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By (user no longer on site) OP 7 weeks ago
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Hands up for all the people who don’t want to be described as a stereotype of one sort or another
Be it dad bod, bbw, Sapiophile, mum tum, or any other thing you can think of
I want people to see me as a person without the need for a label
Embrace what makes us us and don’t feel the need for definition
Just my thoughts , inbox open for the normal abuse I get 🤣 |
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I know I talk about race A LOT but I do hate the racial stereotypes I face on here and in other parts of life. And I hate the good or bad ‘shock’ when you don’t live up to them or reflect them.
I’ll be honest though, the dad bod shit I don’t really notice. I don’t think people really care about it on me  |
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"Hands up for all the people who don’t want to be described as a stereotype of one sort or another
Be it dad bod, bbw, Sapiophile, mum tum, or any other thing you can think of
I want people to see me as a person without the need for a label
Embrace what makes us us and don’t feel the need for definition
Just my thoughts , inbox open for the normal abuse I get 🤣"
But you have labelled yourself in your profile name, as a biker  |
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By *eliWoman 7 weeks ago
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Hey Biker, I hope you don't receive any abuse.
As for labels, Biker Jack, I don’t know. Sometimes Biker, only sometimes mind, I think that labels can be rather handy. Let you know how someone sees themselves, Biker. It's good, Jack, sorry Biker Jack, when people feel strongly enough about a certain aligning that they want to label.
It's shorthand. Not the full story. Like there's more to a person than their username, isn't there, Biker Jack?
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By (user no longer on site) OP 7 weeks ago
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"Hands up for all the people who don’t want to be described as a stereotype of one sort or another
Be it dad bod, bbw, Sapiophile, mum tum, or any other thing you can think of
I want people to see me as a person without the need for a label
Embrace what makes us us and don’t feel the need for definition
Just my thoughts , inbox open for the normal abuse I get 🤣
But you have labelled yourself in your profile name, as a biker "
Nope as what type of biker am I ?
Then the stereotype of which type you think I am is on someone else not me |
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"Hey Biker, I hope you don't receive any abuse.
As for labels, Biker Jack, I don’t know. Sometimes Biker, only sometimes mind, I think that labels can be rather handy. Let you know how someone sees themselves, Biker. It's good, Jack, sorry Biker Jack, when people feel strongly enough about a certain aligning that they want to label.
It's shorthand. Not the full story. Like there's more to a person than their username, isn't there, Biker Jack?
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By (user no longer on site) OP 7 weeks ago
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"Hey Biker, I hope you don't receive any abuse.
As for labels, Biker Jack, I don’t know. Sometimes Biker, only sometimes mind, I think that labels can be rather handy. Let you know how someone sees themselves, Biker. It's good, Jack, sorry Biker Jack, when people feel strongly enough about a certain aligning that they want to label.
It's shorthand. Not the full story. Like there's more to a person than their username, isn't there, Biker Jack?
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I love the way you always seem to be having a go in the politest of fashions
Maybe I’m originally from Byker and it’s a play on words 🤷🏻 |
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By *eliWoman 7 weeks ago
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"Maybe I’m originally from Byker and it’s a play on words 🤷🏻"
Ah yes, with the famous metal contraption from Byker in your avatar. I'm not having a go, I can't quite take the forums seriously at times (apart from when it comes to abuse - fuck people who send that). The irony of the OP and the username really tickled me and then some.
As far as labels go for me, I like and dislike them. I understand the notion of people not neatly fitting in to a box yet at the same time... they can help tell someone something quickly. I think there are positives and negatives and I wouldn't publicly shun them when I use them in my bio (like poly, frizzy haired ). |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 7 weeks ago
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"Maybe I’m originally from Byker and it’s a play on words 🤷🏻
Ah yes, with the famous metal contraption from Byker in your avatar. I'm not having a go, I can't quite take the forums seriously at times (apart from when it comes to abuse - fuck people who send that). The irony of the OP and the username really tickled me and then some.
