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By *urningGinge OP   Man 7 weeks ago

Norwich

Am I the only man in history to not enjoy a blowjob?

I just have never found them to be at all sexy!

Or have I just not actually found anyone who knows how to do them right?

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By *isskxxyvWoman 7 weeks ago

Reading

I think you’ve not found one to do it right.. but what puts you off? Does it not feel the best? Or do you not like a girl covered in her own saliva 🤭🙈

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By *luerooMan 7 weeks ago

Bridgwater

have only ever cum twice from a blow job, wife very uninterested in oral both ways so can only dream.

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By *olyGlamorousWoman 7 weeks ago

Altrincham


"Am I the only man in history to not enjoy a blowjob?

I just have never found them to be at all sexy!

Or have I just not actually found anyone who knows how to do them right? "

Hubby isn't that bothered about them

BF isn't that bothered about them

You're not on your own

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By *urningGinge OP   Man 7 weeks ago

Norwich


"I think you’ve not found one to do it right.. but what puts you off? Does it not feel the best? Or do you not like a girl covered in her own saliva 🤭🙈"

My wife is not interested in giving oral, she doesn't mind recieving though!!

I don't think I have ever had a really good one, difficult to tell and I have never cum from one!

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By *vaRoseWoman 7 weeks ago

Ankh-Morpork


"Am I the only man in history to not enjoy a blowjob?

I just have never found them to be at all sexy!

Or have I just not actually found anyone who knows how to do them right? "

Lots of people find certain sex acts not to their liking, thankfully you don’t have to have them if you don’t want them.


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My wife is not interested in giving oral, she doesn't mind recieving though!!

I don't think I have ever had a really good one, difficult to tell and I have never cum from one! "

Again, just like you’re under no obligation to perform or receive a certain act, neither is your wife. My husband isn’t a huge oral fan, so it’s not something I’d ask of him.

However I will say that enthusiasm is as important (maybe more so) as skill. When you’re with someone who enjoys it - really enjoys it, there is a huge difference in the experience for both partners.

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By *sStephenPickleMan 7 weeks ago

Ends

Blowjobs are great.

I can easily live without them. But I’m not going to pretend they’re not pleasurable or enjoyable. They get boring but that’s because I really rarely cum from them.

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By *eroLondonMan 7 weeks ago

Mayfair

I enjoy them very much, up to point. Despite the intense pleasure I don't ejaculate from a blow job. Never have done. I don't see it as a failing, it's just an inconsequential bedroom quirk.

I still enjoy them nevertheless.

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By *ave1085Man 7 weeks ago

Onchan IOM


"I think you’ve not found one to do it right.. but what puts you off? Does it not feel the best? Or do you not like a girl covered in her own saliva 🤭🙈"

Ooosh love a proper sloppy one!!

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By *iscrete GloryholeMan 7 weeks ago

Ashford kent

Actually your not alone, its quite common for people not to want or get turned on by oral.. its horses for course.. BJ is a marmite thing.. love/hate.. no shocker we are all different.. some men get a kink for undies ..personally TOTAL NOT my thing..but each to there own..

I'm speaking as a Pro .. number of guys I've heard say to me.. I never cum when I'm being sucked.. yeah!!..right!.. 10 mins later they are groaning and "calling to their God"... as they are cumming hard.. so never say never..

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By *race in LaceWoman 7 weeks ago

Preston

I love to give and receive.

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By *estructionDollyWoman 7 weeks ago

Manchester

I dated someone who hated blowjobs because of sensory issues. He just didn't like the sensation of it at all.

You like what you like and that's okay, you don't have to enjoy something because other people do.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman 7 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

Nah, there's plenty out there who don't like them. Those people are not for me since I fucking love giving head and it feels wrong not having it as a regular part of sex, but since I hate to receive myself I don't judge other people who feel the same, just recognise that we're not compatible 💜

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By *r Man45Man 7 weeks ago

North West

I love giving and recieving, nothing better than looking down at a lady with gorgeous smokey dark eyes with your cock in her mouth.

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By *aron Van WinkleMan 7 weeks ago

The Velvet Den of Desire

I’ve never cum from a blowjob 🤷‍♂️

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By *hermalprobeMan 7 weeks ago

South Lincs

I've dated ladies who said the only thing they wouldn't do with me was a blowjob, sex with her wasn't great either. I dated another who just went down on me, on the first date, no questions, just lapped away and ate it all. Every time we slept together. It only lasted a couple of months. And another who just loved it she made it an art, she loved the taste, wanted to suck me all the time, in the house, outside, whilst I was driving my car, wanted to suck me so I could cum on her face. She was the real deal, was, because, sadly, she passed a few years ago.

