I had a fwb a long time ago who literally lay there motionless, arms by her sides, absolutely zero feedback. The only indication I had that she was enjoying it was that she’d message the next day and say so and be constantly asking me to go over.
I think a guy likes to know the woman thinks he’s good. Not her say it but show it. And when that doesn’t happen…. Well you get the idea. I was raised with old fashioned Victorian values and sex was never mentioned in the house. As a teenage boy i wasn’t even sure if girls actually liked sex. So when i eventually met a girl who couldn’t get enough and wanted to do it all the time, that made all previous sex seem pretty bad. |
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By *sWyldWoman 10 weeks ago
Edinburgh |
No chemistry.
When it feels like you're just going through the motions.
When it's just sex for the sake of sex.
When there is no feedback loop and it feels soulless.
When you're done in 5 minutes and wonder why you shaved your legs for that.
When you realise the sex is lacking in enthusiasm or that first time was a fluke...
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I might be here for some considerable time ...... no man said ever ! ( joke ) I only have sex for a second time with 'good' partners ...
BUT
1. Men who tip in n tip out ..... it's not clever and it's not funny
2. Men who think it's okay to stop oral to fiddle with something else n think that you can just pick up where they left off....
3. Men with no geographical sense of direction n head for the sewers when you think they are headed for the nursery
4. Men who take you to the heights of ecstasy and then pump for 30 seconds and leave you like this 
5. Men who .......
6. Men really ....
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By *vaRoseWoman 10 weeks ago
Ankh-Morpork |
When the connection doesn’t translate in the bedroom.
When they think their tried and trusted technique is the only way to get a woman off and can’t understand why you might require a different touch instead of the 1999 DJ scratching his discs.
When it’s only about their pleasure
When they ignore boundaries or limits.
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"Anal prolapse and overactive sweat glands can put a crimp in anyone's fun  I was just about to eat my supper but 🤢 thanks 😂"
Ha, apologies if that made you feel a little queasy! I'm not sure browsing fab is recommended when you're about to eat (unless you want an appetite suppressant). |
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When it's not right it's not right.
Alcohol is a good one for ruining a perfectly good night's shagging.
A basic lack of understanding of male physiology is another.(and the older I get the more egregious this feels) |
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By *GjaneCouple 10 weeks ago
Bury St Edmunds |
Agree with most of the above. Except ‘men’
It takes 2 or more to tango.
The connection has to be there. Both turned on, and ready.
Yes sometimes takes us ladies a little longer.
When it’s tick boxing / trying something before both ready. A woman will feel there’s no connection and check out mentally. She can still have a good time. But won’t cum.
Yes we’ve been know to fake it for this reason.
Guys and gals… want it to be good. Kiss and be in-tuned to your partner. Get your girl out of her head. Be focused on her and she will be on you.
Then it will all come naturally. Anything happens it can be laughed about and then comfortable enough to carry on with bits do like
If nothing oops happens lol the hold on tight as you’ll both be building to that great explosion perhaps even arriving there at the same time
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