturity brings patience too, enjoy the journey not just the destination

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By *inkyLips2.0 OP   Woman 11 weeks ago

Debauchery


"One massive positive. I really don’t give a fuck what anyone thinks about me any more. Totally freeing. "

Oh yes definitely this to a degree. One thing I still can’t stand is someone calling me a liar or questioning my character but anything else I just don’t care.

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By *inkyLips2.0 OP   Woman 11 weeks ago

Debauchery


"I just learned something this week- after a couple of months of agony:

Menopause shoulder. 🤬🤬🤬🤬

It’s real. Fucking hell. THE PAIN 😭😭😭 another sleepless night for me! "

Could you explain the pain where it is. Only I keep getting one but I don’t know if it’s a repetitive injury 🤷🏽‍♀️ Though I don’t know how I did said injury in the first place

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By *inkyLips2.0 OP   Woman 11 weeks ago

Debauchery


"The increased ability to grow a decent beard..

-Men and women 🤠"

😂🤣 I don’t want that ability

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By *eoBloomsMan 11 weeks ago

Springfield

I'm not dead yet 🥳

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By *oneyBee200Woman 11 weeks ago

Kent

Menopause.... the gift that keeps on giving

Hrt if you can have it, (most can) a good strength vitamin d oil capsule, K2mk7 and magnesium. Look up the vitamin d protocol, (vitamin d wellness group on fb)

Nothing trumps not having periods anymore!

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By *upanovaMan 11 weeks ago

Sheffield


"In my head I'm still in my 20's.

Then I have to walk upstairs, or I catch my reflection in a mirror. Sad times.

Having sex is like running a marathon these days, I need a week to recover."

A week to recover surely means a good session though?

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By *heonixrising500Man 11 weeks ago

Barnsley

Plenty of free time and money to enjoy it

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By *ltraVixenWoman 11 weeks ago

South Essex

You are on my hot list. You’re absolutely beautiful! Best boobs on here by a country mile! Xx

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By *upanovaMan 11 weeks ago

Sheffield


"Perimenopause, possible arthritis in the knee and/or hip, greying hair, boobs heading south…… is there any positives 🤦🏽‍♀️😂🤣"

I find the body aches and creaks can be eased with more walking and meditation. A clear mind helps the body.

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By *upanovaMan 11 weeks ago

Sheffield


"You are on my hot list. You’re absolutely beautiful! Best boobs on here by a country mile! Xx"

Agree 100%

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman 11 weeks ago

Crumpet Castle

I've just come in from a 25 minute run.

I'm over 70.

Bloke on the radio talking this morning said ... 'and i'm 72 you know' ...... n I thought ..mate you sound like a really OLD geezer.

Age is different for all of us and you CAN escape some of your genetics . A lot depends on your thoughts, actions and self care.

Boring I know ..... but like I say ..... I just came in from a run - now i'm about to lump hammer some doors to bits so I can take them to the tip.

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By *inkyLips2.0 OP   Woman 11 weeks ago

Debauchery


"Menopause.... the gift that keeps on giving

Hrt if you can have it, (most can) a good strength vitamin d oil capsule, K2mk7 and magnesium. Look up the vitamin d protocol, (vitamin d wellness group on fb)

Nothing trumps not having periods anymore! "

Oh don’t even get me started, I’m unable to take anything hormone based and I wish these periods would do one already. I’m either not having them for a while or they are close together and lasting way longer than necessary. I’m looking forward to them leaving for good

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By *allguynowMan 11 weeks ago

durham


"Perimenopause, possible arthritis in the knee and/or hip, greying hair, boobs heading south…… is there any positives 🤦🏽‍♀️😂🤣"
stunning figure. There are positives. As you age you become more relaxed, chilled and more accepting of what life throws at you. My advice, stay active and fit. Laugh more and don't worry about minor issues.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman 11 weeks ago

Crumpet Castle

I just looked at your weak n feeble body O.P. ........ methinks you are teasing.

You look amazing.