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By *ozzie3685Man 7 weeks ago

kirkham/st helens

Never cum from a BJ

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By *peedyGMan 7 weeks ago

Telford

I have cum from a blowjob a few times, certainly not often though.

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By *atch0101Man 7 weeks ago

Here

Never got excited about them until I met one particular person. I always want to be involved. Better as a 69 without question.

But to just lie there, to just enjoy? She would have to be very good at it

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By *heelerMan 7 weeks ago

Northants

I like to give and receive only problem is it's. not often enough

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By *FF23Man 7 weeks ago

London

I was never that bothered about them as my ex wife was fucking awful at them and everything else in the bedroom. I’d had some. Very good experiences when I was younger though from some very kind ladies. And my last girlfriend was absolutely next level. I mean she has set my standards high now. And I will welcome any lady to challenge that feat. The bar has been raised ladies. Let’s see what ya got?

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By *opedomMan 7 weeks ago

Hayle

I never used to be that bothered about them as I never came from them. Until I met a young lady with a hunger to explore her skills. And she completely changed my mind. Both with her stubborn determination and the pleasure brought from long drawn out sessions where she perfected her skills. I miss her throat hugs.

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By *am101aMan 7 weeks ago

swad

Me too. I enjoy the feeling, but have only cum once via a BJ...

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By *akedMMan 7 weeks ago

Witney

I miss having a bj it’s been so long since anyone has given me a bj

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By *jekimMan 7 weeks ago

Wigan

I love getting them but they don't make me cum at all usually starts to hurt well before I'm going to finish

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple 7 weeks ago

Leeds

Some guys just don't, I had one bloke that didn't like being touched at all (on his dick) it was more a mental thing he didn't know what to do and couldn't relax.

It happens not every sexual act is for everyone.

Mrs

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By *exyguy321Man 7 weeks ago

nottingham

I do enjoy receiving and giving especially when you watch as they look at you same time makes me cum

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By *uffolkcouple-bi onlyCouple 7 weeks ago

West Suffolk

Mr loves BJ’s and has had ALOT over the years but it took the females forever and they would give up long before he would cum, but Mrs gives the best head he has had and can make him cum in 10 minutes

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By (user no longer on site) 7 weeks ago


"Mr loves BJ’s and has had ALOT over the years but it took the females forever and they would give up long before he would cum, but Mrs gives the best head he has had and can make him cum in 10 minutes"

Who wrote this?!

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By *partharmonyCouple 7 weeks ago

Ruislip

I certainly don't dislike them but a hand job is usually more enjoyable for me.

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By (user no longer on site) 7 weeks ago

Only you can answer that, OP. It is perfectly OK not to enjoy certain sex acts without worrying they haven't been done right though. Wouldn't this world be boring if we all liked the same things?

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By *urvykat and JayCouple 7 weeks ago

Betswy

I would say it’s the latter. It’s understandable how some find it not particularly enjoyable however in my own experience the person giving the blow job should only do so if they really want to do it. It’s a game changer as it all comes down to technique. If they are only doing it to please you can tell which turns me off.

When you can see the mrs love’s going down on you, looking at you in the eye as she groans while sucking to add to the experience and varying the tempo until you explode in her mouth is amazing. I’ve not had many experiences like that.

Mr

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By *ewtfaceMan 7 weeks ago

Bracknell

Wow! I love oral ~ giving and receiving just as much as fucking. Can cum quite readily from a nice blow job

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By *uffolkcouple-bi onlyCouple 7 weeks ago

West Suffolk

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By *uffolkcouple-bi onlyCouple 7 weeks ago

West Suffolk

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By *uffolkcouple-bi onlyCouple 7 weeks ago

West Suffolk


"Mr loves BJ’s and has had ALOT over the years but it took the females forever and they would give up long before he would cum, but Mrs gives the best head he has had and can make him cum in 10 minutes

Who wrote this?!

"

Mr did, Why do you ask raven?

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By *harmedAndInChargeMan 7 weeks ago

Bath

I adore all forms of oral…

However I have had experiences in the past where if that had been my only experience then I wouldn’t be such an advocate.

