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By (user no longer on site) OP 10 weeks ago
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Horn level is just above zero, with many decimal places in front of it
Maybe 0.00000000000001 out of 10 or a 100 and even a 1000
I think I’ve become closed off to a lot of things
Not a new thing either. And no health issues to make me feel like this. More a state of mind
How do you pick yourself up from a “down period” or do you just wait for it to return? |
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By *vaRoseWoman 10 weeks ago
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"Horn level is just above zero, with many decimal places in front of it
Maybe 0.00000000000001 out of 10 or a 100 and even a 1000
I think I’ve become closed off to a lot of things
Not a new thing either. And no health issues to make me feel like this. More a state of mind
How do you pick yourself up from a “down period” or do you just wait for it to return?"
Libido naturally comes in waves but if it’s ongoing I’d check in with the doctor that something isn’t wrong in the background.
Other than that, I’d get into a good book that tickles my brain in all the right smutty ways |
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By (user no longer on site) 10 weeks ago
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If you find out let me know, but in all seriousness I think it's normal, let's face it there's more to life than sex and those things at time take over and priorities change.
Hope your ok op. |
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Myself… distancing from folk, lots of blurgh moments, quiet moods… hormones perhaps so I’m remedying that and feel better
But the time out has now made me unsure how to take a leap of faith and try again out there 🤷♀️maybe you too have been stagnant too long
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By *a LunaWoman 10 weeks ago
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A down phase in general or a no interest in sex phase?
The first one I just ride out and concentrate on things I like, listening to music, dog walks and cuddles and just being with my family and eventually it perks up. If it didn’t I’d see a GP.
No interest in sex? I just embrace it. Mine is hormone related. I’m not eligible to have HRT due to a family history of Cancer, so I just have to crack on with it. It’s quite freeing in a way. I’ve had my hedonistic sex days and so I don’t feel like I’m missing much. Have always preferred sex within a relationship and I truly think that casual sex is heavily overrated, especially on here where folk have to make it sound great because of the nature of the site.
You do you. If you’re concerned then seek out help. If not, just ride that wave and do your own sweet thing. |
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I've never had a high sex drive at any stage of my life and have gone 10 years at one point with zero touch or sexual contact.
The last 4 of 5 years have been really tough for various reasons which is why I haven't been meeting in that time.
I honestly don't see any light at the end of the tunnel in that regard so I can't offer any sage advice unfortunately. |
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Guys get your testosterone levels checked out it’s amazing how quickly we drop not only due to age but stress, depression, inactivity in sex. Our T levels play an important part in how we think, our energy, our sleep and yes our sex drive. Check it out guys.. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 10 weeks ago
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Oh thanks for all the responses
Not asexual at all, had all bloods and tests done and they are all good.
Probably more a mental state of mind where I just cannot be bothered |
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By (user no longer on site) 10 weeks ago
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I’ve found that as I’ve gotten older my libido does tend to come and go. It used to be more steady. I also need more of a connection to someone now, simply being good to look at doesn’t really do much for me anymore.
My suggestion is that there’s nothing wrong with you. It’s likely you just need to connect with someone you like and those butterflies and horn will come back.
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"Horn level is just above zero, with many decimal places in front of it
Maybe 0.00000000000001 out of 10 or a 100 and even a 1000
I think I’ve become closed off to a lot of things
Not a new thing either. And no health issues to make me feel like this. More a state of mind
How do you pick yourself up from a “down period” or do you just wait for it to return?"
I'm not sure waiting for it to return will see it return. If you want to make a change make a change. Which of course is very easy to say but a lot harder to do. Start with tiny things one a week maybe and after 6 months see how you've progressed. I'm no expert but I don't think there is one size fits all. Good luck with it op. |
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By *sWyldWoman 10 weeks ago
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I'm maybe going against what fab is apparently all about but , I genuinely don't feel horned up all the time . It's actually rare that I do.
I don't think it's healthy to be horny 24/7.
Balance and real life take priority.
This doesn't worry me either because I know with the right person,arousal absolutely happens and infact I become quite insatiable.
I think what you describe is actually quite normal for most people . You just need the right inspiration and I'm certain your enthusiasm would return. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 10 weeks ago
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Ah the fab double standards
So many complain about being messaged off a thread yet I’ve just received one saying my profile is negative and must have had bad experiences so I must be lonely
Wow. Fab can do one |
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By *lowupdollTV/TS 10 weeks ago
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"Ah the fab double standards
So many complain about being messaged off a thread yet I’ve just received one saying my profile is negative and must have had bad experiences so I must be lonely
Wow. Fab can do one "
Some people just look for opportunities to troll. Ignore it. |
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You say no health issue but it’s all very connected - physical, mental, spiritual so could be one of the other two.
I’d wanna know why before fixing it, first thing bloods if over 40 & unmotivated, putting on fat , losing muscle mass then likely just need a shot to bring your Mojo back 😂
If it’s not low T then the maybe means you’re very happy and other things are a priority to you? No actions needed maybe
it’s a great time to think hard about what you want from here and read lots of profiles, surprising the profiles that still stand out when you’re feeling uninterested. I think when you’re a total horn bag, you can’t always trust your own judgement here 😂
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