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By *inkyLips2.0 OP   Woman 11 weeks ago

Debauchery


"You are on my hot list. You’re absolutely beautiful! Best boobs on here by a country mile! Xx"

Aww thank you, I find one of the nice things in life are when one woman can boost another. To be fair it’s all in the angles 😂 🤫

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By *inkyLips2.0 OP   Woman 11 weeks ago

Debauchery


"I just looked at your weak n feeble body O.P. ........ methinks you are teasing.

You look amazing. "

Honestly I’m crumpling like an old ruin but thank you ☺️

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By *onty777Man 11 weeks ago

midlands


"You are on my hot list. You’re absolutely beautiful! Best boobs on here by a country mile! Xx

Aww thank you, I find one of the nice things in life are when one woman can boost another. To be fair it’s all in the angles 😂 🤫 "

Nah, you’re hot at any angle

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By *inkyLips2.0 OP   Woman 11 weeks ago

Debauchery


"Perimenopause, possible arthritis in the knee and/or hip, greying hair, boobs heading south…… is there any positives 🤦🏽‍♀️😂🤣stunning figure. There are positives. As you age you become more relaxed, chilled and more accepting of what life throws at you. My advice, stay active and fit. Laugh more and don't worry about minor issues. "

I like this and I do agree. I’m trying to keep super active but my knee and back are saying no

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By *inkyLips2.0 OP   Woman 11 weeks ago

Debauchery


"I've just come in from a 25 minute run.

I'm over 70.

Bloke on the radio talking this morning said ... 'and i'm 72 you know' ...... n I thought ..mate you sound like a really OLD geezer.

Age is different for all of us and you CAN escape some of your genetics . A lot depends on your thoughts, actions and self care.

Boring I know ..... but like I say ..... I just came in from a run - now i'm about to lump hammer some doors to bits so I can take them to the tip.

"

25 minute run, wow. That is one thing I’ve never been able to do.

I am trying to keep healthy and exercise as with perimenopause I’m putting on weight that I’m struggling to shift.

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By *ou only live onceMan 11 weeks ago

London

Positives to aging? No, none. Next question.

And I don't even have to suffer the menopause!

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By *ai Hard 2 - Dai HarderMan 11 weeks ago

Manchester / Cardiff

Dick Van Dyke has the greatest outlook to aging. He said;

“At 30, I used to exercise to look good. At the age of 50 to be fit. At 70 not to be padded in a bed. At 80 to be able to live without assistance. ...Now at 99 I do it out of pure defiance.”

Ninety fucking nine!! Legend!

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By *inkyLips2.0 OP   Woman 11 weeks ago

Debauchery


"Dick Van Dyke has the greatest outlook to aging. He said;

“At 30, I used to exercise to look good. At the age of 50 to be fit. At 70 not to be padded in a bed. At 80 to be able to live without assistance. ...Now at 99 I do it out of pure defiance.”

Ninety fucking nine!! Legend!

"

I love that man and I think that’s great…. If only I could use that mantra

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman 11 weeks ago

Crumpet Castle


"Positives to aging? No, none. Next question.

And I don't even have to suffer the menopause!"

Uhmmmmmmm the male menopause is recognised now

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By *edSirenWoman 11 weeks ago

magic mountain


"Perimenopause, possible arthritis in the knee and/or hip, greying hair, boobs heading south…… is there any positives 🤦🏽‍♀️😂🤣"

Yes! I feel like I’ve fully grown into the person I always was 😊 at 44 I have never felt so liberated and free with who I am, what makes me happy, and where my boundaries are. I’d take the aches and pains, and perimenopausal shite over that anyday.

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By *inkyLips2.0 OP   Woman 11 weeks ago

Debauchery


"Perimenopause, possible arthritis in the knee and/or hip, greying hair, boobs heading south…… is there any positives 🤦🏽‍♀️😂🤣

Yes! I feel like I’ve fully grown into the person I always was 😊 at 44 I have never felt so liberated and free with who I am, what makes me happy, and where my boundaries are. I’d take the aches and pains, and perimenopausal shite over that anyday. "

I absolutely get you with the liberated out look. That hit me at 40, I became a much stronger person, I turned into a more confident person. Even though that’s still me creeping towards 50 I’m getting less confident and more aware of the negatives

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By *ulieScrumptiousWoman 11 weeks ago

North West

Aging is pretty much a synonym for living. So yes, aging itself is a positive.

