Why is it when something is so tantalisingly unattainable, you want it so much more.
Sometimes youve just got let it go!
When was the last time you guys and gals felt this way and what did you have to let go?
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"Can you elaborate a little. What did you let go and in what way?"
She is unattainable, someone who is isn't part of my timeline. Letting go of the attention, the teasing thoughts, the ideals....the pondered potentials.
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"Can you elaborate a little. What did you let go and in what way?
She is unattainable, someone who is isn't part of my timeline. Letting go of the attention, the teasing thoughts, the ideals....the pondered potentials.
All gone! 🫠"
AHH... Yes... I understand now. Nice Dream
Someone from here. She got me in a way that was I've never really felt before. The conversations we had were sometimes like a series of finishing each others sentences.
It was a mellow feeling to be around her, but also stimulating, playful. She's a deep person and she shared my passion for peeling of the layers to discover what's underneath.
I wasn't able to give her the attention she deserved. I already had something deep going on with someone else. I failed to manage that and had to watch it slide away. She did give me a few chances, more than I deserved.
She loved to walk and talk. I haven't met many people in my life that could match me on that. Just roam around the streets and parks.
Yeah... I fucked that up. |
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"Can you elaborate a little. What did you let go and in what way?
She is unattainable, someone who is isn't part of my timeline. Letting go of the attention, the teasing thoughts, the ideals....the pondered potentials.
All gone! 🫠
AHH... Yes... I understand now. Nice Dream
Someone from here. She got me in a way that was I've never really felt before. The conversations we had were sometimes like a series of finishing each others sentences.
It was a mellow feeling to be around her, but also stimulating, playful. She's a deep person and she shared my passion for peeling of the layers to discover what's underneath.
I wasn't able to give her the attention she deserved. I already had something deep going on with someone else. I failed to manage that and had to watch it slide away. She did give me a few chances, more than I deserved.
She loved to walk and talk. I haven't met many people in my life that could match me on that. Just roam around the streets and parks.
Yeah... I fucked that up. "
Brother, I feel your pain. Sounds like youve gone through quite a life lesson with that one. Just remember, no regrets...just silver linings |
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If you're talking about people and the connections we have... I feel it pretty strongly every time I connect with someone and it doesn't work out for whatever reason. It happened recently where things didn't work out and I had dreams about him for two nights in a row. But it didn't work out for a reason and that's okay. Not every connection is meant to be everlasting. Some are just fleeting happy memories. |
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In terms of being on here I don't really bother about people I can't have. I focus on the ones I can.
IRL there is one that got away that I had to let go and I will forever think about him. He lives in my heart forever. |
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"The other day when I couldn’t get a box of after eights that was on the top shelf it was out of my reach & there was no one around to come to my aid gutted "
Now this is a heartbreaker, I think I would have hit depression after such trauma 🤣 |
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"If you're talking about people and the connections we have... I feel it pretty strongly every time I connect with someone and it doesn't work out for whatever reason. It happened recently where things didn't work out and I had dreams about him for two nights in a row. But it didn't work out for a reason and that's okay. Not every connection is meant to be everlasting. Some are just fleeting happy memories."
It doesn't have to be about relationships. I mean the delightful after 8 example above is also welcome.
You're right though, appreciate and be grateful for what we experience...nothing is forever |
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"The other day when I couldn’t get a box of after eights that was on the top shelf it was out of my reach & there was no one around to come to my aid gutted
Now this is a heartbreaker, I think I would have hit depression after such trauma 🤣"
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"In terms of being on here I don't really bother about people I can't have. I focus on the ones I can.
IRL there is one that got away that I had to let go and I will forever think about him. He lives in my heart forever. "
I completely agree, the people who I let in are part of me forever. This guy sounds very special, love that youve experienced such a relationship |
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"Can you elaborate a little. What did you let go and in what way?
She is unattainable, someone who is isn't part of my timeline. Letting go of the attention, the teasing thoughts, the ideals....the pondered potentials.
All gone! 🫠
AHH... Yes... I understand now. Nice Dream
Someone from here. She got me in a way that was I've never really felt before. The conversations we had were sometimes like a series of finishing each others sentences.
It was a mellow feeling to be around her, but also stimulating, playful. She's a deep person and she shared my passion for peeling of the layers to discover what's underneath.
I wasn't able to give her the attention she deserved. I already had something deep going on with someone else. I failed to manage that and had to watch it slide away. She did give me a few chances, more than I deserved.
She loved to walk and talk. I haven't met many people in my life that could match me on that. Just roam around the streets and parks.
Yeah... I fucked that up. "
Oh, is there no way you can re-connect with her? Sounds like you had something special. |
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I definitely know the pain, the woman that I loved and was in love with and my unborn child were taken away from me so quickly that it took years to let go and mend.