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By *dnxyzMan 7 weeks ago

LondonX

I do not think there are that many men who do not like a BlowJob. I adore them, even though I can never cum from a BlowJob!

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By *edbath 5Man 7 weeks ago

london

I love giving and receiving

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By *antra MassageMan 7 weeks ago

Galway

Life wouldn't be worth living without blow jobs. I love both giving and receiving.

Enthusiasm matters.

You can't fake it.

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By *pentoall555Man 7 weeks ago

benfleet

Never had anyone that makes me cum just from mouth they always use hand too

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By *ir tootMan 7 weeks ago

Raccoon city

I enjoy the sensation.

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By *ongLaster15Man 7 weeks ago

Spalding

Pretty much always cum from a blowjob, had a few that complain about taking too long and jaw ache if I hold out tho…

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By *HE ONLY PLAN IS NO PLANMan 7 weeks ago

Westmidlands

Had loads of jobs

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By *dnxyzMan 6 weeks ago

LondonX

I love a BJ!

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By *oiluvfunMan 6 weeks ago

Penrith


"Am I the only man in history to not enjoy a blowjob?

I just have never found them to be at all sexy!

Or have I just not actually found anyone who knows how to do them right? "

As you list yourself as bi-curious, you shouldn't have any difficulty finding guys in here more than willing to suck you off. At least one of them should be able to "do it right" for you.

Women will generally only suck a cock to get it hard for penetration, so it's rare to enjoy the act (being straight) as anything more than foreplay. It's a nice enough feeling though, especially enjoyed in a 69...

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By *hunky GentMan 6 weeks ago

east of Stamford

OP- I'll happily have your share.

Any ladies willing to volunteer?

😆 🤣 😂

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By *oiluvfunMan 6 weeks ago

Penrith


"OP- I'll happily have your share.

Any ladies willing to volunteer?

😆 🤣 😂 "

God loves a trier Chunky, but I'm sure all the blowjob offers come in through Fab Guys these days

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By *hunky GentMan 6 weeks ago

east of Stamford


"OP- I'll happily have your share.

Any ladies willing to volunteer?

😆 🤣 😂

God loves a trier Chunky, but I'm sure all the blowjob offers come in through Fab Guys these days "

Oh crikey yes - if I was BI then my cock would be sucked most day, but....

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By *oiluvfunMan 6 weeks ago

Penrith


"OP- I'll happily have your share.

Any ladies willing to volunteer?

😆 🤣 😂

God loves a trier Chunky, but I'm sure all the blowjob offers come in through Fab Guys these days

Oh crikey yes - if I was BI then my cock would be sucked most day, but.... "

You're not wrong there mate; I had to block guys from messaging me, as it was literally daily I received bj offers from them! 13 years in Fab now, still waiting for Blowjob Offer No.1 from a woman......

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By *HE ONLY PLAN IS NO PLANMan 3 weeks ago

Westmidlands

Imagine that written in History 😂

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By *obbyyoMan 2 weeks ago

cork

I love a BJ and can cum easily from a decent one, unlike sex which I enjoy but fuck sometimes it’s like I’ve desensitised my cock and we’re all just like will you cum already

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By *eorgesdad69Man 2 weeks ago

Long Eaton

Gave a straight guy a BJ yesterday, he wouldn’t look at me as I did it and took a while to get him fully erect and despite my efforts couldn’t get him to cum 😩 first ever failure.

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By *avexxMan 2 weeks ago

cheshire

love a blow job if done right

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By *irebrand 1263Man 2 weeks ago

near you

I'd take one now

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By *allum29Man 2 weeks ago

Banbury


"I think you’ve not found one to do it right.. but what puts you off? Does it not feel the best? Or do you not like a girl covered in her own saliva 🤭🙈"

That image had my mouth drooling never mind anything else

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By *ackmeoviMan 2 weeks ago

Wales

It's a good part of a session. I'll rather my load end elsewhere

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By *hirleystockingsTV/TS 2 weeks ago

kendal

I have no interest in receiving one but I so love giving one

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By *orthern BeardMan 2 weeks ago

South Wales

One of the best parts, particularly if the giver is enthusiastic about it. I’ve always found the more someone loves doing it the better it is.

Each to their own though

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By *dnxyzMan 2 weeks ago

LondonX

I love a BJ!

Never cum from one tho

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