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By *ife NinjaMan 11 weeks ago

Dunfermline


"Perimenopause, possible arthritis in the knee and/or hip, greying hair, boobs heading south…… is there any positives 🤦🏽‍♀️😂🤣"

Yeah. Old blokes like me still think you're hot 🤓

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By *eoBloomsMan 11 weeks ago

Springfield

Discovering Fab was a positive for me. Couple of clicks and I'm ten years younger.

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By *ripfillMan 11 weeks ago

Paris, New York, Hong Kong and Havant

Is balance a thing … re aging? Stepping onto a tight rope is now a thing of the past For sure OP

( oh & when your older you can’t run off and join a circus too)

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By *inkyLips2.0 OP   Woman 11 weeks ago

Debauchery


"Aging is pretty much a synonym for living. So yes, aging itself is a positive. "

I get this and I have been lucky to get hear but boy I’m feeling that journey and it’s showing

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By *edSirenWoman 11 weeks ago

magic mountain


"Perimenopause, possible arthritis in the knee and/or hip, greying hair, boobs heading south…… is there any positives 🤦🏽‍♀️😂🤣

Yes! I feel like I’ve fully grown into the person I always was 😊 at 44 I have never felt so liberated and free with who I am, what makes me happy, and where my boundaries are. I’d take the aches and pains, and perimenopausal shite over that anyday.

I absolutely get you with the liberated out look. That hit me at 40, I became a much stronger person, I turned into a more confident person. Even though that’s still me creeping towards 50 I’m getting less confident and more aware of the negatives"

We all have days where we feel a little bit meh. But don’t let that affect your confidence. I guarantee there’s not a single person on here that doesn’t feel the same in one way or another. My body certainly isn’t what it used to be in my 20s, and it will continue to age with me. But so too will everyone else I’m attracted to, imo they’re much fitter now 😉 And if anyone wants perfection and youth at our age to the point their expectations are unrealistic… red flag for them, not you.

Wrinkles, rolls, uneven skin tone, grey hair, aches and pains… none of it means unsexy. Just a different form of sexy to what we’re fed in today’s society. I’d say it’s more about how you carry yourself. Sexy is a state of mind!

So put down the insecurities, embrace your ‘imperfections’ and own the shit out of making it this far and still being a hot af mf 👊🏻 😉

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By *enatton2Couple 11 weeks ago

West Midlands

I haven’t been able to play for over a year because of these types of things. I guess when I’m back I need to start transitioning from cougar to GILF

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By *inkyLips2.0 OP   Woman 11 weeks ago

Debauchery


"Perimenopause, possible arthritis in the knee and/or hip, greying hair, boobs heading south…… is there any positives 🤦🏽‍♀️😂🤣

Yes! I feel like I’ve fully grown into the person I always was 😊 at 44 I have never felt so liberated and free with who I am, what makes me happy, and where my boundaries are. I’d take the aches and pains, and perimenopausal shite over that anyday.

I absolutely get you with the liberated out look. That hit me at 40, I became a much stronger person, I turned into a more confident person. Even though that’s still me creeping towards 50 I’m getting less confident and more aware of the negatives

We all have days where we feel a little bit meh. But don’t let that affect your confidence. I guarantee there’s not a single person on here that doesn’t feel the same in one way or another. My body certainly isn’t what it used to be in my 20s, and it will continue to age with me. But so too will everyone else I’m attracted to, imo they’re much fitter now 😉 And if anyone wants perfection and youth at our age to the point their expectations are unrealistic… red flag for them, not you.

Wrinkles, rolls, uneven skin tone, grey hair, aches and pains… none of it means unsexy. Just a different form of sexy to what we’re fed in today’s society. I’d say it’s more about how you carry yourself. Sexy is a state of mind!

So put down the insecurities, embrace your ‘imperfections’ and own the shit out of making it this far and still being a hot af mf 👊🏻 😉"

What a fantastic and poetic out look, I love this

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By *avie65Man 11 weeks ago

In the west.

