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Age dus it really matter
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By (user no longer on site) 10 weeks ago
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"OK I have a question do you think if you fall in love with someone a lot younger than yourself is it worng to be together "
what ages are you talking about thou
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Personally for us if your mean why we don't want to meet anyone under 25 it's very simple we have a kid who is very close to that age and to us trying to get with someone there age is just wrong for us and not a chance of it happening |
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I think for their sake it would be wrong to be together yes, I wouldn't want someone much younger than me to feel obliged to look after me in my old age, when they could be spending that time starting a family of their own. |
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By *i versMan 10 weeks ago
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I've been with a 24 year old, she's on my profile and that was hot but now I'm fucking a 48 year old and I know age doesn't matter and I would fuck even a 20 year old but would be weird if any younger |
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My general answer is no, it's not wrong. But there will be context in which I would say it could be.
I personally can't imagine it happening to me, and I do usually wonder how much you'd have in common, but each to their own is my starting point! |
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I think it all depends on the younger persons age, if the younger person is 30+ then it’s safe to say they know their own minds and know what the future might bring. A younger persons heart could over rule their heads and they eventually find themselves in a situation they hadn’t really considered. |
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"No if you like someone and both have considered long term issues , death etc you can pop your cloggs at any age "
Yes that’s random chance but being say 30 with a 65 year old. You kinda know they are dying before you |
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"I think it all depends on the younger persons age, if the younger person is 30+ then it’s safe to say they know their own minds and know what the future might bring. A younger persons heart could over rule their heads and they eventually find themselves in a situation they hadn’t really considered."
What about almost 30 (28,29 etc) |
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By (user no longer on site) 10 weeks ago
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"I think it all depends on the younger persons age, if the younger person is 30+ then it’s safe to say they know their own minds and know what the future might bring. A younger persons heart could over rule their heads and they eventually find themselves in a situation they hadn’t really considered."
I am 50 got those feelings for man I was meeting
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"No if you like someone and both have considered long term issues , death etc you can pop your cloggs at any age
Yes that’s random chance but being say 30 with a 65 year old. You kinda know they are dying before you "
Just a random one... you a Mandolorian fan? Mrs x |
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"What about 50yr with 25yr old ????
That’s pretty common tbh ooo nice 25yr 😋 🤣"
I mean I am in my 40s and I have fuck buddies from 19 onwards. Though I mix in adult content creator circles so this group are very very fluid with sex and experiences. as well as generic swingers and civilians. |
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"No if you like someone and both have considered long term issues , death etc you can pop your cloggs at any age
Yes that’s random chance but being say 30 with a 65 year old. You kinda know they are dying before you Just a random one... you a Mandolorian fan? Mrs x"
Yes I painted my mando mask white as the shop had no storm trooper ones lol  |
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It's all down to life experience. Some will have faced challenges that 'age' them and make them fit to be the equal to a person who is older in years.
If you can't be their equal, or near enough to do no harm, you have no business near them as a partner.
There needs to be common interests too. Novelty is one thing, but it gets to a point where you're possibly open to accusations of power imbalance or 'stealing' their youth, and various other negative things. |
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By (user no longer on site) 10 weeks ago
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I have a higher affinity for older women but realistically as long as they are of legal age, consenting adults and no one is taking advantage of the other then i don't see an issue with age gaps |
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I fall on both sides of the aisle on this one. I have been in relationships with women older than me by 15 years. I have also been in relationships with women up to 11 years younger than me. I don't think we get a say in who we fall for. The heart wants who the heart wants. |
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