Everyone is different, I don't let people into my personal space easily. So anyone trying to hug me when we meet for the first time is going to put me in a very uncomfortable position. But as everyone likes different things, work with them, ask the person you're about to meet what they'd be comfortable with. |
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Depends on what that chat has been like and if it’s just a social, if it’s meet for coffee to just feel each other out then just a peck on the cheek and a slight hug but would give her space after that.
But you can deffo arrange more kinky stuff like “hand me your underwear when we meet” sort of stuff if it’s pre arranged. |
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There is no right thing to do man just do what you feel like you want to do and there’s appropriate and pay attention to her body language and be prepared to do something different if it feels wrong for her. I never know what I’m gonna do until I do it. |
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I guage by their body language and if I think it's ok I'll kiss them on the cheek without going for a full on hug.
That's for fab meets. If meeting someone in a social setting I always offer my hand. |
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"I guage by their body language and if I think it's ok I'll kiss them on the cheek without going for a full on hug.
That's for fab meets. If meeting someone in a social setting I always offer my hand. "
Might be awkward as I often offer my knob   |
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"I guage by their body language and if I think it's ok I'll kiss them on the cheek without going for a full on hug.
That's for fab meets. If meeting someone in a social setting I always offer my hand.
Might be awkward as I often offer my knob "
And how does the interviewer feel about that? 🤔😉 |
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"I guage by their body language and if I think it's ok I'll kiss them on the cheek without going for a full on hug.
That's for fab meets. If meeting someone in a social setting I always offer my hand.
Might be awkward as I often offer my knob
And how does the interviewer feel about that? 🤔😉"
Depends what Ive been arrested for on that particular occasion  |
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If you're genuinely asking that then I'm questioning the quality and level of chat/messaging you have undertaken prior to meeting them.
For me any doubts around how to engage with them are dissipated after weeks and/or months of chats, Telegram'ing and phone calls. |
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By *omo191 OP Man 13 weeks ago
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I haven't had any conversation or chat. Was just pre-empting a possible meet in the future and wondered what other people did. Of course it depends on the pre chat/conversations on how comfortable you are with the person. Even then as we can see some people are more comfortable than others.  |
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"I haven't had any conversation or chat. Was just pre-empting a possible meet in the future and wondered what other people did. Of course it depends on the pre chat/conversations on how comfortable you are with the person. Even then as we can see some people are more comfortable than others. "
If you are not sure you really can't go wrong with doing absolutely nothing. No need to add to the awkwardness.
After that it's perfectly reasonable to play it by ear and go with how it feels. Let them lead and go with the flow. |
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