There is hardly a day goes by that I don’t feel an ache or pain, but where I used to think I need to do such and such I now don’t I sit down and the task can wait.

I can also be a grumpy old git and no one bats an eyelid.

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By *eliWoman 11 weeks ago

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"Aging is pretty much a synonym for living. So yes, aging itself is a positive. "

This is a lovely positive. 🩷

I hope I have yours or Granny's attitude in five years. Well four and a few months.

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By *viatrixWoman 11 weeks ago

Redhill


"I just learned something this week- after a couple of months of agony:

Menopause shoulder. 🤬🤬🤬🤬

It’s real. Fucking hell. THE PAIN 😭😭😭 another sleepless night for me!

Could you explain the pain where it is. Only I keep getting one but I don’t know if it’s a repetitive injury 🤷🏽‍♀️ Though I don’t know how I did said injury in the first place"

It is on the shoulder, goes from shoulder plate to the upper side, gets worse at night when lying down. I had a bad accident 6 months ago and I thought at the beginning it was an injury from that but it isn’t. Then my PT told me about it.

Adhesive capsulitis. Not every woman experiences it but gosh it is debilitating… 😭😭😭

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By *agic.MMan 11 weeks ago

Orpington

Oh brother...judging by the comments life must truly suck after 40, maybe I should just end it at 39 ey , I mean it's not like there are ways to slow down the aging effect . Oh well, I always used to say some people age, other people mature...

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By *oeBeansMan 11 weeks ago

Derby


"Perimenopause, possible arthritis in the knee and/or hip, greying hair, boobs heading south…… is there any positives 🤦🏽‍♀️😂🤣"

Yep, we're all one step closer to the sweet release of death 🤗

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By *ulieScrumptiousWoman 11 weeks ago

North West


"Aging is pretty much a synonym for living. So yes, aging itself is a positive.

This is a lovely positive. 🩷

I hope I have yours or Granny's attitude in five years. Well four and a few months. "

Thanks Meli, I like to be able to pass on wisdom from here in Croneville.

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By *inkyLips2.0 OP   Woman 11 weeks ago

Debauchery


"Perimenopause, possible arthritis in the knee and/or hip, greying hair, boobs heading south…… is there any positives 🤦🏽‍♀️😂🤣

Yep, we're all one step closer to the sweet release of death 🤗"

I mean don’t sugar coat it will you 😂🤣🤣

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By *inkyLips2.0 OP   Woman 11 weeks ago

Debauchery


"Oh brother...judging by the comments life must truly suck after 40, maybe I should just end it at 39 ey , I mean it's not like there are ways to slow down the aging effect . Oh well, I always used to say some people age, other people mature..."

There are positives that are said above but I think at some point every one thinks about this process, it’s good to have a wee grumble

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By *eoBloomsMan 11 weeks ago

Springfield


"Oh brother...judging by the comments life must truly suck after 40, maybe I should just end it at 39 ey , I mean it's not like there are ways to slow down the aging effect . Oh well, I always used to say some people age, other people mature..."

There are luck and genetic elements to good health as we age, but with a healthy lifestyle most people should not be feeling serious affects of ageing in their 40s. Once you're in your 50s though you're fucked.🤦

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By *athers123Man 11 weeks ago

Harpenden


"Perimenopause, possible arthritis in the knee and/or hip, greying hair, boobs heading south…… is there any positives 🤦🏽‍♀️😂🤣"

Cheaper car insurance

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By *uffolkcouple-bi onlyCouple 11 weeks ago

West Suffolk


"Perimenopause, possible arthritis in the knee and/or hip, greying hair, boobs heading south…… is there any positives 🤦🏽‍♀️😂🤣"

Older and wiser.

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By (user no longer on site) 11 weeks ago

Personally I can't think of any positives from my life experience.