You will mend, it's a slow process, but you will mend |
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By (user no longer on site) 10 weeks ago
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I've let go of my hopes and dreams to be as fit as I was in my twenties.
In relation to guys, there's a few I wish I'd never reached for. I generally get the ones I want. |
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"Can you elaborate a little. What did you let go and in what way?
She is unattainable, someone who is isn't part of my timeline. Letting go of the attention, the teasing thoughts, the ideals....the pondered potentials.
All gone! 🫠
AHH... Yes... I understand now. Nice Dream
Someone from here. She got me in a way that was I've never really felt before. The conversations we had were sometimes like a series of finishing each others sentences.
It was a mellow feeling to be around her, but also stimulating, playful. She's a deep person and she shared my passion for peeling of the layers to discover what's underneath.
I wasn't able to give her the attention she deserved. I already had something deep going on with someone else. I failed to manage that and had to watch it slide away. She did give me a few chances, more than I deserved.
She loved to walk and talk. I haven't met many people in my life that could match me on that. Just roam around the streets and parks.
Yeah... I fucked that up.
Oh, is there no way you can re-connect with her? Sounds like you had something special."
She ended it in a very clear way, and I understand why. I even admire and respect her for the way she went about that. I'm quite sure, she knows I would be receptive to her. |
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By *aizyWoman 10 weeks ago
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"Can you elaborate a little. What did you let go and in what way?
She is unattainable, someone who is isn't part of my timeline. Letting go of the attention, the teasing thoughts, the ideals....the pondered potentials.
All gone! 🫠
AHH... Yes... I understand now. Nice Dream
Someone from here. She got me in a way that was I've never really felt before. The conversations we had were sometimes like a series of finishing each others sentences.
It was a mellow feeling to be around her, but also stimulating, playful. She's a deep person and she shared my passion for peeling of the layers to discover what's underneath.
I wasn't able to give her the attention she deserved. I already had something deep going on with someone else. I failed to manage that and had to watch it slide away. She did give me a few chances, more than I deserved.
She loved to walk and talk. I haven't met many people in my life that could match me on that. Just roam around the streets and parks.
Yeah... I fucked that up.
Oh, is there no way you can re-connect with her? Sounds like you had something special.
She ended it in a very clear way, and I understand why. I even admire and respect her for the way she went about that. I'm quite sure, she knows I would be receptive to her."
I understand, it is sad when it happens but sometimes timing is everything, you get there tho, I know from experience  |
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"Can you elaborate a little. What did you let go and in what way?
She is unattainable, someone who is isn't part of my timeline. Letting go of the attention, the teasing thoughts, the ideals....the pondered potentials.
All gone! 🫠
AHH... Yes... I understand now. Nice Dream
Someone from here. She got me in a way that was I've never really felt before. The conversations we had were sometimes like a series of finishing each others sentences.
It was a mellow feeling to be around her, but also stimulating, playful. She's a deep person and she shared my passion for peeling of the layers to discover what's underneath.
I wasn't able to give her the attention she deserved. I already had something deep going on with someone else. I failed to manage that and had to watch it slide away. She did give me a few chances, more than I deserved.
She loved to walk and talk. I haven't met many people in my life that could match me on that. Just roam around the streets and parks.
Yeah... I fucked that up.
Oh, is there no way you can re-connect with her? Sounds like you had something special.
She ended it in a very clear way, and I understand why. I even admire and respect her for the way she went about that. I'm quite sure, she knows I would be receptive to her.
I understand, it is sad when it happens but sometimes timing is everything, you get there tho, I know from experience "
I get you, and sometimes it's when you least expect it. That's why my name is what it is - a reminder of that. Usually, that's the way it goes, but every once in a while - it goes the other way too. |
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"A few times.
I imagine an alternate universe where I got with those that got away. And the other me’s are having, or had an absolute sexy time.
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I love the multi-verse theory. Just basking in the knowledge on another timeline I'm living out missed (or dodged) opportunities.
I can imagine I'm a bit of a dick though |
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"I definitely know the pain, the woman that I loved and was in love with and my unborn child were taken away from me so quickly that it took years to let go and mend.
You will mend, it's a slow process, but you will mend"
Sorry to hear this m'man. I'm not entirely sure what the taken away part entails but it sounds like youve been down a long tough road. You're a resilient man |
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"Why is it when something is so tantalisingly unattainable, you want it so much more.
Sometimes youve just got let it go!
When was the last time you guys and gals felt this way and what did you have to let go?
Mines currently a British Indian wife "
I felt this way when I finished the last perfect drop of a bottle of 50yo Isle of Skye whiskey knowing that I’d never buy another bottle of its unique beauty.
Am I on the right track or should be thinking of other things out of my grasp? |
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By (user no longer on site) 10 weeks ago
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"Isn't that a typical bloke thing of wanting what they can't have?
I don't think this idea is secular to men"
I don't think secular is the right word here.. |
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