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"Show her your single guys profile and see what her reaction is
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This is good advice. Please ensure that she reads ALL of your verifications so that she can see your attestations and feedback. |
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"Show her your single guys profile and see what her reaction is
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This is good advice. Please ensure that she reads ALL of your verifications so that she can see your attestations and feedback."
Its the best way to break the ice to a discussion about what you have enjoyed here previously n what you like ? Answer her questions n see what happens. If shes not feeling it then you know you can move on to someone who is. |
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By (user no longer on site) 10 weeks ago
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Maybe he met his gf after these meets and is genuinely asking for advice on how to broach the subject... Must be tricky going from single to having a gf and taking about this?
Maybe just have an honest conversation and if she isnt into it you will have to make a choice. |
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"Maybe he met his gf after these meets and is genuinely asking for advice on how to broach the subject... Must be tricky going from single to having a gf and taking about this?
Maybe just have an honest conversation and if she isnt into it you will have to make a choice."
If he wants her in this lifestyle why not show her? Assuming the meets are prior to her,and in the hope she's up for this lifestyle. If she is up for it and compatible, she's going to be curious, plus she might have a profile here?
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"Maybe he met his gf after these meets and is genuinely asking for advice on how to broach the subject... Must be tricky going from single to having a gf and taking about this?
Maybe just have an honest conversation and if she isnt into it you will have to make a choice.
If he wants her in this lifestyle why not show her? Assuming the meets are prior to her,and in the hope she's up for this lifestyle. If she is up for it and compatible, she's going to be curious, plus she might have a profile here?
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That’s fair I apologise if I sounded judgmental (dick move) |
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By (user no longer on site) 10 weeks ago
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"I love the like style I want her with me on my journey!"
You have to be honest tell her you have enjoyed swinging previously and would like her to do meets with you and have sex with strangers . If she says yes, all good. If she says no then you must accept that. She might end the relationship though when she learns you "want" her to join the lifestyle. |
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My partner was, and still is open about being in the lifestyle so when we first met I knew about it. After a while I became interested and the rest is history. Swinging is all about honesty and being open about who you are as a person. Good luck OP. |
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"Maybe he met his gf after these meets and is genuinely asking for advice on how to broach the subject... Must be tricky going from single to having a gf and taking about this?
Maybe just have an honest conversation and if she isnt into it you will have to make a choice.
If he wants her in this lifestyle why not show her? Assuming the meets are prior to her,and in the hope she's up for this lifestyle. If she is up for it and compatible, she's going to be curious, plus she might have a profile here?
That’s fair I apologise if I sounded judgmental (dick move)"
Nothing to apologise for, I think you're right it's a tricky conversation to start but being upfront now saves them getting more invested if they aren't compatible. Showing her fab is a good way to be like this is what I enjoy, have done, check it out, get curious, ask Qs n lets navigate a way we can both enjoy it together. |
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By *DoRe181Couple 10 weeks ago
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"Unfortunately you are more likely to lose a girlfriend if you approach her directly on the subject. Maybe pretend you have only just heard of swinging and ask her what she thinks of the subject?"
But that would be a lie, it's always better to tell the truth. |
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By *rogalCouple 10 weeks ago
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Everyone has a path at this stage of life. She might not want to get involved with the lifestyle and would probably want you to lose the profile. However, there is a chance that she would be interested in the lifestyle and want a couples account instead  |
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Talk to her op, we don't know her and what she's into.Its the only way you'll know.
Tell her you have some fantasies and ask if she has anything she wants to try too.
If she says no though, you need to leave it and decide if you can make a go of it with her or if you want to swing alone. |
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I would be honest and tell her you were doing this before she met and explain to her what it's about and what you like about it. If she is not interested then you have your answer. But she may be curious and want to know more, it might be something she doesn't know much about. I think being honest is the best approach. It might be a compatiblity issue if she is horrified at the idea. |
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It's a tricky one ! and we just discussed what Mr4 had done with his ex's and then took it all from there and no pressure to compete with his Ex's but Mrs4 wanted to try some fem on fem fun and did so and then wanted to try a M/M/F but huge step to take and unless she's 100% sure ...  |
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By (user no longer on site) 10 weeks ago
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"Maybe he met his gf after these meets and is genuinely asking for advice on how to broach the subject... Must be tricky going from single to having a gf and taking about this?
Maybe just have an honest conversation and if she isnt into it you will have to make a choice.
If he wants her in this lifestyle why not show her? Assuming the meets are prior to her,and in the hope she's up for this lifestyle. If she is up for it and compatible, she's going to be curious, plus she might have a profile here?
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Very true .. I guess I was just surprised that most of us assumed he was still playing behind her back. |
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By (user no longer on site) 10 weeks ago
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Hopefully the replies are more helpful in steering your approach now OP, but i fear I have backed the wrong horse if you are asking for people to rate your cock in other threads.
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"How do I approach her ????"
Don’t worry, we’ll all approach her 
Joking aside, just ask her if she’s got any old fantasies? And start from there.
Good luck, and hopefully she doesn’t become your new ex girlfriend. |
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By *a LunaWoman 10 weeks ago
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It’s the sort of conversation you maybe should have had before diving in, say on date 3.
Being into swinging is not a regular occurrence- so perhaps mention it but don’t hold your breath.
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"Maybe he met his gf after these meets and is genuinely asking for advice on how to broach the subject... Must be tricky going from single to having a gf and taking about this?
Maybe just have an honest conversation and if she isnt into it you will have to make a choice."
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That's an interesting observation and I respect your diplomacy. But I'm not so sure I share your viewpoint. If he was earnest in his query he would have written out the context with some background, rather than throwing out a vague question and hoping for the best. |
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"Hopefully the replies are more helpful in steering your approach now OP, but i fear I have backed the wrong horse if you are asking for people to rate your cock in other threads.
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I wasn't aware of his RMC thread. I rest my case. |
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Start as you mean to go on. If that's having open conversations with her now's the time to do it. If you intend to ask advice from other people before approaching her I think you might struggle.
You know her better than us even if your relationship is new, you will know her even better after you've talked to her.
Good luck to you both |
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