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By *tudleyGoodfuckMan 11 weeks ago

Durham


"Perimenopause, possible arthritis in the knee and/or hip, greying hair, boobs heading south…… is there any positives 🤦🏽‍♀️😂🤣"

To be fair your boobs look amazing

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By *ellinever70Woman 11 weeks ago

Ayrshire

Good grief...you're all still living people

Where's your zest

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By *ortySwitchMan 11 weeks ago

london


"Perimenopause, possible arthritis in the knee and/or hip, greying hair, boobs heading south…… is there any positives 🤦🏽‍♀️😂🤣"

I read that as “… greying boobs”. Now I can’t look at you the same way lol

Also, peri-menopause sounds like hot sauce.

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By *Wgent72Man 11 weeks ago

Manchester

Remember that old saying...'life begins at 40'...lol!

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By *ankman69Man 11 weeks ago

holbeach

I have loved getting older, everything still works, and for some reason with age comes others fantasy’s lol

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By *orbidden eastMan 11 weeks ago

london dodging electric bikes

Yep not giving a shit about a lot of things anymore

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By *inkyLips2.0 OP   Woman 11 weeks ago

Debauchery


"Perimenopause, possible arthritis in the knee and/or hip, greying hair, boobs heading south…… is there any positives 🤦🏽‍♀️😂🤣

I read that as “… greying boobs”. Now I can’t look at you the same way lol

Also, peri-menopause sounds like hot sauce."

Greying boobs that’s all I need and perimenopause is spicy

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By *tr8MrEMan 11 weeks ago

somewhere near Sheffield


"Perimenopause, possible arthritis in the knee and/or hip, greying hair, boobs heading south…… is there any positives 🤦🏽‍♀️😂🤣"

Nope we're all fucked...wait till the incontinence kicks in, you'll be back in nappies soon enough 🤣🤣

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By *ortySwitchMan 11 weeks ago

london


"Perimenopause, possible arthritis in the knee and/or hip, greying hair, boobs heading south…… is there any positives 🤦🏽‍♀️😂🤣

I read that as “… greying boobs”. Now I can’t look at you the same way lol

Also, peri-menopause sounds like hot sauce.

Greying boobs that’s all I need and perimenopause is spicy "

Peri peri menopause.. that’s hot! Then cold, then hot again, then cold then….

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By *luebell888Woman 11 weeks ago

Glasgowish


"Perimenopause, possible arthritis in the knee and/or hip, greying hair, boobs heading south…… is there any positives 🤦🏽‍♀️😂🤣"

Looking forward to retiring at 67 as too busy to work these days and will enjoy spending my works pension on holidays. Got my free bus pass when I turned 60 although not used it yet.

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By *inkyLips2.0 OP   Woman 11 weeks ago

Debauchery


"Perimenopause, possible arthritis in the knee and/or hip, greying hair, boobs heading south…… is there any positives 🤦🏽‍♀️😂🤣

Looking forward to retiring at 67 as too busy to work these days and will enjoy spending my works pension on holidays. Got my free bus pass when I turned 60 although not used it yet."

Sounds like you’ve got it all planned out 😊

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By *inkyLips2.0 OP   Woman 11 weeks ago

Debauchery


"Perimenopause, possible arthritis in the knee and/or hip, greying hair, boobs heading south…… is there any positives 🤦🏽‍♀️😂🤣

I read that as “… greying boobs”. Now I can’t look at you the same way lol

Also, peri-menopause sounds like hot sauce.

Greying boobs that’s all I need and perimenopause is spicy

Peri peri menopause.. that’s hot! Then cold, then hot again, then cold then…. "

You’ve got it in one

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By *tr8MrEMan 11 weeks ago

somewhere near Sheffield


"Perimenopause, possible arthritis in the knee and/or hip, greying hair, boobs heading south…… is there any positives 🤦🏽‍♀️😂🤣

Looking forward to retiring at 67 as too busy to work these days and will enjoy spending my works pension on holidays. Got my free bus pass when I turned 60 although not used it yet."

That's great Bluebell but have you checked the value of your works pension recently...since Trump started his crap mine has devalued by £4k in the last month alone!!

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By *urvyLady4BlackMenWoman 11 weeks ago

Norwich

I'm peri too. The anxiety and heart palpitations I get around my period are crippling. So much so I have been to A&E as I thought I had actually damaged my heart.

