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What are other no men pics!!
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By *ozzabum OP Couple 9 weeks ago
Hemel Hempstead |
I’m straight and with a female partner. Absolutely lack of men pics on here on profiles. Wonder what this is! She needs to me attracted to men he pics too! Any idea why. Others thinking the same? |
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Everyone has their reasons.
Our experience has been if they're a couple asking for straight swap and there aren't pictures of the man he isn't keen to join in. Now we just don't meet couples if the guy won't show himself. It's hugely disrespectful to me for a start |
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on a couples profile it seems its mostly the man thats taking the photos.
tends to hide away from being infront of the camera.
from what ive noticed it seams the ladys are more known to take a photo than a man is.
but i can also say its not just with the males and female couples its also with other types of couples as well.
i have noticed it with ff couples as well. |
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We are 110% with you on this. It's not just some couples don't post pictures of man, it's that it's the norm. The vast majority of of couples do not consider it relevant to let people see the man without requesting, which staggers us.
It makes it so hard to find couples we find attractive. We're not going to request pics from couples in the hope he appeals to Hannah.
It is by far our biggest gripe with the way people use Fab. It makes it so difficult. |
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We have more pics of C, as her pics get us more attention, however there’s a lot of me still to show people.
We don’t bother with couples profiles that only have the ladies pics as it’s too hard to get a pic and it’s never ever a nice surprise 😬
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I hear ya, as a straight woman who is half a couple, I find this frustrating too.
However, it's now a good filter to me. If we get a message from a couple account full of just pics of her and maybe his cock, we delete it. Unless they've attached a pic including him.
Couples who only meet men, I can totally understand why they just show the lady. But, if they're looking for women or other couples, why reduce your chances by just showing one person.
It feels to me like I wouldn't be important and the other man isn't looking to be that involved. |
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By *ORBCouple 8 weeks ago
Dundalk |
We have a good mix of both of us even though they are all a couple of years old because we haven't had the opportunity to take any recently.
I would always have said that a couple who are exclusively looking to meet men may not feel the need to have pics of the male half on their profile.
However the last few messages we have received have been from single male profiles speaking as a couple or claiming to have a lady friend who wants to meet us so I've no idea what sort of response they expect when we have no idea who the woman is, what she looks like or if she is even on fab. |
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By (user no longer on site) 8 weeks ago
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We agree - we like full swap as well as FF play and my lady likes to see what she might have in store for her in a meet and not just the female
Profiles with some of the male partner are much better and give us more confidence |
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"I’m straight and with a female partner. Absolutely lack of men pics on here on profiles. Wonder what this is! She needs to me attracted to men he pics too! Any idea why. Others thinking the same?"
I just ignore couple profiles without pics of both of them together / pics of each of them |
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"I’m straight and with a female partner. Absolutely lack of men pics on here on profiles. Wonder what this is! She needs to me attracted to men he pics too! Any idea why. Others thinking the same?"
tbf cocks are ugly things
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As someone suggested earlier, many find the female form easier on the eye, but we try to have some of me too, and sometimes I’m pleasantly surprised - the naked one of me in the orchard yesterday picked up a surprising (to me) number of fabs, so clearly there are people that do appreciate the male form too (even my somewhat rounded-at-the-corners middle aged dad bod 😂) |
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It’s one of the reasons I switched off from couples. Okay so you could argue that I’m straight so why should it matter? Well to be honest, there’s a number of reasons why only having pictures of the female on the profile put me off.
1. It helps me understand what kind of physical attributes the woman is used too, I’m a very slim fella, I’m not for everyone, I’m not gonna feel comfortable if your fella is a 6ft 4in Adonis.
2. Helps me see the dynamic, that equality is present (unless their profile has specifically outlined that the male takes no part).
These are just two reasons but there’s a lot of nuance to them. Worst is when couples profiles criticise single men’s pics/profiles and yet their fella is hidden “because of his job”  . It’s just trolling, “put up or …” |
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"As someone suggested earlier, many find the female form easier on the eye, but we try to have some of me too, and sometimes I’m pleasantly surprised - the naked one of me in the orchard yesterday picked up a surprising (to me) number of fabs, so clearly there are people that do appreciate the male form too (even my somewhat rounded-at-the-corners middle aged dad bod 😂)"
Those pictures are lovely  |
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"It’s one of the reasons I switched off from couples. Okay so you could argue that I’m straight so why should it matter? Well to be honest, there’s a number of reasons why only having pictures of the female on the profile put me off.
1. It helps me understand what kind of physical attributes the woman is used too, I’m a very slim fella, I’m not for everyone, I’m not gonna feel comfortable if your fella is a 6ft 4in Adonis.
2. Helps me see the dynamic, that equality is present (unless their profile has specifically outlined that the male takes no part).
These are just two reasons but there’s a lot of nuance to them. Worst is when couples profiles criticise single men’s pics/profiles and yet their fella is hidden “because of his job” . It’s just trolling, “put up or …”"
I often wonder why they use their job as an excuse. If their partner is recognisable then by default so are they. The exception is if you could be compromised by having photos on a swinging site. |
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"As someone suggested earlier, many find the female form easier on the eye, but we try to have some of me too, and sometimes I’m pleasantly surprised - the naked one of me in the orchard yesterday picked up a surprising (to me) number of fabs, so clearly there are people that do appreciate the male form too (even my somewhat rounded-at-the-corners middle aged dad bod 😂)
Those pictures are lovely "
Thank you very much |
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"It’s one of the reasons I switched off from couples. Okay so you could argue that I’m straight so why should it matter? Well to be honest, there’s a number of reasons why only having pictures of the female on the profile put me off.
1. It helps me understand what kind of physical attributes the woman is used too, I’m a very slim fella, I’m not for everyone, I’m not gonna feel comfortable if your fella is a 6ft 4in Adonis.
2. Helps me see the dynamic, that equality is present (unless their profile has specifically outlined that the male takes no part).
These are just two reasons but there’s a lot of nuance to them. Worst is when couples profiles criticise single men’s pics/profiles and yet their fella is hidden “because of his job” . It’s just trolling, “put up or …”
I often wonder why they use their job as an excuse. If their partner is recognisable then by default so are they. The exception is if you could be compromised by having photos on a swinging site. "
It’s just an excuse, nothing more, you can edit photos, remove tattoos etc. there’s about 70M people in the UK, and I hate to say it, after not seeing someone for a week, most people can’t recall the features of their colleagues etc, let along recognise them from a random body part photo. |
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