As far as labels go for me, I like and dislike them. I understand the notion of people not neatly fitting in to a box yet at the same time... they can help tell someone something quickly. I think there are positives and negatives and I wouldn't publicly shun them when I use them in my bio (like poly, frizzy haired )."
The velocipede you mean |
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"Maybe I’m originally from Byker and it’s a play on words 🤷🏻
Ah yes, with the famous metal contraption from Byker in your avatar. I'm not having a go, I can't quite take the forums seriously at times (apart from when it comes to abuse - fuck people who send that). The irony of the OP and the username really tickled me and then some.
As far as labels go for me, I like and dislike them. I understand the notion of people not neatly fitting in to a box yet at the same time... they can help tell someone something quickly. I think there are positives and negatives and I wouldn't publicly shun them when I use them in my bio (like poly, frizzy haired )."
You have frizzy hair? |
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By (user no longer on site) 7 weeks ago
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"Hands up for all the people who don’t want to be described as a stereotype of one sort or another
Be it dad bod, bbw, Sapiophile, mum tum, or any other thing you can think of
I want people to see me as a person without the need for a label
Embrace what makes us us and don’t feel the need for definition
Just my thoughts , inbox open for the normal abuse I get 🤣"
Oh the irony Biker jack  |
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"I know I talk about race A LOT but I do hate the racial stereotypes I face on here and in other parts of life. And I hate the good or bad ‘shock’ when you don’t live up to them or reflect them.
I’ll be honest though, the dad bod shit I don’t really notice. I don’t think people really care about it on me "
I don’t see you as black so it’s ok 😘 |
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By *vaRoseWoman 7 weeks ago
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I’m fine with labels, what I don’t want is to be fetishised because of one
It’s fine to call me curvy, bbw, bitch…. whatever you like but if that’s the only quality you want to know about me then I’m not interested |
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"I know I talk about race A LOT but I do hate the racial stereotypes I face on here and in other parts of life. And I hate the good or bad ‘shock’ when you don’t live up to them or reflect them.
I’ll be honest though, the dad bod shit I don’t really notice. I don’t think people really care about it on me
I don’t see you as black so it’s ok 😘"
That’s why you like me  |
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"I’m fine with labels, what I don’t want is to be fetishised because of one
It’s fine to call me curvy, bbw, bitch…. whatever you like but if that’s the only quality you want to know about me then I’m not interested "
I want know what your planning on watching next after solo leveling.  |
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By *vaRoseWoman 7 weeks ago
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"I’m fine with labels, what I don’t want is to be fetishised because of one
It’s fine to call me curvy, bbw, bitch…. whatever you like but if that’s the only quality you want to know about me then I’m not interested
I want know what your planning on watching next after solo leveling. "
Apothecary diaries
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"I’m fine with labels, what I don’t want is to be fetishised because of one
It’s fine to call me curvy, bbw, bitch…. whatever you like but if that’s the only quality you want to know about me then I’m not interested
I want know what your planning on watching next after solo leveling.
Apothecary diaries
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"I know I talk about race A LOT but I do hate the racial stereotypes I face on here and in other parts of life. And I hate the good or bad ‘shock’ when you don’t live up to them or reflect them.
I’ll be honest though, the dad bod shit I don’t really notice. I don’t think people really care about it on me
I don’t see you as black so it’s ok 😘
That’s why you like me "
I just like pickles. I like onions too to be fair. Variety is the spice of life. You either connect with people or not. Respect  |
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"I know I talk about race A LOT but I do hate the racial stereotypes I face on here and in other parts of life. And I hate the good or bad ‘shock’ when you don’t live up to them or reflect them.
I’ll be honest though, the dad bod shit I don’t really notice. I don’t think people really care about it on me
I don’t see you as black so it’s ok 😘
That’s why you like me "
It’s funny because it’s true  |
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