The positives are you do really make the most of your female friendships and you don't put up with shit as you just can't do it anymore.

HRT has helped my joints and my general struggle to even get out of bed as I had zero energy.

Also on the plus side men are very interested in older women if you're into men!

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By *luebell888Woman 11 weeks ago

Glasgowish


"Perimenopause, possible arthritis in the knee and/or hip, greying hair, boobs heading south…… is there any positives 🤦🏽‍♀️😂🤣

Looking forward to retiring at 67 as too busy to work these days and will enjoy spending my works pension on holidays. Got my free bus pass when I turned 60 although not used it yet.

That's great Bluebell but have you checked the value of your works pension recently...since Trump started his crap mine has devalued by £4k in the last month alone!!"

I will be grateful for anything as at the moment I have nothing despite working full time.

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By *tr8MrEMan 11 weeks ago

somewhere near Sheffield


"Perimenopause, possible arthritis in the knee and/or hip, greying hair, boobs heading south…… is there any positives 🤦🏽‍♀️😂🤣

Looking forward to retiring at 67 as too busy to work these days and will enjoy spending my works pension on holidays. Got my free bus pass when I turned 60 although not used it yet.

That's great Bluebell but have you checked the value of your works pension recently...since Trump started his crap mine has devalued by £4k in the last month alone!!

I will be grateful for anything as at the moment I have nothing despite working full time."

We've all perved your profile...you certainly got more than nothing

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By *ortney FoxxxWoman 11 weeks ago

honeysuckle lane


"Perimenopause, possible arthritis in the knee and/or hip, greying hair, boobs heading south…… is there any positives 🤦🏽‍♀️😂🤣"
the kids have grown up & moved out that’s a positive in my book 😂

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By *an8iMan 11 weeks ago

Bilston

I'm having acupuncture cupping and muscle manipulation on my back and shoulders

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By (user no longer on site) 11 weeks ago

Watch Don't die what happened to Bryan Johnson the man who wants to live forever.

Xxx

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By (user no longer on site) 11 weeks ago

Getting old (and everything that goes with it) is a badge of honour.

Many don't get this far.

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By *luebell888Woman 11 weeks ago

Glasgowish


"Getting old (and everything that goes with it) is a badge of honour.

Many don't get this far."

Very true.

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By *uenevereWoman 11 weeks ago

Scunthorpe


"Perimenopause, possible arthritis in the knee and/or hip, greying hair, boobs heading south…… is there any positives 🤦🏽‍♀️😂🤣"

Menopausal since 45, thyroid buggered and my boobs headed south years ago

On the plus side, I care even less what other people think and am growing old disgracefully. The children are grown up, so we can go out or away at short notice.

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By *aizyWoman 11 weeks ago

west midlands


"Watch Don't die what happened to Bryan Johnson the man who wants to live forever.

Xxx"

Is he the one that was injecting his son's blood into himself or something weird like that?

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By (user no longer on site) 11 weeks ago


"Watch Don't die what happened to Bryan Johnson the man who wants to live forever.

Xxx

Is he the one that was injecting his son's blood into himself or something weird like that?"

Yes that's the one. I'm watching it now.

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By *inkyLips2.0 OP   Woman 11 weeks ago

Debauchery


"Perimenopause, possible arthritis in the knee and/or hip, greying hair, boobs heading south…… is there any positives 🤦🏽‍♀️😂🤣

Menopausal since 45, thyroid buggered and my boobs headed south years ago

On the plus side, I care even less what other people think and am growing old disgracefully. The children are grown up, so we can go out or away at short notice. "

Oh I hear you about the buggered thyroid, packed up after having my last child who is still to young to be left so I’m not at the stage where I can go where and when I like

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By *vonne5exMan 11 weeks ago

Doncaster


"Perimenopause, possible arthritis in the knee and/or hip, greying hair, boobs heading south…… is there any positives 🤦🏽‍♀️😂🤣

Don’t ask me, my knees are screwed from 25 years working on my feet and crouching into service fridges"

try crawling on a coalface

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